to video or not video an encounter?

[Guest GermFactory]

In a conversation with an individual who I am evaluating to determine whether there is a good match between us and whether I would expose him to very toxic semen, he raised a question that I am struggling to answer:

He asked me whether we could video this experience. Not for any commercial exploitation (I would never consent to that) but rather because he wants to chronicle for himself of what is arguably a life altering moment. He wishes to have something tangible to memorialise the experience. I am of mixed feeling about this request and I am curious if anyone here is interested in weighing in on this. I am interested in input from people here as this is ‘new ground’ for me and would like any perspective or thoughts that anyone here may have.  

Thanks!

[Guest]

I for one, have given a lot of thought to things like this. Since I've become open to the thoughts, desires and reality that sooner or later I will become poz anyway, I've given thought to the desire of being recorded taking my first known poz loads from an established breeder, as a reminder of the date and moment in time, I knowingly and willingly submitted myself to the toxic seed and knowingly began my new journey along those lines.

Now on the other hand, while this would be for my own use and archiving of the experience and event, I'd have no desire for it to maybe be used later on as evidence, as in possibly any legal actions against someone, including myself, should it happen to become open and or public in any way. With the laws the way they are now in some states, it could be used as evidence to convict those involved, of willingly spreading the disease. There are a few states now prosecuting these cases, and it doesn't matter if the participants were fully consenting or not as long as it can be proved that one of them knowingly placed the other at risk and knew they were toxic.

Anyway, the only real serious thought I'd have on it other than those risks, would be, if it is recorded, that the breeder's face and any other tell-tale marks, tats, etc, be edited or removed from the recording, just in case something would come of it legally later on, you would have plausible deniability. In my mind, if I were doing the breeding, there is always the possibility that the bottom might change his mind about it and seek retribution in one way or the other..........I would never do anything like that, but, Just some of my thoughts though.

[beanna]

of course if i was to be bred by you i would cordially request that the event is recorded just as a wedding or birth can be recorded as a reminder of such a very special event

you do not have to reveal your self doing it, only show your penis procreating your DNA,as it is your DNA that is the main player in the scene and act 

[Guest takingdeepanal]

I love being video'd - but it's up to my top. 

[coastalbender]

The cock gets to decide for me. I am just the holes.

[Hintyt]

Here’s my take...

if you’re going to record it, do it well.

The tube sites are filled with some really poor excuses for these highly-specialized videos that claim to focus on a life-changing event.   In fact, I doubt many of them are authentic.

This is an important occasion and if it gets documented on video, it should be recorded accordingly.  

[chargedodger]

Appreciate the need for him to video and keep it for future viewing but think maybe it may distract from a magical moment to which ones full attention is warranted.

[HardOneLA]

I love being video'd while being fucked and bred but always wish there was a third to act as cameraman.  Otherwise it's usually the top who has to video and the quality doesn't cum out so great, though the load does!

[ErosWired]

I don’t know about the law where you are, but In many jurisdictions, what you are contemplating doing is deemed a felony. From the point of view of the state, a person cannot give you permission to cause him permanent bodily harm (intentional infection with an incurable and potentially deadly disease) any more than he could give you permission to murder him. Therefore any video of the act becomes Exhibit A for the prosecution.

Even more so if this other guy, upon discovering that the fantasy of getting infected with the virus, and then living with the goddamn thing for the rest of his foreshortened life, are two totally different things, decides to go after you for “manipulating” him into his own horrible decision.

 Don’t get me twisted here, I’m not against recording one’s sexual exploits - I bring a camera every time I host in the hope that some Top will want to get every thrust of my breeding captured for viewing (no such luck yet, blast it...). But in this particular case, I would suggest that it’s unwise.

[Nclchub]

Personally i would love to be videoed taking  a poz load and totally understand where the bottom is coming from.

