Sharp-edge

As a typical gemini I have an angel and a devil inside me. The angel loves my bf, he makes me be in a romantic mood and I enjoy every moment I am with my bf. I'm planning on stay in the same house with him. I don't wanna hurt him, I try to be faithful. But the devil inside me has a proclivity for lustful encounters. I love my bf's brother. I love him because I never had a brother. Having a brother was my greatest desire. So my bf's brother.. I love him because he loves him. He's also younger and I have some protective feelings. At the same time I feel that he needs some guidance. I do believe he's confused about his sexuality and my bf never cared to help him (a conversation or something). He's cute, he looks innocent, I just want to softly bite him around his neck and make him mine. I can't do that, my bf will be hurt (if we assume he'll fall for me). I'm not in love with him but I love him and i want to explore his body.

I'm thinking these as a top, mostly about anal sex. Not hitiing, punching, slapping or anything just the penetration. I don't wanna be an asshole and make the other guy hurt but I'd love to fuck the hell out of my bottom (but I dont want him to be in pain so I pull back) I do love to throat fuck however, make his face red and make him drool.

So I was wondering..there is a porn culture about the bottom being in pain during sex (monster dicks, BBC, aggressive tops, BDSM etc). Does it reflect the truth? I mean everyone is different but isn't there a norm? I mean if some of you is mostly bottom does he consider ok to feel some pain or will he stop the top?

If you could have one, what would it be? I would pick shapeshifting. Imagine all the endless possibilities in every aspect of your life. For example in sex, you could be a man or a woman and you could have sex with every one you want (almost).

Devil is but a fallen angel he's not a God so he is less powerful than God. I'm not sure how someone is called heretic and not dogmatic and all that stuff but I guess someone can believe a modified version of Christianity but he would have to name it somehow so as for people to know that this is not a Catholic or other belief. Personally I can't say I believe in Christianity but I do like the Olympian Gods as a concept. Interestingly I dont think ancient Greeks had someone to have the role of Devil. There were malevolent gods like Eris, the daughter of Night and Envy but nothing similar to devil.

Well the main dogmas of Christianity do mention and believe in the devil. Everyone can believe what he wants but if you don't believe in Devil why being a Christian? It's like ignoring half the Bible. For me being a Christian but not believing in the existence of Devil is like being a vegan and eating meat. It just doesn't make sense. Unless someone wants to believe in a heretic branch that has a totally different perspective.

Theologically speaking, if one considers himself a Christian (orthodox, catholic, protestant) he has to believe in Devil, Lucifer the fallen angel. If not he would be considered a heretic if a Christian at all. I know that there are deviations between differet dogmas but the existence of the devil is a core concept.

Every Christian believes in the Devil and every Satanist believes in God. Satanists just worship Sarah Palin instead of God. Since one believes in the Devil knows that Gods Will will prevail (because he is ehm God) and Devil is not gonna "take over the place" because ehm he is not. That's how I see it (but I'm not religious). I believe that all that lust, sex etc is just a fabrication of Hollywood and pop cuture and has nothing to do with the real believes of Satanism. Why don't u try the Greek Gods? I believe there are way more interesting things (that were "borrowed" by the Christians. You want a god of love? You have Aphrodite. You want a God for drunk anonymous sex? You have Dionysus the god of wine. You want incest? Bitch please, we have Zeus. We have way darker things than that.

So for guys who are into fist I have a couple of questions 1. Does it make u permanently lose after time? Do u like that possibility? (As a top I would find it hot) 2. do enjoy it more than sex? 3. How often do u take it? 4. Are u hard during this?

I don't cum much and that's the thing that always bugged me. My cum is quite thick, not as liquid as it should. I also precum on very few occasions. I do know however that if I bate for long lots of cum is gonna cum out but still my overall quantity is not as I'd like to. Has any of u experience a similar situation and do u think that it could be a turn off for bottoms? I kinda know some medical situations that reduce quantity but since I'm not planning to have children I don't care about being fertile.

