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Went to the bathhouse on Thursday evening when a special event draws in well over 120 guys each month from 6pm onwards. It’s set up for group sex and fucking in front of people as all the rooms have their doors fastened open. It’s reasonably dim in the cruising areas but not dark although the lights in some rooms are disconnected. Everyone was naked as only tiny hand towels were provided. I positioned myself self in one of rooms at the end of a corridor. Lying across the single bed, head in direction of the wall of the room, ass pointing towards the area guys can walk along past the 3 or 4 guys positioned to be picked at any one time. I guess it was variously the missionary and deep stick position often with legs up or sloping backwards. There is a lube dispenser in the room for the tops to grab a squirt to moisten their cock although none was needed after a few slippery cocks had greased my hole. The first few guys had plenty of room to fuck me but after 20 minutes it was very crowded and guys had to push past and in the semi-darkness had to use their hands to find ass and asshole although my legs in the air was a good guide. In all, 15 guys fucked me. As far as I could tell there were at least 5 very large cocks and several very short but thick ones. One guy was rock hard, long cock and went on for at least 25 minutes. As I’d been in my back with legs in the air for ages I had to change position and put my legs on the floor and be taken from behind. By the time I finished I took two loads. Reflecting on it that evening I reckoned I had really enjoyed 5 of the fucks and the other 10 were a bit nondescript although I was glad to have brought pleasure to the young tops.

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I go with most guys and often find that I have a great fuck with guys who are not really my “type”. But if I were to name physical things that make me hard it might be any of the following list. I should add that I’m versatile so I top as often as I bottom. Also some of the attributes are opposites as quite unlike individuals turn me on. I don’t turn guys away if they’re missing these attributes. completely smooth chests chests that are very hairy but not long or curly hair but soft to brush my hand or face through sensitive nipples, but preferably not overly large Skin colour that contrasts with my own small ears or hands nice smile shaved or trimmed pubes hard cock big cock slim body

I hardly know where to begin this month. I took loads on 13 days this month, a record for me, next best was on 11 days in the month. The funny thing is that busy periods for that usually happen when I’m on holiday but this was at home. It all started with a straightforward Grindr hookup which led to a young 24 yo guy staying at my house for a week. Something of a fantasy. He was new to the city and I showed him around , helped him open a bank account, find an apartment etc. he kindly flooded my guts with his cum a number of time but the month was good too for other hookups, bathhouse visits and a threesome. I still have a day to go in the month so will head out cruising …

Not a deal breaker for me, and coincidentally was fucked by a guy at a bathhouse this afternoon, the first time I’d seen one for 4 months. I have ’condoms only’ on all my profiles so it’s not an issue for app hookups. In bathhouses and cruise clubs it happens occasionally. Last month in a darkroom a guy tried to roll a condom on my cock which I ripped off, I wasn’t having that and didn’t fuck with him. However, although very rare, I accept tops using condoms if I’m horny to get fucked (as I was this afternoon).

I was in a long term relationship until 2 years ago when my partner died. While he was ok with me fucking around, one of his preferences was that I not form relationships and so not see guys I fuck again. For years I followed this but eventually gave in and was willing to see guys a second time but didn’t seek them out. Later I decided his rule was ridiculous, fucking guys on repeat occasions didn’t undermine what I had with my partner (which by then wasn’t sexual) so I started seeking out fuck buddies. I regret the wasted years as I lost track of some of the best fuckers but in last few years have started keeping better records of my sexual contacts. I’ve found it’s best to have multiple contact points as a single app can be insufficient, WhatsApp seems best. I wish someone had given me that tip years ago although it seems obvious now. I found my first fuck buddies on trips out of town, on business or holiday, because I was paying lip service to my partner’s rule. I had business trips to Hong Kong and hooked up with a guy who liked to stay over in the hotel meaning in a single over-nighter I was fucked in evening, woken in middle of the night, and first thing in the morning. We hooked up on subsequent trips for several years. Later when I abandoned the no repeats rule altogether I had a series of fuck bodies locally and more often in another city I’d often travel to. One of the hottest young guys was a 20 minute cycle ride away, an absolutely great fucker who would load me up. My only contact with him was Grindr so imagine my disappointment when his account went inactive. I continue to curse my failure to get his WhatsApp. I continue to cultivate fuck buddies, in last few weeks recruiting one in bathhouse and later hooking up in his apartment. Another recently acted out an anonymous fantasy with me leaving the hotel door unlocked and lying naked and blindfolded on the bed. I haven’t yet reached the point where I have sufficient reliable and available fuck buddies to satisfy my needs so most of my fucking around is still with the apps and saunas but I’d like to shift the balance.

