I am curious who is wired similarly. I am a service oriented bottom, and the moment that i am hit, spanked, etc, my headspace is gone.
I am pretty much in total control of my day to day life, which probably why I dive do deep into the loss of control through Bondage and Domination
My nips aren’t wired, and my cock and balls just fade away when I am serving, so hitting them, just hurts, and pinching nipples feels the same as pinching my elbow
I have been trained and served several DOMS and MASTERS with various requirements and skills. It take a lot for me to perform anything S&M… although, if I am hooded collared and leashed and on display in public setting, then that side kicks in a little. I still lose my sub headspace when there’s pain deliberately