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Grindr, BBRTS and Hornet. Grindr is my mainstay while BBRTS is quite active in my area. I recently paid for Hornet which is quiet where quite active in some Asian jurisdictions (Bali, Thailand) where I’ve travelled. It was a toss up paying for Hornet but the advertisements were driving me mad and almost losing hookups as I would be held up in mid chat.

I enjoy being fucked in the sling at the local bathhouse and sex club and have fucked other guys in them too. Currently I’m a little wary of our local ones as some guys seem to take it as an invitation to attempt to fist me which I’m not into. I think they associate the chains and leather straps with that kind of fetish rather that just plain old fucking. I’m sure it’s a tiny minority but I’ve struck it a couple of times, just enough to slightly inhibit me.

I’m surprised that the first 15 responses all confirmed that in a bathhouse they’ll suck soft cocks. I probably didn’t word the question well enough or maybe the followers of the cocksucking section of the forum are unrepresentative of what I see at bathhouses and cruise clubs. Today I was at the cruise club and in the dark room there were, over the time I was there, 3 or 4 guys on their knees in the crowded dark room. They were selective in who they sucked feeling around the exposed cocks anticipating the next guy they’d move to and the soft cocks seemed universally to be rejected. Meanwhile several guys sucking at the gloryholes declined to suck me hard. I know this happens - although not universally of course - but I am interested to know why. I ask as a guy who has no trouble getting hard quickly, even after hours at the bathhouse, when someone sucks me but who struggles to remain rock hard for hours on end at the bathhouse without occasional stimulation like that.

Almost certainly uncut, through a public restroom gloryhole. It hasn’t influenced my preferences as I suck cut or uncut with equal interest.

If a guy pushes his soft cock through a gloryhole I’ll certainly suck it, I relish the chance to pleasure him to fully erect. If it stays soft for more than a minute or two it becomes a bit of a dilemma and I may give up as I like to see some results. If I’m on my knees in a darkroom with guys all shoving their cocks for the attention of my mouth I will suck a soft cock but he better get hard soon if their are other hard cocks on offer as I like a hard cock in my mouth with the prospect of getting a guy off.

A visit to the bathhouse can involve wandering around or waiting for hours but being always ready for action. Most guys will be soft or semi-hard but rise to the occasion when required. To get hard for an encounter, or just to refresh the batteries, guys may make their cock available to be sucked, for instance, in a dark room or gloryhole. When you’re doing the sucking, what is your reaction to being offered a limp soft cock? Do you relish the challenge or do you skip it for the delights of a hard tool? What influences you? If you skip it is it because you don’t enjoy it, not able to judge its size or worried it won’t get hard? Or some other reason? If you like to suck a soft cock is it because you enjoy being able to excite the guy to hardness or something else?

I go months at sauna without being presented with a condom then two appear last night. Both appeared during gloryhole sessions where there’s a little less opportunity to object. First guy was doing a great job of sucking me and I hardly noticed when he slipped a condom on my cock and I was fucking him. Often I go soft with a condom or it slips off my thick but tapered shaft. This time I stayed hard as a rock but it slipped down. So after a while the guy left his booth and knocked on my door and I let him in. I hadn’t seen him before but he was smoking hot. Shortish very muscular smooth Asian almost totally shaved: chest pubes and even his head. I wasn’t going to refuse even though he once again stretched a condom over my cock. I stretched his hole although squeezed into a booth designed for one. The other condom appeared when I was sucking another guy through the gloryhole. He was performing such a pronounced thrusting motion that I guessed he wanted to fuck me so I pressed my asshole to the gloryhole and soon found he’d rubbered up as he started to enter. My head was bent towards the opposite gloryhole and a large semi-hard dark uncut cock now appeared. My mouth was soon on it while the other guy was fussing with his condoned cock. I gave up on the condom guy and angled my ass onto the big raw cock which was now hard and keen to enter my hole. He fucked me for a good 15 minutes and dropped his load in my hole. Condom guy had long gone.

I’ve always had a good time in Bangkok. Been there so often that I now have some regulars to hook up with. Grindr has always been good with hornet as a supplement. Most have gone raw but I usually strike a few that stick with condoms.

My hookups may be a bit too regular to answer this question but I do recall something from a sauna in Montpellier in France. I was in the steam room and had just fucked a guy in the steam room. After we’d finished, he suddenly produced a latex glove and indicated he wanted me to do something. He didn’t speak English so everything was in gestures. It wasn’t long before it was clear he wanted me to shove my hand up his ass. This will be routine to many on the forum but I’d never fisted before (nor since) and had not come to the sauna to do so. After my polite indications that I declined, I reluctantly donned the glove and tentatively pushed my fingers in, he motioned for more, and in went my wrist. More and more was demanded. I must confess that it was a most unusual sensation to have up arm up to the elbow and I’m pleased I had the experience. But I doubt he found me much use, I wiggled my hand around but didn’t realise it was supposed to punch in and out or perform any other techniques.

