How important is cumming when you have sex?

[Guest]

Cumdumps jerk off when he is alone, with eating cym from his ass

[Pozguyinchi]

Not at all important. My goal is to please my top. If he wants me to cum then I am ok with it.

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Pozguyinchi said:

Not at all important. My goal is to please my top. If he wants me to cum then I am ok with it.

This 100% - if I’m bottoming, getting my top off and taking his load is what does it for me.

Edited June 18, 2021 by sithis

[Close2MyBro]

I actually prefer not to cum when I'm bottoming and I enjoy tops who feel the same way. I get turned off by "tops" who want to see me cum.

[Guest]

I would rather get Tops to cum in my ass as much as they can.  Think tops feel because they have gotten off in someone they need to make them feel the same way.  I know for me and many others we love getting fucked way more and our reward is guys cum.  I love finding men that can get off more than a few times so they can use their cum for lube and work their DNA deeper into my butt as long as they can.

[djdbb420]

Not important at all.   I'm more interested in then loading my ass, or mouth, then getting off.   I'll jerk off later thinking about it. 

[riskyp]

I don't care if I cum. I want to make sure the top cums all he wants until he's satisfied.

[Guest KptNLine]

As 100% bottom, cumming has become completely unimportant to me over the years. If I cum, it happens anally and hands free - and I can “hold back” for quite a while if the Top doesn’t give me permission to cum. Simply put, if the Top doesn’t want me to cum, I’m not cumming. Period, end of discussion. 

As a side note - like many bottoms on here, I LOVE taking a Man’s cum in me. Truly no better feeling in the world. But I’ve been told that it’s a turn off to be begging for His cum right off the bat. Enjoy His cock and let Him know how good He feels. Let Him give you His seed when He’s ready - not when you want it. Just my opinion. 

[suckerboi]

I only cum during sex if I'm topping. Otherwise, I don't cum, because I prefer to remain horny.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

I’m a locked in chastity Cumdump. I don’t cum, Unless the top unlocks me and wants mr to cum. Otherwise, my ass and mouth are my orgasmic “organs.”

[Anonversecuck]

I gotta get off. 
if it’s while I have a bare cock in my ass, even better. 

[Domnbreedme]

On 6/18/2021 at 3:14 AM, Pozguyinchi said:

Not at all important. My goal is to please my top. If he wants me to cum then I am ok with it.

100% agreed

[fagclit87]

No desire to cum during sex. Unable to manually stimulate my clit anyways as I am in chastity. Now if I experience an anal orgasm or prostate orgasm as a result of being fucked, that is the icing on the cake 🙂

[Leather69]

Absolutely need to unload whether it be one on one or at some of the great fuck parties that I have been to.. eg NUD @ 80 in melbourne (no more - closed damn it), the naked party at S.L.U.T. in Hamburg on a sunday afternoon, SBN in London on a sunday afternoon or at the parties during folsom in Berlin .. always walk out of those with empty balls. It's only natural!

[xxbjn2]

I prefer to bottom so I don't care if I don't cum. Some nights I don't cum at all my hole is having so much fun, it cums instead.