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  1. garsento
    From what Rapp describes, he apparently had no idea beforehand that Spacey was anything but another guy in a profession that the two men shared who seemed like he could be a cool older friend. He apparently was not out to himself at the time, even, never mind other people. I can see how finding out that someone you trusted actually was trying to take advantage of you would really hurt your ability to trust other people. From his perspective, realizing that another guy had managed to trap him in an apartment by himself for his own purposes might well have been terrifying. Sure, we certainly can imagine worse things happen, but something doesn't have to be catastrophic for it to be bad.
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    Speaking as someone who consistently used condoms for a decade until he began to play with undetectable people, I can't say that my sex life was that badly affected by using condoms, or that my play with undetectable people one-on-one unsafe. Not being on PrEP is something I do need to correct, so that it would give me the freedom of being lax with condoms if I chose, but ... PrEP does seem to be something getting introduced in different health systems at high speed. Especially considering the significant long-term costs of being HIV-positive, waiting until it becomes available in Germany seems wise.
  3. garsento
    In this particular situation, where it looks like you're much less interested in one-on-one sex and much more interested in anonymous group sex, I really do not think you will be able to avoid HIV infection for long. If you want to avoid HIV, I would urge you to avoid these situations, at least until you can get PrEP from somewhere.
  4. garsento
    Undetectable guys can be quite safe, agreed. Certainly I'm infinitely more likely to do bareback with an undetectable guy than with someone who claims to be negative! Just be sure you are on the same page.
  5. garsento
    https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/fisting-threesome-in-a-dungeon-31227322 "Gotta love pride weekend, with hot cunts all over the place. Here's me playing with cndFFjock and cdnlifter1 in a hot basement dungeon. Was ffun!" The video includes a cum shot.
  6. garsento
    Most of the sex I have is with poz guys, undetectable only. Much more of it is as a top than as a bottom--the list of guys who can fuck me bare is a short one.
  7. garsento
    "I've wanted to get my hands in this hole (mickebttm93) for a long time. It finally happened this week and definitely didn't disappoint. Stick around for the best cum shot I've ever filmed at the end." https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/fististhenewblack-fists-mickebttm93-31173682 fististhenewblack--the XTube and the Tumblr accounts have the same name--has filmed some bareback clips before. This is really hot.
  8. garsento
    If you want to have bareback sex with men, get on PrEP.
  9. garsento
    I cannot wait for the next.
  10. garsento
    This, definitely. Leaving aside how cool it can feel to take a load, I like the idea of taking loads from undetectable guys I play with not because I want to become HIV-positive, but because being able to get fucked bare and take a load is something I can enjoy. Fucking with someone undetectable, I don't have to worry about risk in the same way that I do in other situations. The sex feels really good not only because of the greater sensations involved (to the extent that there are greater sensations) but because I can relax into it. It is most definitely not because I secretly want to go through seroconversion. To be blunt, I've seen how HIV causes these guys--people I care for--great problems, and I have no desire at all to add these sorts of problems to what I'm already going through. Quite literally, one reason I am having this sex is because it is safe. This is definitely something to talk about with your partner. Why is your partner having condomless sex with you? Explore with him his reasons for doing this, certainly before you talk about this idea with him, most definitely before you do something potentially life-harming to yourself like going off your medications.
  11. garsento
    I have topped and bottom bareback, starting off topping and then progressing to being more versatile. I am not doing this because I had problems with the sex I've been having, or because of problems with condom usage. Even now, I have no problems with using condoms in other situations, even as a top, even in a group session. For me, barebacking is more a case of my expanding my sexual repertoire to do new things that I feel comfortable with risk-wise, developing a new kink. Like fisting, I suppose. (And yes, probably my hottest bareback session did involve me getting plowed by a handsome gentleman with a large cock in a sling as part of a session that ended up him shooting his load inside of me.)
  12. garsento
    Now, there is something to be said about the idea of there being a thrill when I fuck or am fucked bare by someone undetectable. It isn't a matter of chasing, I think, certainly not in the sense of wanting to be made HIV-positive, and not in finding HIV in other people a turn-on. I think it's a feeling rooted much more in a sense of being victorious over the virus, in knowing that something I've been afraid of for all of my sexual life (still am, to an extent) has been so thoroughly mastered that I can do with others whatever I want.
