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Unplanned. Freshman year at college. I went to a small school and was drinking in the “quad” and ran into this sophomore I somewhat knew. He asked if I wanted to come to a party off campus and I said yes and followed him to this party. He was hands and we were making out at the party… eventually we fooled around a little in the bathroom and he asked if I wanted to go to his apartment. We went back and got to business. I think I asked if he had condoms and he said “nope. No condoms.” He also didn’t have lube, so we used conditioner haha. I guess I was so horny that i was thinking we’d go bb and I’d ask him to pull out — but when he said he was about to cum, I didn’t say anything and he just kept on fucking until boom.

It has to be both for me. The feeling when a guy cums in me is probs the most ultimate feeling I can think of— but I like to feel like I earned it. I hate it when a guy puts his dick in me and comes too soon. I need to be fucked. I need him to use my hole to the point where I’m desperate for him to cum. Conversely, I also don’t like when a guy fucks me good but doesn’t cum in me. That makes me feel jipped. I need a good fuck and to be bred.

I never ask. I have access to the tools I need to be comfortable with my risk, so I basically just assume everyone is hiv positive. It’s not a factor to me.

So it’s funny you say that because that was literally my plan based on what I read online and had seen on YouTube— but when I got there, I told the piercer and he actually recommended just piercing me at a 6g (if that’s where I was planning to end up anyway). so all of that is to say: I started at a 6g and I’m still at a 6g. It feels like the perfect size for me and I love the way it looks. Your mileage will vary edit: I meant to say that I went in thinking I’d start at 8g and gauge to a 6g

So my piercer said to just leave it alone (and I did) and it really does just take care of itself. I would move it around a bit everyday in the shower / keep the area clean but that’s it. Surprisingly low maintenance.

Are you guys staying for the whole week?

I love this

Obviously, there is the physical aspect: going raw feels better for all parties. But more importantly, I think, is the psychological aspect. I think many of us have tried to explain it in the various discussions on this topic—but for me for me, I think it’s the: 1. Feeling lucky/honored to be chosen by a man to receive the gift of his cock, fucking and sperm. Gay sex and bareback sex was so [banned word] for so long that honestly, I grew up thinking it would only ever be a fantasy. 2. Me giving away this most intimate piece of myself by letting a man into me, without any barrier, and allowing him to use me until he reaches climax. 3. The feeling of accomplishment that I was able to make a man cum. 4. The feeling of vulnerability that comes with being forced to accept whatever comes with his cum (the risk). etc. etc. etc. I just love worshiping the cock, and so much of that is the head space.

Ok. I’m very excited to post this story here bc I still find it very hot—aaaaand I haven’t already posted it here. My FIRST time getting stealthed. i was a junior in college (rural-ish town). It was a grinder hookup. He (I’d guess he was late 40’s early 50’s… great fit dad bod—before dad bods were a thing, Hispanic and so fucking hot) was staying at the Hilton garden inn (which I though was a fancy hotel). We chatted. I drove over around midnight. He met me in the lobby. In the elevator ride to his floor, he reached into my pants and (what I now consider) inspected the goods. Kissed me. Told me he was excited to fuck me. Iiiiii was on the timid side (21 years old. Young naive) but very VERY much turned on/aroused. point of context: this was 2012 and before prep was widely…accessible/used. And while I was a fan of this site and occasionally barebacked with a couple of regular fuck buddies— i rarely exchanged fluids and more often than not, used condoms. We got back to his room and made out for a while—naked. Eventually, he spat on my hole and started pushing with his cock. (Note: he was uncut and I’d never been fucked raw with an uncut cock) so I told him: I’m tight. We will need lube. Etc. He kinda chuckled at that (or something dismissive) and said “ok” next thing I know, he’s pushing into me AND IT IS THE GREATEST FEELING IVE EVER FELT IN MY LIFE. we fucked for a bit (la da la da la da) etc. eventually he eventually said he was going to cum—started talking dirty (like asking me if I’m ready to get pregnant)…I was so turned on buuuut hella naive. i told him not to cum in me… (bc I was afraid if stds— mainly HIV. ) he kept pumping and says something like “I don’t know if I can stop” I put my hand on his chest and told him: “you have to” he continued to pump and went through the motion of pulling out and “cumming in his hand.” To wrap up this long ass story: I didn’t see anything come out when he did it in his hand. After we cuddled, I went home, sat on the toilet, and pushed out what I now know as some very definitive globs of cum. I texted him and he swore he pulled out but I now know thAt was definitely a lie. Home boy “stealthed me” In hindsight, I am so grateful for that first stealth breeding. It is one of the hottest memories I have and would gladly do it over again. thank you for attending my Tedtalk and I hope I didn’t bore you too much.

