A Question ... concerning (possibly) offensive imagery

[PERVERSATILE]

I cant imagine anything that could be more difficult that picking up pussy online

(that you don't have to pay cash for) so for the Internet to be an efficient tool

-you gotta stay focused

-work ur demographics

and eliminate those extraneous distractions.

Having said that, in real life, face to face time, I totally dig hookin with M/F swingers

or being my straight buds wing man and throwin a DP smash on some slut we pick up.

[Toxxic]

Sorry bb1991 but for me your 'side note' is one step too far.

For me it's great there are Bi & straight guys on here too & I love reading the posts - but as for poor delicate straight guys being repulsed by the gay images - well tough! As far as I'm concerned this is a gay site that's straight friendly. Almost all sites are the other way about it seems to me. I'm forever having titties & cunt shoved down my throat & not expected to complain

& frankly if the straight guys are twisted enough to be on here they're quite able to cope with the sight of guys fucking!

Leave well alone, it's fine as it is.

[Guest]

Definitely not offended or disgusted, but I'm just not turned on by women.  In straight porn, if there is an awesome rough Alpha Top, I will watch.  Otherwise, it's a big NO from me.  

[BlackDude]

30 minutes ago, DannyBoyCMH said:

Definitely not offended or disgusted, but I'm just not turned on by women.  In straight porn, if there is an awesome rough Alpha Top, I will watch.  Otherwise, it's a big NO from me.  

Thank you. This Whole conversation reminds me of the bar/club scene. Gay people are not allowed or objected i. straight clubs and bars yet we are expected to allow women and straight people to invade our space and make rules. Then, like someone is supposed to make us feel bad for not wanting to see a naked woman? Some women have been so used to using their bodies to get whatever they want they just can’t imagine it not working on a man. 

[DarkroomTaker]

Does the OP who posted this  in 2014 actually exist?

Anyway, IMO, room for anyone,anywhere. 

[funpozbottom]

1 hour ago, DarkroomTaker said:

Does the OP who posted this  in 2014 actually exist?

I find it's bad luck to question the mythic origins of past posts.

 

In my opinion, it's not a matter of women being offensive or disgusting, rather, finding straight content in the gay section is more like the frustration of getting Rick-rolled.  You come to the site for discussions on gay topics and find I just want to tell you how I'm feeling ... Gotta make you understand

Never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down
Never gonna run around and desert you
Never gonna make you cry, never gonna say goodbye
Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you

... 🎶

[DarkroomTaker]

6 hours ago, funpozbottom said:

I find it's bad luck to question the mythic origins of past posts.

 

Simply asking if the poster exists as I cannot find him. Not questioning origin of post.

 

[ErosWired]

18 hours ago, BlackDude said:

Some women have been so used to using their bodies to get whatever they want they just can’t imagine it not working on a man. 

I know women who talk of going to gay bars simply so that they can have a drink in peace.

8 hours ago, DarkroomTaker said:

Simply asking if the poster exists as I cannot find him.

The OP has “Guest” affixed in front of his username, which, if I am not mistaken, is done to identify the remaining content of persons who no longer have an account on BZ. I’m sure @drscorpio  could explain properly.

[boy4you]

I work with women at work but that’s it. Socially I will be respectful of them but I’m not going to have sex with them. I respect and understand people who have made the change in their sexuality identity. I have had sex with a Trans Man as he was more manly than an A lot of men. 

[Zencoli]

I wouldnt use the terms disgusting, offensive, or threatening. But I will say that being from an "open minded nation" The law, law enforcement, streets, and establishments all bestow the impression that I am disgusting, offensive, threatening, and inhuman. 

I find that here in Canada, most excusively Gay services eventually need to go BI or else Health Canada or LEO find some way to shut it down. We have never had rights or freedoms here, and the straight or bi communities dont seem to understand that. But this is Just MY OPINION strictly.

Edited May 10, 2020 by Zencoli
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[drscorpio]

Moderator's Note: This is a post from 6 years ago. Until @DannyBoyCMH brought it back from the dead, it had not been commented on since July 2014. Since that time, we have completely reorganized the site, so a lot of issues it brings up are settled already. Straight/Bi content which includes all images of unclothed women now has it's own area which you can easily avoid/spend all your time in depending upon your preference. 

