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  1. When they used to run the Communion party in London, I really enjoyed it. But I think these events are really dependent on the atmosphere at the venue and the attitude of the clientele. I keep toying with visiting one of the other Cumunion parties - probably one of the northern ones - it's often nice to get out of the southeast/London area for a weekend. I'd be interested in hearing which of the UK Cumunion parties guys have been to and what they think of them. (I prefer a crowd with a mix of ages, shapes and sizes where there's plenty of relaxed versatile play and no attitude. )
  2. @NewBottom90 is right... There is a lot of nonsense going on right now. I think that social media has had the effect of polarising opinions - people surround themselves with people with the same beliefs - which only ever affirms them - then there is no grey area in the middle or sensible debate - you're either for something or against it. "With us or against us". I used to take more of an interest in what's happening - but the past couple of years it feels more and more futile as you can't have a sensible debate about anything. We need something to change and for the time being at least I've unplugged and disengaged from politics and current affairs, especially online and am focusing on enjoying the bits of life I can enjoy. That said, the one thing that worries me for the future is how the venues we enjoy are closing at an alarming rate and are not being replaced. Another five years and I reckon the only place that will have darkrooms and clubs where play occurs will be Berlin - and even that is under pressure (look at Quaelgeist for instance). I'm making the best of these places while they are still around and encourage others to do so.
  3. My local clinic seems to get this fairly frequently. I've had several tests that were indeterminate. My understanding is they look for all four markers to get a positive result. If you have no markers then it's negative. If you have some markers then they need to retest. Once I had three retests in a row before they sent the sample out to an external reference lab for confirmation. The nurse admitted it had been happening quite a lot that month and it seems to go through phases. On talking to the consultant at the clinic, she thought that since I had been unwell with something unrelated, this may have triggered one of the markers. I'm no expert, so it's always best to get advice from your doctor, but if you're on Prep and adhering to the regime, hang in there as the odds are in your favour.
  4. Nice! Which sauna was that?
  5. Just saw the following and it amused me: "Looking for anon raw. I will be blindfolded on all fours. <...> I will need to see a clear face and body pic first." Any other amusing missives from the world of BBRT ads? A.x
  6. Whether or not it is related, I don't know... but I read that Virgin are migrating their cable modem/routers to a Cloud based management system rather than have built in settings UI that you are in control of. The cynic in me says this is to prevent people working around blocks by changing settings - or even knowing that's what they've done. Their current Hub 3.0 router software prevents changing the DNS servers in the DHCP configuration, which forces you to use modem mode and an external router. I wonder how long that option will survive?
  7. Work in N1 on some Fridays and Sundays. Often stay for the weekend and always looking...
  8. So, I've had a couple of people ask me if I can recommend a free VPN. The answer is that I can't: they have to cover their costs somehow and as far as I can see the only way to do that is to charge money for the service, so to provide a free service they'd have to do something like log your activity and sell that data to cover the costs - thus negating much of the point of using a VPN for privacy. Personally I am not currently using a commercial VPN - I have my own VPN server at home which I use when travelling so I can use UK only services like BBC iPlayer etc while abroad. If and when the block this, I would consider a commercial VPN and the place I'd look for information is the Wikipedia VPN comparison page: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comparison_of_virtual_private_network_services Which one to choose really depends on what's important - speed, level of anonymity, etc. As I've said, I really would avoid free services as you have to ask how they are going to cover their costs, and the only leverage they have is your traffic and trust... Andy.
  9. Might be a good time to look at VPNs before there is a rush...
  10. Thanks for following me

  11. +1 for that. I do the same and it does last a decent amount of time. Also crisco works. Sometimes use E45 cream but that doesn't last as long.
  12. Just booked up a last minute trip to Birmingham this weekend. Any other BZ or BBRT guys in brum up for load swapping? 

  13. I enjoy these kinds oa parties and venues that have darkrooms like this - I don't recognise this venue though. But I must say that filming inside one with a phone (especially using the light!) is totally not cool IMHO.
