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I’ve been to many darkrooms, indeed the cruise club I go to every week has a couple, but last night I had some variations on the usual dark room theme. It was the local bathhouse’s monthly orgy night where all the rooms are locked open, lights are dimmed and guys only get tiny towels to carry. It’s also the night under 26 get cheap entry so a lot of young guys. Always attracts more than a hundred guys and although condoms are provided it’s all bareback. Anyway many of the rooms are essentially dark rooms unless someone turns on the light which happens only occasionally. A lot of groping, fucking and getting crushed up against a mass of naked guys. I topped and bottomed many times and took three loads. In one really dark room I went in and bent over on a bed, I’m pretty sure there were a couple of other guys there but couldn’t make them out. I heard a guy walking past on a corridor say to he friend ‘oh hey, there’s an ass for you’. Soon I found fingers and a rock hard cock exploring my hole and then a really hard fuck for ages until he had to take a break - I never saw who it was. A minute later, on my back now, a young guy took his turn and came in my hole. Later I went to the steam room, fairly large and usually quiet. I’d never seen it like this night really crowded and with next to no light and steam much like a dark room with behaviour modified accordingly ie much sucking and fucking. I took a couple of nice cocks up my ass and with the lube washed off I think the previous loads were the main lubricant. Sweet.

@Stulong

2021 was a terrible year for me personally and load-wise. I took just 10 loads for the entire year, down from 53 two years before. I’ve already taken 20 loads this year and it’s only April, twice my total for the whole of last year.

Yesterday at the cruise club I dropped by in the afternoon and returned in the evening. Topped 6 times but regrettably bottomed only once. Got in some pretty enjoyable fucks including several with a young twink wearing a jock and a backpack and a hot dark guy who attracted a crowd when I fucked him and I ended up tag teaming with another guy with a thick cock. He revved me up by telling me he’d taken three loads already. Eventually, when I pulled out from a standing fuck of a slim twink in the dark room the guy standing behind me started fucking me and I took my only load of the day .

Thirty years ago after several episodes of STIs my doctor recommended I get regular 4 monthly STI tests, after a couple of years he suggested twice yearly was sufficient. In those days I went to a hospital Sexual health clinic. In the last 5 years on PrEP I’ve been getting regular 3 month tests, just through a local medical lab on prescription. However, recently my circumstances changed with more opportunities for casual sex increasing. I now usually go to the sauna once a week, the cruise club once or twice a week, have app hookups ever couple of weeks and a regular fuck buddy who usually breeds me on a Friday. I reckon my risk of STIs has gone up 6 fold. Accordingly, I have had my doctor change my lab prescription to get monthly STI tests. I was especially concerned to limit the exposure to my fuck buddy. I believe most active gay guys in my city are on PrEP and a mandatory 3 month testing regime, which is good, or at least I assume they are given nearly all encounters are raw. I wondered how often other guys who are getting regular tests are doing them.

It doesn’t particularly worry me but the first time I was aware of it was in Berlin in the Tiergarten. A hot guy had cruised me and we had crossed a fence and hid in some the bushes not far from a road and a path. We sucked each other and then was taking turns to fuck each other. Boy was this hot as we paused occasionally as people walked along the path. At one stage I glanced over my shoulder as the guy had paused in his thrusts and I wanted him to go deep and I noticed he had one hand on his phone filming me. It must have been ready in his shirt pocket. Naive me never thought to do that. We carried on and each came and the most I could do was to scramble to get my phone out and get a quick snap of my introduction to unexpected sex filming. Hot.

Friday seemed promising, then disappointing and finally worked out fine. I had set up on twitter, over the previous week, a Friday hookup with a young guy new to town. Indeed, I’d even helped him arrange an appointment to get a prescription for PrEP. Then he ghosted me on Friday throwing my plans into disarray (he later apologised but he may or may not be a flake). However, I have a sweet young friend who usually drops by for a cup of tea, chat and a fuck on his way to or from Friday prayers at a mosque across town so I though I was sorted. However, for the first time in a month of hookups he went offline on whatsapp at the critical times so things were looking dim. I decided therefore to head off to the cruise club which can be a bit hit or miss on a Friday evening. I was in luck scoring 9 fucks, topping twice and bottoming 7 times. I took two loads. The first fuck was almost as soon as I arrived through a gloryhole by a guy with a long and thick cock. He shot a big load in my ass which served as lube the rest of the evening. Another guy with a big cock pulled me into a booth which was set up to give access to suck guys standing in an elevated darkroom. After he started pounding my ass in the confined space I discovered he’d also started blowing a guy through a glory hole at head height - he was so skilled that it didn’t diminish the strength of his thrusts although I had to twist around to awkward angles. One of the highlights was hooking up with an Adonis in the dark room. He had a strong smooth chest and fit body, his balls were pulled down with rings and his cock was extra long, hard and straight. He was clearly taken with my hard and thick cock and it was soon clear he liked it a bit rough so I dragged his balls down when I sucked him and nibbled and twisted his nipples. He suddenly pushed his long cock into my asshole pausing only to ask “can you take this?”, I’m not sure whether he’d have stopped for a no but he got an enthusiastic yes from me. He fucked me again later in another dark room with a different group of men, which was also where I got my final fuck and load of the evening from a well endowed guy.

