And This Is Why I Don't Fuck Bottoms Who Party

[VersatileBreeder]

Just thought I'd share this story with you guys, especially you guys who think that partied up bottoms are a good time. Because in my experience, they never are. Never had a good fuck with a guy who was high on Tina. This is why I don't do it myself.

There is this guy I met on BBRT a few months ago who is a complete bottom. And he's hot as hell- 32, short, slim, toned, smooth hairless body and a great little ass that is just made for fucking. The first time I met him, he was hosting an anon motel room pump n dump scene. I was horny as hell so I went over, got hard, fucked him and dropped a load in him and bounced. He contacted me the next day and told me that he thought I was hot and would love to meet for a longer one-on-one session, just us. I was very interested.

Before we met the next time, he asked if I was cool with him partying and I told him I don't fuck guys who are partied up. I started to withdraw my interest at that point, but he promised he wouldn't party. He kept that promise- we met, had amazing, hot passionate sex and I've bred him a few times after that.

Well, this morning he texted me and asked if I wanted to meet. It had been a while and I was really fucking horny, so we agreed to meet late afternoon at a cheap motel since neither of us could host.

When we met, I noticed a little baggy of white powder. I asked him what it was. The answer: Tina. He asked if that's ok. I guess he "forgot" I don't do bottoms that party. I said I preferred he didn't but he insisted he was going to just do "just a little." I was so horny at that point that I wasn't going to leave, so I just said, "well I guess if you have to..."

I probably should have just left because the awesome sex we used to have turned into a shit session this time. I was rock hard during foreplay, but when I tried fucking him, he was impossible. Squirming like crazy. When I was on top of him, he kept trying to control my motions by pushing my torso back and almost simultaneously pulling me in. I literally had to exert extra effort to fight back against his resistance to be able to actually fuck him. It was making me start to lose my boner. I was the top, I needed to be in control. All he needed to do was just lay there like a good bottom.

Then he starts saying his ass feels very wet and he thinks the water from when he douched was coming out. Over and over again he was saying this. I told him it wasn't and everything was fine. Then he started asking if there was a smell. I said no, and I'll let him know if anything was wrong. But no, he had to keep asking these questions until he finally got off the bed to go check.

When he came back I had no hard on anymore. I told him between all the squiminess and his worries about being wet/dirty, I didn't think it was gonna work. He insisted that everything was fine and to please "don't be like that." At this point I just wanted to blow my load that was practically aching in my balls to come out. I put him on his back, forced his legs back and held his hands down against the bed and pounded the shit out of him. Then I shot a huge load inside him and then got off him. But I was still frustrated with him.

I know guys who are pro-partying might tell me that a bottom can be squirmish and worrisome sober. That may be true, but my response to that is that every partied bottom I've ever fucked has had these issues. So what bottoms like him need to realize is that while they are in the clouds feeling on top of the world, chances are they are annoying and frustrating their sober top without even realizing it.

I'm just so irritated with this guy right now, I wonder if I will ever meet with him again. Fucking him today was not pleasurable, it was just plain frustrating. And he didn't even realize it.

Anyone else ever seem to have this problem with partied bottoms? Would love to hear other experiences and opinions on this matter.

[RawLeather]

AMEN. I am anti party myself. As a top, bottoms, that have partied, are to figgity and unable to release control. As a bottom, tops, that have partied, can't even get hard. Don't see the point myself in partying

[seaguy]

When one guy is partying and the other not it is never a good combination because your not going to be on the same level since the partying guy is amped up and horny and the sober guy is just being himself.  If you were into partying and had done some I bet the sex would have been much better because you'd have been on the same wavelength as him and sex would have been more effortless unless the bottom is a total tweaker and is all paranoid then get the hell out of there ASAP no one needs tweaker drama.

[NLbear]

I just use popperds, nothing else.

[FelchingPisser]

Poptronic---you just detailed my experiences of being with PNP-ers, too.  I just don't like being around them.  They THINK they are so horned and in the moment--but the reality so different.  Some of the worst sex of my life...

[VersatileBreeder]

When one guy is partying and the other not it is never a good combination because your not going to be on the same level since the partying guy is amped up and horny and the sober guy is just being himself.  If you were into partying and had done some I bet the sex would have been much better because you'd have been on the same wavelength as him and sex would have been more effortless unless the bottom is a total tweaker and is all paranoid then get the hell out of there ASAP no one needs tweaker drama.

seaguy- yep, this much I know. I have been to sex parties where I have seen two partied guys fucking and they are both in the zone together. This guy, however, knew my stance on partying and promised me he wouldn't do it. Then today, he brings the stuff and insists he needs to do it. If he absolutely can't have sex without it, then I would prefer he just tell me that and I will tell him that we aren't sexually compatible.