  14. +1 for this... When I occasionally top, I prefer guys who're not waving their ass at me pleading- needy bottoms don't turn me on. The only exception might be if I'm in the mood for a well loaded ass. When I am more bottom and sub I dislike asking a top/dom for what I want - it is much more horny when he takes what he wants. That being said, if there's specific things that turn you on (fetishes) then sometimes a bit of communication is necessary. As the OP, @tallslenderguy says "you can't conquer someone who's waving a white flag". I love that quote!
  15. Last time they threatened me with a shot of antibiotics in the butt, I asked for an alternative - the first time was awful. If you're allergic to penicillin then there are other options which are tablets rather than injection, but it takes a bit longer to work so you have to abstain for longer and have a re-test. The NHS being what it is are pretty reluctant but I get on well with the doctor who runs the clinic and pleaded until she gave in.
  16. This likely dates me quite a bit but when I was a kid there was a big thing for breakdancing. Someone would bring a boom box, someone would bring some linoleum and at break or lunchtime we'd practice our moves. This was before sneaker culture really took a foothold in the UK so nobody had nice kicks. Anyway one of my friends went to the USA for a holiday and came back with a pair of Nike Hi tops which just blew me away - and he had some really slick new moves. So I asked one break time if I could swap and wear his hi tops - so we did - and I remember putting them on still warm from him using them. At that stage it wasn't sexual - we were both quite young. But it kinda flipped the switch and I have always loved hi tops and sneakers and swapping. I was always asking to swap with others. Now, I absolutely love wearing the sneakers of a guy I like or fancy. From there it expanded a bit to encompass boots and socks and I've discovered other fetishes I like too over the years - the list is long! But hi-tops and hot-swapping are definitely the first.
  17. Not sure if 4 and a bit years counts as a LTR , but here's what is currently working for us: we have an open relationship, and we're both of the mindset that fetish play, "play" or sex for sport is something that's fun but has no emotional attachment. The only emotional attachment is between us and not open. Separating sex and love is a key thing to seeing play with others as non threatening. That said, we have a few rules we both follow, like no overnight tricks - always come home - and sharing guys if we think it would work. we play separately (mostly) and together (sometimes). When we're out in London or berlin we look out for each other and help each other out getting what and who we want - "wingmen".
  18. Also... Have never been into the whole wrestling thing, but boxing yeah definitely. Used to have a guy who enjoyed sparring and fighting and it was great working up a sweat in gear throwing and taking punches. It was supposed to be a fight for top - winner fucks loser, but we quickly realised it was easier to take turns as neither of us wanted to win! Another guy I played with sometimes was in the army and we'd gear up with gloves, head protectors etc., and tussle and fuck, but it was interspersed with throwing random punches (in gloves) and blocks. I had to ask him to dial it down because he was really powerful. I recall there was a hook up site called 'meet fighters' or something for arranging this sort of thing - that was a while ago - I bet it is long gone now!
  19. Yup, me too... One of my things is I'm really into getting trampled - and I like it quite hard. Football cleats/Soccer studs especially. Bonus if they're muddy from playing. Really gets the adrenaline and endorphins going - if I could find more guys who'd trample me I'd get addicted to it, I am sure. Always do this with sober guys as I did get injured when a guy who'd had a lot to drink went a bit far in Stahlrohr and cracked some ribs. But I love looking in the mirror and seeing the bruises from the cleats.
