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My experiences for what they are worth: (1) You must like him physically. Having physical attraction is important so the experience is of intimacy and not just of having a big object inside you. (2) Foreplay helps. If you are into each other, you will not only be willing to give it a try, you will really want him inside of you. (3) It will be tempting to say "stop" if there is some pain and discomfort. I prefer to tell the top in advance to please go easy at first, but that there will be no stopping once you both get started. His pleasure will become your pleasure.

It is a one way street. Once you experience the pleasure of being a bottom, sex with women will seem quite boring. I have no regrets about it.

Impossible to forget the person or the day. Te experience changed my life forever. I was still a student in grad school. Heterosexual and the idea of sex with another man had never crossed my mind. I was new in town and went to a bar. Unknown to me, this bar was transgender friendly. I saw some very beautiful women but had no idea they were transgender. A slender black lady sat next to me and we started chatting. She was beautiful and very feminine. I had never been with a black woman, so when she offered to go to her place I hesitated, but finally decided to give it a try. We had good conversation, and as I felt more comfortable with her, se got closer and closer. Finally we got into passionate kissing and started undressing. I still thought this lady was a genetic woman, but I had already noticed she was unlike any woman I had ever been with. She smelled better, tasted better, seemed far more intimate and being close to her was more pleasurable than any other woman I had been with before. I guessed the mystique of black women was all true. We were naked but she kept her "clit" tucked between her legs, so I still did not suspect anything. My dick got really hard, and that was the point when I suddenly felt something unusual touching my dick. Her clit got hard was easily twice the size as mine. I was shocked! However, I was so excited and happy to be with her that I did not feel angry, and just went with the flow. She did oral on me and she knew what she was doing and had me in heaven. So, when she invited me to do 69. I did. To my surprise, I enjoyed sucking her. She smelled and tasted good, and I got even more excited. As we moved on, it was clear in my mind I would be the top. After all, I was a man and she was a woman. So, I started fucking her in the ass. A new experience to me. She was tight and delicious. I tried to make the experience last and stopped every time I felt I was getting closer to cumming. During one of these rest moments, She moved and my dick popped out of her ass. She turned and asked me if she could fuck me. My first reaction was to say no, but before I had answered, she was already moving around me and helping me get in position. I was face down and her dick was rubbing my ass, then it happened, the head went in. Her clit was about 10 inches and very thick. I felt a lot of pain and told her to stop and take her dick out. She did, but kept rubbing against me, kissing me, and whispering in my ear that we should try again, that she would be gentle. So, I accepted and the second time she went inside me with far less pain. She then started fucking me, and the experience blew my mind. I had never felt such intense pleasure in my life. It was intense, it was heavenly, it was beyond my wildest dreams. After about 15 minutes of this, she pushed all the way in and I could feel her clit pulsating and releasing her cum deep inside of me. I guess I forgot to mention that condoms had not been even mentioned. It was funny, I could feel the pleasure of her clit for hours after we had had sex, and when I went back home, I was dripping cum the rest of the night. There was no U turn. After that experience, sex with white genetic women became boring and almost unbearable, and I became attracted only to black women and in particular to black transgender women.

For me, it is all in my mindset. First requirement for a long fuck, I must really like the guy or TS lady who is going to fuck me. Second, foreplay is important so I get turned on and really want his/her cock inside me. Third, we agree before we even start that there will be no stopping no matter what. I tell them, if I beg you to stop, please fuck me harder. Knowing that the session is out of my control, gets me in the right frame of mind to take it as long as my partner wants to fuck me.

For me, getting fucked feels much, MUCH better than cumming. Getting fucked is like an orgasm that lasts for as long as the top lasts, and only gets better with time. So, I try not to think about cumming while I am getting fucked, but if I do cum, indeed my sensations change and it becomes more difficult to take dick. So, before we start, I always make it clear to the top that he is in control and that there will be no stopping until he is satisfied. My ass belongs to him. Then, if I cum and ask him to stop or take a rest, he will just continue fucking me. This shortens the time I need to get back to normal and after a few minutes the pleasure returns full force.

An update on this topic. Last month I was in Houston and saw an ad for a black guy on A4A with at least an 11 inch cock. I decided to give it a try. First I set the follwoing ground rules: Complete domination and no stopping no matter what. The guy was happy with the terms but warned me it took him a long time to cum. There was some foreplay and I was really into him. His cock was the biggest I have ever seen. When the time came to fuck, he did it BB and used baby oil for lub... lots of it. To my surprise there was no pain. His cock went in slowly but with little effort. Then he fucked me for about one hour non-stop. I got a glimpse of heaver! The pleasure was INTENSE and I was glad he took a long time. When he climaxed, I could feel every squirt and realized what it meant to have a hungry ass. I plan to see him again next time I visit Houston. Yes, taking a monster cock is worth whatever pain you may feel.

Better late than never. Since so many people offered advise when I asked the question, I think I owe it to the forum members to tell how it went. I did travel to meet the guy who claimed had a monster 12 inch cock. Yes, he was very good looking and really did have a monster cock just as he had said in his CL ad, very long and very thick. Meeting him was really hot, he first gave me a massage and got me very excited before he tried to penetrate me. When he did penetrate me, he came in slowly but still it was painful. I thought he was tearing me up and was sure he had entered me completely, just to find out he was just half way there. Eventually I took the whole thing and he started fucking me slow but deep. It was absolutely wonderful, but the feeling was so strong, I could only take it for about 10 minutes. We waited a little, allowing me to relax and then we tried again. Still painful but even more pleasurable. Finally he did cum deep inside me. I was happy and proud I had taken the test and passed. I went back home feeling my ass like his cock was still inside me. It was a nice feeling. The thing is, the following morning, my ass hurt badly, like a bee had stung it. It was hard to go to the bathroom for the next three days as the sting of pain was always there. Finally, I got back to normal. Will I try it again? You bet!!! Now I know what to expect and will be ready for it.

