Poz50something
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So dom tops wear grandpa gotchies? Errr….not at the Black Eagle 🦅….
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I think they still like dick, but accompanied with the creamy treat at the end...reality check is - if I am in a sauna, it's wrap up time, whether I am bottoming or topping. I get that most people want bare, but stds aren't a b;essing in my book.
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My reference point os the erotic sculptures from Hindu temples in India. I see them as an allegory. They are playful. Yes, someone (a team most probably) actually took months to chisel this sculpture out of hard rock. Do thy depict real life? Do I think it actually happened? Did someone actually bonk a donkey? Might have happened, probably not. I would have loved to show you same-sex mithuna, but centuries of Muslim, British and Congress administration has meant their destruction.
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there are quite a few porn movies about bottoms rimming their tops - then getting the right royal rogering they crave. That's very top - and very bottom as well. The stereotypical bottom is someone who just lays there and expects the top to do ALL THAT WORK. It's a drag. What I am questioning is why the roles are so defined. I see sex as being playful. I mean, we're not trying to make babies, set up trust funds and college funds for children. We can relax and see it's about pleasure. You rim your top? It ultimately gets you the load you crave in your guts.
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Grindr banned in the Olympic Village in Paris (2024)
Poz50something replied to brnbk's topic in LGBT Politics
Jeezus! I mean, amid all the global chaos, Grindr being banned in the Olympic Village is earth shattering, isn’t it??!!? This is the hill y’all wanna die on? -
I thought I had answered it with my reply. See above for clarification. And - won't you answer MY question? That said, how was Kruger a completely archetypical Biden supporting Trump hater? I love hyperbole, but please explain. You get all huffy when no one responds, but you don't either....
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AKA is the first sorority from a HBCU, Howard University. It was founded in 1908. You were questioning her 'black' bona fides....
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she's a member of the AKA sorority - how come I know this and you don't?
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Question answered, move on counselor....as is often said during law series on TV. Next you'll say she's not American enough because she spent 1978-1981 in Montreal while her mother was a cancer researcher and lecturer in McGill University. [think before following links] https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montreal/westmount-highschool-kamala-harris-u-s-vice-president-1.5881211
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Google is a friendly tool. I did a search - 'Kamala Harris dosa'. Btw, Kamala means 'lotus', in Sanskrit, and her grandparents lived in Besant Nagar, in Chennai, as she said during the video.
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swallow - always - love the taste of spunk.
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that’s ‘coz she is. And Asian, and white, and who knows what else.…does it matter?
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[think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donald_J._Harris
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Ok….taking into consideration that her mother was a Tamil, Shyamala Gopalan, she’s half Indian. But she’s black as well.
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One of the notable facets of Kruger's life was his addiction to meth and injectable drugs. He was also homeless for a while. It was something he used to write about. As I have recently discussed with several people, meth is incredibly difficult to give up, and apparently, Kruger was one of those who fell under its spell. So have millions of gay men. Some behave reprehensibly. Assuming that Kruger started on a sexual and romantic relationship with his killer when the latter was a child, it's another aspect of the self-centred effect of meth. That said, how was Kruger a completely archetypical Biden supporting Trump hater? I love hyperbole, but please explain.
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Thank you for your ( y’all’s) input. I am swiftly coming to the conclusion mentioned by all of you because sobriety is important for my wellbeing. As part of the grief journey ( starting with my spouse’s death almost seven years ago) that has become my life, I am incredibly sensitive to any turn towards self-negativity and despair. And meth brought me to despair and suicidal thoughts. Once after 28 years abstinence this February was too much. Add to that my sobriety journey, and I realise that I am not being selfish. And I am beginning to get seriously pissed off that my sobriety is a joke to Alain.
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Thank you. There’s no way I can be supportive to him, when he’s not being supportive of my sobriety. I kinda thought so, but I was hoping there’d be another answer. Thanks.
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Actually, it’s the opposite. We had sex (penetrative, none of this wanking only) about July last year. HE blamed me after the fact for his relapse because, I discovered through talking with ex-addicts, that meth is entwined so intimately with the sex act that many people who give up meth give up sex. He has asked me twice before to chem with him, and I have been adamant about no chemsex. I want to be supportive, but he begins by saying, ‘you promised you would sex and smoke with me’ and I do not give off chemisex vibes, and don’t encourage anything of the sort.
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The night before last, I get a call from an erstwhile fuck buddy when I was having dinner with a group of friends. No one else saw the video call from Alain (name changed to protect the not so innocent) nude, in the middle of a meth trip. He was going on about coming over and having a chemsex session together. This was the guy whom I played with in February who reintroduced me to meth after 28 years. He shotgunned a Tina smoke into my mouth several times during the session. Already, I kinda always feel despondent in the winter because of SAD. The lack of sleep that accompanies a chemisex trip, the temporary loss of an erection, the depression and anxiety all made me suicidal for a couple of days. So, nope no chemisex for me. Alain also said I had promised to I would smoke and fuck with him (which I didn’t). I asked him to go watch a movie with me - that’s all. To add to the ‘incestuousness’ of it all, he’s my late hubby’s ex bf. I get the feeling that he keeps on suggesting that we Smoke and fuck because he wants to get me to be addicted. Friends who are recovering addicts tell me to dump him as a friend because he doesn’t respect my boundaries. I don’t want to reject him, because his hubs left him, I suspect, because of he would go for days to Toronto, or to his late friend who o’died and PNP for days without returning home. I get that the drug is super powerful. There are days when I can still taste it in my mouth. I want to avoid getting back to PNP. I know I need to set clear boundaries with him. What else can I do to maintain a healthy relationship with Alain?
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Let's not forget his many years in the Senate. If we're also speaking of his legacy, let's include Biden's sponsorship of S.933 - Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990. He didn't just sponsor the Crime Bill of 1994.
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Get tested, because at least you know your status. Then again, once you know, it brings the responsibility to you, and you have to take the meds that keep you alive.
