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Taken 11 loads, deposited 8 loads. Steady progress for an exceptionally quiet year. Missing my cancelled trips to Bangkok, Sydney and Taipei which would certainly have boosted my load rate.

I see that BBSP have notified that their next party will be next Sunday at Lateshift.

I wondered how common it is for guys to rim. My experience is that it seems to be a minority of guys but may perhaps have become a little more common in recent years. Is that other guys’ experience or am I missing out? I enjoy being rimmed but only rim other guys rarely - though those occasions are often the most intense sessions that I remember most vividly.

Went to my local cruise club on Sunday afternoon when they have a naked session where you have to arrive between 2.00 and 2.30pm when the doors are locked and the fun begins (actually the fucking has been on for half an hour by then as guys are at it within minutes of the doors opening). Probably over 50 guys there in the hour I stayed. Naked bodies packed the corridors, dark rooms, slings. I got fucked about 6 times and took 3 loads. To even things up I fucked about 4 guys. I put a bit of ‘Elbow Grease’ in my asshole before I arrived at the club and didn’t need to add any lube while there - once the first guy had bred me I think his cum helped the other cocks to enjoy a slippery ride.

I’ve been disappointed that BBSP hasn’t run a sex party in Auckland in July. Good on whoever set it up but there are plenty of guys eager for the next fuck fest.

Sunday afternoons are the best at Lateshift. Everyone is naked and fucking like rabbits. This afternoon I was fucked six times and took three loads. At least two of the guys had big cocks, which I like, one had a knob much bigger than his cock itself which can be fun (others who fucked me may have had big cocks too but I never saw or touched them, they just came in behind in the dark). Also fucked three guys but being fucked was most fun.

Visiting another city and was bred by a short muscular Asian guy 2 hours ago in my hotel room in a Grindr hookup. Nice body and passionate which made up for his cock being smaller than it had seemed in his profile. While he was fucking me he was very complimentary about how good my ass felt. He made a curious comment about how good it was to be able to push his cock all the way in which I didn’t really understand. Took a good load.

Just passed the half way mark for year and disappointed to have only taken 6 loads and deposited a further 6 loads. Easy to calculate that as 1 top and 1 bottom load per month. Will try to pick up the pace in 2nd half of the year.

Local bathhouse restarted their monthly orgy night which has been in abeyance since March, after they reopened 6 weeks ago. In the orgy night they switch off lights and TVs in the upstairs part of the venue where there are some mazes, gloryholes, darkrooms, and 11 bed rooms, including a couple of doubles, for which the doors are fixed open on orgy night. Guys only issued with tiny towels so it is also naked night on orgy night as well as being darkish. Big turnout, post-lockdown guys are valuing the community contact, and body contact, in the gay venues, hopefully they’ll continue to frequent them. Lots of sex to watch as well as getting some. Nearly all BB I think. Topped and bottomed several times and eventually deposited a load in a guy doggy style with other guys standing by and watching.

Went last night to monthly orgy night at Centurian sauna Auckland. Wow! When I arrived about 830pm the lockers had already all gone and my clothes were stored in a bag behind desk. More than 130 guys I heard. Mostly upstairs where the lights are off, doors locked open. Guys naked as only tiny towels issued. I’m not usually a fan of Centurian as it’s expensive and many of the young guys are stand-offish but last night’s event was pretty hot and sweaty. I didn’t get fucked as much as I wanted, two or three times and no loads, but I did fuck other guys 6 or 7 times and let a big load in the last one. All my sex was bareback and I only saw one guy making a point of using a condom amongst the dozens of fucking guys I saw. The orgy night is held on the first Thursday of each month from 7 pm. The big crowd may have been because it is the first since lockdown (or maybe the second as the sauna has been open since late May). I hope to be back next month.

Joined a recently formed local BB party network and last night had first chance to attend one of their events. Rather than the usual orgy (which I’m looking forward to) it was a was for tops only as a cute Asian guy had hired a hotel room and was blindfolded with his ass in the air ready to be bred by all comers. I was first there and so stripped down and was rimming and fucking the guy doggy when the next two guys arrived. I carried on for 10 minutes or so but it felt rude to leave the others standing around twiddling their thumbs so I rolled off to let another guy have a go. The next guy was really tall and had a beautiful long and thick uncut cock. I enjoyed watching him fuck and rim but he was at it for a very long time which is a bit of a problem when there’s only one bottom (he insisted there be no other bottoms) and a train line. It was a shame that we couldn’t make much noise as we could hear children screaming and other guests in the corridors. He paused for a while and let two other guys fuck and they were both pretty quick. Then it was my turn again and I found it hot that the hole now had some loads in it, and despite the pounding of the second guy’s big tool his ass was still pretty tight. I enjoyed the other guys watching and soon I pushed a load in him. About 10 guys registered but only 4 tops showed which was a shame but it’s a fairly new group and I suppose it takes a while for word to get around.

