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5 hours ago, ellentonboy said: I had a room for eight hours in Lauderdale, what was I supposed to do??? LMAO

Reading for any period of time, let alone 8 hours, would likely be out of the question, the light being too dim.

10 hours ago, evilqueerpig said:

There are varied definitions of cheating....form some, it only means fucking/getting fucked....if that applies to your husband, go suck all the cock you want.  If not, tread carefully.

Which calls to mind Bill Clinton's statement "I did not have sexual relations with that woman."

6 hours ago, PendragonSpirit said:

a married guy had video called his wife and set the phone just so, in order for her to watch him fucking me.

Like he had to prove he wasn't screwing a woman...?

On 5/22/2022 at 12:09 PM, hntnhole said:

The first gay bar was on the South side of State St, maybe the 4 hundred block, and the owner was Earl, a retired cop.

The Office -- in the 500 block of East State St. I knew people who had gone to it 15 or 20 years before I began to patronize the place. 

On 5/22/2022 at 12:09 PM, hntnhole said:

Just when I was going away to school another bar opened up somewhere in the area, but I never went there. 

That would be the bar at  7th St & 5th Ave; the owner was a guy named Jack. It was generally a more pleasant place than the Office (or so I found it to be); I spent a good amount of time there each summer when I was home from college. Years later when my partner and I visited my parents, I learned that Jack had opened a bar waaaay out on West State St. We went over there one night, and one might easily imagine my surprise upon seeing, sitting at the bar, Curtis, one of the regulars from the 7th St bar. Time and alcohol had written their messages upon his visage, but Curtis remembered me with no prompting (as did Jack), much to the amusement of my partner.

3 hours ago, TheSRQDude said:

Can I assume you weren't surprised at the reveal?

I wasn't surprised at all, and I expanded my vocabulary as well.

6 hours ago, hntnhole said:

Actually, the second-largest (at the time, population-wise) was Winnebago County, about 100 miles W of Chicago, and I grew up there.  Some one actually opened an adult bookstore w/gloryholes on 7th St, a block from the church we virtually lived in.  What happened?  The church bought the entire block of 7th St where the abs was, tore the entire block down, just to get rid of the Satanic Influence.

Eeeeeks...!!! I offer additional proof of the proposition that it's a small world: I grew up in Rockford, and in my college years, the bar that was catercorner from that ABS was my hangout. (I never went into that ABS; I wasn't much into ABS at that time. I can't remember the name of the bar, but I can picture the owner as sure as if he was standing in front of me.)

7 hours ago, TheSRQDude said:

...utter bellends....

Am I the only person who had to look up the definition in Urban Dictionary?

14 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

What are the chances that the same location would burn three times?  No one ever held accountable.  I heard the place was nice, it burned before I ever had a chance to go.

It's a shame in my opinion, I can't imagine that law enforcement didn't pursue an investigation into the matter.  If they did, I never heard if anyone was arrested.  I doubt the insured was paid on the claims.    Curious if this was someone who did not want that kind of establishment in their location, or the owner trying to get an early payout.

 

The first two fires occurred within a week. Tampa FD had a suspect, but that seems to be as far it went. [think before following links] https://www.abcactionnews.com/news/region-tampa/tampa-fire-rescue-identify-suspect-in-two-ybor-city-arsons. The third fire was several months later, and the suspect was arrested. [think before following links] https://www.abcactionnews.com/news/region-tampa/fire-ruled-arson-at-closed-business-in-ybor-city. There were assorted rumors that the business had had financial difficulties. Draw your own conclusions.

On 5/12/2022 at 12:00 PM, ellentonboy said:

I knew of one that burnt down under mysterious circumstances but that was a few years back.

Ybor Resort and Spa, 3 fires in 2017, arson each time.

11 hours ago, PIGTONIGHT said:

I keep hearing that it is closed for good and sold, but not sure how true that is

A search of the Hillsborough County Property Assessor's website shows that the place was sold on March 28 for a cool $1.5 million.

12 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

You are correct, it wouldn't. @fskn explained what I was thinking (good read, that!): the regular testing would catch it before it got that far. I would add that for me, the regular testing possibly has been the greatest benefit of being on PrEP. I haven't been having so much sex that I would have been likely to pick up HIV even without it, but it has been enough to pick up at least 2 STIs including syphilis, and we caught them early, which makes me happy.

Needless to say, my thanks to @fskn for sorting out what the "it" meant in the phrase "tested for it."  

On 5/6/2022 at 11:54 PM, viking8x6 said:

One possible cause for palm rashes is secondary syphilis. Being on PrEP, it shouldn't ever get to secondary

My college biology class was a kazillion years ago so I may have missed something, but how would an antiviral (the PrEP drugs) prevent the progression of a bacterial infection (syphilis)?

On 5/8/2022 at 7:00 PM, Ieatcumholes said:

another item on the discontinuity theme is when the last top shot on, in or around the bottom's hole and when the next top goes to fuck the bottom, there is no cum in sight anywhere and there was no video of anyone licking the area clean!

Another one that I forgot to put on my list.... A variation of this complaint: the bottom has shot a substantial load on his chest, but when the top pulls out to shoot on the bottom's chest [yeah, I know], the bottom's chest is as dry as a desert.

23 hours ago, AlwaysOpen said:

I hope you guys bargained hard for a lavish compensation package, and are enjoying those Lamborghini's you got as a signing bonus. !  Corner offices for everyone

To hell with the Lamborghinis, give them each a full tank of gas.....!

5 hours ago, Pozboy79 said:

I agree with just about everything people have said, but didn’t see anyone say this: I cannot porn where they switch the camera angle every 5 seconds.  There’s a good angle, and then it’s gone again…or I want to see that guy’s face and because of the hyperactive bouncing back and forth you never really get a good look.  Although I do like them, I think Fraternity X, Sketchy Sex, and Slam Rush all suffer from this seizure-inducing style. 