[Bttm2go]

Same here. Rarely have I had a good experience with drugged up bottoms. Once I was invited to a guys appartment where there were six really hot guys. I was the ONLY one with a hard cock. I did not fuck one of them. They were too into slamming and watching porn. WTF they had a live, rock hard cock to use and all they wanted to do was slam and watch porn. I just don't get it.

[tallbtm]

Poptronic, It's exactly the same problems with partied up tops. Even if they can get hard, they can't fuck worth shit because they're so easily distracted. They'll fuck for a minute or two, then stop to hit the pipe, check their phone, or rush to the next room to grab something. Or worse, they prattle on about nothing in particular (and I'm not talking sexy, verbal talk).

 

I don't play with guys who are partying. I've had too many utterly disappointing experiences. It's just not worth the waste of time.

 

If I show up and find out it's part of their agenda, I excuse myself and leave -- no matter how fucking horny I am. 

 

I'm sure they're having an awesome time. But it ain't gonna be with me.

[cam1972]

Poptronic, It's exactly the same problems with partied up tops. Even if they can get hard, they can't fuck worth shit because they're so easily distracted. They'll fuck for a minute or two, then stop to hit the pipe, check their phone, or rush to the next room to grab something. Or worse, they prattle on about nothing in particular (and I'm not talking sexy, verbal talk).

 

I don't play with guys who are partying. I've had too many utterly disappointing experiences. It's just not worth the waste of time.

 

If I show up and find out it's part of their agenda, I excuse myself and leave -- no matter how fucking horny I am. 

 

I'm sure they're having an awesome time. But it ain't gonna be with me.

Yeah... I agree. I wasted too much time with a guy who had been partying. I had never been around guys who party so I didn't know the signs. It was like ADD on steroids. Never did get the fucking I was hoping for. Told him I wouldn't see him again. Not worth my time. Looks like partying can ruin it for bottoms and tops. I'd much rather have sex over drugs. Any day. The natural high has to be much better.

[Ranger Rick]

That explains all the BBRT and A4A ads with "No PNP." It would seem the first P tends to obviate the 2nd.

 

Naïve me, I just figured it was because guys didn't want to deal with having their stuff stolen by druggies.

[tallbtm]

That explains all the BBRT and A4A ads with "No PNP." It would seem the first P tends to obviate the 2nd.

 

You're absolutely right Ranger Rick. In my experience, PnP actually stands for All Party, No Play.

[seaguy]

seaguy- yep, this much I know. I have been to sex parties where I have seen two partied guys fucking and they are both in the zone together. This guy, however, knew my stance on partying and promised me he wouldn't do it. Then today, he brings the stuff and insists he needs to do it. If he absolutely can't have sex without it, then I would prefer he just tell me that and I will tell him that we aren't sexually compatible.

Yeah that is just rude and sad that he couldn't have waited to parTy untill after you guys hooked up.  You would think that he would not want to be the only one partying and then knowing your dislike of that just makes him seem awfully stupid.

[barehole4use]

you should have just bent him over & raped his ass - no pulling out & given the fucker a no mercy fuck

[GermanFucker]

I know guys who are pro-partying might tell me that a bottom can be squirmish and worrisome sober. That may be true, but my response to that is that every partied bottom I've ever fucked has had these issues. So what bottoms like him need to realize is that while they are in the clouds feeling on top of the world, chances are they are annoying and frustrating their sober top without even realizing it.

 

I think with a sober guy it's totally different. At least he's there in the moment with you. If he's squirmish, it's for a reason (He has to get used to the size of your cock etc.). You can give him a moment to relax and everything's fine. A partier is constantly distracted, his disjointed movements make no sense at all. There's just no rhythm to the whole thing.

 

I'm not saying EVERY PnPer is like that. There's the rare exception,where the guy knows what (and that's seldom Tina) and how much to take and is really into the sex aspect (instead of the drug aspect). I guess one in a hundred guys is actually a pleasant fuck. The problem is: the 99 others think they are that guy. To those guys, let me tell you something: No, you aren't.

 

 

When one guy is partying and the other not it is never a good combination because your not going to be on the same level since the partying guy is amped up and horny and the sober guy is just being himself.  If you were into partying and had done some I bet the sex would have been much better because you'd have been on the same wavelength as him and sex would have been more effortless unless the bottom is a total tweaker and is all paranoid then get the hell out of there ASAP no one needs tweaker drama.

 

That reminds me of a group session I went to. I was welcomed with more or less these words: "Thank God, a sober guy! We've been fucking for two days.. well, not so much fucking, most of the time we were just to high to actually fuck. Finally someone who can actually thrust and blow a load"... Ummmm, yes........

 

I really think the sex among tweakers is just as shitty as the sex tweakers have with sober dudes. They just think it is better.

[Bottom Jim]

As a bottom guy I never party. I did have one experience with a top who did. He smoked Tina and said it would not affect him. Well for two hours he could not hard. He said he was tired and could he come back later. I said do not bother