AirmaxUK

Just saw the following and it amused me:

"Looking for anon raw. I will be blindfolded on all fours. <...> I will need to see a clear face and body pic first."

Any other amusing missives from the world of BBRT ads?

A.x

6 hours ago, RawCunt said:

Australian ISP's  recently banned a few sites such as 4chan 8chan and some others after the Zealand mosque shooting, under the guise of "hate speech" etc.   One would assume the UK would be enforcing ISP's to the same thing with porn sites.    Simply changing your IPv6 and IPv4 settings gets around the blocks.  A quick google search will show you how if you aren't computer savvy.

Whether or not it is related, I don't know... but I read that Virgin are migrating their cable modem/routers to a Cloud based management system rather than have built in settings UI that you are in control of. The cynic in me says this is to prevent people working around blocks by changing settings - or even knowing that's what they've done.  

Their current Hub 3.0 router software prevents changing the DNS servers in the DHCP configuration, which forces you to use modem mode and an external router. I wonder how long that option will survive?

Work in N1 on some Fridays and Sundays. Often stay for the weekend and always looking...

On 6/16/2019 at 3:55 PM, AirmaxAndy said:

Might be a good time to look at VPNs before there is a rush... 

So, I've had a couple of people ask me if I can recommend a free VPN. 

The answer is that I can't: they have to cover their costs somehow and as far as I can see the only way to do that is to charge money for the service, so to provide a free service they'd have to do something like log your activity and sell that data to cover the costs - thus negating much of the point of using a VPN for privacy. 

Personally I am not currently using a commercial VPN - I have my own VPN server at home which I use when travelling so I can use UK only services like  BBC iPlayer etc while abroad. If and when the block this, I would consider a commercial VPN and the place I'd look for information is the Wikipedia VPN comparison page:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comparison_of_virtual_private_network_services

Which one to choose really depends on what's important - speed, level of anonymity, etc. As I've said, I really would avoid free services as you have to ask how they are going to cover their costs, and the only leverage they have is your traffic and trust... 

Andy.

Might be a good time to look at VPNs before there is a rush... 

13 hours ago, Guygonebad said:

I pre-lube with a glob of Vaseline up in my hole. I’m good for several hours. My body heat melts it down and I’m ready to take a good sized cock any time, even several hours after I put it up my hole. I can just drop my jeans and take a cock and never need lube. After the first load it’s all just nature’s lube. 

+1 for that. I do the same and it does last a decent amount of time. Also crisco works. Sometimes use E45 cream but that doesn't last as long. 

I enjoy these kinds oa parties and venues that have darkrooms like this - I don't recognise this venue though.  But I must say that filming inside one with a phone (especially using the light!) is totally not cool IMHO. 

On 5/20/2019 at 4:45 PM, tallslenderguy said:

i have found that not all Tops/Doms want a guy who automatically submits because part of His exercise of power is discovering how to get His sub/bottom to submit. One cannot 'conquer' someone who is already waving a white flag. For me, this all ties into the notion of gratitude and i submit that expression of gratitude depends on the individual. 

+1 for this... 

When I occasionally top, I prefer guys who're not waving their ass at me pleading- needy bottoms don't turn me on. The only exception might be if I'm in the mood for a well loaded ass. When I am more bottom and sub I dislike asking a top/dom for what I want - it is much more horny when he takes what he wants. That being said, if there's specific things that turn you on (fetishes) then sometimes a bit of communication is necessary. 

As the OP, @tallslenderguy says "you can't conquer someone who's waving a white flag". I love that quote! 

1 hour ago, doctordoctor said:

If you think the gono shot hurts, avoid syphilis like the plague.  2.2 ml of penicillin hurts like hell.

Last time they threatened me with a shot of antibiotics in the butt, I asked for an alternative - the first time was awful. If you're allergic to penicillin then there are other options which are tablets rather than injection,  but it takes a bit longer to work so you have to abstain for longer and have a re-test. The NHS being what it is are pretty reluctant but I get on well with the doctor who runs the clinic and pleaded until she gave in.  

This likely dates me quite a bit but when I was a kid there was a big thing for breakdancing. Someone would bring a boom box, someone would bring some linoleum and at break or lunchtime we'd practice our moves. This was before sneaker culture really took a foothold in the UK so nobody had nice kicks. Anyway one of my friends went to the USA for a holiday and came back with a pair of Nike Hi tops which just blew me away - and he had some really slick new moves. So I asked one break time if I could swap and wear his hi tops - so we did - and I remember putting them on still warm from him using them. At that stage it wasn't sexual - we were both quite young. But it kinda flipped the switch and I have always loved hi tops and sneakers and swapping. I was always asking to swap with others. Now,  I  absolutely love wearing the sneakers of a guy I like or fancy.  From there it expanded a bit to encompass boots and socks and I've discovered other fetishes I like too over the years - the list is long! But hi-tops and hot-swapping are definitely the first. 

