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Yes just enjoy and consider yourself lucky you have that problem, seriously I find relaxing the best , amazing what total relaxation can do,these are not dump and go fucks, but those with whom you want to spend some time, seems everyone has someplace to be or something else to do, no one really takes the time to truly enjoy one another these days, I think it takes aging which I have done to figure that out, now if fortunate enough to meet someone which I have I sit back and relax and enjoy

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I found that I can handle long dicks the best if I do the following...

  • clean up deep and properly beforehand
  • if you have enough time do some stretching with a long dildo with a good amount of  lubrication. If you can don't take out the lubrication if the time frame is close to the meet
  • when you are with the top and I acknowledge that his dick is indeed something I could take but is extra long, I would ask him politely if I can take the lead in this. He probably knows already that not just anybody can handle his dick so this will only make him happy that you know your business
  • let him lie down on his back and suck him nice and stiff and used a lot of saliva to lubricate 
  • straddle yourself above his dick and slowly lower yourself until you feel obstruction
  • try to move your bowels inside, possibly using your hands on your stomach to rearrange your intestines
  • keep lowering yourself until you all the way down. It may take a little movement and wiggling but you can make it
  • when all the way down, don't get up again but stay and relax, maybe move a little forward and backward as if you were on a horses saddle
  • try to use your inner muscles to milk his boner. If you train this with your dildo, tops will be truly thankful for that. Also train your sphincters.
  • when you are entirely comfortable you can go up a little bit and down again
  • if entirely comfortable you will ride his dick like a true mare

Good luck, I could use one soon again too

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Thanks for the replies. This guy isnt really the let me take the lead type. it is just weird cause i can take a good hard fisting with no issue, but this cock just hurts/. Every thrust just hurts deep in my guts. We have met twice and both times I just bite the pillow and take it. He wants to meet again in a bit so i am gonna try to lube up and stretch out ahead of time.

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Don't feel stressed. Not all cocks fit. Choose another one I say. 

 

I know a couple of tops who are hung. I rarely hook up with them unless I'm really into the mood for a big cock. One of them is kinda rough which I don't appreciate at all. The other one at least allows me to get comfortable first. 

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perhaps its down to something simpler?

 

i can handle a varying degree of sizes in cock and dildo, with no issue. yet there is one top who i sometimes get fucked by, and his dick is a nice length but i have taken longer, yet it feels really uncomfortable when I'm fucked by him and it takes me ages to relax and get into it. After a few sessions with him i finally realised what was happening, the length of his penis was almost exactly the same length as my hole, the tip just touched the entrance to my second sphincter. Most larger guys generally are able to push past the second sphincter and fuck deeper, but this one guy is just the right length to poke the ring of muscle but not push past it, so its this pushing into the ring but not entering it that i found uncomfortable

 

how i came over it... one of two options worked amazingly well for me...

 

1) find a position that limits his depth, so not all of his dick goes all the way in.

2) find a position that means he never quite pulls all the way out, so his cock head stays pressed against the inner sphincter (not giving it chance to relax or tighten either way, while there is still pressure on it).

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Thanks for the replies. This guy isnt really the let me take the lead type. it is just weird cause i can take a good hard fisting with no issue, but this cock just hurts/. Every thrust just hurts deep in my guts. We have met twice and both times I just bite the pillow and take it. He wants to meet again in a bit so i am gonna try to lube up and stretch out ahead of time.

If it hurts it means you are not opening up for this guy. Since you can take a fist, you obviously are skilled in that area. Maybe you just don't like this guy? Maybe that is why you are not opening up for him. Could be a subconscious dislike.

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Well I think we got it figured out. I decided to just be up front with the guy and tell him I love rough sex, but not that rough all the time. He drives a dedicated route so he is in my small town a few nights a week and wants to have a regular fuck boy. I worked out great because we were able to discuss what we both want and how to get there. He actually admitted that he knew I was in pain and that he liked that. I liked that he liked it so that was good. He is a very Dom TOp which is what i prefer. We finally agreed to meet late last night and talk out a playtime we would both be into. So after a few drinks we got in his sleeper and I let him tie my hands behind me and put a rope around my neck. He seemed to really get off on that. He took a viagra and layed me on my side. I had pumped a ton of lube up there so he didnt need more. He got hard and shoved his cock in, when it stated to hurt I told him and he pulled out. We looked at his cock and he had about 2in left before he bottomed out. I figured it was my 2nd sphincter so we decided he could just go slow and push through it. Once he was back in deep and it hurt, I pushed hard and he popped through the ring. once in it wasnt bad but that is when I realized he is just long enough that when he fucks every stroke pops is massive cock head in and out of my 2nd sphincter. Once we discovered what was going on we agreed on a plan. So for the next 2 hours he fucked his big head in and out until i was able to relax and take it. Once I was good adn stretched out he shot his load deep in me. We slept and then before he left he re tied me adn gave me another load beyond my 2nd ring. I am super excited to find a sane but kinky dom guy for a regular. We will see how things go tomorrow night. I am sore tonight, but not bad. Just a good reminder of that cock i took. just for the record. i measured him before he tied me u. He is 9.25 long and shaft is 2.6in dia. his head is bigger. Honeslty biggest cock i have touched. Pretty good for an irish guy lol. thanks for all the tips

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depends on what position... 

If on back, grab you legs and open wide. 

 

If on all fours, find the nearest pillow and bite down... 

 

LOL 

Sorry not constructive I know. 

Put it in slow, then do slow long strokes. Eventually everything works out including cum. 

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Well round 2 I was a bit sore but it went pretty good. This time he got in balls deep and then had me tell him about kinky things I like in porn so he could stay hard. Every now and then he would pump in and out a bit. We did this for over 3 hours. zi will make another topic about the things we talked about cause it was pretty cool. We ended with a pretty hard fuck that wasnt terrible but still hurt. 

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Relax and know you role.  If you're going to bottom, you need to take any size.  Sure, the big ones are hard to take, but your body will do it.  If you're apprehensive, then don't bottom, and leave the big ones for those of us that will take them no matter what.

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