I've been a "no loads refused" bottom with absolutely NO standards for years now. I go to adult bookstores almost every single day. Fat guys, ugly guys, old guys. (The fat old black janitors who mop the dirty bookstore? I blow them, too.)
I, too, love being in a cage at an orgy - spreading my cheeks and pressing my crack up to the bars for anybody who walks by. It's fun when a guy is fucking another guy but chooses to pull out, walk over and "finish" in me - in my asshole or in my mouth. I've looked up and seen guys from work standing there watching me, shocked to see "that shy little guy from Marketing" getting fucked in front of everybody... without even turning around to see who's fucking him. I hear a lot of "Wow" and "Damn."
Yeah, the rounds of gonorrhea are coming like machine gun fire now.