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Servicing 3 Tops as only bottom? Advice and what to expect.....
BlackDude replied to erk916's topic in General Discussion
I suggest u start like sucking cause most dudes aren’t going to want to be standing around waiting their turn... -
Bottoms complaining about lack of tops: Fair?
BlackDude replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I call BS on the entire “not enough tops” argument. Most guys will fuck damn near anything as long as their is some secrecy involved. Most of the bottoms complaining are the ones who have stringent criteria for a guy to look like a Sean Cody model or some “hot, straight, married” dude. Which is fine every guy is allowed to their criteria. But if you’re looking for a perfect 10 for 10 every time trying to create create something you seen on Only Fans, more often than not you’re going to be disappointed. Rather than call up that cool 7 you know down the street who Fucks you right and can host, you’re gonna stay online till three in the morning hoping to jump through all kinds of hoops to hook up with a guy who may or may not look like his perfect 10 picture. Hilarious In another post I talked about the average middle-age guy who wanted me to whore him out in a motel as a cumdump then proceeded to turn down 3/4 of the guys who inquired some of them not bad looking at all. I’m sure he is still out there somewhere sexually repressed and looking for 10 Nick Jonas Dudes is for his perfect scene ha ha -
People say I have “weird taste” but I just find myself more attracted to regular dudes. There is a nice, regular older wealthier gentleman I hook up with. He’s not a model, but he’s cool, and takes that Dick no hassle. And I shoot the biggest loads in him too, and it doesn’t take me long. BTW, you do have some sexy feet.
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Def tight, beefy and hairy.
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I grew up in the era where using a condom was beaten into you like a drum. Having more fun with Prep though. I think moving to another city would’ve changed my sex Life alot
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Both of the middle eastern men I have been with are bottoms. No complaints, or taking it slow from either. And both pursued me. It bragging, just agreeing with your point
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This! Dudes walking around still trying to play by “straight” societies rules regarding sex. Being all sexually repressed trying by be safe and monogamous so their straigh family and friends won’t talk. To me, that’s the opposite of gay. They will talk regardless. That’s why I’m on prep now and fucking as many dudes raw as I can, no pull out.
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To me it’s actually a sign of weakness. Lying is a sign of weakness. True power is I can be open and you will still hook up with me no matter what.
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To me “ask me” means it your hot enough, I’ll answer what you want to hear.
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Have you seen the Connor McGregor post?!??
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So there is this guy that I see at the park and riding his bike around my neighborhood. From my guess I would say mid 20s. Im not sure if he lives in his car or what, but he makes my fucking cock throb. Yes, I know he sketchy as fuck, prob bad news, maybe a delinquent and more than likely starting to use drugs (which I don’t do). But I still think he’s hot and I want to fuck him until I bust. And I’m sure he’s not getting any from a woman. How (or should) I approach him? If I want to approach him, I want to soon before he gets too deep into whatever he gets into. To make it a little more complicated, I see him at times hanging with this other dude who seems like a more unfriendly.
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This whole this of coffee baristas, and part-time fitness trainers/bartenders tell people they aren’t in their league is kinda comical. I mean work is work, but It’s not like some of these guys are successful enough to make you feel bad about yourself. There was this “hotter than thou” bartender in my town. One of those bro jack asshole types. Well unfortunately father time and the drugs have kicked in, and he’s no longer hot enough to have someone supplement his lifestyle. Dude actually had the nerve to hit me up on A4A (never mind the fact I remember his profile also said white dudes only). My simple reply was “sorry, 10 years too late.” Just saying......
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This is how I feel. Plus I hear the vitriol these women have for their husbands at work. A lot of them literally only see men as financial vessels. I have a few female friends, but on the whole I find most women toxic. Sounds like MGTOW, so it makes me wonder....
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I’ve never bottomed. And at this point, I don’t think I can learn to or have any desire to. The time has passed!
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Travel to the Middle East, Australia and Argentina for a sexcation Inject multiple loads in a bottoms ass and whore him out at a cheap, sleezy motel to any and all cummers
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Unless you’re a 20yo white make with 6 packs abs, Grindr is a bust in my area. Anyone else has a BF and can’t host.
