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This may be obvious but inducing a crap before douching really speeds the process along. One of my boys uses coffee.
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Things that turn me on: sloppy wet noises, big calves, moaning, pleasant contradiction, girls kissing, gaping open ass, with or without the rose. Puffy pussy lips (men and women).
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Also I find most of the time the lay is bad. They have all these criteria, they usually have a very specific scene that they need to recreate to get off. I like natural encounters, scripted scenes and method acting roles make me bored and soft.
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Met this one dude online who was chasing me for months. We finally are both available to meet. I told him to be face down ass up when I get their. When I arrive he was how I ordered him to be. I start rimming him for like 2 min, then he came. Was a bit of a let down.
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Bareback and seeing a therapist question
find91 replied to ChristophBB's topic in General Discussion
Continue talking to your therapist because it seems that this is helping you come to terms with your sexuality. However, I would hold off on discussing fantasies because those are tricky things. Like others have said they may be ties to other aspects and issues in your life that you may not fully grasp at the moment and they may change drastically once you can full conceptualize the feeling and issues behind it. Just a word of advice, great that you are on PrEP it adds an added layer of safety, but do not negate the psycho - emotional aspect of sex as well being a cumdump can have some bad emotional drawbacks if you are not mentally and emotionally prepared. Furthermore, take baby steps, try a threesome before, doing a hotel cumdump scene. See how it makes you feel and if you liked it or not. Group play is one thing in the mind and another thing in reality. -
That's hot. A responsive hole is hot. If you get fucked long enough I bet your hole will gape by itself
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Love a cunt with mileage. Now I can fuck that hole as deep and hard as I want.
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Plug and longer cocks or wait until your well fucked to start.
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First of all I'm speaking as a top. I ruined myself through edging so I can fuck for how long I want. Taking a dick is more intense and I know it's common for most bottoms the prostate becomes to sensitive. Edging might work but it would have to be a different technique
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Maybe it's just habit but I prefer going slow before pounding. I find people tend to open up when they relax and a too tight cunt hurts to much and I like to go deep and hit the Sig bend (second hole)
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I get Hornier after the first nut
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Do you like when a guy takes his time or you prefer being pounded out?
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The problem is not the apps but the people that use them. Apps will not dispel racist and toxic prejudices in the LGBTQX community if the members don't listen to each other and self examine their own biases. Example: I'm not normally attracted to fem guys. I can just passe this off as just my preference but on further self examination I realize I tended to associate fem guys with queeny bitchy gay men that bitch and tear down other gay men for kicks. Furthermore, being bi fem guys aren't anything similar to women so the aspects I like for women are missing, thus no connect. All that being said I have met fem guys that I really gel with and I start to realize that my generalization and faulty associations of the group wasn't allowing me to see people for how they are I was just grouping them in a box and it's unfair, wrong and you miss out on some great moments. I realize it wasn't fem guys I disliked, it was bitchy hyper critical people that turned me off. (I hope this makes sense) Ya everyone has sexual preferences but true preferences tend to be more general than you think. We just add a ton of baggage on on top of them
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It's not the fantasy that is the issue. It's the fetisization and dehumanization that is point and problem. You can have fantasy of being taken by a strong man or raped by an individual, but what I'm talking about are those that fantasize about Big Black Dick or big Arab dick and go out in real life to collect BBC or force themselves on certain ethnicities even when these ethnic individual stated they are a bottom lol. People are more than just a dick or ass. This is fucking Pokemon human beings aren't meant to be collected.
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I got no malice or shaming in your comments. Just that role play doesn't "meet" your needs. Kink has a heavy psychological aspect and the mind is a strange and tricky thing. Like blackrobe has stated the best types of role play are those that have connection to your personality. From the original question, yes you can role play too long. People are not just one role. Everyone has needs, wants and weaknesses. This is one reason why a lot of Dom/sub relationships that involve romantic partner breaks down. They don't allow each other to be themselves. Even a "natural" Dominant person doesn't feel like ordering an managing someone every single moment of the day. The similar aspect can be applied to role play. Some people get role fatigue. As in SFSloppyAznBottom case I think the dude just hit a bad "thought" connect to the role.
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This is a consequences of role play. Sometimes it can bring up deep issues. I don't mind flip-flipping in an out but not every guy can do this. Also depending on the role, aftercare maybe needed as a form of comedown. Example a role play of incest or daddy/son sadistic edge play, the top may need some aftercare as not to have a dropoff and start feeling bad.
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Why is the feel of ass seldom described in detail?
find91 replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
There can be a big difference how a bottom wants his hole to feel to a top and how it actually feels and some bottoms aren't ready for that conversation. Tops telling how a bottom hole feel can unintentionally insult a bottom perception of themselves. I think this might be one small reason some tops to describe a bottoms hole to them. -
Why dont you pré stretch?
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You can always plug it
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Definitely up for trying as long as it takes
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Why is the feel of ass seldom described in detail?
find91 replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
I think first we are so focused on butting that in the moment you feel and love it, but like all good things once you but your mind moves to something else. The dick is sensitive enough to feel how different every bottoms hole Is, well for me. You can ever feel the difference between guys and how the sigmoid bends and which direction. Some guys holes are super smooth or bumpy. The best is when they get fucked hard and long and the inner lining swells, make it "tighter" yet squishy, like your dick is surrounded by a meat pillow. -
Hehe it's one of my weakness. Best is when they start prolapsing or rosebuding on your cock while fucking their loose gash
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Regular work can really reshape a cunt. Love to fuck and fist my bottom until the ring can't close and they are pissing themselves. Then fuck again. I've never met a bottom that was too loose.
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No that's a myth. The lips make a noise, like air rushing out of a balloon. If you finger your hole while you fart. You'll have a silent fart but a stinky hand.
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Don't look loose looks fine to bust open to me