Maybe it's me but I've got a feeling that gay guys tend to explore more the "pleasure" side. Poppers, sounding, anal penetration, fisting, edging and so on. I think these are very rare for str8 people and that maybe the even feel shy about talking about these things with their gf. Of course not all gay guys like all these but at least they know their existence or they have tried some of them. I have watched women fuck guys with strapon and it's almost sad. The woman doesnt feel a thing because it's a dildo and she does know how to fuck (obviously). Plus sometimes the dildo seems too small.

that sounds too hot. If I had someone to guide me here I would have been doing it from my late teen years

Thank u for ur detailed post. I'm concerned about the infection risk but I think with boiling the tools and proper handling I would be pretty safe. Although I've put catheters on few occasions, I think I'm okay with the glove/careful handling part. I wouldn't be trying electro, although I find this so hot. I'm experienced with surgical procedures so things that break, things that can contaminate, careful handling are things that are always in my mind. I'm curious about the sensation. How does it feel. And wish I could find someone in Greece that does that. I haven't found a single person who does that.

I've watched it in porn, never done it and dont know anyone who does it. But I'm so curious about it. Has anyone tried it?

religious culture with greek sounds scary. And ironically, the real greek religion the 12 gods of Olympus are forgotten by some modern greek christians and say that Christianity is the true greek religion. About the language part you will find many interesting things about the greek language (although I love every language and I find them intriguing to study, it's just that greek is a little more interesting). Interestingly, a right winged politician (who is a historian) says that being gay was not accepted in ancient greece and was not at all common, a fact that disagrees with pretty much all available literature. So modern greeks can be blind and ancient greeks were more "advanced". And unfortunately all that gay part has vanished from what we are taught in greek with the most profound example of Plato's symposium. We have a course called "religion" which is taught in each and every class of primary, secondary and high school (12 years) but not a course about philosophy. Oh and one more thing a bit irrelevant thought. Language has memory. When Efialtes betrayed the Greeks, his name became the word for nightmare. That was to ensure that for all eternity his traitore would never be forgotten.

I'm impressed u know these words. U are right. We also have the words "erastis" and "eromenos". Many greeks don't know the diiference. erastis and eromenos mean lover but have an important difference. Erastis is the lover who penetrates and eromenos is the one who is penetrated. That's why in greek a woman has an "erastis" and a guy "eromenos. In ancient greek literature these words are used for tops and btms. The words "eros" and "agapi" can be both translated from greek as "love". But eros means in love (cupid) and agapi is love. Aphrodite was not the goddess of love but of eros (lovers).

I really thank u for ur comments they do give food for thought About gossiping in the hospital, I believe these environments have a particular proclivity for gossiping. I do believe however that gossiping about gay guys (at least in my country) is turning a little boring. Some years ago if someone said that someone else was gay you would hear "oh no I can't believe this he looks like a man" and now most people would say "yeah so what?". So I think it's more intriguing gossiping about hidden affairs or married guys. I think i tend to believe they dont have sex but they love each other. Love is a confusing word. Don't we love our friends? But then again, do we hug them, kiss them or sleep together? But with whoever we sleep do we love him? Everybody says that they love their friends but it's just a word. Maybe love requires a bit of touching and feeling but without desiring sexual intercourse? And a second thought of mine. These guy are good looking and young. And they have sex with women (rumor has it). So maybe having sex between them just waits for a sparkle?

I'm sooo confused with this term. I'm a little stubborn maybe. I believe that u can either be gay or str8, I don't believe in bi, str8 curious etc. However there are cases that trouble me. It's about two people that I know. They're both males and they work in the same hospital as I. I don't really know them just their names and a few things more than that. Oddly, as I was eating my lunch (at work) I overheard two colleagues "arguing" whether these two guys are gay or not (which was also rude because they didnt know me well I could be a friend of them, whatever). But from what I heard the "bromance thing" showed up in my mind and I would just like your opinion about that. These guys are 30 plus, one is neurosurgeon and the other is a family doctor. These guys live together. They had gf from time to time but they live together for almost a decade and no plans of getting married. I know for a fact that he's also cooking for him because I've heard him saying to someone that the other guy doest like that so he is not cooking. Everyone is considering them as "one" they would invite both of them somewhere. It may sound weird but on the one hand they don't care if people talks (so someone could say that they're ot of thecloset) but on the other hand I don't believe they're gay. I feel a bit confused. It's none of my business, I'm mostly curious whether such a relationship can be a bromance and if it happens between str8 men.

I would like the idea of being a shape shifter. Imagine the endless possibilities of a gay man being able to transfigure into a woman and have all that straight guys available. Maybe the would get a decent deep suck and they would fuck asshole and pussy fairly easily. Maybe they would be tempted to have their asshole played as well.

γεια σου πατριωτη 🙂 well we are financially independent and with no strings attached to many people (few family members/friends only) so we could leave greece fairly easily. Maybe chosing the country could be the hardest part, Dublin has the advantage that my guy is from there so that will make everything easier I suppose. PS I've spent at least a decade hiding..