Met this older Asian gay guy at the cruise club two weeks ago. He was great , his cock wasn’t that big but was big enough, but hard with nice upward curve. On that occasion we flip fucked and he bred me twice - it seemed he could cum and get hard again and cum a second time within minutes. Anyway, I encouraged him to exchange phone numbers and I’d been texting him a few times suggesting we hook up but without success. He answered after a day or two one of the messages and seemed keen enough but ignored the others. I decided I’d better stop texting or I might come across as a pest. Out of the blue last night he suggested we hook up and I rushed to clean up. He came to my place and we stripped and sucked each other. He took a turn to fuck me first. He had a bit of trouble getting it in at first and I moved to a better angle and he fucked me for quite a while before I fucked him. We switched again and he bred me. I brought his ass to the edge of the bed and slammed him balls deep for 15 minutes, while he had been squealing with it only half way in earlier, he was now comfortably taking it. After we finished he confided that he’d been seriously harassed recently and had to leave his apartment and the police were still involved. He was on anti-anxiety meds which affected his erection. It probably also explained his reticence to text and hook up. His performance was great nonetheless so I’m hoping his problems get resolved and I get the chance to see him at his best.

Centurian sauna in Auckland, NZ, has a reverse gloryhole (there has to be a better name - ass-gloryhole, perhaps?). I finished an evening in it tonight and enjoyed taking a load in my ass. It’s a heightened sensation as I was in an awkward position with my legs in the air but only my ass visible to the standing top. I could see nothing. The guy who fucked me seemed to have a cock with great girth but not much length so there was some (enjoyable) pain as he forced it in my hole. I got the hardest erection as he pumped away although he could neither see nor touch my cock. He paused while he came then continued to thrust the cum deeper in my hole. It was fun although I have no idea what the guy who fucked me looked like.

I like Elbow Grease because it’s oil based and lasts well over an evening of fucking at the bathhouse even if I go in the steam room. It’s not condom friendly which is a plus. I think guys use it for fisting, which I don’t do, but it works for regular fucking. Unfortunately it’s a bit expensive for me so I just lube up my hole with elbow grease as deep as my fingers will go before I head out to the bathhouse and lube up guys cocks with whatever’s available but after the first fuck, and with the residual Elbow Grease, no more lube is usually needed.

A biopsy meant no sex for a week but after that a weekend arrived and I looked forward to visiting the local cruise club. I’d struck out there on some recent occasions but had my fingers crossed. I decided to head over on Friday evening and Sunday afternoon and it turned out great. Friday evening started out a bit slow so I took a break for a couple of hours, headed home and returned on a pass out about midnight. I had a good session in the dark room. Two guys’ who appeared to be buddies, came in and there was some groping of cocks in the dark before my lubed asshole got noticed and I manoeuvred one of the guy’s cocks to the edge of my hole. He was rock hard, straight and quite long, 7” I’d say. He pushed it in which hurt a bit so I eased it out and reached over to add more lube. He started to say ‘no …’ as, in the dark, he must have imagined I was trying to roll on a condom. No way! Once lubed up he rammed back in and pounded me. Annoyingly, his buddy insisted his friend let him have a go. Disappearing his cock was not as hard and no more than 5”. Still I was happy to have raw cock in me. I expected the big guy to take another turn but the other guy hogged my ass for so long that he got bored and left the dark room. The Sunday session was naked and much busier. I fucked or was fucked 11 times in90 minutes: topping 7 times and bottoming 4 times. The action started within 2 minutes of heading into the cruising part of the club. I cornered a guy with a thick cock, barely able to get my mouth around the cut mushroom head. We slipped into a room for him to fuck me and I was a little disappointed that he donned a condom. After a few minutes he went soft and pulled out. I switched to fucking him raw. The highlight of the afternoon was hooking up with a smooth Asian guy with the cutest cock which was hard and curved upwards like a banana. Upward curved cocks always turn me on. We made out stand in a dimly lit room with various guys watching and grabbing us. He fucked me then we flipped and I fucked him. I suggested we go to a room as I wanted to try some other positions. In the room the guy fucked me till be came in my ass then I took over and stretched his hole with my cock. I fucked for a long while but didn’t come so we switched again as he was hard again and I got a second load. To cap off the afternoon we exchanged phone numbers so I’m hopeful we’ll be fucking again real soon.

