As someone who always would host, and has never lost my grip on reality or feeling obligated to be honest with my guests about the environment I've invited them into, when partying, dealing with those who get lost in paranoia and exponentially inflated self importance can be so destructive to thoughts of fucking.
Someone accused me of recording ( even though I'd told them that I'd never consider it without them agreeing beforehand because I'm a normal person and not a cunt that likes to fuck with people) I finally showed them the four cameras in the room.... In closed drawers either not connected to anything or powered. And they still leveled accusations and finally I said I don't deserve this, especially in my own home, and if they can't trust me then for their own sake they should leave immediately.
The other thing that would piss me off so much were guys peeking through my curtains. My bedroom window was like 4x12' which had 3 sets of top of the line wood blinds and black out curtains covering everything- nothing got in or out. My buddy kept going to the window to see what obviously wasn't in the backyard.... And would leave the curtains pulled back and blinds open FFS!
As the homeowner I knew that there were no angles for neighbors to see anything but the ceiling, so I only closed them because most people don't like doing drugs, watching porn at volume with open windows, or taking dick like a champ in front of plate glass. I learned to make it fucking clear that they are my guest and as such anything that might happen on my property is my concern only and should anything happen that could impact them they are under my protection. So if they peek out one more time it's clear they don't trust me and thus for their own safety they should immediately leave.
They'd always apologize after saying that never happens, until the next time and the next time. I'm an addict for sure but I'd be damned if I'd spend all that money to only feel terrified, threatened, or conspired against every time.
Sorry for the rant.
Oh, and all the pricks that think I don't actually want the items I had in my possession when they arrived! Someone stole an old dryer lint vacuum hose attachment! Why the fuck why!