I had my first hookup after lockdown a few days ago connecting on twitter. Later the same day I went to a bathhouse shortly after 7pm when it opened. I was vacationing out of town and this was a gay sauna I’d not been to before in a small rural city. Although relatively small it had all the facilities: sauna, steam room, maze, cubicles, rooms, gloryholes, video room and sling. After showering I headed for the dark room and before long was being groped. I moved a little to a side room in the dark area and found a sling which I climbed into. However, some guys can’t take a hint and more groping and no fucking ensued. So I headed out to one of the rooms and laid on my back with the door open. Before long a gorgeous young Indian guy came past, paused and headed off but ducked into the room on his next circuit. He had a lovely large but soft cock which I started sucking and got semi-hard before he made it clear he wanted me to fuck him which I duly did. Regrettably he had me wear a rubber and couldn’t be persuaded otherwise. A bit more cruising and I found a guy face down on a bed so I started fucking him bareback.We moved into the next room after a while to use the sling and I ended up giving him an anal orgasm. After that was a standing fuck in a corridor, raw. Highlight of the evening was back in the room when a guy started expertly fondling my cock, once that progressed to my asshole and some lube was added, I switched off my back and knelt on the bed ass arched to leave no doubt what I wanted. He turned out to have a large cock and was an expert in using it, adopting some unusual but stimulating rhythms. He came in me but unfortunately had used a condom, as seemed fairly typical in this rural area. Finally back in the sling, this time with me getting pounded, albeit by a fairly short cock. A lot of effort put in by the guy but he didn’t Cunard I didn’t get much from it either.

@traveller_gay had my first twitter hookup a few days back. In the last few weeks I had made an effort to try to follow on twitter some of the more explicit gay guys’ accounts in my home town. Then one morning saw a post from a guy saying he was hosting all that day and night and was calling for bottoms to hit him up. I responded, a few DMs and pic exchange later, and that same morning I was at his 10th floor apartment being pounded and we both have videos on our twitter accounts to immortalise the event.

Got bred for the first time since 14 March (yes, I remember the date) on Tuesday, so about 3 months without feeling a cock in me. Covid-19 has been eliminated where I live and the final restrictions were lifted that day and the hookup was in celebration. I had been planning for this day and so had gotten a home HIV test the previous week and had been taking daily PrEP again for over 7 days. I hooked up on Twitter for the first time so I didn’t have the usual profile details you get on Grindr and so had limited data to go on but had seen several videos the guy had posted and he was keen to bareback me. As I was away from the city I had to drive 60 km for the hook up which is much further than I’d normally go but since my cock was driving me I had no choice. When I got to his apartment I was a little disappointed that his cock wasn’t bigger but I was just happy to be enthusiastically fucked by an enthusiastic young guy. He was keen on making videos so was happy to take a few for me on my phone. Gave me a good load. Later that day I headed off to the bathhouse, bathhouses generally having reopened at least a week earlier.

Visiting outdoor sex places particularly Gran Canaria Fickstutenmarkt both top and bottom (two on my list) Bottoming in DP topping a guy in blindfolded anonymous hotel hookup and hosting such a scene with multiple guys coming and going (two on my list) Going on a gay cruise ship Taking a tour of many cities pride festivals (with sex at each, of course)

Visited the website - great job! how did the party on 28 May go? Good I hope, love to hear some details.

After exactly two months off PrEP, and celibate the whole time, I’ve restarted taking the daily pill. The local Aids Foundation kindly couriered me a free home HIV test kit so I could follow the proper protocol and unsurprisingly I was negative. Community transmission of Covid-19 has been eliminated where I live and both local gay saunas and my favourite cruise club have reopened although I haven’t yet been partly because I need to take PrEP for 7 days to get back to full protective strength. My partner wants me to wait until the final relaxation of controls before fucking around, which is probably less than 2 weeks away, so I can wait to preserve domestic harmony. Then I have some catching up to do ...

Good on yer. Unfortunately my partner won’t let me fuck around until Alert Level 1 and he can sniff sex on me from 100 m. So I hope you’ll have a repeat later!