Fun question. I had to download a list of countries and think carefully about. It was disappointing to become aware of how many countries I haven’t yet fucked in. 37 countries. Australia Austria Belgium Canada Chile China Czechia Denmark Finland France Germany Greece Hong Kong Hungary Indonesia Italy Japan Korea Macau Mexico Morocco Netherlands New Caledonia New Zealand Peru Philippines Poland Portugal Singapore Spain Sweden Switzerland Taiwan Thailand UK USA Uruguay

I can only remember being caught once and that was fucking rather than sucking (although I had earlier sucked and rimmed the guy). I had hooked up with a guy and he had walked me to his apartment. I was a bit surprised when he led me in to his room through a group of guys in the apartment. I found out later that he was visiting the city and one of his fuck buddies was letting him stay there and about 6 guys were sharing the apartment. Anyway I was fucking him vigorously doggy style in his bedroom when a guy opened the door and came in saying something, possibly asking if he wanted lunch. I am proud to say that I didn’t even slow down my thrusts with the interruption which was partly a shock and partly a thrill.

I’ve taken 56 loads in my ass so far this year. With a month to go I hope to better the 62 I took last year.

Really interesting to see the poll results and the answers. My first time I topped and I was expecting that would be most guys’ experience but in this poll the opposite seems true. I would have thought that it would be scarier the first time to bottom rather than top, and topping seems more instinctive. My first time was in my early twenties. I had been sucking guys, and being sucked off, in public toilets a number of times. This guy passed a note on toilet paper under the stall to meet him outside. We spoke and he gave me his number. Two weeks later I got up the nerve to ring him and met at his apartment. It’s many years ago but I’m hard remembering fucking this muscular hairy guy on the floor of his living room. Afterwards he kindly said I had done well and may have given some tips but I recall coming reasonably quickly. For the first few years I thought I was a top although my first boyfriend was a top and insisted I always bottom for him. That was good experience as I found I was good at that and am really versatile. Over time I tended to top and bottom about equally although these days I mainly crave guys shooting there loads into me, I get more satisfaction from that than topping guys but will do whatever gives my partner most satisfaction. Flipping is best of all.

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Went to the sauna hoping to get bred but ended up doing all the fucking myself. I only came once in a muscular white guy after a long rather mechanical fuck. I couldn’t immediately place his accent, he’d only grunted a few words, but he eventually told me he was Russian.

I should probably have gone for ‘it makes no difference’ as I suck anyone but since I mainly seek out sex with Asian guys I went for Asian. I was surprised it was a minority choice. No matter, more hot Asian cock for me.

I’ve only done this once but it was fun. I had a mouthful of cum, unusual for me, and I quickly kissed the guy, who was quite surprised. I think it was called a snowball or something.

I’m a bit ambivalent. At a venue I usually refuse where a bottom asks me to wear a condom and pull off a condom where one of those annoying men tries putting it on me without asking. They either relent or I go looking for someone else. However, if they’re cute I’ll try to fuck them with a condom although with a rubber I often lose interest or go soft if they can even get the condom over my thick cock. When I’m bottoming I discourage condoms but with often relent just to get the cock in my hole. But I find them uncomfortable and will ask them to remove it which often works once the guy has fucked me for a little while and is worked up. On a hookup it’s a bit different. The guys who fuck with me have usually read my bareback only on my profile so it’s not a problem. However, if they insist I go along with it as I can’t lose the fuck. However, I usually find guys are persuadable to go raw when I explain I’m on PrEP and they’ve seen my hard cock.

I went to the new 357 at its new venue on a visit to Sydney a few month ago. It was very disappointing. No better than bodyline which had deteriorated as a place for sex over the years. Far fewer guys, far fewer Asian guys. The 357 website implies some improvements to the place but it seemed exactly like bodyline to me. It was supposed to be lights out night at 7pm and I searched and thought I had the wrong night. In fact it was just a small part of the top floor. I did manage to fuck there once but it was nothing like the blackout at the former venue which was really hot and would have me top and bottoming many times in an evening. I was so upset at the loss of the original 357 so soon after the loss of Bangkok Babylon, my two favourite saunas in the world.

The bathhouse was very poorly attended on Wednesday afternoon. I was there for 3 hours and nothing. I got a pass out and headed home for a bite but returned at 7pm to see if things had improved. It was no better in fact down to 5 or so patrons. Still I managed to catch a young Asian guys eye and followed him into a room and locked the door. He lay on his back and I bent over to suck his smallish but hard cock. I mother along the bed so he could suck me at the same time. After a while his fingers moved to my lubed hole which signalled to me that he wanted to top. He hoped off the bed and I bent over and he slipped his raw cock into my asshole. He started thrusting and in less than a minute he was gasping and apologetically coming in my ass. It would have been nice to have taken a bigger cock and to have been pounded for longer but I was just glad to have taken a raw cock and been bred so the bathhouse visit was not a total write-off.