NWUSHorny
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I might have agreed with you before living here. They are lonely and scouting for guys to meet up with and not have sex later. I've tried meeting back up with these guys, in the belief that they will eventually come around to the idea that they will eventually come around to the idea of having sex, but they never do. They are lonely and crave attention from another human being, but they aren't going to give in and have sex.
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Your definition fits with the 3rd definition: power cuddling is everything cuddling is with the addition of hooking up at the same time. I strongly suspect what they are looking for based on the interests listed and described in their profile is the 2nd: intense all night cuddle and I would also guess they are not interested in the vigorous fucking.
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I prefer a willing hole that knows how and enjoys being fucked naturally. So "spit and shove", "cum loaded" and "overflowing with spunk" all work for me. I have no desire to fuck a completely dry hole or someone who has packed a large quantity of artificial lube up his hole.
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It's neither a requirement or a deal breaker for me if we are having sex. While I have absolutely no interest in hooking up and just having a make out session, if I'm fucking you or getting fucked by you, I'm more than happy to exchange a little tongue. I will say, that if we felch you and/or suck the cock clean after we have bred, I am a little disappointed if the guy doesn't want me to share the taste of our fuck with each other.
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Actually there are guys looking for those activities as both tops and bottoms, that specially eschew all forms of penile penetration. They definitely fit the definition being pushed by the "sides". It is probably nicer than my calling them functionally lesbian, but not as descriptively accurate. I really need to move somewhere that isn't at the forefront of these new "trends" of ways to be gay without actually having sex. While I am bi and fully versatile when it comes to gay sex, I'm also completely retrosexual in my desires to have sex in a penile centric manner that includes penetration.
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The bathhouse doesn't post any specific restrictions, however some of the patrons try to limit the activities to platonic massage. You are pretty close, they bring in portable massage tables and rub each other. I have never smelled Ben Gay or Vicks, but some of the fancy massage oils they use are pretty close. It fits very nicely with the relatively recent term of "gay side".
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Actually there are different events for dildos, plugs and fisting, as well as guys that place ads and go to the sex clubs for those specific types of activities. Prior to moving here, I had never encountered a fisting bottom that wouldn't jump at the chance of getting fucked by a cock, but there is a majority that are adamant that you not use your cock in them. "Sides" is just a relatively new term for it, they have long made up a significant percentage of the gay population here. For lack of a better term, I have called them functionally lesbian kin the past. They are very creative at finding ways to have sex in ways that avoid all penile contact.
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Orgies, sex clubs, sex resorts, hookup apps. I was in LA for 3 days and Palm Springs for 2. I'm counting penetrations not loads. I topped 100 or more guys for at least a few strokes, only 50 or so fucked me for at least a few strokes. -
@ErosWired I'm told that any penetration is severely frowned upon at these parties, and possibly grounds for being banned from future parties. Obviously I have not been to one. I envision them as being something like "Radical Rub Down Tuesday" at the local bathhouse, where I have been informed by multiple patrons in attendance on those nights that people with my sexual proclivities are not welcome. I was not asked by the bathhouse staff to leave, but has been a very sexually frustrating night on, and yes I have messed up and forgotten it was Tuesday in the fog of hornyness, at least a handful of times.
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I'm in my 50's, but am in somewhat the same mindset with regards to monkeypox. I was starting to enjoy a lot of post COVID sex when this hit, in fact I finally took a long awaited post COVID sexcation a month and a half ago. I fucked and got my brains fucked out for 5 straight days, by my best estimate I was fucked by or fucked, briefly in most cases, more than 150 different guys. I did hookup the weekend after I returned home, but today will mark 5 weeks since the last time I hooked up. At this point I'm planning on resuming my activities when I get the vaccine.
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I'm very much the same way. I have learned to extend it to regular fuckbuds since living here, where it is considered such an important part of sex. Even in a relationship with someone I have shared a bed with, I'm ready for us to go back to our own sides of the bed after a few minutes. I have no desire to meet up with a stranger or attend a cuddling party, I regularly see postings for those too (in fact I noticed 2 local guys posting on Twitter that they caught monkeypox at a large cuddle party in July). Even if they are a petite 100 pounder, I can't sleep with someone right up against me. Nor do I enjoy actual physical contact with someone while we are talking or hanging out watching a movie or listening to music, which seems to be what quite a few guys are posting hookup notices to do. I really think most of these guys are just lonely.
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My reaction to cuddling is very similar to @ErosWired so I am pretty likely to avoid it. The fact that it seems like my Sniffies profile is the only one in my local area that does not list "cuddling" as one of the activities I am into, and most do not list "fucking" as one of the activities that they are into, conversations seem to end after the what are you looking for question is answered and I have never had a local hookup from Sniffies. My inclination based on local preferences, is that they are probably looking for someone to snuggle with for hours. Since I've been seeing this term popup fairly frequently across multiple hookup apps over the last few months I was hoping to confirm what it really meant, without having to ask one of them. Something tells me it will come up in the bathhouse once I get a monkeypox vaccine, when it does I will ask and report back (there have always been couples that occupy prime fucking spots in public play spaces that just snuggle up with each other for hours, so I suspect they have just given their preferred activity a name).
