Hungryforbbc

It’s only cheating if you are delusional enough to believe in the ridiculous construct of monogamy. im with my husband almost thirty years. We haven’t been sexually active with each other for years due to some physical and psychological circumstances but truth is that we consciously chose to have a non traditional relationship from day one and have never had any issues with each other’s exploration and expression of our sexuality. We’re respectful of each other and have an understanding that we won’t be too messy 🙂 Some here seem to think it’s bullshit when I post about it but in a truly spiritual partnership you legitimately want your partner to be happy and you understand that you can’t do or be everything they need for that. We don’t fight and we have both evolved exponentially during our time together. Wouldn’t change it for anything- but I have my sexual adventures with others outside of his purview and he does what he does without my oversight. Recently after confirming that I was undetectable after only a month on meds, I just up and told my husband that I had tested positive was on meds and undetectable already and that I wasn’t feeling any particular kind of way about it because I didn’t do anything wrong and given my genetic mutation it’s kinda crazy that it happened but it did. He basically said “Ok I appreciate you telling me and wish you had told me when you first found out so I could be supportive.” he didn’t even ask who I was fucking or why I wasn’t being safe or on prep- he didn’t judge me or give me anything but love. To all the romantics here, it is possible to have an incredible partnership but not if you can’t put your ego and insecurities aside and just love without fear. It only works if you’re both serious and committed and it doesn’t work at all for malignant narcissists although they’ll act like it’s working to manipulate you so there’s that but I am personally attesting that it’s not out of the realm of possibility if you can abandon the existing constructs and don’t put the responsibility for your happiness on your partner or the relationship.

I’m so impressed by the number of white mouths im seeing on black dicks in this thread! Great to see our black kings getting the service they deserve 😵

That’s quite an enlightened way to look at it -thanks for that and I don’t disagree

just hit the senton this afternoon and got a lovely breeding with no drama and a cheap room. There were definitely some roaches in there but otherwise it was exactly what it’s supposed to be

Perhaps also related to the number of guys here who lean more in the freak direction than most so more likely to be into piggy scenes and bottoming more. Those total top guys who are basically at least playing straight or are “straight acting” are probably not coming here to discuss their sexual endeavors in the way that many of us do here. It’s an interesting topic that I’ve been fascinated with for most of my life- I played both sides and now understand that I’m supposed to be a submissive bottom who sucks and takes dick from masculine black and Latino kings and that’s my role. I’m extremely satisfied and don’t feel like I’m supposed to be anything else. I’m not hung up on any of the typical insecurities or an inferiority complex and I’m appreciated by the fellas I’ve been fortunate enough to have inside of my mouth throat and hole. I’m blessed.

A silent breeding can be incredibly hot but there’s nothing as hot as a hot hung top telling me what to do and calling me all kinds of bitch and whore

Sounds like the perfect way to find that out lol.

Here’s the thing- go on any app and say you’re a total top and i can guarantee you that you’ll be receiving a flood of messages from hungry bottoms, vers guys and the guys who claim top but are actually vers they just dont broadcast it. Sometimes there’s a reputation to protect, sometimes it’s just a personal preference, but the truth is that the number of “golden unicorns” - i.e., tops who have never bottomed nor want to- is minuscule compared to the number of guys who are somewhat flexible and can play either role comfortably. The openly total bottoms are the ones who are shamed and judged for the abandonment of their masculinity, which is highly valued in the scene. but when you have a sausage party full of tops or vers guys trying to present as top or at least as not hungry, the bottoms will be appreciated and obviously the night belongs to them. the funny part to me is how many so called tops are quick to throw those legs in the air when they’re behind closed doors while they tell you they hate when bottoms call it their “pussy” - like the “I want a man” thing is a spectrum for all of us but it’s so hypocritical and fake that it makes me laugh.

Co-sign - I’ve used it many times and it’s always been great. I believe it’s $100’for either 3 or 4 hours. The bathrooms are terrible but there are mirrors all around the room and nobody cares if you make noise or smoke. It’s about as sleazy as it gets. Only problem is they stopped letting guests just go straight to the room you have to come get them now but otherwise highly recommended

How about caught by my mother mid fuck?

Um… I beg to differ. Adam Lambert, lil nas x, chance the rapper, frank ocean and many others have already broken that barrier- and before them there was bowie, elton John, liberace and little richard to name a few. I saw justin sucking a big black dick on video and while I’m not a fan I think it’s a great thing when stars get successful enough to stop caring what people think. Problem is that leads to diddy type situations so not necessarily the desired outcome

Many nights I spent in the bathroom stall at the prince movie theater in the village sniffing coke and sucking every black dick in the entire place-like at least 50 guys came in my mouth those nights and there were many. more recently I had my favorite two black tops tag team me in a hotel room and for the first time they dp’d me and it was AWESOME. That was a pretty nasty session they both bred me repeatedly and there was lots of piss in my mouth and hole too

