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What are your experiences with numbing spray?
BigPaleBottom replied to verslut's topic in General Discussion
Used something similar on my hole when I was sore from the previous fuck. It took half of the pleasure away, or more than half. Felt like my hole was made of wood. Mechanical. I guess it feels the same at your dick, just worse. As if it is a piece of plastics, not of flesh. I was once considering to put numbing cream into my hole to make certain tops last longer. But I will not. -
Would love to near more about the oil and condom part. What do you mean, alternating success? Did they break or not? How often?
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Strangely nobody mentioned vaseline so far. Best friction for the top, stays in, protects of chafing. No dour, no taste. Perfect. Not condom safe though
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Barebacking: what's in it for the bottom?
BigPaleBottom replied to bbicurious's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Totally agree with the conversation starter. There are literally bottoming experiences where I feel close to nothing. Not sure what the full reason is, but monotonous fucking is part of it. Happens even with big cocks. At some point I’ll start clenching my hole just to make him cum earlier and to get over it. and then there are others, better one, giving me more pleasure than I could ever get from my dick. Mental connections, desire and mutual appeal are key to it. -
Hey, visiting from Europe in December and January to North Beach and Fort Lauderdale. White mid 40-s here, 6ft, 250 pounds, chub and smooth bottom. I’m nearly exclusively into Asian, Latino, Black and Middle Eastern top guys. Where would I find them, and how to attract? Also, any caution advised? last time in Miami, I went to Club FTL bathhouse and 321Slammer. I liked the locations a lot, but did not the kind of guys I’d best to play with. thanks for any advice, also for other gay locations or beaches!
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Not sure tbh. To be clear, when I say stealthing I mean not using, removing or sabotaging a condom without the knowledge and consent of the partner. It happened to me several times. A guy removing it secretly, another fucking me doggie without putting the agreed condom on. Also one where it turned out the condom had a hole. Not a poked hole, but a 5 mm piece missing (I have photos). I may write about it in this other thread here. it happens. Worse, these are those cases where I noticed. Were there more where I didn’t ? Can’t say how often it happens but it definitely does. And it fucked up my sex life for a long time.
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I actually like being fucked by shorter guys. Ideally 5ft 8” or below
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Apart from the common issues (not reading profile, not providing a pic, …)? three things annoy me most 1. Tops asking for a dick photo 2. Tops wanting it NOW within minutes - nope. I need to clean out. It’s not done in a second. 3. Tops writing lone on line about the bottom being super clean, super hygienic etc - I am clean. But you still are fucking an arse. There might be accidents. Get over it.
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Would you ever use a condom for fucking?
BigPaleBottom replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
Yes of course. If it’s one on one sex and he doesn't feel comfortable because it’s bare it won’t be much fun anyway. An anxious top is always a bad top. I am open about that I am on PrEP and do both condom and bare, but leave the choice to him without pushing. I prefer bareback because it scratches my hole less and slides smoother. But I had guys who’s dicks just look amazing in the right condom. Also, like some days ago, we started with condom, changed, used the second and ran out of them. Then he decided to go bare. -
Drop that top. What a jerk asking you for hours of preparation. I used the shower kit for a long time but not happy with it. You need the right shower hosewhen travelling, it’s harsh, it can easily have too high pressure and temperature. Not a fan. i nowadays use the American Way. A simple enema bulb with a long tip, some vaseline as lube and a pinch of salt to get an isotonic solution. Four to six rinses work fine and it takes 20 minutes max. Maybe a Loperamide pill two hours before. Eat a lot of fibres. It’s good for general health, too. And date nurses. They don’t freak out if an bit of dirt happens. When a top freaks, kick him out.
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Seems it’s s mind thing. Let me tell you a story. I had a couple of guys who told me they want to fuck me “dry”, without lube. And more who didn’t tell me but just did. Well. It hurts. A lot. Causes bleeding. It’s just awful. The pain is there for days. But the moment he pushes in without any lube, it’s already to late to stop. So what to do? I found a solution. I put a generous fingertip of vaseline up my anus before the guy arrives. Whatever he does after, the lube is already in there. Interestingly enough, I got lots of compliments after these fucks how juicy my hole is, how good it felt. None, NONE of them has ever noticed the Vaseline but all had fun. The bottom line: 1) don’t fuck anyone without lube. It’s really painful. 2) try vaseline in his hole. You’ll love the feeling. Promised.
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Dressing to advertise being a slut
BigPaleBottom replied to reirakubot's topic in General Discussion
Interesting! Could you talk a bit more on how a bottom signals his interest to a top? I feel I often miss that -
Agree 100% We should always distinguish between hot fantasies and the dire reality of real life.
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It’s called stealthing because one party intentionally and deceitfully hides, keeps secret an act of which this party already knows the partner would not agree too. This is wrong. Considering how much this stealthing thing has messed up my own sex life and left me increasingly in doubts and fear for more than a decade, until finally PrEP came along, I feel anger and almost hate on those who did it.
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It’s sometimes the only way to deepthroat a guy. Especially when his cock is bend upwards. But takes a lot of skills from the top not to literally suffocate you. Also using poppers is difficult there. Not sure tops like it tho.
