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fuckyouraw777

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  1. "I've never done it without a condom before." (after I'd just fucked him bare in a park) "I don't like taking risks" (as he fucked me bb, after I'd tried fucking him with a condom, failed, took it off and basically told him to deal with it) "You're big" (I'm average although on apps if I was like many other profiles I could probably claim I was - some guys think you've never seen an 8" cock/ruler before)
  2. Honestly, whilst I'm not explicit about wanting BB, it's not clear to me how "cumming inside you doggy" could mean anything but. Not to mention the other things in my profile on Grindr (e.g. about not sharing face pics). I swear I could: Give the winning lotto numbers (if I were some deity who could predict that) and maybe only 1 out of 1,000,000 viewers might actually win the lotto GRRR.
  3. I never ask that question (if I wanted to know if they had HIV or were undetectable or had an STI/STD then I'd ask that). I just assume people mean: "Have you douched" or "cleaned out" if they ask that 🙂
  4. I don't remember my first: too long ago. I do remember my first known load from a guy who was - I should say is - poz. He was already barebacking me fairly often, but one day we just decided, "it would be OK if I made sure to expel his cum from my arse afterwards." It actually was OK because he'd been undectable many years and still is.
  5. The conservative answer, if one could get sued for being "wrong", would likely be "yes" but this likely assumes the other person had HIV in sufficient concentration as usually measured to transmit it. My personal answer would be that: "maybe possible, however extremely unlikely to the extent where a reasonable statistician would call it negligible; we need far more information about the other person to give any better answer than that."
  6. If it's a regular and I know they like it and I'm in the mood, I will; otherwise it all depends on the situation.
  7. Hot! I guess burying your dick in your arse was one way to avoid mosquito bites on it!
  8. What I really hate are "magic condoms" - you know the scenes where it looks like they might bareback, and then voila! They magically have a condom on...
  9. Heh, the bartender probably got sloppy seconds 🙂
  10. Finally got lucky on an app where I live: meeting up is complicated for me now but talked to someone ages ago and didn't think anything would work out. Forward a few months, and he messages me again from a blank profile which I kind of ignored/brushed off but when he sent me his pic I recognised him from before so kept chatting. Few weeks later, after a seriously too long dry spell, I've blown a few loads (which he's swallowed) in his mouth and in a bit, I'll do his arse; can't wait. And he has the patience to suck me to completion, which can take me quite a long time...and someone has to be good at it to get me to cum that way without me touching myself.
  11. The way the question is phrased implies the answer, "Of course no loads refused." What is the point of being a "cum dump" if you won't let people "dump cum"? The actual answer is more nuanced - of course; some people will: Happily take loads in dark rooms or blindfolded but if they're not in dark rooms/not blindfolded they're more picky At a large enough venue/sex party (or group of people who might hook up), it's still possible to be a cum dump and be a little bit picky/a lot picky Most people are actually somewhat in between The sample population on this site is likely a little biased towards being more likely to accept/give loads BB, than otherwise. As more top these days, what tends to annoy me most about supposed cum dumps are actually the picky ones who literally say "I'll take anyone" but start rejecting people (not necessarily me). It's like: "What version of `I take all loads/no loads refused` means: `I refuse your/their load`". Sometimes I might detect that the person is into some sort of role play where the other person "sort of" forces them, with their tacit consent, but honestly I can't be bothered determining a "real no" from a "I'm saying no but you can persist" most of the time - so, for me, unless I happen to explicitly and obviously know otherwise (excuse the pun), "no" means "NO" to me. If the bottom wants to play shades of grey with me, I'm unlikely your Mr Grey 🙂
  12. It's a slippery slope, so to speak, from: "I'll just cum inside" to "who cares about the condom" 🙂
  13. We are all obviously getting older; I remember the first time someone called me "daddy" (simply because of my apparent age), I thought: "Hang on, I'm not old enough for that..." but then realised...shit I am. How was it for you?
  14. Whilst there are usually nuanced, well thought out answers on these forums, I always wonder what people really expect the general consensus for a question that reads "should I fuck raw" (no matter the other factors) would be...I have seen response equating to "no" but my completely unscientific hunch [I have been around the forums for > 10 years] is that on this forum the consensus for "should I fuck raw" is usually "yes, so long as it is legal".
  15. I find a lot of virtue signalling, to be honest; I'm sure there must be a fetish of some sort where condoms turn bottoms on - there really is a fetish for anything after all - but I'm yet to actually encounter anyone with such a fetish. In all my years, I'm yet to encounter anyone who will claim they like the feeling of using condoms at all and even the most ardent safer-sex advocates have usually said to me that in an ideal world they'd prefer bare.
  16. Back when I'd bottom more, they really only had to either ask or just put it in for there to be no condom; I guess I never really "insisted" - and in fact, I can't think of any people I had sex with more than three times who didn't either fuck me bare or I fucked them bare. These days I just make it clear that if I fuck them/you, it's uncovered; to be honest I think that still turns some people away (although I suspect they would change their mind if we met up and then negotiated the safe sex thing) but I don't want to deal with the drama and although I'm mostly top these days, I don't particularly "like" dominating/forcing as such so if they're playing the game where they want "to be forced (but with consent)", it's not really my cup of tea.
  17. How'd you manage to make that a link that I didn't need to highlight and click? 🙂
  18. Boiled eggs, I'd assume; I have to ask: did you cluck whilst doing that?
  19. I've had that happen as a top (and years ago, when I would bottom); as a bottom I'd usually take it as a compliment. There are just some types of feelings that will make me cum fast; and others that won't. And if it's anon, or a bookstore or such and you haven't a clue who you're fucking, it's luck of the draw...sometimes it's good to feel so good you cum really fast...other times it's a nuisance.
  20. Speaking only for myself, so long as you're not asking anything that is obviously answered in the profile, there's no one great way to start up. A response of "It's alright. hbu?" isn't too bad - it's a bit like, "How are you?" when we ask people but we're not really expecting an in-depth or meaningful answer. That said, there's nothing worse than when someone asks me something that's clearly stated in my profile...I might still read on if I'm bored but it's a guaranteed way to start on the wrong foot with me.
  21. I'll generally say something like, "I'm not sure if we're a match" unless they're asking stupid questions which are already answered in my profile in which case I can be icily rude.
  22. Just out of morbid interest, why is there a category "barebsck" [sic]? Isn't that a mispelling or am I missing something?
  23. If that was to me, it could have been him, I suppose; I didn't do much checking about who it was.
  24. I was walking down the street one night when an acquaintance took my hand and dragged me into a sex club - it was my first time; I knew he was positive but that was neither here nor there. Like the OP there was lots of cruising but eventually I ended up in the dark room and someone was bent over a bench (or a ledge - it was dark and I've never seen the room lit), I was very horny by then and when my head grazed against a guy's lubed arse, he pushed back and I thought, "what the hell?" And so I fucked and came in him; happy customer 🙂
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