@viking8x6 You my good sir are truly correct in my opinion. My ex-bitch of a wife constantly would belittle me about how I can only please her in certain ways. A woman that says thing's such as @ligerhas experienced is being abusive mentally and emotionally. That's partly why I consider myself to be mostly straight but I'm curious. I've only been with women and I tend to ruin the relationships because of the abuse that I once had with my ex-wife subliminally care to the next and I purposely ruin the relationship without realizing it. A really good friend of mine, who is also gay, is a psychologist/psychiatrist talked about everything and he made me realize that I need to expand my life and people/genders that I hook up with. I just haven't had the opportunity and person to share the experience with. Sorry for the rant, I just felt I needed to share.