Sunovabesh

I am top versatile, but, I'm not into being a bottom, so much as I don't mind sucking a dick (Sucking is so much easier than trying to bottom - depending on the dick). I feel as though that if a Total Top fell in love with another Total Top, they may in most cases be open. However, I've seen men who take on the "Total Top" montra and sucked each other off. Being in a committed relationship, I think that really depends on the personal fallies of the partners. For example, while I may not be a "Total Top," I would be happy being the top. And even though I don't care for bottoming at all, if someone I loved said he wanted to bury his bone in my backyard, then I'm getting in doggy for him (Mind you, this would occur every Blue Moon, due to me just not being into bottoming (at least at the time of this statement - y'a never know)). But, that's from my experience. And you could throw away my earlier statement, due to forgetting to leave out that the 2 Tops wanting to "experiment" with a young biracial guy sucking them both off. Needless to say, I was told by both of them, I was better than the other. (Hey, I made a guy with ED blow a load, can you blame them?) While I do agree that in most cases "Total (Blank)'s" being with another "Total (Blank with the same title)" will probably do an Open Relationship/Swinger-like lifestyle, and there is nothing wrong with that. But, I do think monogamy it is possible to some degree. Some people live as tops and eventually become bottoms. Some bottoms live as sub-bitch-bottoms and eventually become top doms. Reasons ranging from new kinks, lifestyles and changes always can come into play. So, if a "Total Top" Dom can become a "total bitch bottom" from experiencing BBC, then why can't a "Total Top" not wanna suck off his hubby's (the guys he truly loves) cock? Now, the identity of being a "Total Top" and a "total bottom" can have it's own spectrum. After all, I believe most bottoms groan when their "total tops" show up wanting to try on a cock themselves, rather than serve their own. Or how many Tops get irritated that their "sub bottoms" demand a blow job. So, the authenticity of being a "Total Top"/"total bottom" can always be questionable, but for the authentics out there, them dating one another may lead to Swinging, or being monogamous. It all depends on the circumstance, and the dynamic at need.

I want to have the option of saying "yes" to both. I've met tops who maintained the relationship through fucking each other's mouths, and bottoms switching up the roles of who the Dom is with dildos. And yes, they're in their 40's who have been with each other for decades. I say, regardless of the relationship, if you love the person so much, anything is possible.

"I love you"! Boi, I had one Security Guard guy riding my dick and he came like a bitch and said that shit hella loud. Mind you, it was a one night stand, and we ain't known each other. Something about a big burly dude crying out something so personal like that makes me shiver in pride. I may say 'It's okay, you had a moment of excitement, and I understand, I'm not gonna look at you any differently." Me in the back of my head: "I made him a bitch, bruh."

What have I NOT been turned down for? lol - Being mixed (Too white/ Too Black) - Being too tall - Being too short - Not having a big enough cock - Having too big of a cock - Being too young - Being too old - Being too scrawny - Being too fat - The one I get the most is I'm too "ugly," due to me not looking like either a Lumberjack Daddy or a blonde smooth flat stomached twink. Also, my face might have something to do with it lol My stats are biracial (black/white), 6'0ft., 6 inch cock, 23 (at this moment), and weigh around 158-160 lbs., average body and a bit hairy around the neck and pubes. So, make what you will with that information.

Maybe 103-104? I started at 18, with me being at my ultimate slut-dom at 19, being a buzz-cut scrawny bottom twink. Now at 23, I'm probably eat more ass than cock ever since I took the Top Pill.