Fully agree- but the reality is that the market values dick more than ass. You want data? Look at the escort sites. Guys have always been willing to pay for dick and now even women are paying for it. Ass is a dime a dozen - why pay for it when it’s so easy to find? i do think some of it comes down to the work. Bottoms have to prepare properly but tops have to perform. Its a lot easier to be passive than active that’s not opinion its physics. So he who carries more responsibility in the experience holds the power. Also there’s the issue of how we apply the labels. For example we are generally more likely to categorize someone as a bottom if they clearly enjoy taking dick even if they’re really vers. Meanwhile if we find out that a so-called top enjoys taking dick we shame them and it somehow reduces our desire for them to top us. I am guilty of this myself- I don’t like the idea of being a bottom’s bottom. I’ve done it and it’s been a roll of the dice- some guys who have bottomed before but identify as tops here a unique insight into the experience of bottoming and no interest in doing it again. They tend to be excellent tops in my experience. However since tops are in more demand - especially the super masculine straight types- lots of vers and even femme bottoms present themselves as tops and subsequently tend to disappoint since they’re really not that into it. its definitely a complicated issue and I appreciate the OP starting the conversation. I’m definitely interested in l more about others experiences and thoughts on the subject as I have always found the dynamics fascinating. As someone who has basically always identified as at least mostly a bottom and more recently embraced my total bottom preference, but who has been in some vers/vers relationships and explored the full spectrum of sexual preferences, I think it’s paramount that we are honest with ourselves and don’t feel ashamed of our identities or preferences. Im now a proud power bottom and I like to serve masculine, at least mostly unaffected black top men, whether they identify as straight or not as long as they have a dick and like to use it. If you enjoy sucking dick i can be okay with you identifying as a top but if you like getting plowed ad much or more than using your dick ,it’s much more difficult for me to see you as the dominant man I want on my back. just truth from my perspective- I have a lot of personal experience and yet I’m still fascinated by the sociological aspects of this dynamic.

This is actually simple - good dick has always been much harder to find than good ass. That’s why you rarely see bottom escorts or hustlers. These days even women pay for good dick cause it’s more and more difficult to find.

Was always my preference but lately I’ve been needing some external assistance and have started using boy butter

Hear here. Scat is out for me and if your piss or nutt is rank we probably have an issue. I also don’t care about my dick at all so please don’t bother trying to suck me cause it’s not gonna accomplish anything

Any form of ass eating. Just doesn’t do anything for me

I’ve found that boy butter does the trick with no tearing so that’s my go to from now on

I had a couple experiences where I lost control and busted inside- I was embarrassed and they were pissed. I was never a great top except with my husband. Anyway I only like them to pull out if I’m filming and want to get the cumshot on tape. Then please put it back in and if you can go again that’s even better. busting load after load inside me is my ultimate. But I also love to swallow so the only way I will be disappointed is if you shoot on my back or chest

My master fed me his huge creamy load after giving me the first fucking since I got diagnosed. He was gonna breed me but it had been a while and he tore me a little when he went balls deep harder than he’s ever fucked me before. He filmed it so I’ve been reliving the experience every night since. It’s the problem with having a particularly tight hole and loving big dick. The tops usually love how tight it is but understandably they don’t like getting painted red! I’ve found that using boy butter equals no tearing- I was just so excited this time that I went for the nearest lube which wasn’t the move. That’s my lube from now on period

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Oh and I forgot to mention they also had hyoerspermia! The one I played with had to cover his face when he came it was like a lake of cum on his stomach I wanted to swallow it and basque in its glory but he thought it was nasty . He arranged for me to get tag teamed by two of his extremely hot hung top buddies one Caribbean one Latino. He never fucked me but he got them to give me a good dicking down. i still wish i had his brother honestly he was a masculine top papi and i know he would have bred me into the ground lol

It just takes some practice to tell the difference between horny black kings, scammers/hustlers and pros. Pros cost but usually not too much- they tend to care about the quality of the experience because they are trying to build their business and want return clients and good reviews. Regular horny black kings (especially mostly identifying as straight) - especially if they’re super hung and/or thuggish - know that they have what everyone wants so they’re less motivated and never desperate as they are constantly in demand and they know it and are generally unimpressed and not easily seduced unless you’re a ten or have something else that they want like party supplies or can provide a great night out. It’s funny because straight guys used to pay for pussy now everyone pays for dick cause it’s much harder to find good dick than it is to find a willing hole to plow. Hustlers and scammers will tell you whatever you want to hear and they will trick you into giving them whatever you have and will give you as little as they can in return. They never wanted you they just saw you as an easy target and you could end up in a precarious situation where they have your personal information and might try to blackmail you or otherwise be more trouble than they’re worth. So take your pick and find that black top who’s gonna put it on you and make you his white bitch- trust me you’ll have no regrets 🙂

I’m down! Dm me let’s talk im actually trying to set up a hot group session with some hungry white bitches and a bunch of hung black kings. If anyone else is interested and in nyc please dm me!