Did You Ever Think You Would Be A 'barebacker'?

[Guest TravelGuy4Bareback]

I remember the first few times I went to the adult stores, about 17 years ago. I would suck cock and get sucked. At times I wanted to get fucked, but I always had a condom with me. Nothing ever happened. Mostly because I didn't know how to cruise too good and was scared. I do remember one time a guy was sucking me. A small latino guy who sucked good. Then he stood up and bent over and tried to pull my cock into him. I told him NO and walked away and then left. I couldn't believe this guy would let some stranger he just meet at an adult theater fuck him bareback. I thought he was stupid. Then fast forward a few years and I'm 25. I go to a theater and get fucked really for the first time and took two loads bareback. Never looked back since that day.

[PhilUrass]

I was diagnosed over 5 years ago. I grew up with the 'safer sex' message and was fearful of HIV, and always played safe. Well, almost...only a couple of times I can think of where I'm not sure the guy fucking me wore a condom. Hated wearing condoms as a top, so mostly bottomed back then. Since, I've discovered the joys of latex-free sex and pretty much always top, always bare and never pull out.

[Guest]

Actually, I never thought "barebacking" would be a sex term. Back when I started fucking men (Yeah, that's right, before a lot of you guys were even born!), it was just called "fucking." Who knew?

 

Eventually, before there was "barebacking," there was "safe sex." But "safe sex" was never sex at all to me, so I just kept "fucking." Even when I tested poz, I just kept fucking - because, honestly, what was the point in stopping then?

 

More than 30 years after I got the bug, I'm still fucking with no apologies, fears or regrets. Life is what you make of it - and I'm making myself and a hell of a lot of other pigs happy. Cheers!

Edited November 27, 2015 by ProudPozPig

[hungry_hole]

I never heard of barebacking back then. I was young when I decided to try the saunas and the YMCA in New York City.AIDS was being talked about and I was trying to take a few loads before it became a bigger deal. Great times at the "Y", would leave my door open and because I was a young bottom I had all the action I wanted. I then avoided NYC and go to Toronto instead, the "Y" and saunas. But then AIDS=Death became the message and like everyone else put on the condoms. I remember once being horrified by seeing a slutty bottom taking all loads in his room. It would turn me on so I would walk in and touch his cummy hole, but too afraid to do it myself.In mid 1990's I took off the condoms. The turning point was when a guy who I thought had fucked me with a condom before he left my room he whispered at my ear "I left a present for you"...and I felt my hole wet with his cum. That's all it took.

[rtpbbcub]

Maybe not quite the same, and warning, vag trigger.

My first time was with a girl and safe sex had been drilled into both of us in school. Not to mention the general fear she had of getting pregnant and being know as the stupid slut.

So until about thirty seconds after the condom was on and I was in, I was as diehard as anyone on safe sex. Including the pill, diaphragms, sponges, condoms, and spermicide. All of which she chose to use simultaneously. And then proceeded to spend the entire time saying "please don't get me pregnant."

That would be my breaking point really. Because that was when I asked the question "is this all that sex is?" Internally, I'm not that rude. Unfortunately. Turns out I might have been better off if I had said that out loud (in a sense, I guess) as she was apparently thinking much the same. And she ended up screwing my best friend without a condom.

[cannero]

I became sexually active in the early days of the AIDS crisis. However I rarely stay hard in a condom and hate being fucked by rubbered up dicks. I'm not a frequent bottom and even with pleny of lube, its like sticking a brick up my arse. When I was in my early 20's I was picked up by a guy, tall, good looking, hung who rimmed my hole for hours. Angled me on a cushion and fucked me and that was just spit. Pretty much realized then that it was either hassle or far much fun going bare.

 

Although bareback sex is considered quite a fetish, to me it seems just natural and apart from a bit of a flirt with piss, I'm quite vanilla. It is a bit of a surprise to find I'm considered a bit of an outsider bu the LGBT community, even if not by the guys in my local sex club..

[rynyryan]

Never. I was staunch about protection until I was 20 and my longterm boyfriend got me addicted to taking his load. We ended a couple months later, but the raw fucking never did, oops.

[evilqueerpig]

I had my first man in 1977, pre AIDS days.....enjoyed the pure pleasure of fucking/getting fucked bareback and saw NO reason to change my behavior.  Guess you can say I never thought I wouldn't be a barebacker.  Even after I was infected, I have no regrets.