The original poster has requested his account be deleted (there is a tiny chance he has been permanently banned, but that has only happened a handful of times). "Guest" at the beginning of the username indicates an account has been deleted. This means his profile page no longer exists. That's why @DarkroomTakercannot find it. Sorry, @funpozbottom, it's not an unsolved mystery. 🙂 

Generally, we ask you to continue an old thread rather than making a new one on the same topic. If no one has commented on a thread in more than 3 years, it is probably best to go ahead and start a new one unless you specifically want to draw attention to how things have changed since way back when. 

[twstdpigboy]

15 hours ago, Zencoli said:

I wouldnt use the terms disgusting, offensive, or threatening. But I will say that being from an "open minded nation" The law, law enforcement, streets, and establishments all bestow the impression that I am disgusting, offensive, threatening, and inhuman. 

I find that here in Canada, most excusively Gay services eventually need to go BI or else Health Canada or LEO find some way to shut it down. We have never had rights or freedoms here, and the straight or bi communities dont seem to understand that. But this is Just MY OPINION strictly.

@Zencoli as a Canadian I am not entirely in agreement with you on this.  I am struggling to even come up with an example where the Government of Canada or the LEO (Liberal Elite of Ontario?) have ever granted any right or privilege or favor under the law to just us gay men. Any policy or law or guideline tha been been all LGBT+ community as a whole; as it should. To have done otherwise would contravene the Charter of Rights and Freedoms and declared unconstitutional.

[Spunkinmyarse]

As gay men, I feel it is only natural that some of us have an aversion to the naked female form, in particular the genitals, etc. If like me, you’ve never had sex with a women, this is very unfamiliar territory, and being exposed to it can bring on an instantaneous gut reaction and a feeling of revulsion.  I think this is largely because it looks so different from our own bodies, and our brains’ knee-jerk reaction to this is “Look out, there’s something wrong here!”.

Disgust is too strong a word for it, and there is no way I think anyone should be ‘offended’ by it: in fact, when I get this feeling, I always tell myself that I’m the one with the problem here, and I need to get over it: after all, women are humans, too. As for threatened... why would I feel threatened?  Unless, as others have pointed out, my gay ‘space’ was being inundated to the point of oblivion with straight porn.

But it does make me laugh when straight men pretend to be disgusted/revolted/offended by the sight of cocks or naked men in general. How can they be?  They’ve each a cock, and I bet they’ve spent years of their lives playing with it. They’re familiar with the look of their own naked bodies in the mirror, and they’ve probably grown accustomed to seeing other naked men in locker rooms, etc.  But it’s that classic sophomoric trope of teenage movies or series like American Pie or The Inbetweeners, where one of the guys feigns complete horror at the idea of seeing another guy’s cock. I presume it’s to send the message to the world: “Look at me, I’m so straight that the mere thought of another man’s penis makes me want to vomit!”

[twstdpigboy]

The revulsion many of us feel shouldn't be directed at the imagery itself rather its at the sheer gall and freedom from retaliation the str8 women/men have to think that its ok to do so, and then wrap it all up in a American Flag and the 1st Amendment or LGBT rights.  

I have run into similar situations on the social networking platform MeWe. Many of the groups that start out being gay ie a group for gay men that like to watch other men have sex with other men soon become 'tainted' by the content str8 women and bisexual men feel is their right to post by warping the ideals inclusivity and tolerance and acceptance and beating us over the head with them. 

I have no issue with str8 or bi women/men, in general being in a gay pornography group; provided they don't have a voice or a tangible visual presence within the framework of the group. Str8 women and bisexual men consume gay porn. That's cool. I like to watch interracial str8 porn ... We all get off on certain imagery and just because I identify as a gay man doesn't begin to explain the complex nature with which my brain and body respond to sexual imagery ... humans are complex and our ability to label each other is complicated. 

But just because I get off on watching a Black Man or Men putting the blocks to some skinny white vagina ending in a cream pie doesn't mean I have the right to put a picture of myself riding one of my overly large black dildos shooting all over myself with some vague reference to Jason Luv and his hot delicious cock raping my hole and if other I'd have been accused of many things and guilty of even more. I know better ... on many different levels.

Why don't Women and Bi Men get the equivalency? 

 

[BiginBagin]

I don't mind at all. I actually enjoy jackin to straight porn sometimes, especially if the guy is really hot.... I'm really picky about the women. One wrong attribute and I'm over it and go back to my gay porn. I even check out women pretty frequently and I LOVE tits....but I also know that everything and everyone has an appropriate time and place.

Edited May 14, 2020 by BiginBagin