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Can you repost the link? It seems to have been removed.

We are finding that many of the bits of home exercise equipment we've procured during lockdown can be repurposed for play. Weighted bags can be used under the prosterior to prop up your butt when laying on your back. Resistance bands can be used to help keep feet/legs up when laying on back - thread band behind neck or through harness and use the ends to hold feet/ankles. Bosu ball has many uses for creating interesting positions and angles particularly for fisting. Adjustable incline bench also useful for positioning, tying up and is a more stable platform for harder scenes. Interlocking gym mats make a wipe clean floor for playing on A friend of mine has a tilt table for hanging upside down which was originally for therapy but with modifications got repurposed for bondage play. A wander around a branch of Decathon with your imagination engaged there are many possibilities. Just before the last lockdown they had a sale and I was going to get one of their full face snorkels to investigate the possibilities but I had better not elaborate as we are outside the fetish section.

Definitely worth watching. I love the attention to detail in "It's a Sin". There are real things that I'd read about at the time and forgotten, like the crematorium that refused to cremate bodies of AIDS patients for fear of contaminating the air. Now it sounds crazy, but back then everyone was scared. Something else in the series that stuck a memory was mortgage companies wouldn't lend to gay people because no life assurance policy would cover them. Many people had to lie to get mortgages or get ones that didn't require life assurance cover, which cost more. Apart from the storyline, being an 80's geek, the detail in the sets is spot on - decor, clothes, technology, and cars. We watched the first episode live, and streamed the rest over last weekend. It's getting rave reviews, and deservedly so.

"Microwave sex" - That made me LOL. That is getting filed away for future use.

Ah, but have you had to switch her off, wait ten seconds and switch her on again?

+ add me to this: I agree it would be useful. I have unfollowed people in the past because of overly prolific commenting things like "Yeah!" "Me too" etc on dozens of images.

@RawPlug - gets a special mention since we've met IRL, and I am really looking forward to doing so again once lockdown allows. @schvenn @dirtyfuckboy @Gregory @kiwiguyuk @JamesL100 @sleazebugga @daddybare @bare2bb @6Demon6Seed6 @alphaboy @saunatopuk @7bb86 @slipitupme stands out as he writes some great stories on here. Would love to meet and play with guys who have such imaginations, and I suspect some of it is based on experience of places like The Fort.

Freak/Freaks/get Freaky are a term I've been noticing a lot lately when looking at USA based profiles - and the context would seem to imply different meaning from my normal understanding: . My understanding is that it is used to describe something outside what is normal, but done to some kind of extreme or excess and I'd usually associate it with a fetish, like Rubber Freak, Gear Freak, etc. But having seen it in so many non-fetish profiles, I am wondering if this term is used as covert drugs reference?

Which Red Roof was that? Buckhead?

I hear that there are 5,000 trucks stopped at the UK border in Dover/Folkstone unable to cross... If it wasn't for Tier-4 lockdown it did occur to me it could be worth a trip to provide some Christmas relief... but the reality of truckers being stuck on an airfield for days without access to toilets or showers may not live up to the fantasy...

In my experience the issue usually is that pictures are requested under the guise of arranging a meet, or forging a friendship over a common (fetish) interest - but they never really intend to meet in the first place. Usually fairly easy to spot, though. They have a short attention span and will move on to someone else if you can't send them the pics "right now".

A lot of us have hopes pinned on vaccinations in order for cruising venues and clubs on the scene opening up again. In the UK they're estimating people in my group (mid 40's) won't get access to the vaccine until June-September 2021. And that's if everything goes to plan. [think before following links] https://www.omnicalculator.com/health/vaccine-queue-uk When I enquired at my doctor's office about their plans, they said they're not planning to do vaccinations as they don't have the manpower. So, I'm not holding my breath for any kind of normality based on vaccinations soon...

Oh, I didn't mean the UK was liberal! No way... We have the BBFC and our own decency laws to contend with here. That's why back in the day when we used to have our own personal websites (dial up era!) we used to use hosting companies in mainland Europe that were a bit more friendly to gay/fetish content.

This is all really interesting: Being based in the UK, I am curious how this plays out internationally... Given the global nature of the internet, is there a reason why one of the big porn tube companies wouldn't incorporate or setup and host from a more liberal country where lobby groups like Exodus Cry are less of an issue? In the early days of the net, there were companies in Europe (Netherlands and Germany) that were more friendly to fetish and gay content - I think xs4all and GMX were ones I remember seeing. A lot's changed since then, but I'm curious what benefits/problems going offshore brings...? Could this also mean that alt-currency payments become popular in lieu of Mastercard/Visa? I've always been a bit wary of sharing card/personal details with certain sites - hence I have a prepay card I use for that kind of thing.

I think some guys get off on the fantasy, but when you arrive at their door, it suddenly becomes reality and they're not really ready for it. Sometimes they've popped their load already on the idea. Sometimes what they describe and project of themselves may not be close to reality, so they act out like it's your fault when they get close to being revealed. I've had Grindr meets give me the address of the house on the opposite side of the street so they can check me out first.

