KylerIsTrash

Just say no. I will refuse to fuck with a condom. If a top isn’t interested I’ll offer them to bring me the used rubber when they’re finished fucking somebody else and I’ll unload it in my hole.

I’ve never been to one. I used to think it would be hot but it never lined up. I know how guys just stand around the bathhouse and wait to watch someone else fuck. Somewhere I decided CumUnion would probable have guys that are more cliquish and exclusive and less willing to get their dicks wet. Maybe it’s a misconception on my part. Idk. Seems like there could be higher expectations. Maybe it’s just because I live in the PNW. Reading y’all posts make me wish I had gone to one in Indy when I lived in Chicago. I definitely support anybody who goes to CumUnion and would probably still go to one under the right circumstances. These days I’m mostly tryin to get fucked by other guys who show up on a normal random night at the bathhouse.

If you party like me the heart problems are more likely from the chem.

Being rejected sucks. Getting lied to sucks. So does getting ghosted…and led on…and waiting for 90 minutes outside some guys house you drove an hour to reach. We have all been there. Nobody likes it. We all want to be desired, and loved, and fucked into pile of cum. I learned a long time ago I can’t control the behaviors and emotions of others. Trying to do so turns out to be manipulative. What I can control is myself and there’s a few goals I strive to live and fuck by. By no means am I perfect but as an aspiration these help me from getting throughly disappointed: -I don’t hold expectations of others. When someone says they’re going to circle back and finish in me, of course I’m hopeful, but I don’t expect them to return. Many don’t. Those who do show back up I seek to show extra appreciation ;). -I follow through on commitments and don’t commit to things I can’t fulfill. If some guy nearby wants to fuck me but he can’t come by the bathhouse I’ll let him know I have no plans to leave and wish him luck. If he’s still online when I’m packing up I’ll check in to see what he’s up to but in most cases it doesn’t line up. -I don’t steal. I’d rather go without. It’s a violation and hella irritating when I get shit stolen. I do try to minimize getting shit lifted at the bathhouse. I lock up everything I don’t need before I get in deep. For poppers I wear a wrist band (you can find one on your favorite internet shopping site by searching: “unisex zippered wristband pouch”). I keep my phone in a (“universal sports armband cellphone”). This has worked well for keeping track of my things when I’m spun up and getting pounded into the ground. When shit inevitably does get stolen I count it toward the cost of the night and as a setback to my next night out. I’m probably preaching to the alter boys (or is it choir?…I’m bad with symbology). I encourage y’all sexy fuckers to focus on bettering yourself. Hopefully you’ll run into some other guys who are trying to do the same in return. DISCLAIMER: Im an ISTP; Results may vary.

@viking8x6 thank you for your response. I was not intending to be rude and by asking the question I am challenging my ignorance of the topic. Each time I attempt to branch out into the higher educated group I am turned down because of my slutty behavior. I am seeking anecdotal evidence to better understand if there is correlation between the variables and am very open to changing my own view. Maybe I’ve just been unlucky.

I was instantly blocked by another PhD student after discussing a bathhouse. By my observation education is inversely proportional to a sex positive lifestyle. I have ignored med students and doctors for well over a decade because they are so boring when it comes to fucking. Drugs and STIs aside, there is nothing inherently harmful about a bathhouse. Hooking up with me in your bed versus in a room at a bath should be no different.

I don’t go out often anymore but when I do I make the most of it. I’m at the bathhouse for 12-14 hours. Most of my time is in the dark room. Preferably in the sling. My high score is 34 loads (help me beat it). It’s always hard to nut after a night of partying but I always make sure to drop a load in another pig before I leave.

I’ve found that some of the guys with the smallest dicks fuck the hardest and blow the biggest loads. I have an untested theory that the nerves are more concentrated in a small dick and the feeling is more intense, idk. In the end it’s only the load that matters to me not the dick that shot it.

I miss Chicago SW. So many hot fucks like you described. Like others have said get on PrEP so you can fuck BB with minimal regret. Learn to love breeding. Easy to stop later if you change your mind.

Thanks @yngguy712. I need to start planning a trip to Cali.

I wish there were designated nights where the bathhouse would allow recording or a wristband to acknowledge you want recorded. Probably a libility issue for the bathhouses, at least in the states, with vids out on the web.

