What constitutes a boring hookup for you.

[hairytop90069]

When I was younger and less experienced, I would sometimes find sex boring because the guy was either too inhibited/vanilla or he was into what I call scripted sex where things have to go a certain way for that person to get off. What I came to realize was that boring sex for me really meant disconnected sex.

Nowadays I always chat with a guy to make sure our sexual interests are compatible before agreeing to meet up. If we seem to have a connection, then I find that when we meet in person we are both mentally present. And when both of us are paying attention to what's turning each other on, good sex unfolds organically and passionately. 

I always tell guys upfront that if they're welcome to check their phones as long as I get to see who they are chatting with and they can show me guys they find attractive or have played with... and vice versa. I also love asking a guy to show me what kind of porn turns him on (and i'll do the same). 

The best sex for me is always that kind of connected sex that is both passionate and piggy/pervy. Never boring.

[bareback-flipflop]

It has just happened with me last night. Handsome bear. Messaged me on Grindr. Although he was vers bottom, he wanted to breed me. He came but he spent a bit too much time in the bathroom. He practiced chemsex. The first annoying moment was he continuously handled with the plate for mefi. 

He let me suck him, we rimmed eachother, were kissing and cuddling but it didn’t start really. He said he needed porn to be hard, but not that one I started on the tv. He tasted continuously his phone, was seeking porn, but I caught him surfing in Romeo.

Later ha began to complain about our session, we didn’t play with each other. Then I was a bit inpatient and asked him to try again and if it didn’t work him to go.

After one hour time wasting he left. The most funniest thing that he was disappointed. 

[fillmeup28043]

Spending time and hard work sucking a guy, and he doesn`t cum enough to even taste 

 

[rawsatyr]

9 hours ago, barecubtop said:

This happened to me twice. 

1) Late night hookup in the Indianapolis area.  Went to this guy's trailer (first sign that I should've just gone home) and tried to initiate sex, but he hyperfixated first on finding a third to join us and second on why he couldn't get the porn from his computer to show on his TV.  After an hour of that, I just left.

2) Chicago hotel..the guy says he wants to come in, go straight to the bathroom to take a shower, then find me naked in bed.  We do just that, but when he comes into the bedroom after the shower, he's on his phone....gives me lackluster head for about 30 seconds, then starts talking about this guy he was chatting with on his way downtown and gets on his phone.  Five minutes later I get another 30 seconds of awful head, then he interrupts it again and wants to find some porn on this little mini iPad thing he brought with.  Again, after about an hour, I asked him to leave. I even told him "dude, you came over here to get fucked and you didn't even get me hard at all..." and he was like, "yeah, I know...have a good day". 

These are the guys so desensitized to reality they can't see the forest despite the trees. "Hey buddy! T-I-M-B-E-R!" But you never saw it cuming! Dumbass!

[Cuteguy69]

Sorry to be a boring top

i love grinding each other raw fun

poppers and pig play but as a top am turn on I cant last more than 6 minutes 

a nice sexy ass 5 minutes of fore play and 6 minutes of raw fun equals a cum dump sorry

[LittleCumSewer]

anything where I don't get at least one guys load dumped in my fuckholes. I don't care if he's good or if he only lasts 30 seconds. all I care about is getting used and taking loads

[Guest LoveBBC]

Boring is when a guy only gets semi hard and thinks he is giving you the fuck of a lifetime and then doesn’t even finish with giving me a load.  

[Bottom Jim]

For me it is a top who just slides his dick in me and does not fuck with any force. Kind of like a human dildo

[DallsBeep]

When I bottom,a boring fuck is a big dick top who just lies there out of entitlement. Call it a dildo with a pulse 

When I top, a boring bottom is hard to find.  I’m about pounding until you beg for my load like the slut you are 

[Guest RawCunt]

On 2/11/2019 at 4:25 AM, LetsPOZBreed said:

It's about quality rather than quality.  If it lasts only 3 minutes, but it was a fantastic 3 minutes, then fine by me.

I hate guys who mistake "passionate" as doing everything very slow and gentle to where I lose interest.  The point is to make me beg for your cock, like the slut that I am.  Not imagine myself waiting for it to be over.

Lubed up for the next cock.  Sometime I like the pump and dump.

[Guest GoneFishing]

Boring lays are the men that don’t make a sound when your either sucking them or fucking them. A moan or a fuck yeah is an indicator I’m doing a good job. Sometime I have to take charge and say let me hear it or I’m ending the ride.  They give a perfunctory oh yeah etc. lol

next !

[Guest GoneFishing]

On 2/17/2019 at 8:29 AM, Qban said:

Boring?  Fucking a guy who won’t put down his phone.  It’s no better than jerking off - except I’m using someone’s else’s ass instead of my hand.  Otherwise it’s the same kind of solitary experience.  I miss the days of pre-cellphone cruising, when both (or all) of you were physically and mentally present and had at some sort of connection...

Agreed. That’s so rude 

Had a pup do that to me in dallas and I told him to put that shit down and focus on squeezing my cock.  After i shot I allowed him to troll for another top and I watched him get bred as a reward. Oh the millennial. Lol 

[PozBottomACNJ]

Boring, for me,  is wanting to cuddle... before, during, and after!

My best sex, is when I walk in, and the guy immediately pushes me to my knees, shoves his cock down my throat, and fucks til he's ray to fuck my ass. Stands me up, puts me in HIS preferred position, and goes to town, fucking me as hard as possible, till he dumps his load in me, makes me lick his cock clean, and slaps me on either the ass, or the face, and tells me to get the fuck out, and pushes me out the door, and I leave, His cum still dripping down my leg!

[Bear4Breeding]

Boring sex can take many forms and have many causes in my opinion.  But that is something else.

The most boring sex I have ever had was in Vegas some years ago.  The guy came to my room we got naked and all dont' think there was much if any foreplay.  He wanted me on my stomach which was fine, he got on top pushed his cock in and then just laid there. He barely every moved he may have twiched a couple times but didn't fuck or anything, this went on for a good 20 minutes or so he eventual shot his load got up dressed and left.  The entire time I was thinking about my meeting the next day and what I needed to do when I got home.

[Guest bbncguy]

I look at hook-ups differently I guess, I am a bottom and I offer my ass up for the pleasure of the top. Honestly, I don't care it the top cums as soon as he slides inside of me because I am here to offer my hole for his breeding pleasure. I love married tops or guys that have to wear condoms or pull out because of there other life...they never get to experience that pleasure of fucking to completion. There is something exciting about fucking without having to think about stopping or pulling out...