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KindaBasic

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  1. The bottom has all the power, even the submissive ones.
  2. Always respect the fact that what can be given can be taken away. If mid-fuck someone tells me not to cum in him, I don’t. It might mean I stop fucking him, but I will respect him. I have no time or respect for small dick energy guys who give no regard to consent.
  3. Hear you
  4. KindaBasic

    Incest

    Too often when someone waxes poetic about the joys and wonders of incest, especially at a very young age, I find that it seems more like fantasy than fact. I can only speak from my own experience though. My first experiences came when I was very young with relatives that were preteens, not adults. It felt pleasurable, but it was also extremely confusing since I was too young to process it. To add to all that, I was told it was secret and I would get in trouble if the adults found out. So the pleasure got mixed with fear and guilt.
  5. Not saying it is off the table, but not my thing. Less the gross factor than it does nothing for me. Even if I am in a sub phase with a dom, it seems pointless.
  6. The use of condoms between two men over the past 3-4 decades has been more the aberration. Not knocking it or anyone who uses them, truly, good for them. But “safe sex” have only been “the norm” 35-40 years.
  7. I think most Gen Z are fairly fluid these days.
  8. Like every group, it depends on the individual. I do not know that I have ever met any that are as pretty as the photo you posted.
  9. Anymore, I think that very few people on those sites ever actually go through with hooking up, no matter the situation. It used to be more fun, but those days seem to be over. I suspect a lot of the guys there never truly plan to go through with it, but live vicariously on the site.
  10. I try not to judge other people and what they do. Personally, when I am in a relationship I am extremely monogamous, and prefer my partner is as well. But that is just me. Other people’s infidelity is between them and their partner.
  11. Maybe they were expecting confetti. You know, like those little confetti poppers for parties.
  12. I don’t know what the big deal is. Back when I was straight I kissed a lot of other straight guys. 😜
  13. Even at 6’ Kia is not exactly accommodating. lol Some of those cabs are luxury apartments. Unfortunately, the only sleeper I have been in was not one of those. Older rig, definitely only meant to grab a few hours of sleep or a little fun. But the trucker was hot and hung, and certainly delivered his load.
  14. 🤣
  15. Unless you’ve told me not to, if I’m topping, I figured you’ve given me the thumbs up.
  16. Out on Long Island
  17. Damn Millennials! I blame helicopter parents.
  18. More of a declaration.
  19. Bred a 30-something last night at a local club who got a little bent out of shape because I didn’t warn him before I shot my load up his ass. (As if the increased erratic breathing and accelerated, harder thrusts were not a clue.) I told him terms and conditions should have been expressed before I shoved my cock up his ass or at least some time prior to chanting over and over, “Fuck me, Daddy! Fuck me harder!” If I ever say, “I’m cumming”, it means that I am quite literally means I am cumming right at that moment. It would be easy to blame it on youth, but I’ve had that happened with older guys as well. I’m a respectful person, but if you’re one of those guys who want to get fucked raw, but not bred, say something at the start. If you don’t tell me - or any top - what you want, I’m just going to assume you want my load up inside of you.
  20. If I’m topping, usually don’t care one way or another at a bath or arcade if I have an audience. About the only time really got into it as a bottom was when I met a former dom at a bathhouse and he decided to leave the door wide open. Knowing it pleased him to show me off was gratifying.
  21. No, I think I pretty much nailed it. But then, maybe that is only three and a half decades of recovery and witnessing legions of addicts set themselves up for relapse.
  22. Sounds like you are already setting up a scenario in which it is his fault when you opt for relapse. Whether you dump him or use with him, the decision is yours alone.
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