About Dublin I don't know. I'm not currently a resident so I suppose people are more updated than me. I've visited several times though, I had the impression that it's not that LGBT friendly (compared to other EU countries). @bluedragonnope that's not him, but we hang out with that guy too. @newbieLNDI had the same impression for Ireland as u. If he's happy, I'm happy (and hopefully this works vice versa). So I could give it a try. I did a tiny coming out to a friend. She was very cool with that (but actually I kinda knew she would be that's why I told her + I'm pretty sure she already knew because i tend to talk about my bf).

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you are right about the translation difficulties 1. Maybe "just" was a wrong word, I meant "simply". He was working for an Irish company that wanted someone in Greece so they just/simply sent him there quite easily. I met him in Greece not in Ireland. 2. I'm finishing medical school so things will get better. I can even start a specialty in Dublin if we move. 3. Well about Ireland..They're quite religious. We are orthodox they are catholics but still both countries are religious. About abortion things are complicated there too. I'm not saying it's bad, I'm saying it won't make much of a difference. 5. You are right about that. I don't feel threatened. But it would be weird. I think that my friends can't understand the concept of being gay. For them a gay guy, is someone who is girly and deep inside wants to be a woman. Whether they believe that he has AIDS or he practices paid sex (does that sound like proper english?) is a bonus. Depends on how homophobic the other person is he can add several stereotypes. A friend of mine, the one that I consider the closest to me of all (and yes even him does not know) always asks me why I don't have a gf. He can't think I'm gay. If I was (from his point of view) I would be walking in a weird way, my voice would be weird, I would be dressed in pink or something or whatever. I look "too normal" and being normal excludes u from being gay. I believe these are his thoughts. He would be like "why are u a couple and u dont find two wives?"

I have a bf whom I'm in love with him. We are together for 8 years. Unfortunately we have lived separately for most of the time. Not in a different city, in different houses. We live in Greece but he's Irish. Things for him are kinda harsh. He works here because he works in a company that just sent him there and he liked the idea of a sunny country like mine. He doesn't speek Greek that great but he's trying. We mostly communicate in english. The problem is we are closeted. He is less closeted than me, some of his friends know. At times I feel I make him sad because of this. We should somehow live our common life and we have spent several years. That's not as much as it sounds provided that I am in medical school and time just flies with study. He was so patient and still is. But I don't know what to do. I went to a friend's wedding the day before yesterday. Everybody brough his gf (nobody way but me). I was the single guy as always. So sad. I have him and I'm "hiding" him. I'm fed up. He asked me if I wanna us to go to Dublin and live there. I don't believe that gay guy are better there. Butmaybe we should do that in Greece? And tell some people because I have to explain them and if they dont like they can get out of my life dunno. What do u think?

I'm with my bf for almost a decade. We love each other, we're having great sex and hugging him feels so nice. The problem is we are both closeted. I know that everything is supposed to be cool in 2022 and some would say c'me on it's 2022 nobody cares if u're gay. But for my place (Athens, Greece) I don't feel that's true. I mean definitely there are people who are uncloseted (is this the term?) and bullying someone for being gay is way less tolerated that it was before but still.. My friends don't know about me. By hiding this I distanced myself from them. But actually, I remained silent because I felt they wouldn't approve. Thus someone would say that you don't need someone who doesn't like u for who you are. Only two people know about me and this is such a relief. The past weekened I went to my "best friend's" wedding (how can you bestie not know?). I felt sad because everybody had his gf (for reasons that I failed to comprehend he only invited his male friends and they brought their gf). I felt kinda sad and weak. Sad because I was like hey I have a bf too I'm not the eternally single guy you took me for. And weak because I was alone. Most guys there would either not talk to me or making fun of me. the worst part we stayed in a hotel bcz the wedding was outside of Athens. To my surprise the room he had booked for me was shared with another guy (he is a friend of his and I know him, we're not friends but we were together in medical school). That friend, during the night tried to provoke me. It was a kind of test to check whether I was gay or not. I figured because of a messaged. My "best friend" told me that I would stay with me and that I would have fun. That was odd but I didn't really thought much about it. I felt humiliated. I told him that I was gay and he said he thought so and he insulted me. We fought. In his eyes, a gay can't fight he's supposed to get beated. But I box for ages. Such arrogant was he that he thought that a gay boxer can't box a straight random dude. Anyway I just felt very very bad about this. I didn't deserve that. Nobody does