These days I go naked inside the house. Out of the house I sometimes go commando otherwise boxers.

For the month of January 2022 I took 8 loads in the ass and deposited one load in another guy’s ass. Not bad since I only took 10 loads for the whole of last year (2021 was a slow year for obvious reasons).

Taken 7 loads so far in my ass and pumped one load into another guy’s ass.

I get few hookups through BBRTS than Grindr but was excited to be oinked by a super hot athletic Asian guy. We chatted for a while then we connected through whatsapp to share pics and chat some more. We then left it to the following weekend when I messaged him suggested hookup. I heard nothing on Saturday so messaged again on Sunday. He replied and suggested 2pm giving me 30 minutes to prepare. He was actually 45 minutes late and I had suspected he’d flaked out. His body was as hot as his pictures suggested and we were soon kissing, nipple tweaking and hardening up. Before long he’d pushed his cock in my hole at the start of 20 minutes of hard pleasure. When he eventually came it was a big load. Cum was still leaking out 8 hours later.

For the last month or two I’ve been a regular at a Wednesday ‘happy hour’ 11am-1pm half priced entry at a city sauna. It’s been a bit slow but usually fuck a couple of times. This week was the first after New Year and was slower than usual so I was pleased to be cruised by a bear who pulled me into a room and had me fuck him. Quite a decent session but neither of us came before we took a break. While I couldn’t be sure, I had the impression that the guy, a European, did not speak much English. Actually bears aren’t really my type as I tend to prefer smooth guys, especially Asians. Also I’m versatile and while statistically I top about 50% more than I bottom, I actually prefer and crave to be fucked. However, there were so few guys around that when I saw this bear again I tried to engage him but he brushed past and walked away. Accordingly, I stood in a good spot in a dark room and waited. I was keeping an eye out for an Asian guy who had arrived and I’d seen walking nearby and who I’d expect to return. I was rewarded as the Asian guy came and stood nearby. Before I made my move the bear came back and stood near me and started stroking me. He eventually manoeuvred me so I was standing fucking him. However, I kept eyeing the Asian guy and motioning towards him and he came closer. His cock was pretty hard and I disengaged from the bear and had the Asian guy fuck me. The three of us played around a bit and then the Asian guy disappeared. The bear went to the door of a room and pulled me inside, pushing another guy who was hanging around away. Then I saw the Asian guy already in the room. The action had already been better than usual but was about to be taken up a level. The Asian guy also seemed not to speak much English but it soon became clear that the bear and the Asian had agreed to set up a double penetration, something I’d been fantasising about doing for a while. The bear was clearly a bottom and did all the arranging, no words ever being spoken. I was cast as the ‘anchor’ top to be inserted first, presumably because I had the bigger cock, and the Asian was to enter last and do the thrusting. The bear clearly knew what he was doing and eventually, after some sucking and trying different positions, I was fully inserted and the Asian guy started pounding. It was by now too much for me as I’d already fucked a few times not knowing what was in store and I came in the bear’s ass - the second cock was such a turn on. Having slipped out, the bear sucked me semi-hard again and eventually I was back in place in a different position at the edge of the bed and the Asian guy thrusting in again. After a while the bear was sated, he may have come, and left the room. There was clearly some chemistry between the Asian and me. The final chapter then started. After lying together in recovery cuddle for a while I was fully hard and despite appearing to be a top the Asian obviously wanted to try my cock. My cock is quite thick at the base and I have found some Asians to have some trepidation in taking a cock bigger than they’re used to, especially as here being a top rather than truly versatile. Surprisingly he slipped a condom on me as none had been used before and he straddled me and slowly let it enter. He gasped each time he took the full girth. After a bit of that we got back to him fucking me, which he was more skilled at and, happily, all bareback. We did a good variety of positions and we both were fully satisfied.