So sad to see it close. Only discovered it for myself late last year and cursed all my prior wasted visits to Melbourne which hadn’t included Club 80. Visited Nud night - wow what a place, up there with Berlin’s Lab.oratory in my book. Also visited on a regular night, and while not as good as Nud night, took enough loads to make it a memorable night.

I should be in a pretty good position to fuck around, since I live the virus has been well controlled and all but eliminated, and yet I’m not yet getting any. The reasons are primarily ethical so I appreciate this thread. While the local cruise club where I usually give and take most loads hasn’t yet reopened (It couldn’t ever meet distancing requirements so will need to wait for those to be lifted) I could easily hook up on BBRTS or Grindr for while they were quiet on lockdown they’re busy again now - and I grew a beard on lockdown, my main accomplishment, so can try Scruff. My problem is my partner and this raises ethical as well as practical issues. He’s much older than me, not in good health and smoked most of his life so he’s one of the vulnerable groups. He’s said he’s scared of dying of this thing. He’s also become an armchair expert highlighting every risk - he’s pointedly mentioned risk of transmission in semen to me and my counter about the study being based on small samples and possibly non-infective remnants is met by his unearthing of additional studies. His latest casual comment to me is that it can be transmitted in sweat. I’m sceptical of the significance of a lot of this in the context of a country where the virus is under control and nearly eliminated in contrast to a place with rampant community transmission. So my first ethical issue is that I have to take into account his heath. The second relates to reconciling our vastly divergent perceptions of risk. Ethically it is problematic to simply disregard his opinions and sneak out and fuck around. That would be disrespectful and remove agency from him since I return to the house and in his mind put him at mortal danger. But if I simply accept his world view it removes agency from me. The only way I can see of seeking to resolve the issue is to talk the matter through and to seek agreement on when and how I get back to fucking around. Unfortunately as something of an introvert I am doubtful of my skills to navigate this successfully. I also fear he will want me to stay celibate until a vaccine appears! The next set of ethical issues are connected to my partner. He won’t let me host guys at home. That’s reasonable but it does mean that hygiene is not entirely in my hands but is dependent on a third party (e.g. showering, disinfecting surfaces or things). There’s also the other sex partner. I don’t have any stable fuck buddies (well I have one in another country, but that doesn’t help here). If I agree some boundaries with my partner (eg to shower, or use a mask, or select someone who is careful) I have to involve a third party in this. I suspect some guys will see my partner’s worries over risks as over the top and reject my hook up requests. That’s probably more a practical rather than an ethical issue but the ethical approach I think will be to be open at the outset and set some ground rules. I’m not actually a paragon of virtue. Sneaking around and fucking in what I consider a responsible and safe way is an option (eg no oral, doggy style, hand washing, masked). Unfortunately my partner has a keen sense of smell since he stopped smoking. In January he was away for the weekend and for the first and only time I picked up a hookup in my car, let him fuck me at home and drove him back to the train station. The following day my partner returned and confronted me about bringing someone home saying he could smell that I’d had someone there (it was hot and the young guy was in a tank top and a bit sweaty). He even shampooed the car seats, which may be down to the load starting to leak from me as I drove the guy back! my final ethical decision, if you can call it that, concerns condoms. In deference to my partner I think I might consider asking guys to use them if I’m bottoming. Probably won’t bother if I’m topping. I’m not sure on this one and will wait for what the best medical advice is.

A few cosmopolitan encounters I remember. With an airline gate staffer at Lima airport in the handicapped toilet. in some bushes at Berlin’s Tiergarten. Dunes at Lisbon’s beach 19. Took a hookup back to fuck in a Japanese-style capsule hotel in Sydney with people in pods a few feet below and beside us.

I’ve not had much luck with wearing a jockstrap in cruise clubs or saunas and have usually removed it after a while. So my experience seems different from everyone else who has replied. Possibly I’m not doing it right. It might also be because I’m versatile and find guys grabbing my cock and I feel obliged to fuck them (it’s only polite to do so).

It can be slightly distracting, in a charming way, when a dog or cat jumps up on the bed or wanders around in the background.

I have no preference, either is good. Where I am most guys are uncut so I do especially enjoy the variety when an occasional circumcised guy happens along or when I’m travelling.

Where I am it’s too early to tell if particular venues will close permanently but I share your concern. The saunas and cruise clubs were already in a bit of a downward spiral of lower turnout due to apps resulting in price rises which made it harder for many of us to afford going so often. Ten years ago my city of over 1 million had 5 saunas but now there are only two. I worry that soon there may be none.