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I just perused Sniffies and noticed several guys hosting for a "power cuddle" or "power cuddling" session. What does that even mean in the context of a gay hookup posting? I checked Urban Dictionary and found 3 definitions: 1) reducing post sex cuddle demands 2) intense all night cuddling 3) power cuddling is everything cuddling is with the addition of hooking up at the same time None of the profiles list a sexual position, or fucking as an activity they are seeking which would seem to preclude the 1st and 3rd definitions. It is mid morning here, but I guess you could want to find a random stranger to snuggle up with for hours. What are they actually looking for?
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I'm fully versatile, but I love fucking outdoors with an audience and have no issue with inviting others to join in. Personally the only limitation I have is that it needs to be fairly deep into a cruising area where the only people who will come across you fucking are those that would enjoy seeing it and might be willing to join in. I love group scenes even more than one on one. I won't do it in place where families or law enforcement might stumble across us. I enjoy being an exhibitionist, but do not fetishize getting caught in a bad way which seems to be a thing for some men.
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All I can say, is that guys who limit there hookups based on race are missing some amazing fucks. The same is true of guys who pigeonhole certain races as either bottoms or tops, you are missing some great holes and great dicks.
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I'm not sure where you are in California, but I hooked up at least once a day with Sniffles, with very minimal back and forth, when I was in Los Angeles and Palm Springs in early July. I'm yet to even get a another response after suggesting we actually hookup and stick dicks in each other from anyone in Portland, where I live. Seattle has been the same as Portland on several trips there. Looks like I need to try it next time I'm in Reno.
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The scientific angle is interesting, and I will admit I've never measured my own. For me frequency of ejaculation seems to be the biggest factor in how much volume I produce, without measuring I can pretty safely say at twice a day I shoot at least a couple of teaspoons at a time and at 53 have not yet seen a noticable reduction. If I don't cum 2 or more days in a row and cum from jacking off I just about need a mop and bucket to clean up the mess. If I'm going to have condomed sex with a woman and haven't cum for more than 2 days I either jack off a couple hours before hand or have to pull out to cum because if I don't it will be seeping out around the base of the condom. My habit of jacking off every morning and at least once in the evening is probably the only thing that kept me from accidentally getting a girl pregnant when I was in my 20s. On the bright side you probably won't have to worry about a guy jumping up to us the bathroom immediately after you have bred them with your 1st load in several days, because they thought they were having an accident.
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Some of it, not all of it is real. Enough of it is real to gain some camaraderie with guys who are as promiscuous and uninhibited as I am. It has kind of kept me going over the last 2 and a half years while being stuck in no fuck land due to the pandemic.
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I've never actually stayed at the resorts themselves, but have done day passes at both CCBC and All Worlds Resorts, and if I were only going to to one recommend CCBC. The hookup apps have also been really good to me in Palm Springs, but locals usually want to host.
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Let him set the pace, and suggest he slow down if you sense he is becoming uncomfortable. Either he is on his way to becoming a sex pig or he isn't, he may not even know himself. I have found that after fucking a relative newbie 2 or 3 times you can tell if they aren't really getting into if they start trying to introduce limitations into your session, they probably aren't going to become a fun fuckbuddy in the near future. I've also had guys like you describe that really do enjoy and get good at the sex, admit what they are really looking for is a monogamous relationship.
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I think we are talking about different things, I can usually tell when a guy is hung, at least in a cruising context even when they aren't arrogant about it. The guys who are arrogant about their dick size are really no different than guys who are arrogant for any other reason, yes they are usually lousy fucks because they get off more from the adulation they receive for whatever they think makes them so great rather than the physical act of fucking itself. For what it is worth, if you have a big dick on display at a sex club or any other nude cruising venue, you will attract attention even if they are afraid to let you fuck them or they try it and you can tell they really aren't capable of enjoying it. So it doesn't always work in the hung guys favor.
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Has anyone heard anything more about the supply vaccine supply pipeline? I know the US was hoping to acquire 800,000 doses of the Jynneos by the end of July, but I haven't seen anything about when or how many more doses that we would be able to get in the coming months. In the 2 does regimine, that is only enough to fully vaccinate 400,000 individuals and we probably need more than that just to vaccinate at risk healthcare providers. It doesn't look like, at this point, that they are going to start administering the riskier ACAM2000 vaccine, I can't believe that if it is really that risky it would have been approved. I would still at least be willing to discuss with my doctor what the risks were and potentially take it, but that doesn't seem to be an option. At this point I've refrained from hooking up for almost a month, but have several trips coming up in the next few weeks that I would love to have some fun on, and things usually pick up from the normal summer no fuck doldrums locally in September.
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Usually in a cruising situation.
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What were the findings? I wish I had the ability to look at someone and tell, so I'd love to know what those facial features are.
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I'll take 2 of each, and hope they are attached to versatile guys who love to flip.
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