Not sure if 4 and a bit years counts as a LTR , but here's what is currently working for us: we have an open relationship, and we're both of the mindset that fetish play, "play" or sex for sport is something that's fun but has no emotional attachment. The only emotional attachment is between us and not open. Separating sex and love is a key thing to seeing play with others as non threatening. That said, we have a few rules we both follow, like no overnight tricks - always come home - and sharing guys if we think it would work. we play separately (mostly) and together (sometimes). When we're out in London or berlin we look out for each other and help each other out getting what and who we want - "wingmen".   

Also... Have never been into the whole wrestling thing, but boxing yeah definitely. Used to have a guy who enjoyed sparring and fighting and it was great working up a sweat in gear throwing and taking punches. It was supposed to be a fight for top - winner fucks loser, but we quickly realised it was easier to take turns as neither of us wanted to win! Another guy I played with sometimes was in the army and we'd gear up with gloves, head protectors etc., and tussle and fuck, but it was interspersed with throwing random punches (in gloves) and blocks. I had to ask him to dial it down because he was really powerful.  

I recall there was a hook up site called 'meet fighters' or something for arranging this sort of thing - that was a while ago - I bet it is long gone now!

Yup, me too... One of my things is I'm really into getting trampled - and I like it quite hard. Football cleats/Soccer studs especially. Bonus if they're muddy from playing. Really gets the adrenaline and endorphins going - if I could find more guys who'd trample me I'd get addicted to it, I am sure. Always do this with sober guys as I did get injured when a guy who'd had a lot to drink went a bit far in Stahlrohr and cracked some ribs. But I love looking in the mirror and seeing the bruises from the cleats. 

Sundays I often head into London and go to SOP at Central Station, but today Chiltern Rail have a maintenance day, so there's no trains. It was a catalyst for a change and doing something different, so after a session at the gym and a light lunch, I prepped myself and headed over to Luton Greenhouse Sauna. I quite enjoy the trip there as the cross country route has some excellent biking roads through some great countryside and on a sunny afternoon the journey is really nice. 

Anyway, I guess I got there about 2pm and was given key #5. Uh-oh. Low key numbers usually mean it is quiet. And it was. But quiet doesn't necessarily mean there's no action. Sometimes I find it tends to focus guys. And I think this was one of those occasions. 

First tour, I spot a guy I recognise from BBRT kneeling on the fuck bench. A few guys hovering around but everyone is too timid to start anything. So after a few minutes of sussing everyone out, I went over and fucked him on the bench. It felt well moist and I asked him how many loads he had in there. He said three, which really turned me on.  The show seemed to get the other loitering guys a bit more riled up and a latino looking guy came and stood real close. I wasn't quite ready yet to pass the guy on and was hoping I wasn't going to get usurped. Next thing I know, latino guy's hand feels up my lubed hole and he slides in behind me.... So we had quite a nice three way chain going on... me fucking the guy on the bench and latino guy fucking me, and a bit of an audience. Latino guy didn't last long and then left the scene so I decided it was time to explore more and left the scene after a moment. 

I often think when you go to these places it's good to get some public activity in early so guys can see you're seriously up for it. And that did the trick nicely!

So cruised around a bit and then decided to position myself on the fuck bench and see what came along.  After a couple of minutes I became aware someone was close and again a hand explored my ass. I wanted this to be anonymous so took a hit of poppers and buried my face in the towel as he lined himself up. He wasn't as big as latino guy but he was a lot more forceful. It was really horny taking it not knowing who it was. He paused and asked if I wanted to go to a private room. I'm up for that if it means more fun and as I looked up to reply, I saw who it was - a really nice bear cub guy I hadn't seen before. I picked one of the private rooms that has the two way mirror window so guys can watch without you knowing, and we spent a good long time trying every position out to see how deep inside he could get. He really liked pinning me down with his weight and being a bit rough trying to get as deep inside as he could - eventually he shot the second load into my ass, which was great. Talking afterwards he was visiting with a mate and asked if they could both tag team me - so I said I was well up for that. (Sadly they both vanished shortly after)

A short bubble in the jacuzzi and a can of Budweiser later the first guy who I fucked on the bench came and found me - he said he was leaving soon and wanted to give me his load - so we went upstairs and I really enjoyed a good session with him as top. It was so horny knowing I was getting his load after he'd got loads from other guys. (When we did sex-ed at school, I remember being told if you have sex with someone it's like you're having sex with all their previous partners - I think that was to discourage teenagers sleeping around - little did they know it turned me on hugely!) So that was my third load...

And then the place was *really* quiet. I sat in the jacuzzi alone for a while watching to see if anyone was passing by to the darkroom behind. Nobody. One last tour and there were only two or three guys around.  So time to get changed, have a cup of tea, and enjoy the ride home - the vibrations of the bike on my ass reminding me of what's marinading inside...  

