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I talk to my master and he wants me to go fully cage / chastity. My privilege to have an erection are taken from me. I really have no experience with cages and there are so many options around. I want one that is confortable, can be use everyday for several days or weeks and durable. I have a  6 in cock that is not hung at all, so im probably looking for the smallest one around . do you guys have any recommendations  about style, materials, etc

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I find plastic ones too be more comfortable.  Er on the smaller side when ordering. Especially on length. Try and get off first before you measure if your master will let you so you are as flaccid as possible.

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54 minutes ago, sadden said:

I find plastic ones too be more comfortable.  Er on the smaller side when ordering. Especially on length. Try and get off first before you measure if your master will let you so you are as flaccid as possible.

or just take a really cold shower. That oughta remove any starch in the shirt, so to speak.

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Be prepared for it to hurt. When your body tries to get an erection it can really hurt. Be prepared to lose some sleep; you’ll be more tired than usual (every time you start to get hard in you’re sleep you’ll likely wake up, for the first few weeks at least). Why this should be i don’t know, but, i found wearing a cock cage made me lose my gauge for judging when i needed to pee and when i noticed i needed the toilet i would need it urgently, which given i couldn’t use stand up urinals could sometimes be difficult. But all these sacrifices were part of the eroticism of being caged. you’re aware of your cage 24/7 (even in your dreams) and therefore constantly thinking of your Man/Master/Dom/Top and His power over you. 

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6 hours ago, Jimmi said:

Be prepared for it to hurt. When your body tries to get an erection it can really hurt. Be prepared to lose some sleep; you’ll be more tired than usual (every time you start to get hard in you’re sleep you’ll likely wake up, for the first few weeks at least). Why this should be i don’t know, but, i found wearing a cock cage made me lose my gauge for judging when i needed to pee and when i noticed i needed the toilet i would need it urgently, which given i couldn’t use stand up urinals could sometimes be difficult. But all these sacrifices were part of the eroticism of being caged. you’re aware of your cage 24/7 (even in your dreams) and therefore constantly thinking of your Man/Master/Dom/Top and His power over you. 

All of this is is a major reason why chastity works for me. I pissed sitting down for years anyway. Now, I just piss every couple of hours.

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A cock cage consists of 2 parts. The ring (which you push the testicles through) and the tube (which your cock goes in). Before you buy any chastity device make sure to measure your bits to see what sizes you need (too small can damage your genitals, too big makes the device useless). I used this guide and it worked fine: [think before following links] https://lockthecock.co.uk/blogs/chastity-fun/putting-on-and-wearing-cock-cage.

In terms of material I find metal is the most secure/tight fit but is also the most expensive. Plastic/resin cages are good as they're not too uncomfortable and usually come with multiple rings so you can test different sizes and see what works best. Silicone cages also an option but i don't like them as i found the cage shifted a lot if worn for more than a couple hours. Of course, your mileage may vary

If you've never done chastity play before don't rush to doing it full time. Start with wearing it for a few hours, then overnight, then 24 hours. As others have said it can feel uncomfortable at first when your dick tries to harden only to be stopped by the cage. Since most cocks get hard several times during the average sleep cycle you're going to have a rough couple nights sleep to start with.

Even if you go into chastity long term be sure to take the cage off now and then for cleaning. If there's itching, swelling, pain, cuts or bruising stop using the cage.

Good luck

 

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I locked up my boy Drew's cock in a stainless steel cage. Putting it on him gave him a hardon so I had to cram it in. He looked fukkin hot when he was fully caged. I'd eat his ass and suck on his balls every day to get him erect.I enjoyed seeing his cock straining inside the cage. After 2 days he was begging me to release him but instead I'd masturbate in front of him and cum over him. That drove him nuts. Finally after 4 days I unlocked him and his cock sprung to attention - a really impressive hardon. He spread my ass and mounted me and he lasted barely a dozen deep thrusts before he emptied his balls up me. Gunna do it again. Drew wants to cage my cock but I don'y think I could cope, I gotta cum least twice daily.

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On 10/20/2020 at 2:36 AM, Jimmi said:

Be prepared for it to hurt. When your body tries to get an erection it can really hurt. Be prepared to lose some sleep; you’ll be more tired than usual (every time you start to get hard in you’re sleep you’ll likely wake up, for the first few weeks at least). Why this should be i don’t know, but, i found wearing a cock cage made me lose my gauge for judging when i needed to pee and when i noticed i needed the toilet i would need it urgently, which given i couldn’t use stand up urinals could sometimes be difficult. But all these sacrifices were part of the eroticism of being caged. you’re aware of your cage 24/7 (even in your dreams) and therefore constantly thinking of your Man/Master/Dom/Top and His power over you. 

that is exactly what i want to suffer and be constantly reminded of him, and his power over me. 

