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Some tops like whores and sluts. So it's not always about slut shaming. Also if your hung tight is no good. Unless you get off on really hurting a bottom
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Kegel exercises help
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Some tops just like degrading bottoms. Don't pay it any attention. No matter how loose or tight a bottoms hole is, there is a top that likes it that way. Personally if I'm asking if you have a loose hole it's because that's what I'm looking for. All that said I do use caution on how I ask it, as it is a loaded statement. So bottoms are proud to be loose and others view it as being past the expiration date and no longer useful.
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Actually no. I prefer guys 30+. If you are tall and masculine, most gay men will assume you are a top. I'm on the shorter side and guys use to try to make me bottom until I flip and fuck them. They assumed because I was short I had hung small. They were wrong. If you don't fit one of the stereotypes hooking can be more difficult, but don't give up or think that all guys think the same.
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It's normal. The more you play the less this will happen. As subBottomKink said it is partially mental. Fisting is about staying calm so you can relax your rectum. When this happens, take a deep breath in slowly and let it out even slower. Do this a few times. If that doesn't relax you, take more poppers.
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Like you said Japbtm I've heard that as an oral top. When you said passive top I thought you were referring to a service top. Tops that are sub and like to be used by a dominant bottom. Pretty much a dildo attached to a life support unit.
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Love that you mention about the cleaning motivation because it makes a big fucking difference. No one likes doing unnecessary work.
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I primarily like fisting but adding toys can be fun. Oddly I only like ass play with really big toys. Go figure. Because fisting is 50% mental, it depends on the fosters mind set. Some like the interpersonal connection and sharing of energies aspect of ass play. Those tend to be the ones more into fisting and don't really get turned on by toys. For the reason stated above. Those that get turned on primarily by the sensation of the ass. I have notice really like toy play solo or alone. It's all good as long as you have safe and having fun . However, I do suggest beginner fosters should at least have one toy and a plug because it really helps with training.
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It is a bit strange, their are valid health arguments for shaving as well. In modern society we have hot water and soap, so people can be as smooth or hairy and still be healthy.
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I like my people natural but a little grooming ain't a problem. If your naturally smooth not a problem. I just don't like stubble.
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Xtube has it all. That's where hunger FF, Nate Grimes and John Thomas started. Fisting is the new black is a good fisting top with some good bids. Cutler X ' Husband DYN0 has a page there and his cunt can take a lot. Early CutlerDen has him fisting Nate Grimes and Teddy Brice
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Also gloves have one benefit. If the tops nail game ain't on point. Gloves can mitigate sharp feeling or tearing.
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Amerifist site Studfist has great fisting action and a teal mix of guys
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Cool. Thanks for the reply
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Thank you Does it prolong the preservation, because I know fist powder doesn't go bad like Jlube
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Tops: What cumdump load do you like to be?
find91 replied to NastyRawBottom's topic in General Discussion
First and last I like to compare the transition -
Fisting top into WS. Drink and be merry, while I fist you till you piss yourself.
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I prefer bare but have no issues with gloves can be sexy in right context. Nitrile gloves are the best.
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Fisting top. Been fisting on and off for 10 yes but the last 5 fisting has been my main sexual practice.
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May I ask why do you mix jlube and fist powder? Must not of been easy to get the proportions right?
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Gumjobs are amazing. Got a fat dick with a lot of foreskin so I tend to get a lot of teeth. Also gumjobs tend to be sloppier which I prefer.
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Ya think they still have one but it's pretty much dead there.
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I think that's the key. Not saying just because you get older you should have no standards, but from my experience a lot of older gay men get bitter because they run after 18-21 crowed and they constantly get rejected or used as a sugar Daddy or worse. Then ask why don't you try men closer to your age. Then they always say they aren't attracted to them. They completely miss their own hypocrisy. Learning to appreciate all ages and vetting on share interest and kink works better.
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One thing embrace getting older. Nothing worse than a LGBTQX individual trying to hold on to the vestiges of their youth. If you eat well and stay active. You can be still fucking in your 60's 70's. Their are younger Dom's that like older well behaved sub's and sissy. Confidence is sexy
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What Does It Feel Like To Be Gangbanged?
find91 replied to GyCumdump's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Just watch out for the sub dropoff