At times I’ve had good experiences with BBRTS to be followed by nothing at all for long stretches. I’ve probably not hooked up with it for more than six months but keep it as one of my two or three main hook up apps for home and travel as it seems to reach some guys more effectively than, say, Grindr. Some of my most memorable fucks have been through BBRTS but the quantity is much much less than Grindr. There are a huge number of guys that use it in my home city (not all online at any one time) yet nearby cities have virtually none. It can be hit and miss.

Success this time at the local saunas monthly orgy night that attracts a huge crowd of guys. On this night the doors to the fuck rooms are all locked open and guys only given a tiny towel.. in effect no privacy either wandering around or fucking. It’s a total non-stop bareback fuck fest for some guys although not always for me. The place is so packed that in some places you are tight against naked guys and can’t move till someone starts exiting. started in the steam room. On orgy night there’s always a crowd of guys standing and playing rather than the usual sitting around the edges. As a warm up I like to suck some cocks, and I got some very good mouthfuls. One guy kept coming back and indicated he wanted to get fucked. I tried to oblige but didn’t get far in without lube, as the steam room tends to wash away any water based lube applied in advance. I saw someone sit on a guys cock and ride it so I took my chance when he left. The guys cock was pretty fat and hard to take although I had earlier taken the precaution of greasing my hole with oil based lube, elbow grease. So I’d taken my first cock of the night. I headed up to the main cruising area which was packed with guys. Inching my way into the rooms I settled down by a couple fucking with the notion I’d slip in and carry on when the top tired. But they went on and on . So I bent down alongside with my ass in the air hoping to hook a passing cock and sure enough I was soon being fucked though not as long as I’d have liked. Meanwhile a young Asian guy had sprawled across the bed seeking some attention. I caressed his butt and he reached over and felt my hard cock, obviously liking what he felt he slithered right across the bed and positioned himself and I slid my cock into his tight asshole. I pounded away for a few minutes, let someone else have a turn, then restarted this time with him on his side to get deeper. Moving into another dark room I felt another Asian guy taking an interest in my cock. We took turns to suck but his fingers moved to my hole so I positioned myself to take him up my ass standing, no mean feat in the crowded room. He fucked me for a while, moving around the room, till he said we should try for a room. We wandered down the corridor but most rooms taken and I had to explain to him that we couldn’t shut the door of any room . Eventually we found a wide unused mattress in a darkened alcove without anyone else present and he started to fuck me doggy style and rear entry. Other guys would come in and fuck alongside, annd go, others would come and watch or touch, but he kept fucking away. Eventually he got me on my back legs in the air, occasionally kissing, and on he went relentlessly pounding away for over 30 minutes. His body was bathed in sweat and when his head was over mine I could feel the sweat dripping on me. His cock was not large, but hard, and it was good eventually take his load. He gave me his number and address afterwards so will be seeking a repeat session before long.

Sunday afternoon at the cruise club. Had struck out previous visit but this was different, almost a record for me. It was a naked cruise session although some subs wear jock, a few wear t shirts. I just wore shoes and socks. Within 5 minutes I had wandered into a dark room and started sucking the cock of the guy already there. His fingers reached around and stroked my hole which was my signal to reposition myself and immediately he was shoving his raw cock into my hole. This first guy had a distinctive rhythm to his thrusts which were designed to slam down as hard as he could. A few guys had gathered around and after a while he let another guy have a turn fucking me then he started his hard thrust# again. The crowd of guys lurking behind me was surprisingly large by now and there was a fairly orderly process of them fucking me one after the other. I was fucked 9 times in an hour without moving out of the dark room. There guys came in my asshole. The first guy to cum, came with a lot of noise and that absolutely worked up the following guys to fuck my hole. The next to deposit a load did so with less fanfare but it was getting sloppy now. After a few more fucks, the last guy to come jerked his cock almost to climax and then pushed in my hole and made the deposit.

