Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?

[PigBoyDallas]

Some bi/straight/closeted guys have phobias or hang ups about a guy cumming inside them and it’s usually tied in their masculinity or machismo. Most of cum don’t even ask about condoms, it’s the cum they have an issue with. You get who want safe and so you have to navigate that differently. Sometimes you can talk them into starting out bare and wrapping later or pulling out to cum. Sometimes they change their mind and want that load or I’ll have an “accident”. Either way I’ll drag out fucking them as long as I can so they’re taking my precum.

I kind of prefer the guys who just go bare as I don’t have to negotiate the condom bs. As above I’ll fuck them as long as I can to work as much precum in their ass as I can. I get the phobia over cum but it’s also bs too. Cum isnt going to kill you or make you less of a man. It pisses me off more when they wanna fuck me and have problem cumming inside me but draw the line on me doing the same to them. Few of them relax and get into it, opening the door for me to ask if they want my load. Most will get nervous when it seems I’m close to cumming or they’ll ask if I’m close. It’s hard to pull off having an accident as most freak the fuck out when I try that. Plus I lose any chance for another hookup with them. I’m kinda surprised at how many them come back for more so I make myself content trying to put as much precum in them as I can. Most get the “frightened faces” when I pull out to cum and are worried I’ll cum in the face or jizz on their bodies. I’ve had a few where I cum right on their hole and then slide back in to go for another round…I guess they don’t realize I’m driving my cum back inside them.

[ejaculaTe]

7 hours ago, PigBoyDallas said:

Most get the “frightened faces” when I pull out to cum and are worried I’ll cum in the face or jizz on their bodies.

WTF...? Jeezus H. Crisco, what has the world come to (no pun intended)? Those are the guys who deserve a rope of cum shot right up their nose.

[VersatileBreeder]

By definition, what happened to you was rape. You told him your boundaries and he went past them. How you choose to feel about that is entirely your decision, and I’m not suggesting you feel any type of way about it. I completely understand the mixed feelings. I have a regular top that breeds me and occasionally. He’s a nice guy, not my type physically at all, but has a big dick and I LOVE how he fucks/breeds me. Given how you describe the situation and how you invited him back when he texted you, it sounds like you liked it. 

To answer your question about cumming in a bottom who asks not be bred, when I top, I will always respect the bottom’s boundaries. That being said, I can’t remember the last time a guy asked me to pull out. I always breed when I fuck. It’s just kind of an expectation that it’s gonna happen at this point. But if a guy did surprise me by asking not to cum in him, I would respect what he’s asking me. 

[barebackbro]

13 hours ago, PigBoyDallas said:

Most will get nervous when it seems I’m close to cumming or they’ll ask if I’m close. It’s hard to pull off having an accident as most freak the fuck out when I try that. 

If a guy asks me up front not to blow in him, I'd normally pass him over. When I fuck, I load, and I'm not going into it with the intention of raping him.

It's much harder if he asks you not to cum in him when he sees you're about to blow. In that situation, I find it physically hard not to cum as I withdraw. Thankfully, that doesn't happen often.

[Pigforcum]

No I don't. It's a bit of a shitty thing to do

[Guest WelshBBCigarFuck]

Before agreeing to a meet I spell it out clearly that it’s bareback and it’s cum in arse, no pulling out. If the guy has an issue with cum in arse then we don’t meet. That’s the one good thing with cruising, normally where you shoot isn’t mentioned, it slide in, pump and breed.

[bbpoznow]

if you dont cum inside , It is not fucking  and a waste of cum

[Toxload]

Yes 

I say oops

[bbpoznow]

say ooopps  and start all over again  only deeper . Have just the ass for you 

[bbpoznow]

very disappointed if you did pull out 

[hntnhole]

Nope.  But, that needs to be established before the fuck takes place, and if a guy won't take the load, I'll find a guy that needs it.  In other words, if a bottoms says he wants my raw Cock, but doesn't want my Seed, the I just move on, since there are more than enough guys that do need it.  If a guy says "yeah, I want your load pumped up my Hole", and then - at the last minute - says shit like pull out, I don't want it, chances are poor I will. 

Obviously, in the fuckjoints no discussion is needed ... every guy there needs what every other guy there has.

[Guest]

On 11/22/2010 at 10:48 AM, blktone67 said:

I have met bottoms who just insist on every top that they hook up with wear a condom. But sometimes I get the bottom to give in to my bb breeding needs when I deliberately take too long to cum. I am sorry. If the bottom has a very beefy bubble ass, I gotta seed it. I won't negotiate that at all with him.

I do run into some cases when the bottom, who wants to get me off, takes the condom off and tells me not to cum in his ass. Now what top in his right mind can honestly say that he can pull out of a good beefy ass when he is at that moment? For me I just nutt in him anyway, but pull out to let the remaining droplets spill on his ass cheecks.

You do realize it's rape right? You do get that? Why is this even up in the forums? Where is moderators.. am I going to find more disturbing posts like this? 

Edited January 29, 2022 by Bimandump

[rublthlad]

Why pull out, I sure would not

[partying.hard]

I will pass up a fuck if he insists on my wearing a condom or he wants me to pull out.  I’ve actually walked out of a motel room when that was mentioned.  I don’t have time for such negativity in my life … and there are plenty who will want my load.

[RawVersGuy1]

Pulling out is for porn.  I make it very clear that I only play bareback and there is no pulling out.  If you expect me to pull out, or you intend to pull out, please move along (and block me).  This is non-negotiable.   My load will end up in your hole.