Why you had to call me out like that lol For me personally, I see it like this - (Get out your tin-foil hats out here, y'all) I believe that there are as many bottoms out there in the straight world, as there are in the gay world. How many men would like to experience that, I can't answer, but I feel as though, as men, we have prostates - and who wouldn't want their prostates pleasured? The sensation of being fucked is amazing; You have the psychological aspect of being "dominated" (Or you dominating someone, for my Dom BTMS), the sensation of losing control, the pressure on your prostate, and a warm gooey sensation in your ass - sounds like paradise. Whenever straight guys who bottom for their female partners, they say that they feel the same thing: liking the sensation of losing control, having their prostates being used, being dominated - the works. So, to me, as men, we're gonna side onto whatever gives us pleasure, and if that involves our prostates, I'm sure our shit-shutes are gonna take a fine pummeling. So, for simple means, whatever taps the prostate (our great sensitive spot) we're gonna go for it. It's more immediate than having your cock sucked, or anything else, because it's up inside you and all you can do is let yourself go and enjoy the ride. Now, I'm not saying every guy is a bottom, I'm just saying that we all have prostates, and most of us are gonna use it as opposed to some of us. I for example, don't care for bottoming. I may do so here and there, but, I simply just don't like it. Yeah, a finger or a cock up my ass can help me get active, and help me cum faster as I jerk myself off. But, the cleaning, the dieting, the preparing, the means of me being "submissive" to someone and so on, just isn't worth it. I get WAY more fun when I'm inside a guy's hole. Eating a hole, fingering a hole and fucking a hole is WAY more up my alley both psychologically and physically than someone doing all those things to my hole. Psychologically speaking, I only "submit" to someone who I give a shit about, because that sense of intimacy brings in a lot more "pain" to me when I'm being a sub, more so than just bottoming for some stranger. Who's better at "Dirty Talk"; some rando off the street or someone who knows my "insecurities" and calls me them when I'm vulnerable? Physically, I just don't get much from it. I can cum faster, yeah, but, I can do that with a finger instead of a cock. Why waste my time being 100% clean for a cock, when I can be clean enough for just a finger? Also, most tops I'm around just don't have the means of respecting/knowing anything about their bottoms (From my experience). So it's a lot of uncomfortable rough-burns in my colon just for me to please some random dude, when I can't even jerk off? Fuck that noise. But, again, that's how my brain is wired. So, again, not every guy is meant to bottom, or may be into bottoming 100%. I believe it can be a spectrum on how much you like to bottom vs. how you like to top, along with the spectrum of being a sub vs. being a Dom. But, conspiracy theory over with - If you're a bottom, you're a God-Sent and deserve to be recognized as such - on behalf of all tops, I greatly appreciate your hard work and hard stamina. Just because you may out-number tops (if that's even a reality) doesn't mean you're a dime a dozen - You're still you and you're fucking unique and great!

Younger Tops, and Mature Bottoms. Truly a love story.

Anything beyond a sanitation violation is a no-go for me. However, one that did pop up in conversation was the idea of "knife-play." Basically, it's kinky shit with an actual knife, and sometimes it can lead to some Dicey situations. I'll just CUT to the chase and make a Sharp decision and say "no" to that, fam'....... Cuz' that's a SEVER-ly bad situation. I'm not sorry.

I fucking spat out my drink, dude LOL Yes, St. Louis is horrible and sucks ass. And the sex is mediocre at best.

So, uhhh.... *cough, cough* So, uhh, when you finna hop on this dick?

