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In general I'm not a fuck it and leave it type of guy. I actually prefer meeting up with a guy I had sex. I at least know the sex will be good. When I was younger and exploring my sexuality it wasn't that I would pass up regulars for fresh meet. It had more to do with the order of responses and if my regulars were free when I wanted to fuck. I find now in the current climate people are comment phobic so you can really go out the idea that you have regulars anymore.

Nope topping and bottoming has really nothing to do with cock size. It's more mind set. I've fucked quite a few hung power bottoms. Yeah At first when your hung it's hard to meet people that can take it. It was the same with me

What plug are you using? The harder ones can stimulate the hole too much especially after taking loads like tallslenderguy said. Try the softer ones and make sure you can take it to the neck or your just gonna stay open

The beginnings of a wet pussy

Nothing is wrong with you. This may sound weird but liking cock does not necessarily mean you are gay or Bi. You may simply like the idea of being penetrated and this is how you connect to your passive side. There are a lot of straight yes I said straight guys that are into getting pegged by their wife's and have no interest in pursuing a relationship that being sexual or romantic with another man. You really have to ask yourself why does taking a big cock such an appealing idea to you? Is your non attraction to men more based on stigma or an actually non sexual attraction to men. These questions will not be answered in a day and you don't have to declare or state the answers to anyone but yourself. My point is You might be Bi you might not. You need to do some soul searching to answer that question for yourself. All that being said as a Bi man myself I understand your dilemma concerning your wife. Any decision you make concerning that with have their positive and negative consequences, just make sure if you really do love her you do have to factor in her health and well being in your decision as well.

That is fucking hot. Small hands are good for depth play. Just saying hehe

The few occasions that I bottom I prefer large cocks. more width than depth. 6 inch fat one is great. I like the open soar feeling afterwards

Started out as a fisting top since I love fucking big cunts. But recently took a fist from a close buddy of mine. So I guess I'm vers Top now LOL. Love having doing width and depth for fisting ( as a top) The farthest I've gotten in a guy was elbow deep. Me personally I can take it deep can only take it up to the wrist

Yeah their fist needs to be in a duckbill position and the size of the hands make a BIG fucking difference. also I've noticed some are more prone to depth and others width

When if it's average size dicks. Then you can just wear or sleep with a small size plug. It's the size of the plug that makes the difference of the gape. Also you don't have to sleep with it you can pop a plug in and run so errands. A few hours helps train the hole, Doesn't have to be 8-12hrs

I think you either need a larger plug or you can sleep with a harness or spandex short

I so can relate man

Honestly when I fuck and fist, my main point is to turn my bottom into a loose bucked cunt that can take my thick dick and fist. Usually before a session I will tell my bottoms to wear a large buttplug so that their holes are already open. I can just pull out the plug and slid my cock in balls deep. a boy that would be sleeping with a plug would be ready 24/7 hehe

He chose very well. Now I see why he keeps coming back

Totally with you man. I get rock hard in a slut hole. The more gaping and loose the better

Great point about the condoms. I never thought about that. I'm with you man love a nice sloppy slut hole. Tight is way to painful for me

Well from my experience Topping is 10% mechaniques,45% mind set and 45% empathizing and understanding the bottom you are fucking. I'm assuming you probably more than covered the bottom empathy and what a hole likes and needs since you sound like a very capable bottom. Most people approach topping by just sticking a dick in and ass and humping back and forth until you cum. Getting the penis in the orifice is the 10% part if you're erect it will work if your not it won't. The 45% mindset is that a tops ability to fuck comes down to their confidence. You start feeling hesitation and you start to loose your erection and for someone that has had ED issues it can really take a blow to your self-esteem and confidence especially at that age when everyone expects you to have an iron hard erection and fucking holes into anything that breed or moves. unless you're dealing with Dominant bottoms, most bottoms want a top to take control on some level, but some guys are not comfortable taking the lead. In that case they need to feel comfortable with the bottom they are with. I suspect this is the reason he keeps seeing you. He feels comfortable with you. You guys have made a connection, furthermore you accepted him even though he was having wood issues. Since all the pluming is fine most likely he has performance anxiety. A nice way to alleviate that anxiety is by slowing down and doing some foreplay. Get the bottom to do the things that turn him on be that sucking his dick, playing with his nipples, getting rimmed or he even rimming them. Whatever that makes him horny and his dick hard. Most bottoms want to please so they are willing and happy to do what the top wants to get them hard( with in reason). Only when you are rock hard, not 50% or 60% only 90-100% hard then to move to penetrate the bottom. Furthermore, Not all tops are the same ( exactly like not all bottoms are the same). Some tops work well to Dominate, other are better at sensual play and taking care of their bottoms. He needs to be comfortable with his style and fuck what others say or do. Also he should not be hung up with failed encounters or failures. Take them more as a learning lesson and less as a blow to your ego. Failures help to let you know what doesn't work for you.

There's a big difference being a top and a competent or good top. That aside he may be starting to explore his sexuality and honestly bottoming looks painful and sounds complicated with all the douching and shit. So It might scare him away from trying to bottom. IDK just throwing out a theory

I understand you "issue" with cleanliness not everyone is into a cheese funky cocks and some guys it can be damn strong. What gets me annoyed is the fact that some princess assume soon as you are uncut YOU are unclean and must have bad hygiene. I have met uncut guys that yes need to learn how to wash their cocks and others where it doesn't smell bad at all. If you're worried about the smell of an uncut cock best thing to do his offer to give him a blowjob while taking a sensual shower. If your in a saunas or backroom then just tough it out because God knows where that cocks been before it came knocking at your room door LOL Btw tallslenderguy this isn't an attack against you ?

I understand you "issue" with cleanliness not everyone is into a cheese funky cocks and some guys it can be damn strong. What gets me annoyed is the fact that some princess assume soon as you are uncut YOU are unclean and must have bad hygiene. I have met uncut guys that yes need to learn how to wash their cocks and others where it doesn't smell bad at all. If you're worried about the smell of an uncut cock best thing to do his offer to give him a blowjob while taking a sensual shower. If your in a saunas or backroom then just tough it out because God knows where that cocks been before it came knocking at your room door LOL Btw tallslenderguy this isn't an attack against you ?

Making out with the head can be supper hot but just makes sure you know how to control the pressure. Some dudes start sucking the head really hard and it can get very uncomfortable because the head is pretty sensitive. In my experience it's always better to start of gently and then increase if you see the guy can take more

My thoughts exactly bro. Dick is dick

They certainly are. Did it with a cut buddy I covered his entire head and a bit of the shaft

How do you guys feel about sucking a guy with a really long foreskin over hang. Disgusting? Hot? I notice when I get sucked I only get two reactions either they love it or hate it. I just wanted to see other people opinions on it. Also I notice a lot of people when they suck they end not to play with the foreskin. Why?

Very true man. we live in age of equality ?