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Sunovabesh

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  1. Jason Momoa, and I would honestly LOVE to top Rocco Steele. .... I always thought he'd looked better as a bottom, to be honest.
  2. Do I have to smack a bitch? How would a guy not hunt you down like the sexy prey you are? Shit. Why hold out for "better" when we got an S-teir slut? And 5'6? I would literally pick you up like some lost luggage and take you out to a good ol' fashioned dungeon, you hairy beautiful creature.
  3. We should allow men as such to be valued for being bottoms. And if your insecurities still get at you, I'll fuck them out of you... Maybe a load, too. Hey, just because you're a lumberjack, doesn't mean you will never feel like a "helpless twink." Just need the right man to show you how 😉
  4. First off, you're adorable, and deserve back rubs and chin scratches (no, I'm not indicating you're a dog, but love to rub your belly (in more ways than one)). So, remember that you are valued and are beautiful And they dumb as shit for not liking your stature. Yes, we glorify/objectify the notion of "femininity = submission," however, being a bottom/ sub-bottom/ sub/ does not require this weird means. You are valid in wanting to bottom and just let go. And you deserve the respect and care from tops that acknowledge your individuality. I'm sorry if I come off as preachy, however, masculine/burly/older bottoms deserve love and care as for every bottom does. And it truly pains me hearing such beautiful men like yourself aren't recognized for not only your individuality, but your humanity and beauty as well.
  5. I mean, ginger men have always been hot? I mean, personally I always wanted to taste a Ginger-Bred-Man
  6. I got turned down a couple of times because I "ask too many questions" when said questions are "where are you located so I can come by"? All I have to say for those who were rejected by petty bull shit - BREED OUT THE WEAK!!!
  7. I'm sorry, but, who the fuck wouldn't love a mature/chubby bottom? They're literally ALL beautiful. If anyone here who bottoms worry about age, trust me, as a 24 year old guy who is also friends with 18-25 year old gay, bi, pan and yes "straight" guys, we all think you're beautiful. Yes, there will be assholes in the community, but they're just folks who will never have the sweet taste of your ass. And as a connoisseur of ass, I admit there ain't none that's better ❤️
  8. 1) Not having a huge cock, making a lot of saliva, and wanting intimacy. There is the means of recently having herpes that did get to me, but, I've moved on from it. Haven't had an outbreak, might not have one for quite some time. 2) I don't think these SHOULD be considered anything "imperfect," however, I'll say the following: Being HIV, HPV, HSV positive, being chubby, hairy, having a "small" cock, being trans, having medical/sexual limitations (Erectile Dysfunction, amputee, etc.), having PTSD, wanting to be vers, being fem, being in their 40's/50's+, and having bowel issues. They are human beings, and every one of these "issues" may need communication, safety practices, or means of creativity in bed - but, that doesn't mean that the person who I am with is "imperfect." It means they have individuality, and everyone deserves to be respected in their means of being such. I had genital warts long ago, I had HSV 1 (no outbreaks), I'm not fit, I have an average dick, have PTSD, can be somewhat effeminate, emotionally invested, am in my mid 20's and can rarely bottom due to health issues. However, does that make me some "imperfect being"? No. Some men would describe me as "their ideal boy," and want to nab me. Some may say I'm just their type of "crazy" and work with just that. Everyone is beautiful and deserves the love and care that everyone deserves in general - a genuine and sincere love that requires knowing about the individual, and what works for both you and them. The moral here is that there is no "imperfection," just individuality.
