NWUSHorny

I have always known that there are guys that apparently do not have the need to have as much sex as I do, but am kind of curious how many guys actually go through cycles in whether they feel they have the need to have sex? For me personally I am always horny, and while life circumstances may prevent me from actually acting on it at times, I am still thinking about it multiple times a day. This has been true for me since I started having sex as a teenager and is no less true for me at 52. I went through a serious health crisis a few years ago where I was not able to act on my needs/desires for roughly a year, but even during that time I was still continuously thinking about it my dick was still getting hard and was still jacking off frequently except when I did not have the privacy to do it. This is the 1st time in my adult life that I went for any extended period without having either a regular partner (only did that once for a brief period in my 20s) or seeking casual encounters on a regular basis. I was just barely able to walk without a cane the 1st time I went back to the bathhouse after my illness. Unfortunately just as I was regaining my full physical mobility (I had been back to doing what I could for a year at that point and just a couple of weeks after my 1st sexcation post illness sexcation) the pandemic struck, and once again I went for several 2-3 month periods where I either didn't want to take the risk or could not find anyone locally willing to take the risk with me. I started actively seeking again just as soon as I was vaccinated. Luckily for me one of the local bathhouses had reopened several weeks before that and there was some pent up need for sex so it was, at least by local standards, readily available at that point. I'm definitely ready for my 1st pandemic sexcation and hope circumstances allow it soon.

I am 100% versatile, which in practice has made me more of a versatile top. If I'm attracted to guy I will fuck with them without hesitation so someone's hole will get fucked if we hookup. Unfortunate it seems like it is always a negotiation to get a versatile guy from anywhere on the spectrum from versatile top to versatile bottom to return the favor, and total tops are extremely rare. It probably doesn't help that I get stereotyped as a top, because I am 6'2" and have an above average endowment.

I've always had my BBRT name listed here (but never my phone number) it has not resulted in any hookups. 100% of the times where I have hooked up with someone I recognize from here it has been from cruising in parks, bathhouses or Cumunion parties. I did briefly try using Twitter during the pandemic but all of the local contacts I made went on and on about cuddling or just hanging out, neither of which are things I'm interested in pursuing with a stranger.

It is definitely the best way to fuck. As I get older I like to slip it in as soon as the previous breeder pulls out, no sense wasting that fully opened and lubed hole.

I definitely prefer random strangers, I love the exhilaration of finding or being "new meat". I definitely don't mind hooking up with regular fuckbuds, but it definitely lacks some of the thrill. I have always loved to hookup with guys when traveling to new locations.

I don't really go in cycles, I'm just always horny. The only thing that slows me down is lack of partners, around here guys seem to go into no fuck mode in the summer, they continue to go places and cruise each other but don't actually have sex. So I will get so frustrated that I stop looking until fall. Ironically that is when I personally at my horniest.

Bottoms who tap out after just a few strokes. I just barely started fucking a hot guy tonight before he needed a break.

I prefer being able to see who I'm fucking or being fucked by and who is fucking around us. I do however love a good dog pile type orgy even if it is in the dark.

I'm a satisfied bathhouse slut tonight, bred 2 holes and was able to get my hole bred by 3 guys tonight. I was a little worried since I had no trouble finding a parking space tonight, but the small crowd that was there was actually there to fuck, which is never true if there is a big crowd in Portland. I accomplished more fucking tonight than I had in the entire month of April prior to tonight, and was only there for 3 hours not the 6-7 hours I have been spending most weekend nights this year. I was tired and it was rapidly thinning out so I decided to quit while I was ahead and go home. Now if I could just get a few of to figure out how the group thing works I might not have to move, all 12 guys I fucked with were 1 on 1 encounters unfortunately. Plus typically after a good night like this it is completely dead for several weeks afterward, I guess I'm the only one that would want to have this much fun or even more several times a week.

Yes, and insisted on the most uncomfortable positions (for me at least) he could possibly imagine.

I run into a lot of guys that know a thousand and one ways to have sex without actually fucking. Maybe I'm giving him too much credit, the only slightly more extreme version is "we can have sex if you promise not to touch my icky dick and I promise not to touch yours." You are lucky didn't keep pursuing you.

Not really, I've always been an exhibitionist so it does not bother me. I'd really rather have guys join in and keep the scene going instead of just watch and walking away as soon the current top pulls out. I love group scenes and have no issues with being the cumdump or one of the tops that breeds the one of the cumdumps. I definitely miss living in a city where things like that happen in bathhouses.

@ShyPozChaser I literally just added that because I was sick of being contacted by bugchasers.

@viking8x6 and @TheSRQDude it is not so much about protecting them from themselves as much as it is about avoiding providing a negative "leadership by example". There is some irony in I don't mind them following my example on lack of inhibitions and promiscuity, but draw a red line at providing a leadership example for spreading and seeking what without treatment is usually a deadly disease. I do have regrets about anyone I may have infected, I was breeding guys in the local bathhouse less than a week before I was diagnosed with a viral load over a million. I had been traveling all over North America and fucking guys in the months leading up to it, so I have little doubt I am guilty of infecting a few guys eve if I did give them the choice of whether or not they wanted me to cum in them.