Like most guys, I guess, for me 2021 was a terrible year for fucking around. As well as the general Covid situation my city was locked down for an extended period. And I had heart surgery which affected 3-6 months of the year. So I only took 10 loads and bred 7 times. I accelerated in November and December and bred, or was bred, 10 times in those months. So that’s a small glimmer of hope coming into 2022.

Just got home from local cruise club where I fucked 5 guys (1 guy twice) and was fucked once. Naturally raw, I can’t recall the last time someone used a condom with me at that club. Only a few of the fucks were memorable. The first began as I was being sucked at a gloryhole. The guy started fingering my hole while sucking me so after a while I put my ass in the gloryhole and was delighted to be rimmed. Before long the guy left his spot and appeared behind me and rammed his cock in my hole and started pumping. The best topping of the evening also began through a gloryhole encounter. I cruised a guy in the maze but instead of leading me to a room with a bed he went to a booth with a hole connecting to the next booth, which I entered. He positioned his asshole next to the gloryhole and I started to push my cock into his hole. However, the height, angle and tightness of his hole made things difficult so I quickly slipped into his booth to get a better shot at fucking him. We fucked for a while in the cramped booth then moved to a room where I could give him a better pounding. The light was better too and I could see his smooth taut skin and body that was a cross between an athlete and a body builder. I was able to admire the 4 large stars tattooed on his back.

Went to the happy hour lunchtime session at a downtown bathhouse. After showering I went to one of my favourite places which is upstairs in an alcove off a dark room. This tiny room, or large cupboard, is pretty dark and has a half sized mattress on a raised platform with a couple of stirrups hung from the (low) ceiling encouraging one to live on your back with feet in the air. After a while one guy, then another, come past and in the dark feel me over, chest, legs, cock, ass and they each like what they feel, especially my lubed asshole. They were both fairly hairless Asian youths and, unusually, both used condoms as they fucked me. I said to the second guy that he needn’t use a rubber but he said he should. However, when he’d been pumping for quite a while he asked where I wanted his load and I said in my ass. He removed his condom and fucked me some more before cumming in me.

A guy who had messaged me a week before suddenly contacted me to say he’d come around in 10 minutes to fuck me. Not long to clean up but luckily (or for other reasons, unluckily) I had already had two hookups arranged that afternoon that were washouts. One was a twitter hookup that simply flaked out, no explanation. The other was a genuine Grindr meet where the guy lost his hardon after too much poppers. The guy, a middle aged somewhat toned Chinese guy, arrived and we went in my bedroom after removing two dogs. He had a nice reasonably sized cock which I worked for a while with my mouth. He wasn’t on PrEP but willing to bareback anyway as he said he got STI tested monthly and only topped, except with his boyfriend who was still in China and hadn’t yet been able to join him. I sat on his cock and pleasantly rode home for ages. He was playing with my cock, fascinated with how thick it was. Then I lay on the bed and he doggy fucked me before moving me onto my back to drop a big load in me. With him living only 10 minutes away I’m hoping he’ll become a regular fuck buddy.

A Grindr hookup wanted a long session, in contrast to a guy earlier in week who wanted me to pump and dump, so I took my time. He was a sub bottom otter and I started with stroking his hairy chest and nibbling his nipples. He sucked my cock hard and I moved to his asshole which I rimmed for a very long time. I pushed my cock into his ass using just spit and thrust slowly and initially very shallowly before moving deeper. My cock is pretty thick at the base and it wasn’t long before the guy was reaching for the lube. Throughout he was taking sniffs of poppers and whenever in the right position was staring into my eyes. I fucked him in many different positions before we lay down and took a break. After we’d both got our strength back he sucked me fully hard again and we were at it again for quite a while. I had psyched myself up for a long session and could have gone for another hour but he wanted that load so asked me to jerk off into his ass. As I’m versatile rather than exclusively top I needed the extra stimulus of his finger in my ass and then I shot my load and massaged it into his hole and let him lick cum off my finger. He shot his load over his hairy chest.

The drought has broken a little for me: I haven’t fucked for 4 months or bred anyone for 6 months. And when relief came, it was literally around the corner a 3 minute walk away. I was contacted on Grindr, I didn’t have much time but was persuaded a quick pump n dump would be possible. We were both double vaxxed and I donned a mask and walked to his place. He left the door unlocked. He’d asked me if he should be ass up or on his knees. As I entered he was on his knees, he smiled and set to work sucking my thick cock, concentrating on the head then taking it all. ‘You want that ass now?’, as he bent over the bed ass up. I snapped a couple of pics as I held my white cock before his brown skinned ass then pushed my cock in his hole and started pumping. I worked him good, he was enjoying it and taking the odd hit of poppers as I went. Eventually I dumped a load in him and walked back into the sunshine.