It’s nice to get a satisfied top come back for more but it was surprising to be contacted on Grindr out of the blue by a guy who bred me two years ago. He contacted me first thing in the morning asking if I would be available at about 5.30 pm, so I had to wait all day which was ok as I had things to do. When he arrived he was just as I remembered. I didn’t recall the face but … that cock and body. The cock was thick, long, cut with a big head, curved upwards and rock hard. He was tall and beefy. He was Polynesian, muscular with a traditional tattoo on one arm. i set to sucking his tool and after a while bent over my bed for him to fuck me. Then we climbed on the bed for more doggy before I lay on my back with legs in the air. He pumped and pumped before eventually depositing a big load which seemed to go on for 30 seconds. Hopefully I won’t have to wait more than a next year for the next load.

It’s nice to get a satisfied top come back for more but it was surprising to be contacted on Grindr out of the blue by a guy who bred me two years ago. He contacted me first thing in the morning asking if I would be available at about 5.30 pm, so I had to wait all day which was ok as I had things to do. When he arrived he was just as I remembered. I didn’t recall the face but … that cock and body. The cock was thick, long, cut with a big head, curved upwards and rock hard. He was tall and beefy. He was Polynesian, muscular with a traditional tattoo on one arm. i set to sucking his tool and after a while bent over my bed for him to fuck me. Then we climbed on the bed for more doggy before I lay on my back with legs in the air. He pumped and pumped before eventually depositing a big load which seemed to go on for 30 seconds. Hopefully I won’t have to wait more than a next year for the next load.

I didn’t have high expectations at my local bathhouse on Wednesday afternoon, but decided to just take things easy. However, I found that there was no time for relaxation and was almost worn out by two hot sessions. l started in the steam room. A good looking young smooth Asian guy came in and sat across the room from me. He made no move so I walked across, kneeled down and started sucking his soft cock. He let me suck but remained soft for a long time in the steaming heat. Eventually he was as hard as he was going to get with his smallish cock. I persevered but received no encouragement, no hand or body movements, no words. I stood up and returned to sit near a second guy who had been watching and playing with his own cock. He was older than the young guy, hairy and, importantly, his cock, though only a bit bigger than the first, was rock hard. And he responded to my touching and then sucking. He was enjoying it and he reached around casually to touch my butt and finger my hole which was lubed. I positioned my hole over his cock and gently eased the head in. But he was playing hard to get or, either didn’t like to fuck in the steamer or at least with the other guy watching. He silently got up and left. Wordlessly I followed and he walked through the bathhouse, up the stairs and nodded to a room. We entered and he kept the room in darkness. Removing my towel I got a squirt of lube into my hole in anticipation. I soon found that hard cock pushing it’s way into my hole. We moved onto the bed and he founded me relentlessly for 15 minutes before, in the dark I manoeuvred into a different position to feel his hard raw cock get even deeper. Later on my back I was able to run my hand through his hairy chest while he continued to fuck me. I do enjoy an occasional hairy chest even though most guys I go with seem always to have smooth bodies. The upstairs rooms in this bathhouse were close to the tin roof and were very hot. We were both bathed in sweat by the time we took a break. After washing off I headed down to some cubicles to try the gloryholes. Soon I was being sucked hard and before long could tell a mouth was being switched for an asshole. I thrusted away for a while but it wasn’t comfortable so I left the cublicle and knocked on the door of the adjacent cubicle intending to slip inside. However, a tall Asian guy emerged with different ideas and grabbed my hard cock leading me down the corridor and around a corner to some rooms. On the way he had a quick word with an old white guy he’d obviously met earlier, we slipped into the brightly lit room and he asked if I was into threesomes. I said sure and he let the old guy in. I started the ball rolling by fucking the Asian guy standing with him bent over the bed. Then the old guy fucked him before the Asian guy began fucking me. He had a big cock. While he was fucking me I realised the old guy started fucking the Asian guy from behind. After a while the Asian guy slid out and the old guy was fucking me. After this the old guy let himself out of the room and the Asian guy and I continued flipping until we too were both bathed in sweat and had to call it a day.

Down in New Zealand

He was the perfect fuckbuddy for me. Nice body, just my type. He liked sex and was keen for it. No time wasting on the apps. Nice guy. Good fucker, liked to breed me. He could host at his place 10 minutes away. A very sensual guy, he liked to kiss and cuddle as well as pound me in the ass with his big cock. We hooked up 4 times at roughly monthly intervals. We met on Grindr in 2020 after lockdown restrictions were lifted. Unfortunately, my only means of contact was Grindr messaging and that account went silent after another lockdown in my city in 2021. Nowadays I try to get a fallback means of contact such as WhatsApp or Telegram but I didn’t think to do that much to my regret.

