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New Meaning of “No Load Refused Cumdump?”
BlackDude replied to BlackDude's topic in General Discussion
I think the whole “Cumdump” craze will mostly go away with COVID. Before, the whole game was seeing what different excuses you could make for not hooking up (some excuses are acceptable one time, but that’s another topic). Now the whole game is telling guys what you would do if it wasn’t for COVID. Guys don’t have to show and prove. For example a dude will say: “I’m totally into black guys! I love to be pimped out in a motel with me and all my blue collar buddies. I’d let you shove a devils dick up my ass, and breed me before and after 20 other random dudes have their way! They my jock bud will Felch the loads out after he videos it. But I’m not hooking up right now cause of COVID!” -
Been burned and lied to too many times. Not that the “parties over” and your no longer the hottest thing going You want to settle an some stability ? No thanks!! Being friends is cool, but other than that, if your not fucking, goodbye. You can spend the night once, but not two consecutive nights. Yes, I’m bitter but I own it! Lol
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I’m a top, but I love faggots. When I was younger and the girls were giving their attention to everyone else (usually losers), it was men who were suck dick, and giving me ass. I didn’t have to buy anyone dinner, babysit their kids, or buy them gifts constantly: they just got on their knees and showed me their ass. I’ve never looked back.
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New Meaning of “No Load Refused Cumdump?”
BlackDude replied to BlackDude's topic in General Discussion
I just got the perfect example. 100% true story. Last week, a guy posted on a site he was “ass up ready to take loads, door unlocked, walk in and breed.” Even posts his downtown address. I drive down, find parking, and start walking to the listed address. As I approach I see the dude sitting outside, fully clothed, smoking a cigarette. I turned around and left. He never had any intention of the anon scene. He only posted that add so he could get more clicks, with the full intention of screening everyone online who inquired or screening them at the door. Which is fine, just be upfront and don’t waste people’s time. -
New Meaning of “No Load Refused Cumdump?”
BlackDude replied to BlackDude's topic in General Discussion
I always ask this question, so a guy is clear what they are getting into. A lot of “cumdumps” are white only just too afraid to state that in their profile. You have no idea how many time a convo changes, or a guy gets ghost after this is asked (even tho it’s in my profile). They just can’t get over the psychological barrier. But I digress. -
Maybe I am getting old and I need someone younger to explain this to me. I have always understood that when a guy puts “no load refused” and “Cumdump” In there profile that meant conversation was minimal and boils down to what time and what place. Lately, I have been seeing a lot of guys with this in their profile, I message them, and I hear back stuff like: How hung are you? More pics? Sorry, only into white (or insert other type) guys This guy is in his way to load me up, maybe after? Looking for small group of 4-5 No response at all Personally, I think you guys are just putting this in their profile because they know they will get more clicks and more attention. But maybe I am wrong and missing the whole point? I thought “no load refused” meant come fuck me and get off, then bounce.
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SJ Watergarden Closing Permanently
BlackDude replied to 408curious's topic in San Francisco / Oakland / San Jose
Last time I went there, I was told no rooms were available by my some snobby Latin clerk. White guy came in about 2-3 minutes after me and got a room. I left and never went back. Good riddance. -
Do Small City Motel Cumdump Sessions Usually Work?
BlackDude replied to a topic in General Discussion
I can actually believe that. I’m in a similar sized city to Memphis, and it is not large enough to guarantee a turnout but just large enough for guys to think they can wait it out for a “better option.” Hell, I even had an ex-BB porn star I hooked up with who had to cancel a party due to flakes. So if it can happen to him.... Not that I’m experienced, but I would think like guys said on here: large city or smaller conservative town. -
celebrity BB with anyone famous, who would it be?
BlackDude replied to Justaholeff's topic in General Discussion
My roommate has got me into watching wrestling (I mean it’s a pandemic, that’s his excuse). Seth Rollins def. hottest man I’ve probably ever seen. -
Still looking for candidates.
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No one, learned by accident and from my dads porn stash. Interestingly I never had the “talk.” Everything I learned about sex was from cruising the campus restrooms at college. For about five years, those were my only sexual experiences after puberty
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What can a bottom do to thank you for breeding?
BlackDude replied to spunk-receptacle's topic in General Discussion
Let me see him take more loads while I recharge -
I don’t think there is anything wrong with being fussy as long as you are honest and consistent. No one likes the guy online calling himself the Cumdump yet turning down 95% of the guys or the dude who is less fussy 15 years and/or 40 pounds from now.
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Man that list is a beast. I’m still going to try to remember my top 3. Haha
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No i didn’t say dead. And it’s not just the guys, it’s the variety and content as well.
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I’m not denying the racial aspect of the word. I’m only explaining how black people use the word. At the word may be used based on race, again it’s not racist just by it’s existence. No one is using “wigger” as a term that identifies a group of people targeted to deny resources or access to resources. Use of the word is harmless unless it is determined by certain people that those classified “wigga” should be denied resources because of their kinship or affinity to black people. Again, I have to blame a lot of this on black people for spending too much time on words, emotions and classification instead of the purpose behind those words and classifications: To discriminate and deny access to resources and power.
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Insulting, demeaning? Probably so. But I’m not seeing racist unless you are saying the use of “wigger” is meant imply that a person is appropriating and inferior (black) culture or not living up to a certain standard. Which I can really argue since I’m not white so I really don’t know how that word may be used by white people amongst each other. I just know the prospective of how I see the word, and among blacks it’s prob 50/50: it can be used as a term of endearment or to identify someone who is fake and an “outsider”
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That’s not 100%. It was also used as a word for folks who at times seem to identify, associate or appropriate black culture, especially when society deems the behavior a negative stereotype (I.e.Justin Bieber, Eminem, John Cena, etc.) It’s not equivalent from the N Word, because as soon as a white guy decides to stop Associating or appropriating black culture they were no longer be called a “wigger.” White trash, trailer trash maybe, but not a wigger. A black person will be called the N-word regardless of how much money they have.
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Level 1 always until prep. Level 3 now, unless I absolutely don’t trust you.
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It gets a little complicated with sex, because there are situations where is can be used as a term of endearment. But most of the time, it is said with a smear or smirk: as in we acknowledge what you’re trying to be, but we don’t fully respect it. Not saying that’s the case with you, I’m just saying how most people use/view the word.
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Thanks for the comment. I was just using the work guy as an example. Sure, id love to fuck him, but he’s straight so I’m really not sweating him that much. I think my question was more general as in is there other factors as to what makes someone straight, not just sexual attraction. Especially if they are being “mistreated” or ignored. Sorry if I did not articulate that well enough.
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Dumb question but serious question. Why do some guys waste their time with women? So many times I see really hot guys struggle to get attention any from women when they would be “stars” with gay men. Sometimes I see hot married men put up with so much shit for no sex, when I know for sure they could bag most dudes for some easy ass anytime. For example, there is this younger single guy I work with. Women see him as too hairy, loud and obnoxious. I see him as a beautiful gorgeous Otter, with a ridiculously fat ass and full of charisma. I would literally cum before I even got in his ass. No lie I’d pay $30 a month for his only fans. Is it just as simple a “they just aren’t gay?” Or is their more too it? I mean, who would choose to do without and struggle when you could literally have anything you want? I get being married, but single dudes? Thoughts?
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Less attitude and flakey as well
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“Ugly” subjective though. I’ve seen plenty of older guys the “too hot” gays wouldn’t touch (for being “ugly”) or whose wives won’t touch them and they turn out to be beasts who shoot humongous loads or will take load after load.
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Man that shit was pathetic. As if I was suppose to be honored. Got me waaaay fucked up. Hahaha