I have a sex tally app (Kountr) to record numbers relating to fucks, loads and STIs. in relation to sex partners and encounters I have another app (S-Log) to record useful details of hookups.

The condom thing rarely comes up these days. In a bathhouse I’ll generally politely walk away if a condom is insisted upon. However, in a hookup where I’ve not persuaded about the merits of barebacking, I’ll generally respect the other guy’s preference and let him fuck me with a condom. If he wants me to top him with a condom I’ll try but I warn the guy that I may lose my erection. The last time I tried I went soft, took the condom off, had the guy suck me hard, put on a new condom and start again. I went through 4 condoms. The guy has since asked for another hook up and readily agreed that we go bare next time.

I’m a bit too inhibited to do dirty talk, the most verbal I get is usually ‘that’s hot’ and ‘harder, harder’, tame I’ll agree. However, I certainly acknowledge the mental and verbal aspect of sex - recently I was at a bathhouse and had fucked a guy near the start of the evening. I caught up with him later in the evening shortly before He left. I was fucking him, fairly mechanistically as I confess I didn’t find him that hot, when he mentioned he’d taken a couple of loads over the evening. It was like my cock was suddenly supercharged. I was suddenly pumping hard and dumped a big load in him within 10 seconds. It was definitely the mental, not physical, change that was so electric. Perhaps there’s no better ‘dirty talk’ for a barebacker than to reveal the top is churning up fresh loads!

I started barebacking in 1986 or 2016 depending how I count things. In 1986 I met my partner and we always fucked raw. He was 10 years older than me and was top only whereas I was versatile. This was a bit frustrating for me and I eventually started fucking around as well though always with condoms. By about 1996 my partner and I had ceased having sex partly because my partner was fearful of getting infected by me. So my sex became 100% condoms again. This continued with minor lapses into raw sex until December 2016 when I made a firm decision to bareback full time. I went on PrEP in early 2017.

I think twitter is used (relevantly here) in 3 connected ways: to view porn (pull in images), to share porn (push out images) and to enable hookups (connections between some of those who are pushing and pulling). The mechanisms of twitter are varied and may differ between the three with porn viewing being the least intricate. (I use porn as shorthand, a more neutral term might be intimate images, but in this context we are seeking to arouse sexually.) Porn viewing - all that is required is to view others’ accounts displaying images of interest. If you have more particular interests, such as BB or a fetish, you’ll follow favourite accounts and return to view again. No real interaction required. Porn sharing - for some reason many of us like to share pictures of our sexual exploits on twitter. However, unless someone follows the account no one will see the pictures much less share them further. So for sharing other techniques are used, principally following accounts of like minded sharers. Also creating curated lists. No great interaction is required but there is scope to increase interaction as desired by commenting on others images etc. The connections will often be global. No one need know anyone’s identity beyond their twitter handle. Hooking up - this is the area that is less understood and that I would welcome people discussing. It’s a step away from the virtual side of twitter into real world interaction. Because of social taboos around porn, especially porn one has made oneself, these postings are almost always pseudonymous, carried out behind sensitive content settings, it is unlike some other parts of twitter where real world identity is freely disclosed. Also the use for hooking up is not something intended by the platform, unlike say the dating apps and so some improvisation is required (to use an analogy a bit like, say, the way in the real world we cruise in the shopping centre or fuck in public rest rooms, neither of which are intended by design). One difference with the porn uses is that one needs to connect with accounts with the same sexual interests that are local or in a place where one is likely to travel. This is not straightforward to achieve but possible in various ways.

To be flippant as a Catholic country condoms may be discouraged . To be serious, someone more familiar with the country should answer. I only spent one evening at a sauna in Manila about 6 years ago. I don’t recall condom use practices though I do remember a rather prudish staff member requiring me to keep my cabin door closed when I was trying to attract the interest of passers-by.

I use Grindr and BBRTS. Grindr is good for its being near universal but suffers from many flakes. BBRTS has a useful bareback premise but suffers from a lack of usual notification facility. I have tried a couple of other apps over the years but gave up as Grindr worked better for my locality. In anticipation of a planned trip to Thailand I installed blued which I understand is big there. Trip cancelled by Covid so now uninstalled. actually twitter is the hookup tool that interests me a lot at the moment. One of the most interesting aspect is that it is not designed as a dating app but can be slyly coopted for this slightly illicit use.