Harnesses?

[Guest BiggerJigger]

Do guys really wear harnesses or is that something one sees only in porn movies?

[Swampboi]

Definitely. I’ve mostly seen them/worn mine at circuit parties/sex parties. But some guys are really into gear and love to incorporate them into much of their sexual encounters. I personally think they’re hella hot. 

Edited August 4, 2020 by Swampboi

[kinkysuBB]

Yeah we do. Guys tend to use mine to grab onto and pull me into the positions they want when they’re fucking me. Or if they’ve rings on them they can be used to attach things to. Choke chains and leads and things, to keep a sub/pup attached to a dom/master etc.

Some guys just think they look hot.

Edited August 4, 2020 by subBottomKink

[120DaysofSodom]

I play in my gear all the time!

[akula]

i have 4 my boy has 5

[JamesL100]

Yes harness with just boots for summer woods cruising.
Sometimes sneak one into sauna to surprise guys in darkroom.

[boy4you]

I love being in a harness as the Top can grab me put me in the position he wants. It also a fashion statement of the leather community. Harness are real thing and if you go to any event you see many with them. 

[leatherpunk16]

Yep, I've got a couple. I was wearing my white one on the night I met my husband. 

But if you're new to harnesses, remember this: the buckles need to sit over the front of your shoulders, not the back!

[akula]

check out cockeye kink, they make HOT harnesses, no one else makes these kinds of harnesses. They made my Daddy Title harness and I love it!

[PG1961Canada]

I have a couple.  I wear them all the time with certain fuck buddies..... they are great when you are fucking a bottom and want to really get hold of him and pull him down onto your cock.    One of my FB's is really good at combining the use of the harness when he is fucking me in the sling.  He has me flat on my back, and pulls me down onto his cock while he stands with his feet planted on the ground and 'plants' himself.  It is always that extra half inch more of cock into my second ring. Grin.

They can really frame a nice hair chest, or smooth pecs or a broad set of shoulders.

I'm a BIG fan of a leather harness... 

[Guest]

On 8/4/2020 at 7:29 PM, BiggerJigger said:

Do guys really wear harnesses or is that something one sees only in porn movies?

I have two, and have seen them a lot at sex clubs in Europe.

[bareback-flipflop]

I have only one. In Hungary, it is not typical of using in public places like sauna or cruising bars. However, sometimes I see guys wearing harnesses. I wear my one at home playing and in Berlin I wore it almost always. 

[BootmanLA]

Harnesses are like men's morning coats - a specialized type of wear that most men will never have need for, but which will look great on many more; when it's expected, it can't really be replaced by anything else, but there are other times when you just look silly in it, such as at the grocer's. 

[Bottomb1ichbo1]

I have a few.  Only get them if on special occasions

[ErosWired]

On 8/7/2020 at 10:16 AM, akula said:

check out cockeye kink, they make HOT harnesses, no one else makes these kinds of harnesses. They made my Daddy Title harness and I love it!

Those are some interesting designs. I make my own leather items, plus I love the feel of metal, so I’m inspired. 🙂

Things to say about harnesses:

From a design perspective, if you’re going to get one, don’t stint on quality. The forces it will experience in manhandling should not be underestimated, and a shoddily made harness composed of inferior materials simply will not last, especially at the linkage interfaces of used for bondage. Get a harness that would credibly restrain at least a pony.

From a fashion perspective, applying principles of visual design, one must be candid - harnesses best complement men whose torsos have greater upper mass than lower mass, and better muscular development. On men with low muscle tone, the hard lines of the harness tend to contrast negatively with the softness and lack of definition in the arms and chest - a harness’ purpose is to restrain and redirect the force of a strong animal; putting one on a weak animal does not make sense from a practical intuitive perspective, and this subconsciously reflects a less flattering image on, say, a skinny twink in a harness.

 If a man is, shall we say, pear-shaped, the hard lines and structured appearance of the harness above draw a strong contrast with the amorphous mass beneath, and because the eye spends more time trying to define the parameters of an amorphous object than a structured one, it means a harness tends to concentrate more focus on a big, out-of-shape belly. For a man who is just stocky, and for whom the proportion top-to-bottom isn’t that far apart, a harness can draw attention upward.

Harnesses also favor good shoulder definition, and vice versa, because they uniquely create a visual frame around that anatomy. For best results, work on the deltoids is recommended.

Finally, and admittedly also a matter of personal taste, less is usually more in harnesses. You can get very complex harnesses that crisscross everywhichway, even half shoulder plastrons that make you look like a Roman gladiator. Find a style that emphasizes you, not itself. It should bring your physical assets to the forefront. The other guy isn’t looking to hook up with a harness.