Chastity, to me, takes a LOT OF DEDICATION. Now, for me, I like the freedom of choice, and I would imagine most bottoms might like that too. Now, this requires a bit of context, so for me - I'm going to assume that for me to engage with my fantasies, it's mostly with guys who are "I'm going to say 'we'll definitely meet up,' but we're not gonna meet up again" kind of guys. They're the most likely outcome, due to guys not caring for close "dating," so, I just take in what is the majority, rather than the minority. Guys who will host, I fuck, then I go home and wonder why I wasted my gas on a 54 year old guy who couldn't take dick and talks like he's mumbling an evil text that shouldn't be heard of (Seriously, what is with bottoms mumbling a lot?). So, for most of those guys, I'm going to assume that my dick isn't the grand prize waiting for them at the "finish line" (insert joke here). They're faceless nobodies who just don't want to/ can't be able to indulge in my "fantasies." And so, I really don't have much of an attachment with them to be perfectly honest. Even if I found the grandline bottom who wants to choke on my dick like it's dry meatloaf, I honestly still don't see myself do that much. They're "fantasies," fixations that only come to mind for me spontaneously just for my enjoyment when cranking out a load. For example, when I jerk off thinking of me being a bottom, I will jerk off to the idea of a big burly hairy guy who hasn't showered in 3 weeks (It's an extreme). Thus, I take the situation when I'm bored with it, and get it up to him being a homeless scruffy guy with a few buddies (Again, an extreme). Then when close to climaxing, I just think of something to top all that, and thus I go into them all calling me a girl, sucking on my nips and making me a cumdump bitch in front of other scruffy guys and they all humiliate me saying things like "HA! You can never be a straight boy when you're so good at being a girl for real men." Then BAM, I cum, I clean up and I go to sleep, only to wake up and have the urge to beat the shit out of my co-workers because no one is willing to clean a toilet. I go back to reality. Chastity is the same thing. My actual fetishes are just means of musk, me taking control or doing things to make my bottom feel "helpless" (Of course, relying on consent). Chastity, for me, takes a deep type of dedication. A means of trust, communication, and recognition of the medical aspects. That type of situation, in my opinion, that takes time to create - thus, not appropriate with the one night stands who can't take 6 inches, and seem like they're beyond fucking high (I swear that I might catch ebola from them someday). Sure, the idea sounds hot, and can make me shoot like crazy, but again, those means of reality needs to be discussed: How deep is the relationship; Does the bottom trust me that this ; Is an aspect for one's kink, and not a means of the health relating towards the relationship/dynamic; Are both parties on the same page; Are there physical factors that may limit the use of certain devices; Is this an aspect of the sexual or the psychological that might need more attention? There are some things worth noting when it comes to such a dynamic, and honestly, I don't see myself, nor any bottom, having the diligence to follow with that. I don't see many bottoms wanting to do it. I don't wanna put in the work of buying something for a bottom, let alone checking equipment. Hell, And I like seeing dicks flop around (Dicks are fun, afterall). So, for now, chastity, like the others, is just a fun fantasy that I will think about and will "think" I want to have in real life, but, honestly - meh, may not really care.

This is my literal wet dream

As a top (Situation General): Musky older guys who wants to surrender their holes to me. As a bottom (Situation General): Someone who is older and likes to humiliate me with feminine titles. Red means a fetish I would normally not do, but, if the bottom wants me to, I'm cool with it. May not be ALL into it, but, can be. General Aspects I fetishize about: Musky Armpits (Not Bad B.O.) Musky Crotches Musky Holes (Not dirty or smelling of shit) Small/Average Dicks Guys older than me (24+) Interracial (White, black, etc. - I wanna fuck you all (Top or Bottom) (Though help a broth'a out, there's like no gay black/general ethnic guys around me, according to Scruff)) Sniffing and licking balls, pits and cock. A bottom who loves being rimmed 24/7 A top who loves being rimmed 24/7 Facial Hair Weird fetishes: Smelly underwear/jockstrap Verbal humiliation (Both giving (top) and receiving (bottom)) Me occasionally being fingered Slapping the bottom (Not cool with me being slapped) (Not really into it, but can be) Choking (Somewhat, and know the safety protocols) Voyeurism Having my bottom crossdress for me (Don't wanna wear them myself, but, eh, if asked politely.....) (If it is from sexual release) Crying Things that are and WILL remain as fantasies: Humiliating my bottom/top in front of their families Having my male boss be my bottom bitch Having my bottom in chastity Whoring out my bottom Fucking my Father in Law Dominating my lover's family Somehow make a guy's cock into a pussy, and be my Cuntboi Having my top piss in my hole Having my top fuck my girlfriend Me fucking a guy and his girlfriend Overall, I just want a nice guy who wants to bottom right after going to gym with me. Or a top after going to the gym with me (if my colon is good that day).