I was in Houston some years ago cruising around the Montrose area. I saw a beautiful transsexual lady who told me she was homeless and would appreciate spending the night indoors. She seemed like a nice person going through hard times and told her she could stay with me in my hotel. We had a great night together. We shared the bed and had great sex. She had a dark complexion and had a small but beautiful dick that needed attention. She was not dirty, she smelled so good I did not even ask her to shower before we went to bed. We fell asleep in each other's arms and in the morning she took a shower and left thanking me profusely. I gave her some money knowing well she needed it for simple things like food. She asked if she could come back the following night, but unfortunately I was leaving town. Never saw her again. I looked for her in my next visits to H-town but could not find her. She had no address or phone number, so she just remains a wonderful memory.

Thank you all for your thoughts and advice. I will definitely go ahead and try it.

First of all, I love to be a bottom and have had the experience many times. However, the biggest cock I have ever taken is about 8 inches and have to say I felt a lot of pain taking it followed by amazing pleasure. However, I had a burning sensation for a couple of days after the experience. Average or smaller than average cock sizes feel good but are not memorable. I have always had the fantasy of taking a monster cock, 11 thick inches or more. I was once with a transsexual who had a 12 inch cock and had promised to top me, but at the end she turned out to be a non-functional bottom. Last week I saw on CL in a city a few hours away from my home an ad for a top with a 12 inch cock. I contacted him and he showed pictures proving he really is that big, very thick and also very good looking. We agreed I would travel to meet him in two weeks. He mentioned most people have trouble taking him and asked me if I would really be willing and ready, I not only gave him permission to use as much force as needed to make it happen, but we also agreed he would not to stop no matter what. My question to the forum is: Am I putting myself in danger of a terrible and painful experience? Can people who have tried monster cocks tell me if the pain will be such I should just stick with smaller cocks?

The first couple of times I was a bottom, I had sex with latino guys. After I tried a black dick for the first time, i never went back. Now I only allow black dicks inside me, and I have no regrets about this decision.

When I have sex with women, cumming is important. However, the first time I tried being a bottom, I discovered that the pleasure I feel being fucked is far more intense than the pleasure I feel cumming. So, frankly, when I have a big dick inside of me, the last thing in my mind is cumming.

I thought multiple cummers were urban legend. However, last month I met one in Dallas. I was cruising on CL and hooked up with a black transsexual. We were both a bit in a hurry and only had about half hour to meet. I started sucking her cock, she got excited and in just a few minutes she put a bid load of cum in my mouth. At that point she started fucking my mouth... 3 minutes later I felt a second and even bigger load in my mouth... then a third, a fourth a fifth, and we had to stop at that point. I had never had so much cum in my mouth and she tasted really good too. SinceI felt, tasted ans swallowed the cum, I am sure it was real. Next time I go to Dallas I intend to meet her agin.

One day I almost became such a bottom. I do like bb sex, but I am not a bug chaser and I am selective as to who I allow to top me bb. I know there are no guarantees, but I can at least reduce the chances of being pozed if I try to limit bb sex to people I know or at least trust. One day I was traveling on business in Houston and answered an ad on CL for a black transsexual. She looked really pretty and decided to give her a try for a hook up. Frankly I thought she would be a bottom and as such I have control and use a condom if we ever came to having sex beyond oral. We met and she was even more beautiful in person than on her pictures. We did not discuss in detail what we were going to do, so I decided to go with the flow. We went to her apartment and started with some heavy foreplay, lots of kissing. I was really excited, even more when she came down on my dick and did some amazing bb oral work. I was in heaven! She then moved to my ass and started rimming. It got me even more excited. I was thinking about returning the favor and maybe doing oral on her. Last time I had seen her cock it was flaccid and looked relatively small, sort of confirming my belief she was a bottom. Then, she lifted my legs on her shoulders and to my surprise put her weight on me and penetrated me with a beautiful cock that had grown to at least 9 inches. It felt really good and she started fucking me like you only see in movies. I was so excited I was not thinking. Then, it occurred to me she was not wearing a condom and she was inside me. I got scared. I did not know this girl and I certainly did not expect to find myself in the situation I was facing. I tried to stop her by pushing her hips away, but she was in control and her weight was just too much to fight against. I could not say a word. I was feeling so much pleasure I finally stopped fighting and let her have her way. It was wonderful! I have no regrets. Since that day, I made up my mind that once I was intimate with someone, there would be no limits. In my opinion, once you let a dick inside, you belong to that person and should let him do as he pleases. And by the way, I saw this girl again the next time I went to Houston and the second time she did me again bb and it was even better.

This thread reminds me of a story in the old bareback.com site. The title had to do with someone changing his mind. It went like this: A guy met a top and insisted on using a rubber. The top guy convinced the bottom to let him tie his hands. Midway through the fuck, the top took the rubber off and forced a bareback fuck on the tied guy. This was a hot story and wish someone could rescue it and post it here.