Pepto also works in a pinch

Well let me say— it’s been reopened for a while. Months ago, most of upstairs was closed off— but NOW, the whole thing is open. Masks are only required downstairs in the gym, lounge, front desk areas. I’ve never had any issues with getting my back pack in.

Stop fetishizing men of color.

Club Houston has be open for a while....

Noooooooooo

I’m also a big fan of the hypno trainers and I too am having a hard time finding ones I like after the ph purge 😞 my fav (from before the purge) was sluttify by rainbowrhomb. If you guys know of a place where I can still find that one, please let me know.

Valm silicone (I get it on Amazon) or gun oil

I’ve gone to pig week, and it was a lot of fun. Lots of events. Solid crowd. ive never done Palm Springs leather pride so I can’t speak to it. I will say : pig week lasts for more than a week— it’s damn near two weeks full of events. I’d recommend staying the whole time to really get the full experience. If you don’t have that much time, maybe attend a shorter event.

Using a toy to facilitate cleaning is great pro- tip! It helps remove trapped water and gets you warmed up for playtime. I personally like the “ass snakes.” I just ordered some new ones from 665leather

Hehe I consider the load as my gift— but I always appreciate a smack on the ass and words of encouragement like “good job” or whatever

I’m fine with an all male space— but trans men are men and should be welcome. Additionally, I’ve gone to gay sex events with trans men in attendance. It’s really no different don’t over think it. That’s a dude.

I’m also on a journey to take longer and girthier cocks. I did a google search for anal depth training and found a plethora of useful information. my suggestion: get an ass snake and start practicing/exploring new depths on your own now—that way, you’ll know exactly what to do when game day arrives.

Hahaha there are a lot of things going through my head when getting bred. I feel like I accomplished something, I feel grateful, relief...satisfaction. A lot of things 🙂 aaaand now I’m horny

Picky? Nah. I can honestly tell you that o don’t really remember the last time I was fucked by someone I was really attracted to... it’s usually a “meh. Good enough” kinda thing. That said, I don’t have a particularly long list of must haves: 1. height weight proportional 2. Hygienic ...enough (I’m not blowing you if your dick smells like shit or piss) 3. “drug free-ish”— I don’t actually mean drug free— but if you’re so tweaked out that it’s distracting, it’s a no for me. 4. no active outbreaks - no visible sores or warts on the playground. Other than that, it’s open season on this hole. When I go to sex parties, bathhouses, etc, I’m trying to get a good fucking. I’m just grateful for the load. 🙂

I’m a submissive guy— and the more submissive I feel, the sluttier I get. Being called the n word really gets me... well..I’ve only had a guy call me the n word while fucking me once—and while it took me completely off guard, it absolutely worked for the “scene” we had created and it was a amazing fuck for me. I have wanted it again for years— but every time I ask/even briefly mention it, it’s a real mood killer and the guys shoot it down or stop talking to me altogether—so I’m definitely too afraid to ask anymore. (Reminds me of 10 years ago when I was too afraid to ask for bareback secks) I definitely understand the hesitation from non-black guys. If you were to flip the script, I wouldn’t want to call anyone else racial slurs either... All that is to say: I firmly believe that what two (or more) consenting adults do in the privacy of their sex lives is their own business. I wouldn’t worry about it being PC. If the intent is not to offend and all parties understand that, I’ll allow it. I can’t speak for anyone else, and I think it’s perfectly understandable to feel uncomfortable with raceplay.

I love having a smooth ass and dick. I’m a hairy guy so it’s always a major...adjustment. The upkeep and the itchy regrowth are the biggest reasons I’m not always smooth. It makes me feel confident...and I like the views haha