I took 62 loads in 2023 which is the most taken since I started keeping tally in 2019. That means I’ve taken more than one load a week even though it doesn’t feel like I’m getting it that frequently! I bottomed 202 times in 2023 so taking a load every 3 or 4 times guys fucked me.

Entirely legal in New Zealand (except for foreigners on work visas who cannot undertake sex work).

They have one at Auckland’s Centurian sauna and I’ve taken a few loads using it.

I’ve sometimes wondered about the mechanics of underwater sex. I recently swam naked with a young guy in a private pool and cuddled, sucked and pressed our hard cocks against our assholes but never fucked. The videos I’d seen usually have the guys sensibly step out to the side of the pool to fuck. Well I got my chance to try last night when we were staying with a young guy in a fancy hotel with a large bath. He wanted sex in the bath and we did a lot of playing around sucking and kissing. He started positioning to fuck me but I reckoned it would be near impossible under water with any natural lubricant, spit or water based lube washed away. We could have stood or knelt with my ass just out of the water but that wasn’t the object. I hit on the idea of using an oil based lubricant and although we’d generally used silicon based lube I also carry small containers of ‘elbow grease’ with me on holiday (I don’t fist but find it lasts well for long sessions). Success it seems to be a good underwater lubricant even in warm water! I’d be interested to hear of other guys tips or experiences with underwater sex.

Had an ‘anonymous’ hookup - actually we knew each other and it was more playing out a fantasy - where I left my hotel room door unlocked and lay naked and blindfolded on bed ass up. I head someone enter some undressing and then a finger then tongue in my asshole. He rimmed me good and then moved around for me still blindfolded to suck his cock fully hard. He then returned and pushed his cock into my ass. It is years since we’d last met and I’d forgotten that he had a very long cock so enjoyed the pain of taking it all in. A good fucking later on my front then back resulted in a big load deep within my hole. I had my mask off by then and was amazed to see him shaking sporadically for almost a minute with an orgasm. I’m pleased I had a camera set up alongside the bed as it was a hot fuck.

Checked into a hotel in another city and had a Grindr hookup in my room within 30 minutes. Although a big hairy bear wasn’t my usual fare the key thing was his cock which was average length and uncut, and, importantly quite thick. It was a squeeze to get it in (although I knew I’d take it, I always do) and it gave that exquisite pain during the first thrusts. Gave me a good load, first of my city mini-break.

It’s years - decades - since I’ve done understall sex or cottaging but it was my gateway into gay sex before graduating to saunas and later Mail-box classified hookups (precursor to the apps). I think I started out innocently reading graffiti on toilet walls, jerking myself and suddenly realising there was someone else jerking in next stall. I’d return and look through the little drilled peepholes- too small to be glory holes - and jerk off watching each other. Eventually on a return trip a hand would have reached under and I expect I probably came almost immediately with his touch on my skin. I soon was reaching under myself and jerking other guys. With no one teaching me this stuff, it took me a while to figure out that with a bit of manoeuvring I could usually get my hard cock under the stall divider. Heaven, I was getting sucked! One might imagined things could finish at that level but, no, there were other ‘levels’ to this activity- always of course haunted by fear of interruption, discovery, exposure or even violence. I graduated to guys entering my stall for blowjobs and meeting in toilets but leaving in a car for blowjobs elsewhere. I was thrilled when someone wrote a note on toilet paper slipped under stall asking to meet outside where he gave me his number and invited me to call sometime. This led to the first time I fucked a guy, no going back after that. I have a vague recollection, but am a little uncertain, about fucking understall, but it didn’t last for me as I had discovered the gay sauna which was more versatile and less dangerous.

While ‘money boys’/prostitution is hardly a new trend, I’ve noticed in last couple years on the apps more young guys explicitly seeking ‘rewards’. While I find this annoying and undermining of the notion of equality in hookups, it seems to be something short of prostitution as the rewards sought are less than the ‘market rate’ for sex workers and - this is my impression anyway without actually using any - seem more like a tip than charging for sex. Perhaps I’m wrong with this impression. An equivalent I find in some Asian countries are guys who seek $5 for petrol or a taxi after sex, though this in not a new trend and again can be contrasted with guys who want to be paid for the sex itself.