tips for letting go 100%

[cbusdump]

deep down i am a complete cumwhore, i want any and all loads, but i find myself with silly hang ups, and i can get picky. anyone have tips on getting past this and being completely open to each and every load offered to you?

[Guest Upstateguy518]

It's the thought that turns you on but the logical part of you shuts it off. Theres no real way to ease into it. Go to an adult book store or a local cruise spot and just go at.

[bberik]

9 hours ago, cbusdump said:

deep down i am a complete cumwhore, i want any and all loads, but i find myself with silly hang ups, and i can get picky. anyone have tips on getting past this and being completely open to each and every load offered to you?

Go to a darkroom, imagine everybody are hot pornstars.

[fucknfeedme]

Agree with BBERIK- a dark room is a good place to start.  For me it's all about your senses other than sight.  Close your eyes and lay down with your ass in the air and give yourself to any top that wants you.  Don't open your eyes.  Use your other senses to smell, feel and listen.  Know that your only role in the game is to give pleasure.  Tell yourself that your hole belongs to the Top man using it.  Giving pleasure will result in pleasure for yourself.

BBRT- fucknfeedme

Edited August 31, 2017 by fucknfeedme
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[Blank123]

Great advice, I'm in the same boat. I've a lot of anxieties and I'm so jealous reading what slutty bottoms get up to. One day I'll get past it hopefully  

[evilqueerpig]

Do a thorough cleanout, go to a place with a darkroom, drop trou and drop your inhibitions!

[NVTanner]

Yup, I agree with everyone here. If your that horny a dark room is the perfect place. I just wait around for mouths, cocks or hands reaching out and touching me. Usually all three happen at the same time. Usually a nice cock shows up, I bend over to suck it, more guys jump in and fingers or a tongue are in my hole. Then someone starts sucking on my cock or I feel a hard cock entering my wet hole. At this point I'm surrendering my whole body to whatever happens hoping it's one after another for the next hour or until my knees become weak from all the pounding!! 

[einathens]

There's no shame in being a cumwhore in theory but not practice. Your brain hasn't caught up to what your body wants, and that's okay.  If you're not ready, you're not ready. Don't pressure yourself, and don't allow anyone else to.

[Hottightass4u]

Dark rooms, slings, and such are great places.  You might wear a blind fold or mask so you can't see anything.  There's an extra high you'll feel when you can't see when you're getting fucked.  And poppers are good too, to relax.

Edited September 2, 2017 by Hottightass4u

[bbaremich]

If you are a true cumwhore, you will learn to accept your role as just a hole to be used by other men for pleasure. I am learned this and now I take any and all loads from all men, old/young, fat/muscular, etc. It isn't the man that get's me horny, it's the act of my hole being used for pleasure. 

And yeah, get yourself some poppers. That will really lower your inhibitions. 

[BreedingTop71]

On 8/30/2017 at 9:59 PM, Upstateguy518 said:

It's the thought that turns you on but the logical part of you shuts it off. Theres no real way to ease into it. Go to an adult book store or a local cruise spot and just go at.

Dont pressure yourself. If you are going to do this, do this right. Learn to swim well before u jump into the deep end of the pool

[hungry_hole]

On 8/30/2017 at 9:36 PM, cbusdump said:

deep down i am a complete cumwhore, i want any and all loads, but i find myself with silly hang ups,...

Most guys like you who are already poz and on Meds take it as an opportunity to be a complete cumwhore because I think that what most fear and prevents them from being a total cumwhore is HIV and other STI. Many guys poz after being a total cumwhore for a while. So I'm confused.

If your hang-up is not HIV, just get over it. How you get over it will depend on your situation (age, looks, attractiveness). The case of a young masculine 20's well-built guy who decides to become a cumwhore is quite different from that of a guy who in his 60's and now decided to become a cumwhore. That's part of what I mean by situation.

[Memprys]

I like to to totally let myself go once in a while, which not only means not asking any questions and not taking any precautions, but using alcohol and other chemicals to put myself into a totally receptive state of mind.  "Thanks for the wine enema and booty slam.  You want to shove that red-hot poker up my ass?  Go ahead!"

[MuscledHorse]

I escorted when I was in school and this required me to ignore what i find attractive and connect  with guys purely on a level of two males seeking the masculine pleasure of breeding together. With that I also had to shift my focus to the other guy's pleasure entirely since he's the one paying. Amazingly, when I did that my enjoyment of sex increased 100-fold and while ther are guys visually i am not into, my palette of what i find attractive has expanded greatly and i can mate with any one with out hesitation and make sure they leave with a smile on their face and a load in my jock hole.

[Guest Givemeyourload06]

have a friend tie you to the bed and blind fold you and put add on craigslist with room number