This was something else I forgot to put on my list. I'll add the related complaint of camera shots being way too close. I'd occasionally like to see the entire body of each guy during the action. I appreciate that many viewers enjoy a close-up view of the action, but I don't think the camera focus has to be so tight as to enable one to count hair follicles. 

On 3/28/2022 at 8:57 AM, piglooking4pigs said:

How many of us have thought at one (or ten) point, "Well, I've come this far, might as well get the load and leave" or "I put so much time into it, I might as well go through with it"? 

An example of the "sunk cost fallacy," our tendency to continue with something we’ve invested money, effort, or time into—even if the current costs outweigh the benefits. We end up making irrational decisions that are against our best interest — essentially digging ourselves into a deeper and deeper hole (no pun intended).

On 4/22/2022 at 2:24 PM, Muscledadbod said:

I just emailed them to see if they can be ordered online and shipped lol.

If you learn anything, could you share? My Corkscrew Swamp Sanctuary cap is looking a bit sad, and it's time to look for a replacement. 

10 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

So how is it that site is still allowed to operate if they really haven't verified who I am.  They accept payment from me and I haven't received any notification that I needed to provide a state of federally issued ID to continue on their site. 

In the first instance, you're not a content provider. [think before following links] https://www.webshield.com/post/mastercard-introduces-revised-standards-for-adult-merchants (April 2021 description of changes to MasterCard rules); [think before following links] https://segpay.com/the-content-creator-compliance-crisis/;[think before following links] https://segpay.com/the-keys-to-the-new-mastercard-rules/;[think before following links] https://segpay.com/MC_RevisedStandardsForNewSpecialtyMerchantRegistrationRequirementsForAdultContentMerchants.pdf. Beyond that, I don't know (though it's been an entertaining half hour rattling around the interwebz and finding this stuff).

On 4/25/2022 at 2:57 PM, ellentonboy said:

It' something I've noticed more so in recent years, and the black men I have been involved with have told me they would never date or be sexual with another man of color.  I don't understand the logic, I think if you eliminate someone solely for their skin color you could possibly miss out on an opportunity to meet a great individual.

I'll suggest another reason, one I heard more than a couple of times when I played in the Philadelphia area: a black man doesn't trust another black man to keep quiet about the encounter. In fact, the apprehension went farther than mere gossip as, for example, any acknowledgement of each other on the street could quickly lead to "how do you know him?" No one, or at least the men I met, wanted to be asked that question by family and friends. They figured that they were far less likely to encounter in their regular lives a white man with whom they had played, thus minimizing the risk of exposure.  

13 hours ago, PendragonSpirit said:

Fake cum. Just... *gestures broadly* fake. cum.

I knew I had forgotten something on my list (see above).....

1 hour ago, ErosWired said:

Make up your mind where your priorities lie, and how much you actually value your partner, and then see what your conscience tells you.

Look at this guy's profile and peruse the list of postings by him. If his posts over the last couple of years are remotely truthful, his conscience has already talked to him. There's also a mention in one of his posts about his boyfriend being "a bb slut too, but we keep it secret, to make it fun." (Jan. 1, 2020 post) It's good to check one's moral compass every now and then, but experienced cumsluts who sound as if they're just on the edge of cheating for the first time simply grind my gears.

Many of the aspects of gay porn that I find tiresome have already been listed. Of course, I have a few that no one has yet mentioned.

• Related to the deficient dialog issue is the bottom whose vocabulary of erotic words is limited to fuck, delivered at various volumes and tone and supplemented by an occasional interjection. Tops don't get a pass on this count either; an actor who played in several Active Duty videos repeatedly uttered the same phrase whenever he was nailing a guy, and he did so in every video I saw (5 of them). 
• Sexual activity occurring in the kitchen, the bottom being placed on his back on the countertop or the island. Who in their right mind would lay on a quartz countertop in order to get fucked?
• Tops who, while screwing a guy on a sofa, push the guy into the corner of the sofa, the guy's head ending up under the cushions.
• Scenes occurring in bathrooms that are almost as big as my house. 
• Incomprehensible voice tracks. The dialog and erotic utterances might not be Pulitzer Prize quality, but don't place the microphone that only one actor's voice is clear and the other person comes across as wisps of noise. 
• Music tracks playing far too loud (except in the case of vintage porn).

That should do it for now. Maybe I should watch some videos to make sure I didn't leave something off the list.

1 hour ago, BootmanLA said:

Shades of Augustine

St. Augustine of Hippo, if anyone was wondering. This quote came to mind upon seeing the reference to St. Augustine: "O Lord, help me to be pure, but not yet."

10 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Wait a sec - you took 17 in but you gave 6 out, so doesn’t that leave you with a balance of 11 for the weekend?

I guess I missed the class on double-entry accounting.

4 hours ago, ErosWired said:

I’m afraid it’s something that’s just becoming more and more common in dealing with internet apps because there’s no consequence when men with no integrity behave badly. Honestly, that’s the fatal flaw in all of them - they’re a free pass to treat people like shit and get away with it.

It's hardly a recent phenomenon even if it's a more frequent occurrence now. It happened to me years ago when I lived near Philadelphia. I still recall a couple incidents: I'm at the front door, I've rung the doorbell a few times, and there is nothing. I send a message on the particular app... nothing; send another message... nothing. After 5 minutes or so, I leave. Sometimes, the expected encounter was to be a 3-way, and I surmise that the guy who hadn't been online when the invitation was extended vetoed my involvement. That I could understand; the inability of anyone to tell me that always irked me. I was much more  wary about 3-ways afterwards.