 

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On 10/20/2020 at 9:56 AM, Nclchub said:

A cock cage consists of 2 parts. The ring (which you push the testicles through) and the tube (which your cock goes in). Before you buy any chastity device make sure to measure your bits to see what sizes you need (too small can damage your genitals, too big makes the device useless). I used this guide and it worked fine: [think before following links] [think before following links] https://lockthecock.co.uk/blogs/chastity-fun/putting-on-and-wearing-cock-cage.

In terms of material I find metal is the most secure/tight fit but is also the most expensive. Plastic/resin cages are good as they're not too uncomfortable and usually come with multiple rings so you can test different sizes and see what works best. Silicone cages also an option but i don't like them as i found the cage shifted a lot if worn for more than a couple hours. Of course, your mileage may vary

If you've never done chastity play before don't rush to doing it full time. Start with wearing it for a few hours, then overnight, then 24 hours. As others have said it can feel uncomfortable at first when your dick tries to harden only to be stopped by the cage. Since most cocks get hard several times during the average sleep cycle you're going to have a rough couple nights sleep to start with.

Even if you go into chastity long term be sure to take the cage off now and then for cleaning. If there's itching, swelling, pain, cuts or bruising stop using the cage.

Good luck

 

 

 

I talked that with my master, he has experience, he has a few slaves caged. we will start an hour a day, and them move to two four  8 hour so on until i can keep it 24. once I have it 24 hour or more he will keep the key and just remove it just for cleaning twice a week. 

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following on from a previous message where I caged my boy, Drew. Let week I agreed to let my boy cage my cock. I stood naked in front of him as he fastened the steel ring behind my balls. Then he slid the cold steel sheath on to  my shaft. I as semi had and he did it quickly, licking the sheath ob to the ring. Then he kissed me hard and stroked my balls, then he stopped to his knees and licked them. Man it was so frustrating, feeling my cock getting hard but being denied a full erection. He teased me for days. I hardly slept - it was impossible while my cock was  straining against the steel sheath - not exactly painful  but uncomfortable. Finally he release me and my cock reared uo to full hardon. he offered me his throat or his ass. Easy decision, I thrust deep up his asshole and seeded him in fewer that 10 strokes. I won't agree to be caged often but being denied my need to cum was horny.

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Good luck with your journey locking up.  There are a few good web sites that you can turn to for information, education, and resources.  One was listed earlier.  There's also lockedmen.net.  I recommend reading this. There is a very useful section on this website called "suppliers" which lists the different manufacturers and online suppliers.  Going through this section gives you an idea of the various types of materials and styles used to make cages.  Many of the manufacturers describe how to measure yourself for their equipment.  The two measures that matter most are the circumference of the base ring that fits around your cock and balls and then the size of the cage itself.  Many caution you to be sure to be flaccid when measuring for the cock length.  Take this seriously; you can't just be soft but truly flaccid to get the right size cage. 

One of the more difficult (or annoying) things I have found is that different manufacturers measure their equipment differently.  What's small or nano for one manufacturer may be micro or compact for another.  You can't necessarily transfer measurements you made for one manufacturer to another.

You might also wish to follow cagedjock on twitter, pornhub, etc.  He's been locking up for what seems like a long time and he's nice enough to do some education videos.  Here's one on how to put on a cage [think before following links] https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph573a78410e5af.  There are others on twitter who are locking up and it seems like it is a growing trend.

Be sure, be sure, to do before and after care.  Be sure to apply lotion (cagedjock) talks about this in the video, and wash your cage periodically.  Also, if you plan on not cumming, just know that for good health, you may want to cum periodically for good prostate health.

Locking up is a fun part of learning about yourself.  Enjoy the journey!

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On 10/12/2020 at 8:03 AM, Man4manplay said:

I talk to my master and he wants me to go fully cage / chastity. My privilege to have an erection are taken from me. I really have no experience with cages and there are so many options around. I want one that is confortable, can be use everyday for several days or weeks and durable. I have a  6 in cock that is not hung at all, so im probably looking for the smallest one around . do you guys have any recommendations  about style, materials, etc

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I recommend stainless steel over any other materials. Ensure the fit is snug when you are completely soft. The tip of your nub should touch the end of the cage with no gap. An open design is better for cleaning and long term wear. Its also good if your master wants to tease you and watch you leak with frustration. Custom built is best, but you can find pre-made that might fit. This model is a Mature Metal Jailbird custom built for me.

Good luck.

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One slightly not-bad thing about Covid: since so few people are traveling or even going out to places (like, say, public buildings) where there are metal detectors in use, metal chastity devices are unlikely to cause an issue for security. One of the reasons the plastic style devices were created in the first place was to have something that could be worn through airport security - also why the plastic, numbered, single-use "locks" exist, so you can prove it's been left in place but without requiring a metal lock.

Which is to say: a plastic (or now, silicone) cage as a back-up may be a good investment IF your job formerly required travel or passing through metal detectors and/or body imaging machines; when you return to that practice, you'll need something that doesn't provoke a strip search after going through the body scanner.

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