  20. Thanks for following me!

  21. Sundays I often head into London and go to SOP at Central Station, but today Chiltern Rail have a maintenance day, so there's no trains. It was a catalyst for a change and doing something different, so after a session at the gym and a light lunch, I prepped myself and headed over to Luton Greenhouse Sauna. I quite enjoy the trip there as the cross country route has some excellent biking roads through some great countryside and on a sunny afternoon the journey is really nice. Anyway, I guess I got there about 2pm and was given key #5. Uh-oh. Low key numbers usually mean it is quiet. And it was. But quiet doesn't necessarily mean there's no action. Sometimes I find it tends to focus guys. And I think this was one of those occasions. First tour, I spot a guy I recognise from BBRT kneeling on the fuck bench. A few guys hovering around but everyone is too timid to start anything. So after a few minutes of sussing everyone out, I went over and fucked him on the bench. It felt well moist and I asked him how many loads he had in there. He said three, which really turned me on. The show seemed to get the other loitering guys a bit more riled up and a latino looking guy came and stood real close. I wasn't quite ready yet to pass the guy on and was hoping I wasn't going to get usurped. Next thing I know, latino guy's hand feels up my lubed hole and he slides in behind me.... So we had quite a nice three way chain going on... me fucking the guy on the bench and latino guy fucking me, and a bit of an audience. Latino guy didn't last long and then left the scene so I decided it was time to explore more and left the scene after a moment. I often think when you go to these places it's good to get some public activity in early so guys can see you're seriously up for it. And that did the trick nicely! So cruised around a bit and then decided to position myself on the fuck bench and see what came along. After a couple of minutes I became aware someone was close and again a hand explored my ass. I wanted this to be anonymous so took a hit of poppers and buried my face in the towel as he lined himself up. He wasn't as big as latino guy but he was a lot more forceful. It was really horny taking it not knowing who it was. He paused and asked if I wanted to go to a private room. I'm up for that if it means more fun and as I looked up to reply, I saw who it was - a really nice bear cub guy I hadn't seen before. I picked one of the private rooms that has the two way mirror window so guys can watch without you knowing, and we spent a good long time trying every position out to see how deep inside he could get. He really liked pinning me down with his weight and being a bit rough trying to get as deep inside as he could - eventually he shot the second load into my ass, which was great. Talking afterwards he was visiting with a mate and asked if they could both tag team me - so I said I was well up for that. (Sadly they both vanished shortly after) A short bubble in the jacuzzi and a can of Budweiser later the first guy who I fucked on the bench came and found me - he said he was leaving soon and wanted to give me his load - so we went upstairs and I really enjoyed a good session with him as top. It was so horny knowing I was getting his load after he'd got loads from other guys. (When we did sex-ed at school, I remember being told if you have sex with someone it's like you're having sex with all their previous partners - I think that was to discourage teenagers sleeping around - little did they know it turned me on hugely!) So that was my third load... And then the place was *really* quiet. I sat in the jacuzzi alone for a while watching to see if anyone was passing by to the darkroom behind. Nobody. One last tour and there were only two or three guys around. So time to get changed, have a cup of tea, and enjoy the ride home - the vibrations of the bike on my ass reminding me of what's marinading inside...
  22. I like this idea, but I think the stakes have to be a bit higher for a no-show or not finding a replacement for it to be effective. Limiting the time window is also a good idea. (I like that Laboratory in Berlin have limited entry between 10pm-Midnight as it kinda focuses guys)
  23. There could be something in this. Is it becoming mainstream? Probably. I like the variety offered by a group and because it is a small group guys tend to play together rather than endlessly search for the perfect guy which is what happens at some of the bigger events and venues. When you go to the Vault, you often see guys glued to their phones looking for the next guy when they are in a room of horny men!
  24. I think my point was that they were using the group/party/event feature when perhaps the "Quick Connect" feature would be more appropriate if they are looking for hook ups as it's not really a group/party/event. Particularly when many of these ads have zero attendees and they don't respond to invite requests. As for tops organising parties - if I'm in a top mood, then I can only realistically give my load to one guy, but as a bottom I can take as much as I want. So I think that's why more bottoms organise stuff as it is in their interest. I have seen tops organise parties where they are whoring out a bottom guy, but that's a different thing. I appreciate those that are putting themselves out there - just a bit frustrated there are an increasing number that pretend to be.
  25. I think you are right... most of the poorly attended parties are just bottoms fishing for more tops. I get what you mean, but my schedule means that Funtime has to be planned in advance as it usually involves travel. Waitrose may be better for shopping but my local Asda takes some beating for cruising. It seems to be very popular with Eastern European workmen who are away from home working here for long periods. 😈 That is another story.... Yes - signing up for more than one party and signing up but not in the area are not good indicators. I'd love to see a feature on BBRT where you can leave comments/endorsements/reviews on guys profiles. Then it might be easier to spot flakes. In the specific area box I usually select "Islington" as that is where I stay/work. I sometimes select London as an area which shows all of the city. That is also where I set up and look for parties to get widest coverage.
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