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I usually consider myself pretty savvy when it comes to general culture, but I am wondering if anyone knows anything about gay culture with Middle Eastern men? They seem to be very under represented and gay media, apps and porn etc. which is a shame because they are probably my favorite type: masculine, hairy, confident. I also see them rarely mention on this board or rarely see that hook ups involve them. I know most will say it’s not excepted but two of my favorite fucks have been a guy from Turkey and another guy from Jordan (who was ridiculously hot and a bottom). I was also thinking about taking a trip to the Middle East/Turkey when this Covid thing is over, but I’m not sure what to expect? I know Men everywhere are the same and they want to fuck just like everyone else, but I am not sure where they are hiding here in the US? Anyone want to provide an education?
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I think Connor is hot as fuck and I bet he’s filthy in bed.
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I think I should have provide more clarification: yes it is my house, free and clear. But the extra money is nice, esp as a homeowner. He is a friend, and gay, but we never have and never will hook up. Some of his complaints may be Legit if he was paying more, but if your not paying for any utilities, have no furniture or housewares, it’s kinda hard to take seriously. Plus, I know if he ever meets someone he would leave at the drop of a hat (it wouldn’t work out and he would beg to comeback). He’s that dude that’s never been stable.
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Okay first I already know I’m wrong for asking this, but here I go. My current roommate is a good friend I have had for a few years. However the problem is he is getting older, has had a lot of medical problems recently l, and is really no longer interested in hooking up. That, combined with Covid, means he has been staying in the house and becoming increasingly bitter depressed and complaining. Even tho I charge him well below market value, the complaints are increasing and I am increasingly getting annoyed. End it always seems his medical problems flare up when it’s time for chores. Add onto the fact that he is now claiming he “can’t sleep,” Is sitting in his room with the door open and the light on and damn near watching if I leave the house late to hook up. And bringing someone into the house is out of the question now with him lurking around all night . Now I know we all get older, and I am trying to be empathetic, but I am not ready for the glue factory just yet and to be sitting around the house all day complaining and reminiscing about the good all days. And his negativity is starting to rub off on me. After all he had his time and his fun (And he had plenty of it), and I want to have mine. Is it wrong if I am thinking about moving on from him? He really has no other family around so I would feel bad if I did, but it is starting to irritate the hell out of me. I want a roomate who is gay, fun, Active and not full of constant complaining. Another good thing though is he has a good job and he pays his rent on time the full amount no questions. Advice?
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Damn what a tease! Would have been strictly business convo for me after that.
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Can some of the “preference” (it’s just sex) guy explain to me how the City of SF is being sued for discrimination that was allowed, overlooked and in many cases promoted racism by many if it’s non-white, gay employees? (I have friends Who works for the city and test in this Who works for the city and test in this culture within the city government). Since this is just all about black guys complaining about not getting white guys and “preference.”
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The City of SF is currently being sued for discrimination, most of which was overseen and approved and carried out by a lot of non-black gays. Black employees were overwhelmingly disproportionately denied promotions, failed probation and were harassed. Can the “preference” guys explain this? Since their preference only extends to the bedroom?
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All this post tells me is that the gay “community” is not ready to have a real conversation about race. Most of the time, you are hearing from dudes who are whining about not hooking up with white dudes or who are not going to tell the truth because they are afraid of loosing sexual access to a certain group of people. Once a guy tells you he is not interested in having sexual access to you, most of these “preference” dudes feel powerless and are not interested in any conversation in which they are not in a power position. Just my opinion.
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Judging by the number of Asian women married to “conservative” white men (Mitch McConnell, Richard Spencer, etc.) I think it is safe to say that there is not a serious racism problem between the Asian and the white community. Just based on my experience, and the many conversations I’ve had with Asian people, I suggest this experience was more due to the fact that they believe you had nothing that could benefit them. I think This was more based on culture than race. Not to stereotype again this is just based on my conversation that I’ve had with Asian people. Sure they’ll throw some sex out there for an average white dude or some BBC, but They are really not going to do business or get in a serious relationship with somebody Of any race (including Asian) unless they feel it is going to be beneficial. Don’t believe me? Ask the average Korean or Japanese person with they do business or marry with somebody from Cambodia or Laos
