Hook Up With Older Men

[konxgorssman]

I'm 21 years old and live in a smaller city (around 80.000 people) Could You give me some tips how to find older men to fuck me. 

[cumslut23]

Check squirt, scruff and bbrts. Squirt also has a listing of cruising spots where older men who are not out often go....

[NLbear]

Among those 80.000 people I am sure there will be lots of older men who want to fuck a 21 yo ass....

Not sure what you mean by "older" but as cumslut23 said, get a profile on some sites, get connected and see what happens!

[PhoenixGeoff]

It's not my cup of tea, but I do know of lots of guys around my age who really appreciate a younger guy. I'm sure if you put yourself out there you can find someone.

Depending on the kind of guy you want, you might consider trying craigslist too. More likely to find closeted/bi/married guys that way, which most likely translates into a purely sexual/hook-up type thing, but that may be what you're looking for.

[LKMike]

silverdaddies.com. hooked up older guys on there for years, although sadly i am now considered the older guy!

[konxgorssman]

Thanks everyone, just lived my fantsy a few weeks ago and me and him have fucked A LOT since then ty ty ty

[konxgorssman]

(disregard spelling errors since english is not my native toung)

 

To summarise my story,  I have identified as a straight man for all my life and been with a sizeable amount of women during my 21 years. Around 19 I began to jerk off to more and more gay stuff and fantazised about beeing the receiver but did not act upon it untill recently. So I finally decided to go for it and made a post about tips on this site and you said what I were looking for could be found online.

So I made a posts on multiple sex sites asking for some light blowjob stuff

and found many responses. 

I picked this guy who said he was 56 and he told me to meet at this small indoor swiming pool which had a sauna the next day(I had been there before and knew it were virtually no one there untill later)

 

So I went there the next day early in the moring as we agreed upon and went into the sauna and there was one older man there with a very nice body for his age. Since I was super nervous I wasn't sure it was him at first but after a minute or two I saw he began to jerk it and he asked me if I could help him which I did ofcourse and I started sucking him. Next thing I know he started touching my ass and fingering me. I was at first a little hesitant since we only talked about blow jobs online but it felt really good. Then he bagan licking and teasing my

 hole with his dick and I felt it sliding inside and at that point I asked if he was going to fuck me which he said yes to and at that point half of his dick were inside me. I then asked if he had a condom and all I heard was a quick grunting no and I felt at this point I might aswell keep going because it felt amazing and he almost had his hole dick inside. He began to fuck me faster and it felt incredible, nothing could compare. I embraced it and began acting like all the porn sluts I had envy with moans and begging for his dick which he seemd to very much enjoy. I wanted his sperm so badly and told him repeatedly and naturally he deliverd We talked for a while and he gave me his number which led to more encounters later.

 

Since I was hooked on dick at this point I looked for more and realised how easy it were for a young guy to find old men in my town online. If you are curious most of them are divorced and I assume they are either gay or bi and catching up on lost time which would explain why most of them end up deep inside.

[topstud127]

In my experience, as long as you know what you're doing and don't hump their leg (figuratively), you'll be fine.

 

Looking/being more mature than the "stereotypical kid" would help, too.

[konxgorssman]

How do I deal with married men? had a few who told me they single but while fucking me moand and told me I was tighter then their wife, it was insanely hot in the moment getting a load by married man but kinda felt bad afterwards. Can you have a fetish for married men? I feel like a bad human after the sex but meenwhile it's like heaven having a man telling me  I'm the best whole he ever had and he wants to fuck me every day because his old wife doesnt.

[Jamie85]

I can't tell you how to deal with married men, I don't ask.

 

Yes, you can have or develop a fetish for married men.  Apparently it's pretty common and, when it works correctly, gets you a regular fuck buddy.  

 

I'm sympathetic that you feel bad about fooling around with someone who's married, but, take into consideration, he's the one cheating on his wife if that's your concern.  If he wasn't fucking you, he would be fucking someone else.

 

Me?  I would take advantage of that sort of situation and make myself as available to him as we could both manage while it lasts.  So far, I've had a semi-regular, on again, off again sexual relationship with a guy who claims an Significant Other.  Do I care?  Only if his indiscretions with me gets him caught and hurt physically.  That would bother me.

 

YMMV

[snaketat]

Since I qualify as an "older guy", I have some thoughts on this subject.  I do not really seek out younger guys.  In many cases, the younger guys, while they can be very attractive and have those high Testosterone levels that keep they cocks pointed towards their chins, simply have not fucked enough to be great cocksmen.   As the old song goes, "i like a man with a slow hand.....and who does not come and go in a heated rush".   I think it takes some time to really get good a fucking....no slam on the younger guys just an time and experience thing.  

 

There was an old story:

 

An old bull and a young bull were standing on a hill looking down over a field in the valley below them.  The field was full of young heifers (virgin cows if you did not grow up on a farm!!).   The young bull is all excited and says, "lets run down there and breed a heifer".  The old bull drawls back> " lets WALK down there and breed them all".     EXPERIENCE!

 

I have run into some young guys (in fact had a WONDERFUL with a sub-30 ginger last month) who are thoughtful and skilled fucks.  I enjoy that....and I think that I am able to add to their enjoyment as well.

 

I do draw the line at married guys....regardless of age.  I understand they have desires and needs as well, but they have also made a commitment to a spouse and family.  Even if they do not value that, I do.  Part of the reason that I am not partnered is that I recognized that I would not want only experience on cock.   Again, others have their own needs, but for me, at this point in my life, that is not an area that is of great interest to me.   

 

Additionally, I prefer guys who are comfortable with who they are and have been willing to live authentically.   I am not sure that those who are married and still want to fuck with guys on the side, are really in touch with who they really are....they are just following their cock.

[bberik]

I'm 21 years old and live in a smaller city (around 80.000 people) Could You give me some tips how to find older men to fuck me. 

Tell me where you are and I'll hook up with you if I go somewhere near there sometime.

[funguyfl]

Older guys rock not hard to find at all not attracted to hardly any of them but some of the best fucks Ive ever gotten have been with the 55 plus crowd

[NLbear]

Five years and you're an "older" man too.....

[KindaBasic]

I don't know if married men are a fetish, but they can be addicting.