PozBearWI Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 Yes I think there is a distinctive difference between confirmed barebacker (perhaps most of us here) and a chaser. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tightslider Posted June 11 Report Share Posted June 11 On 10/11/2010 at 6:28 PM, JoshLandaleXXX said: haha... love it when guys say that. You do not play with poz? Yeah? Because everyone always tells the truth about their status right? Incredible that you are that naive when you're supposed to be a well educated medically trained professional..... True. Being doing this for over 20 years and no poz or other so obviously what I'm doing is working. It is a numbers game but there are steps you can take to reduce the percentage drastically. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tightslider Posted June 11 Report Share Posted June 11 On 6/7/2024 at 8:57 AM, PozBearWI said: Yes I think there is a distinctive difference between confirmed barebacker (perhaps most of us here) and a chaser. Agreed. They are not the same. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hungryforbbc Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 On 6/10/2024 at 9:00 PM, Tightslider said: True. Being doing this for over 20 years and no poz or other so obviously what I'm doing is working. It is a numbers game but there are steps you can take to reduce the percentage drastically. So I just tested positive for the first time. Literally haven’t told anyone yet. I certainly wasn’t chasing but I also hate condoms and I “love getting bred so guess I took one too many chances and it caught up with me. Not upset about it- having survived the 80s and 90s was a miracle in and of itself and resistant doesn’t mean immune so we’ll have to see what happens next 4 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallslenderguy Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 16 hours ago, Hungryforbbc said: So I just tested positive for the first time. Literally haven’t told anyone yet. I certainly wasn’t chasing but I also hate condoms and I “love getting bred so guess I took one too many chances and it caught up with me. Not upset about it- having survived the 80s and 90s was a miracle in and of itself and resistant doesn’t mean immune so we’ll have to see what happens next Your story could come right out of my diary (if i had one lol). i actually was going in to test so i could get on PrEP when i learned i am poz. Similar to you, i never chased... even engaged occasionally in casual sero sorting (butt was never a serious sero sorter, if a Man needed to breed, i was his lusty receptor). The Guy Who pozzed me gave me syphilis too. i don't think i ever asked, but He claimed to be neg and disease free. i don't know if He knew or not? And, it doesn't really matter to me. He was an awesome Top and a regular FB for a few months when i lived briefly in Roanoke VA. i had long sense come to terms with my need for unimpeded (read: "no condom") connection with a Man during sex. To me, if He does not leave a part of Himself inside of me, as well, if His relief/release/orgasm do not happen inside of me, we have not had sex (not making a universal rule, this is how i experience it). With very rare exception, i'd go without sex before knowingly getting fucked without the completeness of His seed/piss/orgasm inside of me. And i have only had a condom in me less than 5x out of a few thousand, and that was early on. Life is full of risks that we all take without a second thought. Gay sex is, even still, highly stigmatized. FUCK THAT with a condom. The cost of being with a Man sans condom is much steeper than that of risking infection... which we all risk every time we step outside our door (though getting cock in the ass is much more fun than getting a banana at the grocery store) 2 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hungryforbbc Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 8 hours ago, tallslenderguy said: Your story could come right out of my diary (if i had one lol). i actually was going in to test so i could get on PrEP when i learned i am poz. Similar to you, i never chased... even engaged occasionally in casual sero sorting (butt was never a serious sero sorter, if a Man needed to breed, i was his lusty receptor). The Guy Who pozzed me gave me syphilis too. i don't think i ever asked, but He claimed to be neg and disease free. i don't know if He knew or not? And, it doesn't really matter to me. He was an awesome Top and a regular FB for a few months when i lived briefly in Roanoke VA. i had long sense come to terms with my need for unimpeded (read: "no condom") connection with a Man during sex. To me, if He does not leave a part of Himself inside of me, as well, if His relief/release/orgasm do not happen inside of me, we have not had sex (not making a universal rule, this is how i experience it). With very rare exception, i'd go without sex before knowingly getting fucked without the completeness of His seed/piss/orgasm inside of me. And i have only had a condom in me less than 5x out of a few thousand, and that was early on. Life is full of risks that we all take without a second thought. Gay sex is, even still, highly stigmatized. FUCK THAT with a condom. The cost of being with a Man sans condom is much steeper than that of risking infection... which we all risk every time we step outside our door (though getting cock in the ass is much more fun than getting a banana at the grocery store) I couldn’t agree more. I’ve been bred literally thousands of times. I’m not interested in plastic- I have toys for that lol i avoided prep specifically because I didn’t want to fuck with an immune system that was clearly working exceptionally well given my repeated exposures and having never gotten anything, ever. So here we are. Honestly finding out made me instantly want to finally do an anon/cumdump/pump n dump freak session beyond anything I’ve done before lol gonna get my labs done and then we’ll see what’s next. I haven’t been tested for several years so I’m curious about the viral load levels as im intrigued given how many times I’ve been through this before- I may very well have been infected for a couple years and not known. everyone I’ve been with in the past 5 years was either on prep or said they were. