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find91

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  1. Love rimming a bottoms hole. I really like rimming deep, sucking on ass lips, even lick and suck on your prolapse. but It all gotta be clean
  2. 5'6" and I don't care about height when I'm topping topped guys shorter than me but usually taller guys hit me up. I think they like the idea of being dominated by a short guy. I usually have issues with guy 5'8"-5'9". Not because I don't like them but they usually have issues with shorted guys and make it a big deal and then try to flip me. Which is the biggest fucking turn off in my book. I've I wanted to bottom I would. I'm not bottoming for some dude just because he's taller than me and only by 2inches LOL
  3. sloppy pre loaded holes are always nice. Not a requirement and I'm pretty choosy who I do this with because, it can be a sign of disrespect. I've fucked a few fuck buddies who had a hook up just before me and their holes were a dream, loose sloppy and very wet
  4. What's the big difference between Pure and just taking fibre supplement like meta musil?
  5. sometimes Homeless go in saunas because it's way cheaper than renting a motel and give them protection from outside and cops. I'm not suggesting sling lizards and the other fauna you have described as homeless they just sound like jerks, but the guy you found sleeping might be
  6. Your classifications are extremely detailed and apt ever though of comprising this in a book for the young darkroom biologist?
  7. It is extremely sad and can be very self destructive
  8. Stay in that way I can fuck you sloppy for round 2 and 3
  9. Good that you came to the realization and I'm glad to you have fully accepted yourself. I was more speaking in general some guys really have issues coming to term with this and actually think that they are and have intense shame due to this. This can be an extremely difficult thing to accept when your BI and you have these sorts of needs.
  10. Nice. I can be a bit insatiable at times LOL
  11. I did it once to a sub and continued fisting him and he said his hole felt irritated.
  12. Does your hole get irritated after someone piss in it?
  13. You should never be a shamed of who you are. Feeling vulnerable showing that side of yourself to certain people is ok. You don't have to show that side to everyone. Being a slut/sub/omega sub does not mean you are a bad person, it just mean you have certain needs and desires that need to be met. Most people are dishonest with their true selves and desires, be glad that you have realized your true purpose in life and that you're not a walking zombie like the rest of people in society.
  14. First you gotta find some one who is knowledgeable in WS or piss play. Like skinster said it usually has an element of humiliation and degradation, but it can also be sensual if the top plays of the aspect of the bottom feeding from his essence, similar to cum play and breeding fetishes. If it's the first time being the bottom ( thus drinking piss) make sure you have a top that knows how to flush his system. The top will need to drink a ton of water until his piss is clear and then need to drink more so that he can piss on you. Experience piss pigs will be able to drink any type of piss even strong yellow morning piss, but that's way advance ( piss does not always taste good LOL). If your doing it at home like skinster said I would suggest doing it in the bathroom shower to start way easier clean up. How ever if you find you really like it and get into it you can always buy vinyl sheets or vinyl bed coverings that will aid in easier clean up. Fort troff has some and I believe they are machine washable.
  15. Sounds like a fucking dream. I've been elbow deep so I know that open feeling you're taking about from an experienced fist bottom. Damn your're one lucky man
  16. Sweet. how is his hole. He can take that fist DEEP
  17. No it's pretty normal after taking a large toy for a cock to feel less fulling. I'm not sure the science behind it, but it's way different than taking cock and fist. actually when you take a fist the rectal wall kinda swell making it more sensitive and you actually feel the cock more. I find it similar with taking larger cocks consecutively sometimes you feel it a bit more but you will not get that full feeling. I find thick tops tend to give a fuller feeling , less about the length. Maybe your hole just needs a bit of a rest like give it a week or two and it will be back to it's tight old self. I have never come across a bottom that was too loose and I love fisting bottoms. So I doubt that you are too loose to feel full ever again
  18. Honestly you can't stop the tops that have the mentality of been their done that, or that they only tap ass once. They go into hookups with that mentality and no matter how good that pussy or ass is they won't tap it again because it goes against their alpha male persona they have mentally cultivated. Frankly I view that mind set as immature and foolish because sooner or later they themselves will run out of bottoms to fuck. I doubt that your well has run dry. There are moments where there is a temporary dry period which I suspect it might be. Also random hookups are especially really flaky now
  19. I very much like that you brought this topic up. Lets be frank, ACTUAL chasing and pozzing is a self destructive behaviour. But like most self destructive behaviour sometimes people are actually doing it for self harm (consciously or unconsciously) or they fall into that pattern of behaviour because emotionally or mentally they just want a release. Like how some of the above comments, their are bottoms that don't look to convert but their need for raw loads allow for lapse in judgement. Is self harm cause from internalized hate maybe or it could just be compulsive behaviour they really love the idea of taking loads simple as that. Human beings are social creatures so we all have that need and want to connect, Like you said the risk of catching an incurable disease does not interest you. that is a risk you personally are not willing to take and I think like what ErosWired said you actually understand the true consequence of converting and not just sticking it in the realm of fantasy. Me personally I use fisting as a way to connect.
  20. Nicely put. I totally agree with your statement "that motivation for chasing has, and has always had, its roots in a deficit of knowledge about the impacts of the virus." I find a lot of that had to do with the early messaging of HIV prevention. There was very little facts on the actual disease and more shock mongering as an attempt to stem the pandemic. I have friends that are pos and this idea of having carefree bareback sex after converting is an illusion and very eronious. Every thing in life comes with risk and consequences, you can never get away from those.
  21. Oh ya a lot of these tops especially some of the older porn start tops that are poz use to be addicted to tina and we all know that tina has a tendency to turn most guys into devouring hole. So some of these tops like Rocco Steele and such who have well used holes bottomed when they were addicted to Tina but not that they are sober turned back majority top
  22. Bingo a lot of so called Top only in porn ( and in real life) are actually vers or just plain bottoms Drew Sebastien was promoted as an uber top at TIM but hers really vers and is even a fisting bottom
  23. I think chasing and pozzing have to be separated first Pre and post PreP. Pre PreP I think chasing arose from the massive anxiety of those who went though the AIDS crises and saw a lot of their friends die from contracting HIV and it Turning to Aids. This built up a lot of anxiety in the gay community because one it massively limited sexual interaction among men and two the fear of catching the virus. All that anxiety needed to be release so I think the mentality if I catch it at least I don't have to worry about living in constant fear. For gifters at that time I think it stemmed from the anger and uncertainty of their own pozzing. Most cases I have heard of HIV transmission ( i'm talking1980-1990s) either it was from an anonymous hookup or it was in a relationship. These two instances have one thing in common a betray of trust. You have to remember around that time AIDS was a practically viewed as a death sentence. So it's a lot to come to terms with one day your fine and the next day ( when you get your diagnosis) you little are slatted to die. There a lot of anger that comes with that. As we move into the 90s there was the heavy safe sex campagne that still used shock value and the fear of death to promote safe condom sex. The problem with that technique is that if you use slogans like " don't have unprotected sex you have a lot to live for". What happens when you don't? You're life is going to shit, or you're a chronic drug users these messages will have the opposite effect to people in those situations. They won't care to protect them self and might even seek out getting infected as a form or self harm. I think this is where pozzing and the death fetishization started to coincide. Post PreP I think chasing and pozzing has more turned into a fetish about sharing and becoming one. Very similar to breeding fetishes men have, even going as far as taking about getting knocked up when you dam well know a man can't get pregnant but it doesn't have to make sense because it's about the connection two becoming one. I Hear even Pos undetectable guys using pozzing "dirty" talk when they know the can't get infected. So I don't think it's as simple as saying pozzing and chasing sub culture is about self harm.
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