  13. garsento
    As I've begun to have bareback sex, I've been thinking seriously about why I've been doing it. The unprotected sex I've been having has been, without exception, with a limited number of undetectable guys who I know and trust. I made the choice not to wear condoms with these guys because they're undetectable, and I believe them because they behave in ways consistent with their claims (most particularly, there are things they do not feel comfortable doing with me, particularly cumming inside of me). I am as sure as I can be that I'm doing this for the positive reasons of enjoying enhanced intimacy and better sex, not for more negative reasons of fetishizing the virus. That I have been having unprotected sex with undetectable guys is not a matter of chasing but a matter of these guys being safe. I feel much more comfortable having bareback sex with these particular guys than I would with other undetectable guys, infinitely more than with guys selected at random.
  14. garsento
    If the guy did something to you sexually that you did not want and you explicitly said so, well, yes, this would count as sexual assault. No one in this circumstance is making good decisions, whether we're talking about the top who is intentionally being vague in not providing honest answers, or the bottom who's willing to have bareback sex with someone they do not know. In this situation, I think that Canadian law would suggest that the person who was lying about their status could be legally culpable, at least if they were not demonstrably undetectable and uninfectious.
  15. garsento
    That actually is not the case. I might have a very limited relationship with a guy I meet at Steamworks, but if I tell someone I do not want to do something and he goes ahead and does it anyway that is the violation of a moral code.
  16. garsento
    This. I have no problem with having sex with poz people. (Most of my sex these days is with them.) I do have huge problems with people who lie to me and do things to me I did not consent to.
  17. garsento
    Speaking as someone presumably negative who has been having lots of fun sex with undetectable guys, I would be surprised if he was interested in becoming positive. Wanting to be on PrEP suggests to me an active disinterest in getting HIV on his part.
  18. garsento
    This was a hot story.
  19. garsento
    On the one occasion when the guy fucking me came in my ass, I did feel his dick spasm inside me. I might also have felt extra lubrication as he pumped in and out of me.
  20. garsento
    I do not see this story as necessarily having anything to do with bugchasing. If Diego really is undetectable, then this actually is pretty safe sex. Martin can probably take as many loads as he wants from his guy.
  21. garsento
    As a top or as a bottom, I love a sling. They're fun.
  22. garsento
    I do only a mild form of this. The guy who currently fucks me bare is the only guy who fucks me bare. He knows this: I've said this when we're fucking, even when we're fucking in a bathhouse and people are standing over his shoulder watching him plow me. I think he likes this.
  23. garsento
    I have been bred only once, by an older undetectable top I've been playing with for the past year, on my birthday in a sling wearing a leather jacket no less. (It was very hot.) I did not feel the cum shoot into me. What I did feel was his dick expanding inside me as he shot.
  24. garsento
    PrEP has been available off-label in Canada for some time. The main thing preventing wider adoption is that, save in Québec, no provincial drug plans will explicitly cover Truvada for PrEP purposes.
  25. garsento
    Speaking as someone who's at the other end of things, so to speak, presumably negative, people turning me before we do anything that they're poz have not been a turn-off. It's just another thing, the person telling me getting points for being open with me. In my case, I consistently practice safer sex (bareback with two undetectables only, condoms consistently otherwise), and I'm educated enough about HIV to know that people under treatment are almost certainly safer. If I did not consistently practice safer sex--I have never taken anonymous loads on Craigslist--or if I did not know about HIV, or if I did neither, I'd have much greater anxiety. I think telling this guy beforehand would have been a good idea avoid freakouts like his. I do not think that you put him at risk, since my understanding is that this scenario really does have a very low risk for the bottom. Depending on HIV disclosure laws in your jurisdiction, there is the possibility of some trouble. I am concerned for this guy on account of his behaviour. What is a guy slated to be married thinking when he's putting up ads on Craigslist asking to be bred by random guys? The obvious risk to his health aside, the risk to his partner is also obvious. I'm sorry.

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