  9. I get the sentiment, however, I'm almost the exact opposite of you lol I don't mind bottoms sending me dick pics. I love men (cis, trans, nonbinary, nonconforming or any means in the masc-presenting/identifying spectrum), and showcasing your cock is always an amazing means to me. As my definition of a "dom" and my advances as being a top, I love explore my bottom's body. His hair, his back, his fingers, his calves - all are amazing spots for sensation, and a cock is no different. I love worshiping my bottom's body with love and saliva, so, hey, a cock to suck is always fun. If a bottom wanted me to suck him off, hey, it's all good with me. If a bottom doesn't want to have me touch his cock but admire it/ show it off, then hey, I'm all for it. If he wants to hid it and only showcase his hole, then that's fine, too (though, may play with the balls, since I like playing with them when I'm inside a guy). Whatever my bottom feels comfortable with, I'll gladly be there. To me, as a "dom" it's my duty to explore my bottom's being and see what I can "exploit," so my bottom can enjoy being submissive, and feel safe doing so. And if that means slobbering over his cock, then by all means - his torture, my reward. (Also, wanted to add, I rather be first and then last, rather than be in the middle of the bottom's adventures. Want to have an intimate moment with the guy) Though, I can see why it can be irritating. Not to degrade a human being, but when you ask for a burger with just ketchup, but they give you a burger with mayonnaise instead, you'd be upset. And what you're in the mood for is just a burger with ketchup. It's simple, right? Well, that's what I see in your/and a lot of guys' arguments. However, sexual means of a "bottom" will vary. As there are many hook-up apps out there, there are many individuals who may have different means of being a "bottom," and different means of sexual expression, and to add - certain photos that can be shown. I rarely have pics of myself, and the ones I have are somewhat outdated. And as someone who's busy a lot and when busy doesn't really look "good," I don't take pictures of myself. So, when I talk to a bottom who wants pics of me, and the limited pics I have are showcasing my asshole and cock, some bottoms may say "Oh God, here we go again, another vers guy who really wants to bottom for me." No, I just have those pics. Is it an inconvenience? Yeah, to a degree. However, that's what communication is for. I'll explain the situation and we go from there. You'd be surprised at the number of bottoms who wanna rim tops. So, as a means, I just keep a pic of my hole. That doesn't erase my "top-ness," rather it makes it more "interesting." But, I get it. When you're in the mood to breed, you don't wanna see a dick, you just want a hole. Or maybe cocks aren't important in your sexual appetite, but the hole is. Regardless, all of which are fine. I just say from my view that cocks in the pic doesn't matter to me. I'm here for a good time, and that I respect what my bottoms want. Sure, I'm not gonna bend over backwards (or forwards) for them, but, cocks are wonderful protein shake containers. Why would I not wanna sample them? But, then again, I'm a guy who's so obsessed with "worshipping" my bottom to the point, I want him musky as hell, sweaty and ready to be rimmed and fingered for hours. So, might be a weirdo here.
  10. Me; the master of Blow Jobs Also "Me;" The hardest person to ever achieve orgasm Me: "Ho ho, you're approaching me"? Me2: "I can't tell if I can fuck for shit if I can't suck you." Me: "Hooooo, then come as close as you like."
  11. Okay, well, here's a few that might be upsetting, weird and funny. WARNING: GRAPHIC MATERIAL: INCLUDING INDICATED GORE AND ABUSE. SUBJECT MATTER: ABORTION RELATED Back when I was 19, I met a lot of weirdos online, since there was no one who I could talk to about Gay Hook-Up sex or anything. So, with no resources, Gay.com (yeah, it still exists), GayChatOnline and a few others were my only escape routes into the gay world - sites in which were long abandoned many years ago in which had lingering "interesting people" there. Now, memory may have served me incorrect, and this one guy may have been from CL, but there this particular fellow wanted to be my Sugar Daddy. Chubby, white/pink-ish skinned, bald with some black hair, wearing casual work clothes and probably in his late 40's. I'll call him "Bob." Anyways, Bob kept begging to be my Sugar Daddy, in which I declined, since I believed there should be no stress in the bedroom and money is a form of stress. But, due to me being amazed I kinda had some power over a guy as such kept me intrigued (had severe low self-esteem, and still in "Top Denial" stage (basically thought since I was young and skinny, therefore I HAVE to be a bottom... Didn't work out too well)). Anyways, I said I'm fine with just being simply sexual for the sake of being simply sexual, which he revealed that's the reason why he wanted to be my Sugar Daddy. I lived in St. Louis (Missouri) while he lived somewhere in Oregon. He wanted to pay for a plane from my location to his, so he can fulfill his kink. His kink? Abortion Kink. Basically when Bob was married, he hated his wife, but loathed being "gay" too. In the process, he made a kid, out of his sense of "duty" being a husband. When she was pregnant, he slipped in her one night and found how loose she was and fucked her passionately the first time in years. Once the baby was born, he fucked her again and enjoyed the loose feeling. However, as time passed, she tightened up leaving him upset again. They soon divorced and he then