When did you know you were a bottom?

[yoursinmine]

Yeah, long before I got fucked. I've never topped, and never will, I don't think. When watching porn I was either fantasizing about the cock, and envious of the bottom. 

I loved watching men cum for all the regular reasons, but also because I got off on watching him experience the pleasure. All I ever wanted, was the be the one to deliver that pleasure. I feel lucky that I get to do it. 

[Lee31]

Am 100% bottom it's when  feel of the bare cock going inside and feeling them cum right up, I did dry top once I just cude not get hard  so that was an Clear indicator that I was a bottom the only time I get hard is when an top in dumping his load in me and if it's  poz I go wild 

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

From the first time I got hard from visual stimuli, I knew I was gay and, once i knew what “top” and “bottom” were, that I was a bottom. I dreamt of men penetrating my mouth and my ass. I’ve never once truly desired to be a top. I’m super submissive sexually so there’s no real need to ever top, either.

[Bbgoodstuff]

Took me a while to get into bottoming. I topped exclusively for years. I met this hot fit bald guy who had kids and a wife in a toysrus parking lot. He hopped in my car and I drove us up to a discreet spot I knew. This guy was super hot and chiseled like a greek god. The second he talked I knew he was at least bi if not fully gay and living a double life. His voice was really high and feminine. Anyways, I started sucking him and he was loving it. I kept saying how bad I wanted to feel him inside me. Was able to convince him to breed me in my back seat. I rode his cock and got him fully naked halfway through. We made out a bunch while he was fucking me then blew his load in my ass. After that I started to bottom more and more till I almost became exclusively bottom for years. Some people start off living it bug other grow into it for sure. I envy all the really young guys who bottom all the time, I missed oug on some really hot cock in my early years 

[Pozguyinchi]

I think that the understanding came early on but I didn’t realize it. If that makes sense. I started having sex around the age of 13. I just instinctively knew my role. I wanted my man in me and nothing more. I know my sex organ was my pussy but I never sexualized my man’s hole the same way. It was like I knew he had one of course but mine was different. I have never been into porn but I saw a few here and there and that’s when I realized there were others like me. I was also fortunate that my sex partner really liked my pussy. He made me realize my purpose was to complete him. I had something he didn’t have and he worshiped it.

[BBforever]

I started as a bottom giving up my young ass to any guy. Then when I was with my ex I started topping and was the top in the relationship for 6 of the 8 years we were together.

For the last 2 years of the relationship I was vers fucking other holes and getting loads in my ass.

After the breakup I went back to being a bottom. I like both topping and bottoming but bottom is always what I go back to. 

[Hungryforbbc]

I think most of us start out vers but our early experiences help guide our eventual preferences and fetishes. Every total bottom I’ve ever discussed this with has told me that at some point they were either (1) what I call “broken” - made to completely submit and totally surrender their masculinity and power or alternatively (2)  they were given the ultimate pleasure of the woman’s orgasm. I had the pleasure of both so there was no question for me that my preference is taking dick.

[Sebi23]

I realized I was a bottom 6 months after I turned 19 and had my first sexual experience.  I started using small butt plugs which gave me that pleasant pressure and fullness to more intense sensations like tingling or prostate stimulation.  I have always known that my roll was to please and submit to the alpha male and bottoming to me it absolutely is the pinnacle of physical pleasure.  

 

 

 

[fuzzybttm]

I never thought I was a bottom when I started having sex.  I thought I was vers because I didn't know any better and figured i should try both, and I was frankly a crappy bottom and a shitty top.  I quickly figured out I was trying to do what I thought the other guy wanted, and it was just not working.  And I knew my limits as a potential top, so decided to, the next time, just go in as a bottom.  And when I stopped caring about my dick and really focused on taking dick well, I knew I'd basically stop toping ever.

[GuyLover]

I started by getting blowjobs at the adult bookstores. Pretty soon I was sucking dick myself. Then one time in Chicago, I bent over at the glory hole and took a load in my ass. And I absolutely loved it and I knew I was a bottom for life.