Oi, keep a broth'a updated when you're coming back lol

If bottoming, I prefer one/two buddies. The shitty thing about being a bottom is this: People think that being a bottom = Being the drama queen, and tops = Having logic and reason. WHen in reality, tops are just as stupid as bottoms and can bring a lot of drama. Let me explain: When I was a wee bottom lad at 18, 19, and 20, I had many a tops coming at me saying that "They could fuck me good," and "Be my Daddy." But, all of them were just grown man-babies who thought that because they had a position in bed that they weren't drama queens. After years of financial, drama-related and social difficulties, young little Sunova' realized that not all tops are self-aware, and the more you hang around them, the more drama they wanna impose on you. Why? Because "The Top is always Right." Yeah, uh, no. I'd rather have one top who isn't dumb as shit, knows what he wants, can keep clear and distinct communication with me, so I can enjoy riding some cock and being his pregnant disposal que. However, I prefer being the top because GOD, WHAT WAS I THINKING - I LOVE MY COCK. However, here's my thing - a few smart tops are WAY better than a legion dumb tops with too much baggage hitting up my phone. Hearing: 1) "I need to fuck NOW!" While I'm busy and not prepared 2) "I wanna fuck" with no plan for hosting or such 3) Or my personal favorite "I want to you to come over and suck my cock" and does not send me an address when I have asked numerous times for him to do so, only for him to ignore me or call me a "flake" Yeah, that just makes me think "You know...... I could just be asexual and focus on this money, tho'. Is being gay really worth it"?

Sorry, just the ripe ass smelling part got me hard as fuck. Just wanted to say, if I were in your shoes, I'd let him. If he can't get in, then just make it a fun blow job. If he can, let him take the lead and enjoy the ride. I love small cocks. They're fun to suck, hold and jerk. Also, they can feel good inside me. Small cocks for me (less than 4 inches) are pretty great from my experience. One married guy who I (sometimes) get with fucks me with his 1 1/2 - 2 inch cock. It hits my prostate and makes me feel like a bitch. However, the take away all that, his smell is pretty nice. So, small cocks/micro penises are pretty great in my book. But, then again, I prefer fucking his tight hairy ass, more so than him fucking mine lol

My dark fantasies are usually one of the three: A) I somehow hook up with a married tough guy who acts all manly on the streets but wants to be a hardcore sub in the sheets. Somehow I fuck him so hard that he decides to be MY wife, and he either leave his family behind to be with me, or enjoys me cuckolding him, and fucking his wife/family to assert my dominance in the household. B ) I fuck a sexy girl who is insanely in love with me, but turns out her dad has the hots for me as well. So, I eventually fuck the dad and dominate both of them. I would have the girl be my "property" while the dad will be my "lover/wife." Eventually, I'll just fuck both of them at separate times with both of them knowing, while making the mom my butler. C) I somehow make a hardcore racist, homophobic, transphobic manly man be fucked progressive. Having him grow empathy and learn to embrace being gay and part of the LGBT community. All, while being a happy sub, relinquishing any means of being straight/toxic. Or D) A combination of the 3. My general kink is making someone embrace their sub side, and them embracing becoming "gay" and destroying any sense of their "hetrosexual masculinity." Add in some dominance stuff and some bi action - Yeah, that's generally my kink. If I were bottoming, I would love to be fucked by a bunch of biker military guys, all straight eventually realizing maybe fucking gay pussy is better than regular pussy. Again, changing the "straight" guy into being "gay" (Awakening the gayness that was suppressed all along). Either way, I want musky cocks and holes around me. All I can say is, I truly enjoy being gay, and wanna "spread the love."