Kudos for being willing to help chasers. The whole fantasy/reality thing can be frustrating to deal with. The only reliable answer to that I've found is to get out to darkrooms, parties, saunas and cruising grounds where guys are more genuinely up for it, but that's a bit tricky in the current covid situation.

Agree with this. My observation and personal experience is that when guys are on the hunt - online or in a cruising situation - they can get really focused on looking for cock when ass in abundance. I have to make a real effort to remember my other 20-25% - and for me that usually manifests in the finale before leaving. Some guys may lose interest after they've shot their load, so they focus on bottoming first: Then it is easy to become obsessed and forget about giving. If everyone behaves in a similar way it creates a natural shortage. It's a rare find, but for me it is a massive turn on to take loads from guys at the end of the night having witnessed they've been prolific bottom sluts and taken a lot of cock that night. Living vicariously through other guy's loads, maybe.

I really like your definition of Pig being into quantity over quality. I think that totally nailed it. Interesting definition of Pervert being a corrupting influence - I guess that's why the shortened form means what it does and is banned here. That's pretty much what the dictionary definition is too. In the UK you sometimes hear a group of friends accuse one of their number of [banned shortened form]-ing over someone. This is usually noticeably paying excessive attention to someone they desire, but from a distance rather than being direct or cruisey. Usually if the target is considered to be above the league of the admirer, or if the attention is making them noticeably uncomfortable. You also often hear the banned shortened form used to describe someone who's paying unwanted attention to someone and ignoring social cues/body language to stop. eg: That guy in the darkroom who won't take no for an answer.

Agree with this but would add that this more common as use of drugs has become more popular: it seems to prevent a lot of guys from getting hard, and then they can only btm. I've always thought it's kinda good cruising karma to be versatile and give a little of what you want to take. The numbers game is such that we have to as there are simply not enough tops to go around! I'll add that one thing I love is taking a load from a guy who has just taken a lot of loads himself. So a cumpdump who will top at the end of the party is awesome, but a very rare find.

Thanks... I never knew that! 😱

Rarely I top and if I use poppers then when I cum it is usually 5x the amount as without. And I'll be unlikely to want to go again for long time - maybe 12-24hrs. The other thing to factor in is the very high risk of using viagra and poppers... and in group/cruising situations that may be required to stay rock hard for a long time.

I may be wrong about the raunch/dirty thing - it would be interesting to get some more opinions on that from this side of the pond. I think my interpretation comes from it's use on GayRomeo which is a predominantly mainland Europe site which has a yes/no option for "dirty" and mostly this means into yellow and sometimes brown. However I will say since Romeo is based in Berlin, this was likely translated to English from German, so it may have been lost in translation. I agree about breeding... I always thought that 'breeding' was no-pull-out bareback with the intent of passing on something from the top to the bottom. My sense is that it now is used to describe any bareback when the top cums in the bottom regardless of status or intended outcome. Gifting/Chasing seems to be the term used for that now, although not very common to see someone openly advertise as a gifter in places other than here.

One I forgot: the shortened form of Pervert, which I can't write on here because it is a banned word. Does the shortened form have a different meaning to the full length form (pervert) which would explain why one is banned but the other not?

When browsing sites like NKP or BBRT you sometimes see terms or phrases in use that have for me unclear meaning - some of them on here get auto replaced with "[banned word]" For me these terms are a little vague: maybe the point of their use is to start a conversation. But some of them make me reticent, as they could mean anything - and I'd rather not associate with someone who's definition is something that could result in a stretch in prison and being put on the sex offenders register. So, is there an unwritten collective understanding of these terms? Does their meaning change when spelled with numbers? (I can't imagine it's done to fool filters as these terms aren't banned - and disguising them makes it hard to search for them) Also interesting does their meaning change US vs British English? Here are some examples and what they conjure up in my (British) mind as a meaning... Raunch - unwashed, sweaty, pheromones, unwashed socks/underwear, man smells but not "Dirty" as defined below. Dirty - could be brown, yellow and/or cock cheese - rarely means mud (a shame!) Dirty load - spunk that contains one or more infectious STDs. Sleazy - darkrooms, cruising, restrooms/bathrooms, orgies. Dark - Satanism, Rituals, Occult. Pervert - Predatory, stalking, older. Extreme - if you took the a group of guys into whatever it is, then only the top 10% would take it this far. [banned word] (and not the Boy George musical) - something you wouldn't want your colleagues, friends or family to know about because it would cause outrage. Fetish - being turned on by specific item(s) of clothing or object(s). Breed - used to think this was about gifting/chasing but it seems to be general term for bareback Pig - generic term meaning any of the above may apply. Used by tops and bottoms. Any others? Be interesting to see if you agree??? (edited because of banned words on here)