realized he like young guys who he named "boys" (aged 21-18, I believe), and the "youth" of their cocks. He liked their "youth" so much that he wanted younger guys to fuck a woman unprotected, get them pregnant, then have a 3-way fuck with the woman (7-8 months in) where the "boy" and Bob DP her and cum inside her. Once the fuck session is over, to relieve the boy of any fatherly stress, he would pay for the woman's abortion and DP her again, then never speak of it again..... Unless the boy wanted to do it again. Sprinkle in some older man performing oral sex on the the younger guy, some cunnilingus, and the occassional cuck-hetreo-shtick basics, and you generally get where he's coming from. Surprised that not many people wanted to sign up for such a thing. At least not many, from what I remember. If memory serves me right, last time I heard from Bob was in the winter of 2014, where he resigned himself to marrying another woman. Saying he doesn't want a "boy" but a wife or something. According to him, she was a snooze-fest, but he still wanted his fetish. He stated he can never feel complete unless that happens/happens again. Maybe the chick went along with it? Don't know, don't care - removed his number immediately as I saw his antics as a means of both entertainment and something to be concerned about. Tried reasoning with him, but, seems he really wants that baby-gash fuck. Don't mind most of it, except the whole pregnancy/abortion thing. Just a "straight older guy" sucking my cock would have been nice. But, just shows some bizarre kinks are simply to "die" for - BA-DUM-TSCH. (I'll bring in more later, if interested. Got tired as fuck)
  12. Nah, I just wanna do that, except I'm the one fucking both the husband and wife. Though, it remains a fantasy....... for now https://assets.s3xstatic.com/bz/uploads/monthly_2019_11/image.thumb.png.e318674bce11fc8798ebde80a8d10c46.png
  13. Nibbling on a cock (mine at least) can be pretty exciting and daring, though biting the cock off and eating it like some Predator shit might be uh....... Nah.
  14. As someone who may take an interesting streak on this (and who is cisgendered and pansexual), I'll just say that my view does not excuse any transphobia, nor me taking a stand on a trans-related subject matter for a complete truth - I can only come from my personal perspective. "Femme" (in the gay community) usually refers to a cis-gendered male who designs himself in the aesthetic of what most would considered "feminine." That means male as the gender, and "feminine" is the aesthetic or look of that male. So, a femme twink coming in a bathhouse may have a different reaction than someone who is actually trans. Now, I do agree that we do have a SEVERE prejudice against feminine looking, sounding, or acting gay men. "No Fats, no Fems" is such a common slogan in the gay community, it might as well be our chant. It's disgusting that we have such anger towards men who either explore femininity or has feminine traits that they cannot control. Especially when gay men are the same ones who fetishize young girly twinks (or certain men with femme voices), but also belittle them and write them all off as "brats" or being "disposable" due to seeming like a stereotype, therefore seeming like a "dime a dozen." So, that I completely agree with. However, for someone who is a woman entering a gay scene, it may not be the best due to transphobia being strong, and that gay men may not necessarily be attracted to "real" femininity, rather the "fetishized" femininity (twinks with fat asses, soft skin, girlish tendencies, etc.). It's the same thing with some women liking "shy boys" but not liking guys who are actually shy (gross example, but, very simple point). The thing I would say is don't let it get you down. I'm not masculine at all. I probably am as femme, weak and un-masculine as one can get. However, I still get my share of ass from time to time. I could get a market-worth as a bottom, but here I am as a (mostly) top. So, never doubt yourself and never belittle yourself! See what you offer and see what you can get within the LGBT community or the straight world! You're valid and deserve to feel so!
  15. I don't english right. Me sorry ❤️
  16. Well, this may be a bit weird, but, I love it when a guy laughs. Sure, I love a guy to never wear deodorant, have hairy knuckles, a gravelly voice and all - but, a laugh from a guy tells me everything I want to know. It's not necessarily for him to follow through with the traits, but the contexts and means of his character that turn me on. When it comes to my actions (since I like taking the lead), I always test the water with me stroking a guy's beard, cupping his face and hugging him close. Sure, my hands always land on his ass, but, that intimacy really sparks something. Then when a guy laughs from my jokes, and have a genuine sense of being at ease with me - it leads to some passionate sex. Most guys who are "meh" to me don't really laugh. But, when they do, they feel comfortable with me, thus more likely to just let things happen and have more fun in bed. A guy with no sense of humor, regardless of the hairy knuckles and voice, just bores me. They just seem like another flesh-toy on a Saturday night for me to do. But, when he genuinely laughs, lets down his barrier, and just lets go - it can be the best night of our lives. Yes, I love a hairy and musky older man - one that would let me devour his smelly pits and sweaty hole, and moan so with a voice reminiscent of Bob Seger or Karl Diedrich Badar. But, without laughter, without a sense of connection - I just see them as the usual "dick pocket."
