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You are right D/s is very different from S&M I have dabbled in both . Both can be fun but they need a really good connection because trust it needed because you can do a great deal of harm. The thing they have in comment is the power exchange and that deep connection. As a Dom their is great power in wanting to protect and offer your sub release. While with proper S&M it the transcendence of the physical body, through pain and pleasure. Again respect is key to both.. I totally agree with your last line.
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Yeah it changes definitely from a pucker to a slit. It's the consequence/benefit of taking big cocks. all this tight virgin hole after taking 8+ inches is non sense. my hole has changed a lot since I've gotten into fisting. and the guys I fuck lets just say they tend to dilate pretty easily now
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We are all shaped by our experiences. I totally understand why you would not want to think people are evil. But you and I know that in BDSM there are some very dangerous people that masquerade as Dom but in fact are actual sexual sadist. They get of on hurting and causing pain. This is very different then those into S&M that get off on pushing the boundaries of pain and pleasure and the endorphin release from pain. This individuals are "sadistic sex offenders" like pervfantasy24 said.
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You're right stealthing does not necessarily does not necessarily have to go with pozzing. But I still stand by the fact that it's rape. Consent is key in in itimate relations. Yes in Dom/Sub dynamic the dom makes the rules but still a sub trust that the Dom will not violate his hard limits. If a Dom because abusive and starts abusing his sub (mentally or physically) then that Dom / Sub contract become void and null.
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Nicely put man and I admire you're candor, but I disagree with you're notion of stealthers "looking for, a relationship where they can act without having to ask permission" From what I've seen and heard. It's simply about control, power and degradation. If you truly wanted a relationship you will be upfront about your status. Why hide that you're positive? Yes it may scare prospective subs away but it will be a test to weed out the true and deserving. You only hide because you know it give you an advantage over another. It's no different than why people tag buildings or why animals you use urine to mark their territory, it's a stealthers way of putting a mark on a person. Marking and knowing that they have defiled a person. That form of power is very intoxicating especially when the bottom does not know. They have fundamentally turned them into a fool.
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I know this is probably un unpopular opinion but frankly stealthing is no different then rape. To be clear it is morally wrong. I see nothing wrong with chasers they have given their consent to get pozzed. But to try and poz someone with out their knowing is cruel and malicious. You want to rape someone own the fact that you are a predatory rapist don't blame the bottom that they wanted it especially if the explicitly said they want you to wear condoms. For bottoms that aren't on PReP and go bareback that's a more complicated thing you are definitely taking a high risk and they are a lot of poz top that will fuck you not out of some perverse sense of infecting you but because most will assume you are either poz or on PreP I would like to make it clear that my issue has nothing to do with conversion but with consent.
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Wrong a lot of people get stealth by people they hookup with or even chat with on grinder it's not just by anonymous cocks or hookups. I do agree if it's anonymous and you're going bare the chances of getting poz dick is high. most poz tops will fuck you assuming your poz.
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I love self FF but only issue is that I'm not that flexible to do it for a long time. That's the only reason I won't be doing it weekly LOL
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those lips are pretty enough to kiss
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A lot of guys see fisting in porn and try to emulate it without understanding that those bottoms did a lot of stretch work with dildos and toys before the scene. Fisting is not your normal top bottom dynamic. The top cannot force the bottom to take the fist like you can with a dick. it just won't work. It's more like asking for passage into a bottoms hole. the more the bottom is relax the more he can take. A great trick for taking fist is look into tantric breathing techniques that help to relax. Breathing is key. Fisting on chems can be fun but it runs the risk of getting hurt because you need to be aware of any pain so you can tell the top to slow down or that it's over. That's another thing the Top has to respond to the bottom. not the other way around. When you and your partner have been fisting for a while and you get a good connection then you can add some dom sub dynamics and still if the sub( bottom ) says he is in pain you stop.
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Plugs are great for width, get a nice set of plugs that size up and it helps keep the hole open. For depth double ended dildos help open you up but make sure the toys are soft and flexible the hard ones will hurt trying to go through all the intestinal bends. When it comes to depth fisting make sure you have a top that will really take his time. Depth one needs to go nice and slow because you can seriously get hurt
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Tops that aren't picky about a bottom completely cleaned out
find91 replied to atlmarketingbiz's topic in General Discussion
From my experience most bottoms prefer to be clean and when they have an accident they freak out more than the top. I'm met guys that were secretly into scat play and try to pass of not douching ass accidents. I'm not knocking people that like scat but like any kink consent is very much key especially for the harder kinks -
You Bi too that sweet
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Just for the record Boomer is latin and a fashion designer ( the fashion designer part isn't really relevant but..)
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Does size really matter? + Advice for smaller guys
find91 replied to Txyyxxxb's topic in General Discussion
To me yes I prefer larger because I like the stretch I get from bigger cocks also they leave me with a nice open feeling after being breed. All that being said the dude has to know how to fuck. Just because you're hung It's not the end all be all. Furthermore it's more girth I like than length, been fucked by a super thick 6 incher and that had my pussy cumming over and over. -
I use pussy and cunt when referring to ass and it has nothing to do with not respecting someone's masculinity. It more the fact that it's a receptacle for my seed and that it can swallow dick completely. Also I prefer to think of it like that than a shit hole. Just my preference
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I would say 7.5 is hung ( I'm talking real inches). However girth makes a big difference because I've take 6 but beer can thick and it's a fucking dream was gapping like a bitch afterwards. I'm 9 and most guys think I'm 10 because of the thickness
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the more sloppy and gaping the better
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Well I never been a fan of tight holes they actually hurt . I much prefer a nice open pussy. I guess that's why I got into fisting. I love the fact that you can just slide in and how the walls of the hole grips that shaft of my cock. Now with most of my regulars I tell then to wat for me with a large buttplug before I fuck them. These are my favorite to fuck
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I love rimming but I usually don't rimming. I can at an ass for days. Also like sucking on a guys cunt or pussy lips. This is the type of hole I would definitely eat for hours.
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I'm not a chaser I hate that term but I do like my boys on the thick side, bears and chubs very welcomed. But honestly I'm not into one body type. I fucked guys that were bodybuilders to chubs sooo
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Tops that aren't picky about a bottom completely cleaned out
find91 replied to atlmarketingbiz's topic in General Discussion
Nope sorry When I top I want my bottom fully cleaned. I would rather wait for him to finish. I get accidents happen and I don't make it an issue. Just send him back to clean up and we can continue but I don't like fucking in shit. This is one reason I prefer regulars over random hookups. When I bottom I make sure that I'm totally clean and if not I will cancel -
He ain't pretty but he's pretty friendly guy and he know how to fuck.
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In the mainstream studios yeah, but personally I find XL , Chino black, Gio and even Trap are very good looking and most are vers which is nice to see. A lot of the more black productions are a bit too heavy on the Thug theme which needs to change.
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Ya that slipping hazard is real. LOL
