How to handle a feeling of just wanting to be fucked so badly

[Powerasianbtms]

Many times had this feeling of just wanna be fucked so badly....fantasies of being used with no cherry picks, no dicks refused....what can i do ?

Am I considered a whore already ?

[ErosWired]

It sounds as though you place a judgment on yourself for having these feelings, as though you shouldn’t. You’re asking the men of Breedingzone how to handle an urge to get fucked? What sort of answer do you suppose you’re going to get? You’re going to be told to go out and get fucked as often as possible.

 It sounds also as though you’re concerned about whether you’ll be considered a whore. Unless you’re willing to live by other people’s rules and standards and not your own, you can do nothing about what other people say or think. You can only change how you react to them. If you want to live a sexually promiscuous lifestyle, that’s your business. Others may have an opinion if it, and may even look negatively on you for it, but whether their opinion matters is entirely up to you.

 But let’s assume that their opinion does matter to you, and you are conflicted about your sexual desires because you believe acting on them will cause people to judge you. The desires don’t go away, so what do you do about them?

You watch porn and masturbate, and resign yourself that those fantasies will remain fantasies. That’s the price you choose to pay for subordinating your desires to others’ opinions.

Or, you act on the desires secretly, and take extraordinary care to conceal the fact, and live in constant fear of discovery.

Or, you can tell the judgmental people to kiss your ass and follow your desires to their satisfying conclusion, and take the consequences.

If you’re asking your question because you know what you want to do but don’t have the courage to do it, we can’t really help you with that - that has to come from within.

The only thing I can suggest is to imagine all the people you know together in one room, and then someone puts a big poster on the wall with a photo of you getting fucked in the ass. How you respond to that hypothetical scenario will tell you much about how you should handle your fantasies.

[GarrettParker]

Man, the fact that you're horny AF means that you're a normal healthy male! @ErosWired's response is great. I just might say, #yourBodyYourChoice, #yourAssYourChoice--and, your mind, your labels. The desire to get as many dicks (or asses, mouths) is pretty normal. Your profile pic says you're not for sale, which leads me to think you have some idea of what you want.

Just suggest that if you see yourself taking multiple dicks at a time, that you "train" for it, like a marathon or any other athletic sport--so you don't get hurt and keep doing it if you like it! 🙂

 

[chargedodger]

Perfectly normal to feel that way.But you DO have a need that manifests itself no matter how you try to deny it.That need will drive you towards men who have a need...a drive to seduce and fuck you.You both will be happy with the pleasure you give eachother.NEEDING to be fucked,to feel a man entering you,fucking,cumming...not every man HAS that need,that itch,that overwhelming drive.You are blessed.Accept it.:)

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

I got out in the world and started meeting people. It certainly wasn't easy, I was scared to death and worried and... hell, insert one-hundred and one different anxiety-ridden descriptors here. But I had hit a point where sitting thinking about it and watching and reading porn wasn't doing it for me. I started small, meeting up with someone from an ad. After a few of those I went to my first gay bar. And you know what? The bar was pretty much like any other bar I had been to. Guys talking, playing pool, drinking, just enjoying a night out. Nothing like what I had built up in my mind based on the stereotype crap I'd seen on TV and movies. That was a monumental step for me, and it really opened doors to new friendships and social circles that have lead to more of those elusive tops I crave. From there it's been a lot easier to enjoy life because I got past that initial fear of stepping out of the shadows.

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

I should probably expand on what I wrote before. How I got over the overwhelming urge to need to fuck was to get out to the real world and meet people. Sitting at home and consuming gay porn and letting my thoughts go wild ended up isolating me in a growing fantasy.

Getting out in the world allowed me to actually meet people. Building friendships and social circles and talking to people helped put those feelings into perspective. The real world wasn't the crazy fantasy orgy the stories and porn and my own thoughts made it out to be. It was the same as the straight life with new friends, fun, hookups and relationships, love, heartbreak, drama, etc. And oh yes, the sex came along with it. Some of that sex was awesome, some mediocre, some forgettable. Not every encounter was on the porn-fantasy level. But it beat just sitting fantasizing about it.

It wasn't easy getting out and meeting people, but damn was it worth the effort.

[josh567]

On 7/8/2021 at 8:20 PM, Powerasianbtms said:

Many times had this feeling of just wanna be fucked so badly....fantasies of being used with no cherry picks, no dicks refused....what can i do ?

Am I considered a whore already ?

i feel the same way.  i love getting fucked so much.  i say it to my top all the time when he's inside me 😉

[MuscledHorse]

I have that hunger constantly. The only way to deal with it is to indulge at that level and really give yourself over to maximum use and pleasure. I thrive in sex clubs and sex resorts because I stay hungry for more cock and more use. When there's no real cock available I have my bigger than human toys that fill me and stretch me to he max.