Dick Size Obsession

[verstoplatin]

I have read articles about average dick size; from USA, Europe, Asia, and Latin America. They all say the same thing, that average dick size is from 5 to 6 inches long. Of course, some races/cultures/areas of the world have different sizes, but on average that's it, 5"-6".

 

Counting all the men I've fucked, the ones who have fucked me, and all of those who I've seen their dicks for any reason (all races included), we are talking of probably more than 500 (a sizable sample). I'd say around 30 were true 8 (6%) and 3 were true 9 (0.6%)). I haven't seen 10", 11", 12" ones in person.

 

So, huge dicks of 8, 9, 10, 11 inches are really really scarce. So I always wonder where this fascination with huge dicks come from. It's some sort of obsessive pathology worth analyzing.

 

- Haven't we all seen way too many dicks as to notice what the median is?

- Aren't we big enough to understand that xxx movie directors look for hung men, not the typical Joe.

- Aren't we tired of seeing pics of 6" long dicks on sex apps and guys saying it's 8" (btw, 8 is the magic number, 70% of gay men have an 8" dick).

 

Some guys seem to live a fantasy. It's very common to read profiles where they clearly state that they won't do anything if the dick is not at least 8" long. I mean, It's not impossible to find such hung men, but, waiting for them for so long, discarding great looking ones with decent dicks just because are not 8+ doesn't seem reasonable. Also, remember that thousands of bottoms would kill for such a top, are you that gorgeous or average looking. The latter one reduces even more the odds of finding a very hung one.  

 

We humans tend to dislike exaggerations. The same way most dislike men with huge noses, ears, eyes, mouths, heads, or those who are extremely tall, many would actually dislike horse hung men, as they look like that, something in the middle between a horse and a human, I see nothing attractive in that, it's doesn't look natural. Also, such huge dicks tend to have erection problems, imagine all the blood they require to stay erect. 

 

IMO, the biggest a dick should be to feel nice is 8", but 6 and 7 are not to be rejected. Size does matter though, 4" one is way too small and barely felt. 

 

No man is born to take 8, 9, 10, 11, 12 inches dicks. If someone say that it's not a fantasy, that they need a 9" one to feel pleasure I'd recommend the following: stop mutilating your ass with toys, and you'd have a better sexual life, based on reality.

 

Any comments on whatever you'd like to comment are welcome.

 

 

[NLbear]

It may be true there is an obsession with big dicks. Certainly by Bottoms. I think tops could care less what size their bottom is. Read the responses from tops on similar threads here.

I too start to drool when I see guys with 9" or bigger. But reality is I don't often meet guys like that.Some here seem to get fucked every single day by a guy with a 9,10 or 11" cock, I haven't met that many. 7 or 8" will do nicely for me, even 6". And most guys I have met are in that range. Truth is the bigger guys more easily get to my prostate which makes me precum or cum handsfree and that is always a hot experience. But I have met guys with 8" or 7" who can do that too sometimes.

It's more a visual thing I think. Guys with a massive dick make me weak in the knees just fantasizing what it would feel like getting fucked by that monsterdick. And the truth is that the few times I did I found I could not deep throat them, or they they needed some time getting in ballsdeep.

But I do fantasize about what it would be like to have a 9" or more (even as bottom), stuffing it in yourpants every day and showing off a massive bulge (I have a thing for big bulges).

All and all 7"or 8" do it for me. A 9" or more is an occasional treat.

[Guest Saturn1]

A 7 inch cock makes me VERY happy. An 8 and 9 inch cock makes me a TOTAL BITCH BOY!!! A 10 to 11 inch cock MAKES ME GO WILD; I mean a FUCKING INSANE POWER BOTTOM!!! I have not had a cock above 11 inches but I would LOVE to take a 12+  inch cock. I wonder what a cock that is 13 to 15 inches would feel like? Hopefully, one day, I will find out.

[seaguy]

I think what we hear guys saying they want and like to get when it comes to dick size is often larger than what they are actually  hooking up with.  Every bottom wants to project that he is a good bottom capable of handling any kind of cock but it just sounds better to say yeah I lie guys 10+ inches.  But then when you get home try to actually take all those 10 inches it fucking hurts.  So they end up bringing home guys whoa re 6-8 inches and then it goes in easier less nervousness and a better experience overall.  But they are not going to tell anyone cause they don't want to seem like they could not handle a big dick.  That would be like admitting defeat.