  17. But, on the real though, I have to say this - the fetishization of having a big dick is probably...... Too "Big" for it's on good
  18. Technical means: Pansexual Social Simplification: Bisexual Personal Identity with Friends: Basically Gay Personal View: Gay with a side of being somewhat into girls, however love the gender spectrum more so than the "end" of cis-gendered women. How I feel I might ACTUALLY be: Gay vers top guy who would love to one day hold a man in his 30's/40's/50's in my arms, breed the shit out of him and make him laugh. For how I place myself in LGBT: I'm a cisgendered black (biracial) Pan(gay)sexual male who fluxuates from femme to masculine (Not gendered identity, just mannerisms). I have my own look, my own mannerisms, my own way of expression which expresses both my "hetrosexuality," my "homosexuality" and my "bisexuality." For most people, they see me a jokey, black shirt wearing straight Latino. When in reality, I'm a cum-guzzling top who loves being the "mom"/"dad" of the group, and make people laugh with offensive humor. While that identity is not easy to spot as a femme white twink being labeled as a "bottom sub," it's my identity, and it's my expression of my individual component of being "gay." Now I bring this up because, as you see, there are many layers to my "identity." Rather than give a long speech of who I am, I just say "Eh, I'm bi, I guess." The reason I like to do so, is because there are many facets to come into play when it comes to my sexuality and identity that may change in the mood for my perspective. Some days I feel very "gay," some days I feel very "straight." Some days I feel very "masc" and some days I feel very "femme." It all depends on the context, the person I'm with and my emotional set. Does that mean I'll wear trucker beaters, ripped jeans, bandana's and sunglasses when feeling masc? No. Does that mean I'll wear frilly outfits or revealing clothing when feeling fem? No. It's just the fluidity of how I feel, and how that changes depending on the situation. To me, that is me being comfortable with myself, and I honestly couldn't have done that without the means of being gay relieving me. "Oh thank God, I'm gay. Now, since I'm a sodomite, I can buy my pink phones, wear high heels and not even stress about it. Why? Cuz' I'm a faggot, what you expect, Hetro'?" Me being "gay" allows me to express myself in mannerisms, postures and accessories without the fear of being concerned about my "masculinity" all the time. If I were straight (which, thank God I'm not) I honestly would be a wreck. My voice is too whiney, my body is too skinny and my "ego" is smaller than a Mormon Boy's tight little hole. Face it kids, Daddy don't go for Judgy Girls, just Judgy Queens So, for me, LGBT allows my expression of oneself to have a sense of "It's okay to be you." Where I live, it's possible to be fired for your sexuality, and it's easy to be harrassed and attacked for such as well. So, for me, my identity obviously is important. So, with that, LGBT and my identity at least to me, coincides. Now, there's obviously the argument of "Why don't you just act like a man, and keep your sex life out of my business." Well, this is the heteronormative argument of "Shhhhh. Can you stop being yourself, we need to make way for the Great Straights." Which bothers me to my core, because I don't see our society ONLY wanting everyone to be masc. We like femme girls, we have a culture of straight guys getting off to girls with dicks, there's burly men who like twinks, and there's the occasional "I want someone cook me fooooooooooood, I need a wifeyyyyyyyyyyy." So, I say, why not have men present themselves in the spectrum that can be part of the gay community. We don't have to worry about "straight-dum," we're gay. Let's enjoy it. And for me, to enjoy it properly, we need to change things, accept people, and recognize the complexity of people's individuality. And that sounds so gay, it makes me wet, it makes me cum........ I hope someone got my Contrapoints joke.....
  19. Everytime I see someone who is LGBT (Particularly gay men) who support Trump, I just really wonder what it's like to be so desperate for attention, that you need to cater to pathetic "straight, right-winged, fascist" rhetoric. Seems to me "Uncle Tom" has taken a new rainbow look.
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