I took more than a couple thousand loads while on PrEP. Was still neg when I stopped taking my meds at the beginning of the pandemic.

I don’t ask if a dude nutted anymore. I estimate. If in doubt I round down. If somebody asks how many, my answer is “IDK about xx. Get in and find out.” Once I get so spun I lose count and it doesn’t matter.

I think it’s the apps more than the meds. Casual homos will hit the apps for a fuck. If you’re picky and patient you don’t need do visit a pubic gay space to fuck anymore. For us thirsty cumdumps we can’t get 20+ loads in 5 hours over the internet. Bathhouses are still the better choice when you need cummed in like your life depends on it.

So I’m assuming everyone here has seen this vid. If you haven’t you probably should give it a go. It is the perfect fuck house (aside from the lights being on). Every time I find this video I watch it (because it’s hot af) and I’m always disappointed because I’ve never experienced a place like this and I’ve never seen a follow up vid. It seems like this might have been filmed in Eastern Europe in the early 2000’s? Does anyone know why there haven’t been any more of these videos or if there’s a location in the states with a similar setup? I’m really into the anon box setup but I’ve never seen it at a bathhouse.

I’ve always strugged with sex in a LTR. I have a high sex drive but without fail, once I’m in a relationship, I’m no longer interested in sex with my partner. I’ve had a lot of hard conversations about this and I think it results from 1) I like anonymous hookups (once I know someone the sex is no longer anon) and 2) the drive to have sex with my partner gives way to other forms of intamacy (the emotional relationship replaces the physical). I swear I could be dating the most attractive and boner-inducing guy and I’d lose interest in fucking after a couple months. It causes discord because my partner wants to continue fucking me and I’m always the one saying I want to go fuck everybody else. I’ve tried doing the open relationship but feelings always get hurt when I show more sexual interest in the randos. Also discovering T can fuck up a relationship pretty hard (Don’t do drugs 🤣).

I never ask anymore. Always disappointed when I hear the top is neg.

Something about the smell of sex and cum is intoxicating. I love the smell of dried cum on used boxers, the cleaner they use at the bathhouse, the harsh bite of a new popper bottle, chem sweat after a night of non-stop breeding, a discarded condom picked off the leather fuckbench. One huff of sex is enough to make my heart race and my ass twitch.

“I’m poz”…after cumming in me.

I got mine pierced last year and have no regrets at a BTM. Numbed up with some topical lidocaine before hand. Wasn’t too bad. I love playing with tops who have their nips pierced while they’re balls deep in me. @BadBob I would love to suck on your nip while you’re breeding me. I think it’d look hot af.

I don’t fuck often and when I do I commit to cleaning up. I’ll avoid eating for 72 hours before a night at the bathhouse. It’s not a healthy habit but I hate to ruin a night. Shit is an instant turn off for me whether I’m the BTM or the TOP. Even if it’s just a smell. On the occasion I’m topping somebody who isn’t cleaned up, I’m done. I’m not hostile about it and as a BTM I’m very sympathetic but I can’t stay in the mood. Party fouls happen; it’s part of the game. Just have to move on. I disagree with the “there’s no excuse” mentality. Try hard as you can accidents still happen. No BTM I know wants to be a mess.

Many progressive states have laws that protect minors and allow them to receive medical care for sex/reproductive health without parental consent. Not a perfect system as it doesn’t prevent the parents from receiving the bill.

@NWUSHorny that sux man. Sometimes I debate whether to lay there and act like I’m passed out so the top can take advantage of the situation or really engage and hard fuck with the top. Either way I’m enjoying the dick. One thing I’m conscious about as BTM is not being on my phone when I’m getting railed. I usually stay a minimum of 12 hours. If I leave with anything less than 15 loads, my night feels wasted. I usually regret staying at the club past 4am. Usually the 3am-8am is dead and I’m laying there for no reason. Sometimes I’ll go 4 hours with no load.

I insist on bareback only. i will reject any wrapped dick. It does not matter how hot he is or how spun I am. No wrapped dicks in me. If the top is insistent I will direct him to go breed another BTM and bring me the used rubber to unload in my hole. #RawIsLaw

I think I’m the odd one out here. I’ll pick a used rubber off the floor or out of the bathhouse bin and unload it in my hole but I can’t touch/lick nut from the floor; too contaminated. It is wasted for me. I want HIV, and other STIs in my hole. Not Staph and Strep.