[topstud127]

My journey to barebacking was a bit more gradual and I'm too health conscious/ don't "do" permanent decisions to be totally reckless... but then Truvada entered my life and here we are. If a top wants to use one on mine, cool, but I can't remember the last time I topped with one.

 

Wanted to be, sure. Thought I'd be, at least to this degree, no.

Edited November 29, 2015 by topstud127

[PERVERSATILE]

I've been fucking raw

  since the first time

I got dicked down

almost 40 years ago.

 Bareback was just the way

I grew up fucking.

 

In high school

my boyfriend Chip

liked me to rubber up,

just  because it was his kink,

and he got of on

not wanting to be pregnant

and only in the 10th grade

[totaldarkness]

This got me to asking myself what I would have said to that a few years ago? I would have been amazed that I was unshamedly being a barebacker.

 

So, the question is did you ever think that it is something you would embrace so completely? Especially those of us who grew up during the first AIDS crisis and got the safe sex message drilled into us.

 

No way. Before I became a barebacker, I was a "safe sex advocate" aka a condom nazi. I used to teach people how to use condoms and that everyone should use a condom, every time. I was still a total whore, but I always wrapped it up.

 

 

I also love anonymous sex and orgies, and Treasure Island makes the hottest anon gangbang porn. I started watching their scenes and after a while realized that condom porn just isn't as hot. One day I realized I couldn't even watch condom porn anymore.

 

That was still months before I took my first load, but once I did.... man, I was hooked. But that's a story for another time.

 

 

Thank God for PrEP. I started barebacking before PrEP was available, but at least now I'm less of a hypocrite when I take raw loads up my ass.

[RideMyBlkDik]

This topic is very uncomfortable for me. Because it forces me to step back and evaluate my sex life. During the 80's my sex life was pretty much dormant as far as intercourse is concern. The AIDS crisis dominated the news and my thought process. In the early to mid 90's I tried to lead a straight lifestyle....so I did 'bareback', but only with a few females. In the late 90's I got married to a female and that shut down my sexual activities with men. Then after my divorce in 2001 the floodgates opened up. Not just to release all my decades old pent up sexual desires but also to truly live out my fantasies about skin to skin fucking with men. So since about 2001 or 2002 I have been a hardcore-dedicated-unapologetic barebacker. In a real sense I'm having to make up for all the time I lost in the 80's and 90's. So in a certain sense this topic is moot to me. I'm too busy catching up on lost time. For so many decades I didn't have sex with men in the most natural and most enjoyable way, bareback. By default I am a barebacker.

[hungry_hole]

I always felt I would eventually. I resisted for as long as I could. Did I think I'd eventually chase HIV and get it... never. I was scared to death in my early 20's but any of us over 35 were probably at one point.

When advising up and cumming bottom slut pigs (and surprisingly, I get asked a bunch). I tell them that jumping to barebacking is a slippery slope, pun intended. It's like a Lay's potato chip, you can't eat just one and you can't get fucked and bred by a great top and not want that shit over and over again.

So, if things like HIV and STD's scare them then stick to the condoms because yeah, you'll get those occasionally or permanently, depending.

If you couldn't care less and know in your heart and mind that having men cum inside you is more important than breathing then go bb and experience what sexual freedom truly is.   

I can really identify with what BottomFuckHole is saying. There were about 15 years of my life that I spent in heavy anon sex, leaving door open, blindfolded in my bed, taking multiple loads at the saunas, hundreds of loads in my private gloryhole, and love it and still like it. Done it enough, was very lucky to have been able to avoid HIV and feeling totally free and slutty. Should I now continue to risk my health? I decided I shouldn't and that I've had enough fun.

[bberik]

I started out fucking bareback from the very beginning. In the mid 80's and into the 90's I used condoms because of the AIDS hysteria, but still I used to swap filled condoms with a German penpal I had. Couldn't help but tasting it and show it into my ass. I've never fucked with a condom  (or been fucked with one) in this century.

[Guest bbbearlover1]

I had a feeling I would be a barebacker in the long run, because I HATED the feel of condoms.  And I still remember how angry I was, when I fucked raw for the first time.  The feeling was wholly different, and I didn't feel that fucking latex that dulled everything about sex.  I have zero regrets about giving up the condoms back in '06.  I haven't looked back.