8 hours ago, bbzh said:

I wonder if this experiment could work. Someone organises a party in a city. Max attendance is 15 (5 tops, 5 versatile, 5 bottoms). Donation of $10 required. Venue: someone's home or a hotel that rents rooms by the hour. If you can't make it, you have the option of finding a replacement or receiving a one month ban. Host should try to include a few new guys each time. The money collected covers the room, lube, paper towels, some drinks and light snacks. Leftover funds go to the host. Party starts at 8 pm and ends at 11 pm. Entry only possible from 8 to 9 pm.  Bottoms have 10 potential partners. So do tops. Versatiles have 14 potential partners. If you don't like it, you're only out $10 - but you could end up giving or taking a few loads.

I like this idea, but I think the stakes have to be a bit higher for a no-show or not finding a replacement for it to be effective. Limiting the time window is also a good idea. (I like that Laboratory in Berlin have limited entry between 10pm-Midnight as it kinda focuses guys) 

15 hours ago, bbzh said:

I have another theory about the drop off in party attendance. Could it be PrEP?

Before barebackers were sort of closeted/shamed and needed the parties to find other barebackers. Now you can look on almost any app and people are pretty open about using PrEP, which is clearly saying "I bareback". Therefore the only incentive to attend a party now may be for group sex. Personally I am divided on the idea of group sex - more potential partners, but also a bigger risk of catching something. I'd probably skip parties altogether if I had enough regulars. 

5 hours ago, Leather69 said:

London also has some great venues such as SBN, Vault etc.. with their nude parties U get to see what is available.. saves the hassle of trying to organise and having no-shows. 

There could be something in this. Is it becoming mainstream? Probably.

I like the variety offered by a group and because it is a small group guys tend to play together rather than endlessly search for the perfect guy which is what happens at some of the bigger events and venues. When you go to the Vault, you often see guys glued to their phones looking for the next guy when they are in a room of horny men! 

20 hours ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

 

Playerking, Airmax:  I feel I need to stick up for the cumdumps again... At least the cumdumps are putting themselves out there and trying to organise something (and often paying for a hotel room in the process).  It’s not their fault if others can’t be bothered to organise parties: it’s very rare I see a top going out of his way to arrange something.  Don’t take us cumdumps for granted: you’d miss us if we weren’t there

 

I think my point was that they were using the group/party/event feature when perhaps the "Quick Connect" feature would be more appropriate if they are looking for hook ups as it's not really a group/party/event. Particularly when many of these ads have zero attendees and they don't respond to invite requests. 

As for tops organising parties - if I'm in a top mood, then I can only realistically give my load to one guy, but as a bottom I can take as much as I want. So I think that's why more bottoms organise stuff as it is in their interest. I have seen tops organise parties where they are whoring out a bottom guy, but that's a different thing.  

I appreciate those that are putting themselves out there - just a bit frustrated there are an increasing number that pretend to be.

On 5/6/2019 at 8:48 PM, theplayerking said:

I see few true parties (i.e, orgies) on BBRT. Most are just cumdumps looking for a gang bang. I haven’t hosted one in a long time, but 30 percent attendance rate from total strangers was a good group. 

I think you are right... most of the poorly attended parties are just bottoms fishing for more tops. 

On 5/6/2019 at 2:09 PM, edward21uk said:

with so much obligation with friends, family and life (like cruising the local Waitrose at 2100 ) it is hard to tie yourself down to a future date. Ask me for  a fuck tomorrow night and I'll wash-out and take a load. But knowing what I'm doing in two weeks? difficult

I get what you mean, but my schedule means that Funtime has to  be planned in advance as it usually involves travel. 

Waitrose may be better for shopping but my local Asda takes some beating for cruising. It seems to be very popular with Eastern European workmen who are away from home working here for long periods. 😈 That is another story....

On 5/6/2019 at 9:52 PM, piglooking4pigs said:

@AirmaxUK  Thanks for starting up the thread on this good topic.  I am in the Washington, DC area and have noticed something similar to what you're experiencing and some of the comments others have made.  I agree with @bbzh that the parties are being listed in other venues or being organized in other more spontaneous ways.  Here in DC, the parties do not tend to be all that good as so many guys don't follow through with attending.  I notice that some parties have people listed as attending who live in far-flung locations.  Mind you, they may be traveling into town, but many are not.  I also notice guys signed up for more than one party taking place at the same time.  I think the parties feature could be better if guys were more honest about their ability to attend.

It would also be incredibly nice at this point if BBRT were to upgrade some of their features or build in some new ones.  The site has been the same for so long.