@LetsPOZBreed I have not seen you volunteering to gift or stealth guys, so I don't really have any issues. Yes you can make it part of your role playing you aren't really doing it. I will even concede that I have jacked off to porn with that kind of dialogue if it was a hot fuck, but it is really not my thing. I too have had guys contact me with a request to go off meds and convert them, you were probably nicer in your responses than I am.

I'm not judging you for anything you stated here, that would be extremely hypocritical. I regret not being more careful, but am in no position to judge others for having a lot of anonymous casual sex. Who I have issues with are bugchasers looking for "gifters", and guys bragging about converting other guys. I don't want to encourage them, and don't want to be seen as a role model for those that are intentionally spreading a disease.

Actually I don't mind the guys that do live in those locations posting, I'm aware they exist and am spending too much time here because I'm stuck here in "no fuck" land for the time being. I knew the risks as well, and did what I did and still do anyway. My biggest regret is that I almost certainly infected other guys. I have not personally had ill health effects as a result of the HIV (the Hematologists do not believe the cancer was related), other than I'm sure it complicated my treatment.

I wish I knew. It seems a little too real for my taste. I know BZ has the Backroom section where they discuss at least 2 kinds of destructive behavior I have no interest in participating in or encouraging.

I started this post due what I considered some overt bugchasing on my thread asking about BZ guys hooking up with other BZ guys. However while I was writing it I got hit up by a bugchaser on BBRT, so it is a little longer than what I started out with. I actually added to my profiles both here and at BBRT that I am not a "gifter" or willing to indulge bugchasing fantasies. I don't want to serve as a "role model" for self destructive behavior any more than I want to actually infect them. 4 years ago I found out I had stage 4 cancer at the same time I found out I was positive. I don't take my health or anyone else's health for granted.

49 for 1st knowingly taking an anal load 20 for 1st anal load given 19 for both giving and taking oral loads

Too much irrelevant dialogue Too much foreplay which includes extended periods of cock sucking Guys that look like they are in pain Guys who look like they are bored while fucking or getting fucked Pulling out to cum Not eating any stray spilled cum

If this is the wrong forum the moderators are welcome to move it to the appropriate place. I cannot imagine I am the only one that feels this way. How do others handle this situation? I have my status listed on this site and any hookup sites I'm on as a courtesy to those trying to make decisions about who they hook up with. I frequently get contacted by bugchasers, as well as have had bugchasers post to discussions I have started with some fairly overt bugchasing replies. One thing I could do is add to my profiles that I am not interested in gifting or even indulging bugchasing fantasies. Here is my situation in bullet points for anyone who is interested: Yes I'm HIV positive undetectable I never intentionally bug chased I did not intentionally allow guys to cum in my ass until after I found out I was positive In retrospect wish I had gotten tested and if it wasn't too late went on PREP as soon as it came out I'm not in the least interested in gifting I have serious regrets about anyone I may have converted before I found out I was positive I don't volunteer my status if I'm fucking guys who are obviously taking any and all dicks but will answer if asked I will wear a condom or get fucked with a condom if asked I do not cum in anyone the 1st time without their consent I won't get upset if someone turns me down because of my status Yes I'm bi, and I will fuck you if you are woman or play with you and your girlfriend/wife, but I will not bareback a woman How I became positive I like sex and fucking a lot I like cruising in parks, sex clubs, bathhouses, adult theaters, sex parties or just about anywhere people have uninhibited sex I stuck my raw dick into literally thousands of holes over a period of 20+ years many of those holes were full of other guys cum some of which I'm sure was positive I did occasionally allow guys to fuck me raw and ask them to pull out and feed me their cum if they wanted to cum, which isn't completely effective by any means I rarely let a guy fuck me for more than a few strokes Yes I'm sure I was stealthed a handful of times If I was in a group situation I'm sure some of the guys I let fuck me had been in cum filled asses, and sucking them 1st was not effective way to prevent transfer Yes I knew all of this while I was out there being a total slut No I don't recommend you do what I did, if you are going to be as big of a slut as I was/am go on PREP and stay on it

Excellent post that I am just discovering, unfortunately I am not much of a "fantasist" or writer. I will admit to enjoying reading what some of the fantasists have written at times, and because I enjoy it have made a few aborted attempts to write some myself. Unfortunately I quickly run out of ideas on what to write and unless I am reliving an actual exceptional sexual experience I have had feel like I am just rehashing/plagiarising someone else's work. While I very much enjoy the sex I do have, and I will concede that it is considerable when I'm not complaining about how seldom I get laid, most of it isn't that exceptional at least to me.

I would be very surprised if you have only been fucked by one fellow BZ member. Who knows, I may even get to fuck you full of cum one day. I'm certainly not opposed to the idea. I just noticed your blog, I will have to read more of your entries as time allows.

I think I could find at least 10 on this thread alone.