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ridedenver Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 On 10/9/2010 at 6:58 PM, Bluepsyclone said: I like my ass teased with a raw fuck, but I prefer pull outs. Unfortunately most BB tops don't like to pull out so they lose interest in fucking *source* Personal experience. I'm mainly a top, but have wanted to start bottoming too (go vers), I love breeding an ass, pulling out seems like such a waste for both of my and the bottom; with that, I want to go bare as a bottom too. I want to feel their bare cocks and hot load pump inside of me. Its just so much hotter for me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riskyp Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 Always go bareback. Not wanting to get pozzed but want hot poz loads. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marlin Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 There is a huge distinction. I'm poz but never chased. I just loved the feeling of raw cock and the intimacy of having a mans semen inside me. I was pozzed before PrEP and I knew the risks but sex with condoms was unrewarding. I was fortunate enough to know who the man was. There was no talk of condoms or status and I honestly don't think he knew he was poz but our sex was incredible. Passionate, physical and intimate. I became ill 3 weeks later but forgot about it for a few months until I tested positive. It was then I was able to ascertain the man. I was shocked but also relieved. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sub4oralcum Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 (edited) I'm mostly a cocksucker, but I do VERY MUCH enjoy getting fucked. When I do, I prefer bb. I love how it feels and love having a stranger's semen inside me. However, I have no interest whatsoever in becoming HIV+. That being said, I don't mind getting fucked with a condom either because I love asking the stranger top for it when he finishes so I can suck the cum out of it. I love how he looks at me when I beg him to let me drink his cum-filled condom. Edited August 17 by sub4oralcum Incomplete 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PozBearWI Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 I pozzed because I needed to be poz, fucking for decades did result in other infections which I always treated, but HIV never happened, even in the 80's when the virus was expanding amongst us. I used a more certain method. Even then my genetics made that take months rather than weeks. Chasing to me implies "making a concerted effort"; and until I intentionally infected, I correctly assumed that it was unlikely I would ever get infected by barebacking. I tended to self describe as a "not avoider"... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee31 Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Well we all not bug chasers but doing bareback sex from sites like this or barebackrt or nastykinkpigs sites and trusting an top to be honest about whether he poz or not is an very big chance in it it self specialy if you don't ask an top or if you taking poppers or any other chame sex or just soo turn on or in the moment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barefucker44 Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 9 hours ago, Lee31 said: Well we all not bug chasers but doing bareback sex from sites like this or barebackrt or nastykinkpigs sites and trusting an top to be honest about whether he poz or not is an very big chance in it it self specialy if you don't ask an top or if you taking poppers or any other chame sex or just soo turn on or in the moment A bareback btm should always assume their top is poz. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PozToxVersPig Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 I mean absolutely no offense, but I giggled a little bit when I thought about the days when "serosorting" was an actual strategy - AND it was for people trying to bareback but not get pozzed. Totally okay with that. We were babies in terms of understanding all of this. In retrospect, it's silly to think about though. If you were having sex frequently enough to even consider a strategy like serosorting because you wanted to bareback in the Pre-PreP era, you'd have to be at the clinic or your doctor's all the time - which gave you a very narrow of reassurance where you could state definitively you were neg or poz or whatever. The math doesn't math when you look back at it 🙂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barefucker44 Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 2 minutes ago, PozToxVersPig said: I mean absolutely no offense, but I giggled a little bit when I thought about the days when "serosorting" was an actual strategy - AND it was for people trying to bareback but not get pozzed. Totally okay with that. We were babies in terms of understanding all of this. In retrospect, it's silly to think about though. If you were having sex frequently enough to even consider a strategy like serosorting because you wanted to bareback in the Pre-PreP era, you'd have to be at the clinic or your doctor's all the time - which gave you a very narrow of reassurance where you could state definitively you were neg or poz or whatever. The math doesn't math when you look back at it 🙂 Think you are right. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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