Yes - signing up for more than one party and signing up but not in the area are not good indicators. I'd love to see a feature on BBRT where you can leave comments/endorsements/reviews on guys profiles. Then it might be easier to spot flakes. 

On 5/6/2019 at 10:56 AM, Spunkinmyarse said:

Hello AirmaxAndy, I’m looking at the party listings on the Greater London bbrt site, and can currently see 16.  Granted, none of them look particularly well attended, except one, which is showing 17 attendees.

When you are searching parties and selecting the Greater London area, are you leaving the next field (city) blank, or is it showing ‘London’ by default?  If the latter is true, then it won’t show any parties where a specific area of London has been included, like ‘Lambeth’, or ‘Camden’...

In the specific area box I usually select "Islington" as that is where I stay/work. I sometimes select London as an area which shows all of the city. That is also where I set up and look for parties to get widest coverage. 

So I've noticed lately when looking at the 'Greater London' zone on BBRT - which is usually the most active London area  - that the parties section seems to be dying off. 

There still seem to be guys advertising parties but nobody is requesting invites or signing up to attend them. If you look at last Sunday's parties (and it's a holiday weekend) there are six listed, with 0,1,0,1,3,2 attendees. 

If the hit rate of people actually showing up is 1-2 in 10 then this doesn't seem very successful. 

I am sure it didn't used to be this quiet. What's happening?

You occasionally and rarely see a successful party advertised and it has maybe 15+ attendees listed.  But I don't understand why as it looks nothing special compared to the others. What's different?  It makes me wonder if I am missing something!

I will also say I've noticed that if you request invites to parties in advance, you often don't get accepted until maybe an hour or two before and by then I've made other plans. 

Is this another level of internet flakiness? Is this unique to London? What gives?

Some years ago I joined the local municipal swimming pool and gym. The gym had a separate sauna/steam/jacuzzi pool for men/women and mixing was not possible. It wasn't popular as it was a bit in need of refurbishment. I had a few good encounters there - usually stray hands in the bubbly water in the jacuzzi - but a few in the sauna and steam too. it was quiet enough you could do stuff but you had to be discrete and careful. 

Then it got closed for refurbishment - and they joined the mens and womens sides together. It wasn't anywhere like what it was and the jacuzzi only yielded the odd fumble. 

A couple of years after that it got closed for repairs for a week - and when it reopened they had filled in the jacuzzi with concrete and turned it into a patio area. When I asked why the staff said it was due to persistent anti-social behaviour. 

I'd have argued we were being social, not anti-social... 

7 hours ago, ErosWired said:

A: I’ve never been able to get a firm image of under-stall coitus in my head. One imagines prior experience in yoga is required.

B: They have sex in Britain? I thought all that was shipped out to the colonies under Victoria. Is there a Ministry for Naughty Bits now?  (Full disclosure: My ancestry is 100% British Isles, so my sluttiness had to come from somewhere...)

A: Totally agreed. I've often wondered how this is achieved. 

B: I am sure there is a Ministry of No Fun. They are the ones that make rates and licensing costs absurdly high so gay bars, clubs and saunas have to close. They make legislation preventing places from having darkrooms. They also close the public bathrooms, and cut down all the vegetation at places where men like to go for walks. 

6 hours ago, Tattmad said:

I am v v interested in this...all my control taken and just used for others pleasure in a safe “play” environment. Too many fantasists though talk about this, but never commit with venues , dates, times etc.

I think you've illustrated my earlier point: the problem is that guys state what they want: "...all my control taken and just used..." without saying what they are prepared to bring to such a group to help others achieve their goals, which is what this is about.  With too many takers and not enough prepared to give as well,  the group won't work.

I think that's why you get closed "groups of friends" that arrange things between themselves. The two I've been involved with have one 'lead' guy who decides who's invited and organises the group. Getting invited is a matter of being recommended by an existing member. If you engage with the group and have a compatible attitude then you get invited to the next one. 

As an aside think about online profiles - is a profile that says what you have to offer more likely to get responses than one that says what you want? Maybe both?

A.x 

Hey - this is a good idea... So many guys are just 'into' whatever get them off. As there are so many bottoms/subs out there I think we have to help each other out from time to time as the numbers just don't add up. The cruising apps seem to push people toward being more selfish with their needs. A group that is more about helping each other achieve goals would be interesting to me. 

Headed to SOP at Central Station on Sunday - wondering if any other BreedingZone guys will be there? Bank holiday weekends are usually very good! 

23 hours ago, DaddyBare said:

Anyone want to join me this coming Friday evening at the Heath? I'll be there from around 9pm.

I can't make Friday unfortunately, but I'm very much up for a trip to the Heath some other time. 

On 4/13/2019 at 9:14 AM, sleazebugga said:

Yes, love them hairy and stinky. Better than poppers

 

Totally agree. Sweaty Pits or sweaty socks/trainers are like catnip for me!