See, it's kinda hard for me to think on this, but, here's my thing: Hook-up: 25-50ish. Can go higher, but usually that's when I get into "I'm an older man, so that makes me better than you" mentality, and usually try to flaunt their money. But, 25 because I like someone being older than me (I'm 23 at this moment) and usually around that age their masculine features are starting to be noticable. However, prefer guy's in their 40's due to me making them laugh more with references and such. Dating: 40's (ideal), mid/late 20's (Health reasons?). I prefer older men, due to me getting along with them a lot more. I get their humor, get their viewpoints and I really like someone already adjusted to society. Being around guys my age tends to make me feel intimidated. I can't make much humor with younger gay guys due to them not wanting to have much of a conversation, or being oblivious to anything other than a "knock-knock" joke. I can't really agree with viewpoints all that well due to it sometimes being too "liberal" or too "I'm going to be 'racist' and 'misogynistic' because I gotta combat the SJW's." Add in with the insecurities of being "gay," NOPE! With older guys, I tend to really be something different. I can bring my raunchy comedy without being worried of seeming "wrong." I can make references to music I like (60's, 70's, 80's and 90's). Hell, I'd have more fun due to older men wanting more conversations. Due to older guys wanting to know more about someone before they make a leap into someone’s fuckery, they tend to ask questions and I love answering the. So, longer conversations gives me a chance to shine and entertain them. Also, and this is just me being a dick - but older men are mostly emotionally retarded. Older men tend to focus on being more logical, where I come in with emotional intelligence, and they're completely surprised by that. A younger guy who is funny, wanting to make them feel emotions and can give them good dick - older guys are way more appreciative than any younger dude can be (my experience). However, older men do have their drawbacks. They sure is hell can be annoying by being so emotionally retarded, can really be stuck in their ways that cannot be changed, and can easily be sexist, racist, transphobic, homophobic and heteronormative. Now that shit pisses me off, but, that comes with the territory. Sexual Appeal: 20's and 40's. For me, if I see facial fair, being muscular/chubby, I like that shit. I just prefer older due to them seeming more masculine, thus them being musky is a bit more appropriate due to it following through the aesthetic. The younger and less masculine you look, the more I expect you to be more feminine, especially smells. But, that's me being ignorant in my world perversion. Overall, I'm open to most ages - but if a bottom daddy wants to ever settle down with a comical dude who love feeding him some dick, I'm never gonna turn that down.

For me, I guess I "win" whenever I make my bottom cum and they feel exhausted but also cared for. Now, for me, I LOVE fucking some manly pussy. However, me cumming isn't my FULL intention. My REAL intention is to make the bottom enjoy being submissive, giving into their temptations, having them let themselves go, cumming so hard that they feel dominated, and wanna lay their head on my chest. My thing is this: if you can make an alpha slump down and cry from pure joy of letting himself go and cumming hella hard - You kinda win. But if you make an alpha cum so hard, slump down and want to hold you like you're the only one who can protect them - Yeah, you won, bro. Nothing makes me happier than making a manly ass dude be a submissive ass bitch who can let their inner "bitchiness" go and let me dominate them to the point they feel safe to be submissive. Also cumming hands-free.

See, I may be weird. If I see a cock, I suck it. The last guy I been with was a dude with a cock (when erect) was the size of my thumbnail (about 1cm). And I still sucked the fuck out of it. And, honestly, that's fun for me. There are many facets for me when it comes to cock size, however, the universal rule is: "If they want attention for it, then by God they earn some attention." I accept body difference, and never judge. When it comes to cocks, they all have their advantages. For example, for extremely small cocks are: 1) Easy to work on due to not being that long. Mostly need tongue work. 2) Allows you to enjoy their crotch stench a lot better. 3) Can make it easier to suck them and finger their hole. 4) Usually makes a lot of cum. Again, every dick has their disadvantages/ advantages. However, I just love dick, and when I get naked, I just wanna have fun - regardless of size.

