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NWUSHorny

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  1. I'm waiting for "why aren't Democrats ashamed of Adlai Stevenson", he lost twice.
  2. The only thing I can guess from this post is voting for Michael Dukakis must be something Dixiecrats turned MAGA Republicans are ashamed of. I voted against Dukakis almost 35 years ago, but see no reason for people who voted for him to be ashamed of their vote. He ran a legitimate campaign, lost, conceded his loss in a dignified manner and retired as Massachusetts governor 2 years later.
  3. Some of them won't take any hint, period. At least where I live guys will come into the darkroom give you a back hug, pull you up into a kiss and start playing with your tits, maybe start dry humping you, but if try to guide their cock into your hole will tell you sorry they don't fuck. More than a few of them will get pissed off and make a scene, as soon as you try to touch their cock.
  4. The same thing isn't going to work all of the time in every place. As someone who travels a lot I have learned that I have to get a feel for the place and go with the flow.
  5. Congratulations on your 1st visit to a sex club, and I'm glad you actually had sex while you were there!
  6. I haven't changed much if any in the last 25 years. I definitely enjoy random hookups, as well as ongoing fuckbud types of situations (which seem to be exceptionally difficult for me to find where I've lived for the last 16 years but have continued maintain them in places I visit frequently). Even though I love random hookups, I've never been a huge fan of glory holes, darkrooms or blindfolded partners, I'll settle for that if that is all that is available but it isn't my preference. Unlike several of you, the area I live enjoyed a period of pent up demand for hookups after the COVID vaccines became available. While it seems to be well on it's way to returning to normal for this area, there is still more random hookup sex available than most of the time. I've also had some really good luck traveling, not necessarily at the same venues as before the pandemic, but I still seem to have fairy good instincts in sniffing out decent spots in most cities.
  7. Possible, or another really weird trend here is going to a sex venue more often than they allow themselves to cum. I had a few guys tell me about that particular "fetish" more than 10 years ago at an adult theater in Portland. One guy (a versatile guy that was actually a good fuck) was at the theater everytime I would go, only allowed himself to have sex and cum once a week. Once I learned that tidbit about him, I could ask him when he last had sex and ignore him if it was within the last week.
  8. This is very true, I frequently get myself into this at PNW bathhouse after as little as a half hour of watching the no mating dance and other anti-sexual behavior, I find I can't get it up, until either I leave or see someone else actually fucking (which you can easily spend 6-8 hours without evidence of anyone fucking).
  9. I feel your frustration. The amount of actual fucking on really good weekend night in a Portland or Seattle bathhouse is the equivalent of a really slow week night in other cities I'm familiar with. Counter intuitively the bigger the crowd the less sex of any kind. They seem to feed on each other's inhibitions.
  10. There are 2 options here, both of them have the same issue. Last Saturday, was actually a really active night by local standards, I didn't get the amount of sex I get in a lot of other places, but did not leave frustrated for a change. When I travel frequently, I usually don't even bother looking for hookups locally, it is simply not worth the frustration.
  11. I felt sorry for the guy. There have been many nights I have left extremely frustrated, including weekend nights, due to the complete lack of fucking which completely kills my hard on. With that said last Saturday was not one of those nights, so he really only had his own inhibitions to blame.
  12. I have to agree with most of this. The only thing I would disagree with, is that there are Saturday nights when even bottoms that want to fuck are unavailable in Portland bathhouses, last Saturday was not one of those really bad nights.
  13. My point exactly, that is how sex establishments are supposed to work!
  14. I didn't get gang banged since I fucked as well as getting fucked, but I had really good luck being in Palm Springs during a Western Exposure event weekend last summer. I haven't tried going to bear specific events anywhere else. It was definitely the most loads I've ever taken in a single weekend.
  15. That pretty much sums up why I've had a lot more gay sex than straight sex in my lifetime, I'm definitely not wired for monogamy. Here is my contribution: In straight culture it is the fucker that is insatiable and always wanting sex and is controlled by the fuckee. In gay culture it is the fuckee that is insatiable and always wanting sex and is controlled by the fucker.
  16. I pop random boners and seem to have that problem most of the time, so I really can't tell if the I made the wet spot on the to the bathhouse or after I left.
  17. That is possible. Personally, that would be an extremely frustrating situation if there was no one to hookup with like happens way too frequently here.
  18. He had turned me down less than 10 minutes earlier. Guys like that are the norm here, I've been watching some of them not have sex for the entire 16 years I've lived here, but I've never caught any of them leaving with a painful looking hard on.
  19. Unfortunately fuckfests like you are describing are rare to the point of being non-existent here. I'm not saying he didn't fuck or get fucked at all, but he didn't fuck his brains out or get his brains fucked out at the bathhouse last night. By the time he and I left the bathhouse the fucking activity level had been at stuck at zero for an hour or more. He could have decided to leave and try his luck at the other bathhouse in town, but if he was actually looking to breed or get bred he was most likely to be SOL there too. I have a lot of experience trying that and know there are cities where it works, but this is not one of them.
  20. Maybe, I don't know for sure, but I have serious doubts that he ever used it. I've never taken one, but I was under the impression things calm down after you cumor at least after cumming a few times. He was in the club for more than 4 hours, so he should have had multiple opportunities to empty his balls.
  21. Early this morning when I went to leave the bathhouse, there was a younger guy getting dressed to leave that had a dick so hard that it looked painful. I know this is Portland, so it was not by any means an orgy atmosphere, but there was a wide variety of guys (including younger guys who would be considered hot by any standard) and there was some fucking (albeit mostly tentative rather than all out balls to the wall uninhibited fucking I prefer) and sucking, plus as usual a lot of foreplay, that didn't seem to be advancing to anything that would actually meet the definition of sex. As well as fetish play, it was pup night so lots of guys in dog masks with some of them being walked on a leash, as well as the usual couple of guys with caged cocks walking by themselves and at least one guy carrying a dildo around with him, which very which usually doesn't even lead to guys touching each other, let alone sex, although last night was an exception in that there were a few of the masked pups actually engaged in fucking. This particular guy had been making the loop though the club for most of the time I was there with numerous men (including me) trying to get him to do something, yet he apparently found it necessary to leave without meeting his physical sexual needs. I just don't get it.
  22. I remember seeing a lot of MAGA signs and flags in FL with my parents last winter. I don't remember where they were most concentrated since we drove both coasts, but they were noticably present most places.
  23. I wish more guys would discover this. Especially if the guy topping is uncut, you should at least try it without before adding artificial lube. With that said I have fucked guys that stay to dry to comfortably fuck without, but kow at this point my own hole self-lubes enough for any dick to use it with just spit to get started.
  24. I can't disagree with any of that. I have had a few fuckbuds that identified as total top, but all of them let me top them at least occasionally, but as you said we aren't trying to attract the same tops. While it is not a scientific poll, I would still enjoy seeing some more responses to ErosWired's poll. I would actually love to see some good polls on the percentages of tops, bottoms and versatile for men who have sex with men, I kind of hope total bottoms at over 50% are over represented here on BZ, but kind of suspect they aren't. I have seen some fairly solid polls in academic research, that indicate only 30-35% of men who have sex with men engage in anal sex, which I suspect is fairly accurate.
  25. Yet, your earlier posts on this thread have validated the point I've been trying to make: Even this one goes to the gist of what I'm trying to say:
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