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Nope, most bottoms I have fucked were soft, but still came and was leaking throughout the fuck. A few even piss themselves. I usually let the hole speak for itself. A bottom can't fake an anal orgasm.
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It has nothing to do with porn. It's a mind set some bottoms like being treated like a hole and are very anal focus. Nothing wrong with that.
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Tops actually ask??? Wtf for?? It's your ass and holes I'm more concerned with. I could give a flying fuck about your dick. I'm not the type of top that you have to hide your dick but don't expect me to play or touch it.
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With how society is going. Less people are inclined to do family get togethers. So their's a high chance of horny men needing a fuck, especially late at night.
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Very good advise.
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Pre open your hole before you meet. A looser hole can take a harder cock. A 7 inch toy or small dildo should help and most top won't know the difference as long as use a toy or plug that isn't too much bigger than the tops girth.
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Question do you jerk off a lot or edge?
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Odd thing is most bottoms I know even if the top could host they much prefer to host themselves. Do to all the douching and prep and if their was an accident they feel much more comfortable using their own bathroom.
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No I have not. I found equal amount. Especially when it comes to fisting bottoms because usually they are in a relationship and their partner isn't into fisting. It could be a regional or age thing you are noticing. I've noticed in different areas you sometimes get an overwhelming amount of either top or bottoms that cannot host and most young guys can't host ingeneral, some still live with their parents or roommate( legal age)
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That is my point. You can't just treat all bottoms or tops the same. Just like you pointed out not everyone is into Dom/sub play. But don't get me wrong there's a big difference being direct and another trying to control your partner. You can be direct and tell a top if something isn't working or if you want more of something and not come across bossy or demanding. Good sex always needs communication. But using a tops dick to get off is someone trying to exert control. This is not shared pleasure, where the bottom is trying to make his top feel good and the top is doing the same. There is a clear power exchange.
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I think most people automatically link sub/Dom with bottom and Top. In most cases they go together. Bottoms being sub and Tops being Dom, but like anything we humans it get complicated fast. Their are Dominant Bottoms and passive tops. If your sub by nature it will natural feel odd trying to direct and control your partner. So I don't see it as a question of wrong or right but more of a compatibility issue. Like tallslenderguy said forcing someone out of their natyral inclination will make them feel uncomfortable. So trying to use a Top's dick for your own pleasure, pretty much like a dildo with a life support unit may work with a few tops but will most likely piss off most tops because most tops view themselves as Dominant. Furthermore, Top guys who are dominant don't like feeling used. We view it ad disrespectful. In contrast to a sub bottom or cumdump that thrives on that feeling being used, or service and worked over.
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As long as both parties are in agreement who am I to judge. Personal I can't be a service top I find it too degrading and I hate bossy bottoms but that is just me. I have met and chatted with service top, they can be very cool people very orientedvin giving the bottom pleasure.
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Nope never, but done it to many FFbottoms 😉 Love how tight it gets LOL
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Just wished they played up the suit fetish aspect a bit more
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Have you had someone jerkoff in your hole?
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Love, love, love fucking into the second ring. More experienced guys you can plugh right through it but with less experienced you have to be a bit gentle to get the kink straighned out. love dumping my load that far in
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Honestly it's never happed to me and I've fisted guys to the elbow. but usually they where on all 4's so maybe it has to do with the position you where in. If you weren't feeling any pain it won't freak me out. But I find Alien sex kinda cool so ...
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I'll prelub a bottoms hole if I know it will be a looong fuck session or it will be a fist and fuck session. or if I know I'm fisting for depth
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No a person once they are Undetectable they cannot passe on HIV. Certain test will even give a false negative dues to how low quantity of the virus they have in their blood. That is why RNA HIV test is the most definitive because even if you are Undetectable it will show up. Yes you can keep their load and not get HIV, but their are other STI's you can still catch. Furthermore, Studies have proven that meth addiction can compromise a sero positive person's undetectable status.
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"Topping from the bottom" or a tired well-fucked hole?
find91 replied to blackrobe's topic in General Discussion
You hit it on the nail man. I've noticed some guys that I fist and I give them a blow by bow of how far I am they usually take less when they just lay back surrender and allow me to work their hole. Sometimes the mind gets scared way more quickly than what the body can actually take. -
"Topping from the bottom" or a tired well-fucked hole?
find91 replied to blackrobe's topic in General Discussion
Bottoming is almost 50% mental and 50% physical. A lot of it is relating metal cues with the physical feelings, but the funny thing is you can't see what's happening. This is why guys who get into fisting and large assplay it takes so long to learn because controlling your ass muscles has a unique feeling and mind body connection for everyone. It would simply be you relaxed abit and your cunt decided to stop having her little tantrum LOL -
"Topping from the bottom" or a tired well-fucked hole?
find91 replied to blackrobe's topic in General Discussion
Sorry to say this but he's an idiot. He clearly does not know how an ass works. He probably believes you are pushing out his cock and that you are drying to give him the message that you are done with him. Which again is idiotic. If you fuck an ass violently enough or long enough it will go through involuntary contractions that will push down ( similar when you are taking a shit). As much as guys like me like calling an ass a pussy, cunt, bussy whatever feminine sex organ name, it's not one it's a rectum. The rectum was made to hold fecal matter and then release it when it becomes to full. The rectum does not know the difference between a hand, a cock, cum or fecal matter, so when it feels full and you relax, it will push things out, it's a semi automatic response the body has. This also happens when you rape a guys ass really hard the rectum will go though involuntary muscle spasms to force the foreign material out of your ass, in this case the guys dick. This sensation is fucking amazing on a tops cock. For the bottom when you get these involuntary contraction and your prostate is stimulated simultaneously this can induce an anal orgasms. Women have a similar reaction with their vagina's but it happens after sex and it pushes out the sperm. -
Was partly joking man I got what you originally meant hehe. Btw if you give it a few weeks rest ( not implying you need too) Your rectum will start to close up again. You won't be a virgin but a bit tighter than before. Like you I'm into heavy assplay and fisting but more as a top so I understand why you would prefer that hole more looser and pliant. Just make sure you take a good probiotic supplement and everything will stay health down there. Even with all the douching
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"works properly" is a matter of interpretation LOL It works like a pussy which in my view is an upgrade LOL