I do a combination in a weird way. Level 3 and 4 for about as long as I've been sexual (4/5 years). I'm currently doing Level 2, however, will never put a condom on a cock when I suck it. I know I should, but, probably won't. Still Neg. May go up the latter if I get my goals and ambitions done before I get into a relationship. For now, too focused on goals. If I do fuck at this time, I'll just wear a condom, and only bareback with those I trust/date.

(Sorry, was tired and misread this as "Ideal Daddies" - I fucked up lol) mmm. Never really put much thought into it. Usually just go for Redneck/ "White Boy" Bottoms (Wish there were more black guys in the area - would love to have a black bottom daddy on my cock). However, since bottoming can be a fun activity, I guess I'll just saw whatever comes to mind. For being a Top, I guess my interests would be...: Age: 45, 49, 50 or 25 (Just like those numbers) Race: Black or white (Never been with a brother before, and honestly been interested in meeting someone else who also understands racism). Body type: Prefer leaner and hairier. Thickly built and such can get at me too, however, it's easier for me to move my body to accommodate the cock. However, if you're a hairy guy with a beer gut, fuck me silly. I prefer shorter than me (Just making me a bottom slut for someone who looks up at me really does do a power dynamic). But, if he's tall, go on ahead (Gets me back into being a "beta"). Haircut: Long. Long hair, dreads, messy - whatever. Long hair is amazing. Also beards or stubble is a win. Cock size: Hmm, I prefer small, so, 1-5 inch would be ideal. Shaved or Unshaved: I prefer hairy as fuck. And smelly, too. Interests: Likes nerdy subject matters, has raunchy humor, likes public affection and going to the gym. Kinks: Prefers that he's a gentle giant, or very nice guy who's all orderly. However, whenever he's with me, he's an authoritarian hog that loves fucking me senseless. Taking out his stress and needs out on my hole and calling me his "woman." Also, likes the idea of M/M/F. Also, likes not showering after the gym. Close to Ideal Person from Experience: My just now ex boyfriend. He was 49, white, hairy, tough marine and verse bitch. He did bottom a lot more than top, but, his polite demeanor at work turned me on when he acted like a selfish redneck in bed. But, things didn't work out. Celebrity Close to: Anyone who looks like Colby Jansen or Murphy Maxwell with long hair.

Hmmm. Never really put much thought into it. Usually just go for Redneck/ "White Boy" Bottoms (Wish there were more black guys in the area - would love to have a black bottom daddy on my cock). However, if I were to picture a porn ideal image, I'll throw in my sick kinks. Mine would be...: Age: 45, 49, 50 or 25 (Just like those numbers) Race: Black or white (Never been with a brother before, and honestly been into black bottoms, lately). Body type: Chubby with muscle and lots of body hair. Plus if he's musky and sweaty. Though, the leaner, I the hairer. If thicker build, prefer him to be taller - if leaner, I prefer smaller than me. Haircut: Long. Long hair, dreads, messy - whatever. Long hair is amazing. Also beards or stubble is a win. Cock size: Hmm, I prefer small, so, 1-5 inch would be ideal. Don't mind if he wants to fuck me at times (Eh). Shaved or Unshaved: I prefer shaved for ass, since my saliva can be all over him, and easier to lube up. Interests: Likes nerdy subject matters, has raunchy humor, likes public affection and going to the gym. Kinks: Like him to be completely macho boss guy who's fucking macho as hell, but be my personal beta bitch at home. Hell, he can be my boss lol Love him to be a bottom into musky cock, can take dick whenever, and can loves verbal play. And likes M/M/F fantasies. Close to Ideal Person from Experience: My just now ex boyfriend. He was 49, white, hairy, tough marine and total bottom bitch in the need for cock. Apparently talking about feelings is too scary for him. Good guy, just a bitch towards emotions. Celebrity Close to: Anyone who looks like Colby Jansen or Murphy Maxwell with long hair.

I say go for it. I'd do the same

All I can say is - Enjoy. Maybe have a girl along. Trust me, more girls are into that than you think