[bearbandit]

Are talking actual inches or internet inches?

[FurFluent]

the big ones are always nice to look at, but some are so freaking big on the Internet you can throw them over your shoulder and burb them like a baby. I personally prefer no greater than 8". If truth be told the best fuck I have ever had came from a 5" cock that made me see stars when I was cumming. I could truly care less now about length I think about GIRTH. If they have too much length it is a pain, because no one ever wants to get punched in the kidneys and too much girth can be a problem too. Everyone has their perfect size:)

[bearbandit]

"Short and thick does the trick"

[barehole4use]

The biggest i have felt & had is 9inches & that was ages ago, like really 10+ years. I think it's total bullshit when you hear about guys with 12+ inches & think someone is seriously wacking off to internet porn, I think thats why photoshop is so used, keep dreaming. all being said it's a nice idea but go & find that really big dick in reality.

[rtpbbcub]

Even porn is more of an illusion than reality. Most porn stars are pretty short/slender (not just muscled, but narrow chests and hips, as well as an overall small frame) compared to average height and weight, and the smaller their hands, the better. Visually, those physical attributes distort their bodies to produce the illusion of a bigger cock, especially if the cock lacks girth, 7" can easily look like 10 or more. Now pair that guy with someone of the same dimensions, or smaller, and big dick ledgends abound.

When you look around the locker room it can seem quite "disappointing," like you are surrounded by small dicks. All because we are trying to guage the average human body against porn standards.

Internet inches have always bugged me, and frankly I have no idea what some guys are really looking for. Especially the guys who are all about their size standards. The few that have said things like "hung 7 inches or more" that I have hooked up with (~7" here, excitement can modulate that a bit, but 7" is the mid point between ungodly rigid and eh ass to fuck) have acted like they were going to die just taking mine. WTF? Is it acting (which isn't helping me without warning) or are they seriously struggling? And if they are struggling, how the hell do they think they would handle bigger?

As for me, I have had from 4" to 11" without issue, and with enjoyment. Most between 4" and 6". A 10" and an 11" were both flukes, I didn't know until the pants came off. The 11" introduced me to poppers, thankfully. I don't know which of us was more surprised that I could take it.

But 4" to 6" is usually what I enjoy the most. Big dicks, especially thick dicks, just go in. Smaller gets to move around, usually on my prostate.

I also especially enjoy sucking smaller guys, and by smaller I mean 4" and under. They always seem to shoot big loads and be ready to go again. I like going again. :-)

[NastyRigPig]

I've been travalling extensively to Asia lately, and the men here have smaller dicks, but they are truly uninhibited.  There isn't that Judeo/Christian guilt bullshit in regards to their kinks and fetishes, so I've been having a ball, pun very well intended.

[Leather69]

All in all it's not what you have got, it's what you do with it!. Mine's 6 inches and fairly thick with a pa and I top only. Biggest I have ever seen was many years ago, a young guy with over 11 inches. He was only 21 but couldn't get it hard... fortunately he was happier as a bottom.. 

[Guest]

i think for me - it's fantasizing about what i don't have -

i'd like to be taller - i'm 5'7" .. 

i'd like to be uncut (with a LOT of foreskin) - i'm cut

i'd like to have a bigger dick - my dick is small/average

i'd like to have a big fuckin dick fuck me up past the 2nd ring - never had one that big - want one that big .. 

you know .. it's the grass is always greener syndrome .. :-)

[uclatinosj]

as a bottom i prefer 7.5"+ so it can get through my 2nd hole.

[Ross12]

I agree with you jaybird I always prefer what I'm not

Short guys -mmmmmm coz I'm over 6.2

Love cut guys coz I'm uncut

Love guys with really big Adam's apples coz mine is unnoticeable

Love guys with big teeth

And love really hung guys as I'm average

I could go on and on.......

[bberik]

Since I just started bottoming since last summer, I prefer normal size. Call me a chicken, but I'm not into pain. Just pleasure and taking loads. So people with small dicks don't worry, you're okay.