However, as others have said, it's just too risky. Even if he consents, even If you have texts of him consenting, even if you never share the video online the reality of becoming poz could change everything for him and he could react vindictively. Pains me to say it but it just isn't worth the risk.

Edited March 5, 2020 by Nclchub
Fixed a typo that bugged me

[ejaculaTe]

Exactly what Nclchub and ErosWired said. Any assistant district attorney with a modicum of intelligence wouldn't even need a statute that specifically criminalized transmission of HIV, statutes regarding assault or recklessly endangering someone being more than enough to support criminal charges. And I can't agree enough that there's a fair likelihood that the guy, despite what he says before, during, and immediately after the breeding, will come to have a different opinion. He only need meet someone whom he finds attractive, etc., but that person is mortified by the fact that you pozzed the guy. In a flash, someone will be very upset, very angry, very vindictive, and the target of that anger will be you.

You're playing the odds that the guy's attitude about being pozzed won't change. In this day and age, that's a bet I wouldn't make. Can you definitely say that  the #MeToo movement won't hit the breeding/pozzing phenomenon?

[shinelover]

That is another question I was thinking of asking you. If possible I would like a video taken of it for exactly that reason. Just my own personal reminder.

[jackdaw]

I can see how many guys would love to have a video as a reminder, but I also think that it wouldn't do the event proper justice. It would only show how things looked in two-dimensions combined with a sound track. Imagine living through the experience of giving birth as compared to watching a movie about childbirth.

For me, the truest record of such an amazing experience would be safely stored in my memory. Faulty at times? Maybe...but always true-to-life. There is NO WAY that video could capture the wonder of two beings briefly coupling for the purpose of passing on viral life. 

I yearn for that moment. When it comes, my body will treasure the organism entrusted to me & my memory will treasure that truly magical moment when this newly-spawned life enters not only my body, but my existence.

What is his, also becomes mine. No video could ever capture that.

[ErosWired]

2 hours ago, ejaculaTe said:

Any assistant district attorney with a modicum of intelligence wouldn't even need a statute that specifically criminalized transmission of HIV, statutes regarding assault or recklessly endangering someone being more than enough to support criminal charges.

Looked at in this way, it could be argued that even posting here on this board, as the OP has, his clear plan and intent to expose the other guy to his “very toxic” semen, is in itself a risky thing to do. Such a post could end up in front of a jury just the same as a video.

 I don’t know to what degree RawTOP shields the backrooms - or any of these boards - from Google searches, but any of you who are contemplating actually intentionally infecting other people with HIV should realize that what often gets talked about and treated on here in terms of fetish and fantasy is taken very seriously by the world outside, and there isn’t anywhere that what you’re planning to do is okay from the point of view of civil authorities. By stating what you plan to do here, you are in effect declaring your intent to commit a criminal act with forethought. That you and the other guy consented to the pozzing - that he actually begged you for it - is immaterial.

Just food for thought - you may want to be circumspect about what you write. I haven’t heard that any authorities have been doing undercover sting operations on BZ or anything, but posts on the net live a loooooooooong time...

[Guest CuriousDallas]

I’ve had quite a few guys over the years ask to take pictures or videos. At first I was dead against it but shifted to agree to it so long as they don’t show my face. I kinda enjoy that I’m serving as some guys “spank bank” and a reminder of a good time but am obsessive about no face as I don’t want it on the web. I’ve never seen a vid I think I’m in on the web but then again I don’t watch much online porn or go looking for it like I did in middle school or HS...I’m actually out having sex. I used to secretly video sex when I first came to college and wouldn’t tell the guy I was with. I guess I worried the well would run dry and I’d want to see the videos but truthfully I rarely watched many back except for sessions with certain guys...the quality was good but not great and it didn’t capture the essence of how hot the sex was, what the guy felt like inside me...all you can tell was it was raw and we were into it. I don’t video my hookups anymore...sometimes, but it depends. But if a guy wants it, sure...just no face.